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I Created 28 Relatable Comics About A Teenager Struggling To Accept Herself The Way She Is
Hi! My name is Ellen Giovine. I was born and raised in Italy, by an American mother. When my mother brought me to the U.S., I fell in love with all the junk food and I would put on ten to twenty pounds each trip.
When I was thirteen, I went into a closet with two dozen donuts. A few decades later, I decided to come out and start this comic. I hope you agree with my decision.
Franci loves to eat but wants to be skinny. She’ll do anything for food and try anything to lose weight. Francis is her pig. He’s with her through thick and thin. He gets her through her fat days and tells her she looks beautiful as she is… She tells him to zip it.
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Franci and Francis
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Meditation
Sometimes one does not want to discuss one's 'favourite thing' with others ...
A lifelong struggle with weight, body image, and eating issues inspired me to create the character of Franci. Just like Franci, I have been obsessed with changing my appearance, largely because my emotional eating was affecting it and I was trying to compensate for that. I was always busy dieting, overexercising, or experimenting with the craziest weight-loss strategies. It was exhausting! My sense of self-worth was tied to my success or failure in these endeavors. Eventually, I noticed that when I could laugh about my behavior, the pressure to change the way I looked was somewhat lifted. Humor, even about my darkest thoughts, was the best way to make progress for me. The first version of my character Franci took the form of a short film script. Having worked in the film business for many years, I knew how difficult it was to put a crew together and the money to shoot a film. Being able to just draw comics on my own seemed much more attainable and also a way to make it an ongoing, long-term project.
Franci Tries The Sauna
Is This Heaven?
I try to show Franci’s conflict in a way that can be understandable and relatable even to those who don’t share her burden. She has a deep desire to fit the mold of the “thin and popular girl”. It’s an impossible battle, because she can’t give up getting comfort out of food, but she never stops trying. Obsession, in some form or other, is something most people can relate to. Sometimes Francis is able to reach through her denial and give her comfort. That’s when we see Franci’s heart. Francis is the friend I wish I had in my earlier years struggling with an eating disorder. But the truth is, he represents more of a parental figure. He’s really a very wise and understanding adult, disguised as a peer, a buddy.
Tonsils
Weight Is Just A Number
I draw a lot from personal experience and brainstorm with my husband T.J., who understands the theme very well and is the funniest person I know. The way Francis reacts to Franci provides many of the punch lines. When I start drawing, I focus on pushing the emotion to its limits. I keep the dialogue as short as possible and rely on facial expressions and good timing to make my point.
Rescued
Companion animals make us happy about as much as we make them happy. It's a social thing
Deep Fried Toughts
I am self-taught, so naturally, I’ve had to spend a lot of time developing at least the basic skills necessary to start a comic series. I struggled with wanting to take more time to improve my drawings, but not having that luxury, if I was going to produce at least one comic a week. Over time, however, I learned when to stop and take a step back to improve a panel, and when to take shortcuts for the sake of keeping the momentum going. Another struggle has been with the tone of my comics. I often wonder if I should dive into darker aspects of my theme and expose a deeper level of Franci’s problem. It’s tough to do that and still be funny! I plan to explore that challenge by putting my characters in new settings in the future.
Fasting
Body Types
Eating disorders and the struggle with how our body looks are very private and they isolate us from others. I hope that the people who relate can feel like they are in good company with Franci and that it helps to be open about those feelings - enter Francis… Often we are focused on solving issues as if they were separate entities from ourselves when really they make up who we are and our unique humanity, and just sharing them with someone we trust is enough to live a better life. I hope all readers will pick up on the nuances of this theme: body issues, self-loathing, and eating disorders are not simple. Often they stem from trauma or have roots in a person’s earliest experiences. Laughter breaks the spell and opens the door to looking at things more honestly.
Rainy Days
Diet Coke
I dunno but maybe the author has an eating disorder or something
This comic is for you if…
1. You were ever a thirteen-year-old girl.
2. You take your weight and body size very seriously.
3. You take eating even more seriously.
4. You love food, eating, and baked goods.
5. You periodically decide you’re going to get in shape.
6. You periodically decide you’ll never diet again.
7. You hear cautionary tales about eating disorder behaviors and you immediately go home and try them out.
8. You have "a friend" who fits the bill.
9. You always wanted a pet pig who was also your best friend, could talk and help you with your math homework.
This comic is not for you if…
1. You’ve never had a moment of self-loathing in your life.
Diet Pills
Fat Rolls
That might be good. Weight loss can equal more skin. Doesn't LOOK great.... but your kids like to jiggle them!
Not Yogurt
Dog Park
Basement Fridge
Bucket Of Mud
Foods For Feelings
Algebra Test
Archery
Night Binge
Hypnosis
Homework
It's a bit sad they're all about losing weight or eating for comfort. Hope the author is OK and is just doing this jokingly
I think the author has an eating disorder/ body dysmorphia, and this is one of her coping mechanisms.
Load More Replies...It's a bit sad they're all about losing weight or eating for comfort. Hope the author is OK and is just doing this jokingly
I think the author has an eating disorder/ body dysmorphia, and this is one of her coping mechanisms.
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