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Being a human inevitably means being bound to evolve, grow and change, especially throughout the years of being a kid and a teenager. However, despite how natural it is for humans to change their ways, some transformations can be so drastic and unexpected that they end up surprising everyone around.

Around a month ago, the user u/hogw33d invited the teachers of the AskReddit community to share stories about students who completely surprised them with who they became as adults. "Long-time elementary school teachers, which of your former students surprised you the most by their adult life outcomes or personality?" they wrote in their post. The question received around 3k interesting stories and the thread itself currently has over 35K upvotes. Bored Panda has compiled a list of some of the best tales we managed to find, so here you go!

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group There was a kid in my high school class who had severe dyslexia and acalculia, and although he clearly had a sharp mind when you spoke to him, it wasn't clear he was going to go far. His main interest back in school was blowing sh*t up and building bombs, and he went off to mining school so that he could work with explosives.

He got his PhD before I got my bachelor's, for building a robot that goes down mines and uses lasers to make a 3d map of the mine, doing a week's work for a surveying team in a couple hours (and without putting human lives at risk).

He's charming, his wife and kids are charming, and he builds robots with fricken lasers on them. Not bad for the kid couldn't read and only cared about blowing sh*t up

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group I teach English as a second language and I had a kid who spoke Arabic who barely could master English in the beginning (to be expected of course). Well 8 years later he’s on his way to being an astrophysicist. He came to school to find me to tell me last year and I’ve never had a prouder moment teaching. He told me I was the only one who believed in him.

missjvj , Wikimedia Commons Report

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group I had a student that used to get into fights and was extremely aggressive and violent towards others, on the last day of fifth grade his last words to me and his class were "fu*k you!" -- many years later he came back to the school I'd been teaching at and looked for me so he could give me a big hug and apologize. In his words, "I was garbage when I was here, thank you for putting up with me and I'm sorry".

I cried like a baby - I was so proud of him.

Ripleyof9 , Corey Oltman Report

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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Awwww. I'm glad he was able to turn it around and acknowledge his wrongs. I hope he's doing well.

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group I started in elementary school. One of my first students I had when she was In 3rd grade. Her father was abusive when she was younger and mom left him and was raising her on her own, but her mom was also heavily involved in gangs. She was very behind compared to the rest of the kids, but she was always very helpful to the other children, me, and the staff. I had a soft spot for her and she ended up being one of my favorites. Teachers will often say they don't have favorites, but that's a lie. A couple years later I was moved to 5th grade and I had her again, she was struggling a lot by this time, but still, I never gave up on her, and she never gave up either. Later, when she was in 8th grade, I was moved to middle school, and once again, I had her again. By this time her mom's lifestyle had had an influence. She always wore red, threw up gang signs, and used to get into a lot of fights at school. One thing that was different was she had caught up academically with the rest of her peers, and actually even surpassed many of them. She used to come by after school and started seeing me as a mentor, and we had a connection, as I too was heavily involved with gangs in my teens and early 20s. When she moved on to high school, she kept in touch, her high school was across the street and she used to come by after school all the time to check in. She eventually got involved in student body, became the senior class president, and was on the honor roll all 4 years. She got accepted into all 8 colleges she applied for. She is currently on a full ride scholarship at Stanford University and plans to continue with graduate school. She is very involved with the community too. She is currently 20 and a waitress but is planning on doing big things, and I know she will. I'm so proud of her.

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group Kindergarten teacher called my sister a loser that won’t amount to anything in life. So far, she’s done a tour in Afghanistan, wife, EMT and now is in the SWAT team... I think she amounted to some pretty bada** stuff

Seinfeld101 , Wikimedia Commons Report

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group The student whose social skills were non existent and whose academics were equally as troubling is in college taking nuclear physics. I swear he was easily like 3 grades behind when I knew him in primary/junior grades (Canada).

Stevieeeer , Wikimedia Commons Report

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group Not me but know a guy, lovely quiet chap who lived to draw. Teacher said his work was no good. Went on to be a senior effects artist and later works for a major computer games company and can of course, draw.

smudgepost , Bholenath Valsan Report

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group I guess my mom might count since she's worked at the elementary school I attended since 1993, but she recently told me about one of my elementary school classmates. I was actually pretty good friends with him, but I thought he was a bit slow? And apparently, he had been evaluated for learning disorders several times in early grade school. He apparently just started a surgery fellowship at a prestigious hospital in Philadelphia.

He definitely worked very hard in grade school and middle school, and now that I look back, he definitely sought out the "smart kids" in class and tried to befriend them and see how they thought.

TumblrTheFish , Erin Sparling Report

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes the 'quiet ones' are outthinking and outshining the 'rest' of us, and 'we' think 'they' have troubles. Way to GO, young man!!

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group I had a student in 3rd grade who was sweet, kind, and goofy, but the typical never-do-homework, mediocre-to-poor grades type at the time. When I moved up to teaching middle school and had him again in 6th grade, little had changed—I liked him as a person quite a lot, but academically and effort-wise he was a solid Meh C/D student.

Fast forward a decade or so: I had to retire from the classroom early and a bit abruptly due to a health crisis, resulting brain surgery, and the aftermath. This devastated me. At the time, I posted about how much I missed teaching and my heartbreak over it on my Facebook page. This now adult student, who had added me as a friend but rarely to never posted anything anywhere on FB, commented the most heartwarming words about what an inspiration I’d been and how he felt I’d started him on the path that led him to a degree in chemical engineering from a major university. He was the first in his family to go to college, nonetheless earn a degree.

His kind and generous words made me weep, and his academic success left me stunned. If you had asked me back when he was in 3rd or 6th grade which student would be the one to earn a degree in engineering, I think I would have gone through 2/3 of the class before I’d have even thought of him.

Ruffffian , NTNU, Faculty of Natural Sciences Follow Report

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group Imagine getting a ticket for a busted brake light from your former student whom you thought was going to be a criminal someday.

iScream2714 , Kim Davies Report

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Amery
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ROFLMAO!! I love this one. (He should've given you a warning, though!)

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group I had to be tutored for reading during elementary school. The same teacher came to my house after school a few times a week to help me. Years later, my mom ran into her, and she asked how I was doing. She was so incredibly happy and shocked to hear I was an English major applying to Library Science graduate programs.

littlelunaris , Jessica Rednour Report

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kudos to YOU, AND your wonderful TEACHER!! Amazing story; congratulations!

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group I was voted most likely to burn a book, ended up writing one

Askdrillsarge , Wikimedia Commons Report

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group My mom was an elementary school teacher and student taught under my old second grade teacher. sometimes my mom would get information from my brother and I about what everyone from our class got up to and gossip to other teachers.

There were two cases that always surprised people.

the overweight, smelly kid who was bullied, socially awkward, obsessed with trains, and didn't really have friends joined the Civil Air Patrol and later became an airline pilot.

the shy, socially awkward, goodie two shoes kid with an IEP a mile long became a plasma physicist and one of their projects actually made it onto the perseverance mars probe. They also came out as transgender and transitioned to female. Nobody thought the kid would make it that far because of her learning disabilities, but turns out she outdid most of the "gifted" kids. Also turns out her social awkwardness was entirely because she was trying to act like a boy and just... wasn't very good at it. Once you let her just be one of the girls she was suddenly a lot more socially eloquent and confident.

DoctorWatchamacallit , Anita Gould Report

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group My brother was tutored by an elementary school teacher and he was a complete mess of a student as a kid. She was helping him transition from a top prep school to public school because the preP school didn’t feel he would ever amount to much in their care. She tried several methods to keep him organized and help his reading skills to no avail. She continuously checked in with his teacher (worked at the same school) to see his progress and constantly had to talk to him on behalf of the teacher. Everyone loved him, he was just an utter mess.

We ran into her a year ago and got to tell her that he got a full ride to law school at an Ivy League school. Blew her mind, but proof that some kids thrive in different learning environment. Terrible through traditional school but when he got to college, he thrived because of breaks between classes, time to study, picked his classes which were focused then trying to cover a thousand topics in a year, and got to know his teachers.

Thank goodness for my parents holding out hope all those years ha ha

Real_Space_Captain , Wake Forest University School of Law Follow Report

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Miss Frankfurter
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Sometimes traditional school doesn't work for certain kids. It doesn't get taken into account how kids learning can improve in a different environment. We all have different ways of learning. Participation, reading, projects, all kinds of different ways. I actually learn better and faster if I'm left to research and put things together on my own. Formal classes? No. Learning environments and teaching methods need to be adapted for the kids, not the other way around. Also, as far as testing, people are better suited for different ways of doing so. If my test is administered in a way that I give verbal answers I can do that quite well. But don't expect me to answer a question that requires a written essay answer. I'll flunk it every time.

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group I had severe depression and anxiety among other things, stopped going to school at around 13 and fully dropped/tested out at maybe 16? I started going to community college at 17, and at 21 I'm finally transferring to a really good university. I have a 3.7 GPA and am majoring in cell and molecular biology!

plantgirll , ca.garcia.s Report

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Miss Frankfurter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fantastic!! Keep up the wonderful work and also keep working on maintaining your mental health. The pressure can be tough. But it sounds like you are going in a direction you are excited about, and that's half the battle right there. Being in your element.

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group I had a severe speech impediment in elementary school to the point where teachers would foist me off in the reading room (for kids with learning impairments and difficulty reading to get extra assistance) during class despite the fact that I was writing and reading at a very high level.

The only person who vouched for me was my speech teacher. I met with her 3x a week during elementary school, she allowed me to stay in her classroom during lunch when they forced us to go to the playground and it was 5 degrees out, she gave me work to do over the summer so I could get to a point where I could actually say my name properly which had been my only goal.

She encouraged me to tell my fifth grade teacher that I was reading at a higher level than he suspected, and, buoyed by her confidence in me, I did it and was moved to the highest reading group. I just told my parents this story earlier this year and they were so angry I had been ashamed to share, but grateful I had an adult vouching for me.

I ended up ‘graduating’ speech in fifth grade after years of working with her and she was so proud. She had changed my life and given me the gift of speech. She believed in me when other teaching professionals simply heard me talk and assumed that it was easiest to assume I was a slow learner.

I am now the communications director for a government official in my country. I messaged her on Facebook when I first got my job to tell her that I wouldn’t be where I am without her. She remembered me (of course, she said - I wouldn’t let her forget me) and she couldn’t be more proud. She is one of my biggest online cheerleaders and I couldn’t be more grateful for her work... I quite literally would not be where I am without her.

thiscitychick , Dwayne Report

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Miss Frankfurter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

if kids just had the right support systems available as you had with that teacher. Congratulations!

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group Family moved to Canada when I was 11. Spoke no English and got picked on in my first year (gr 6). In gr 7 and 8 I failed all science and history tests due to language but teachers just gave me enough marks to move on to the next grade. I spent more time studying and with encouragement of my gr 11 chemistry teacher I believed in myself. By end of high school, I was ranked top 1% in Canada in math, chemistry and physics competitions. This led me to great school and a great career so far.

Thank you Ms. Harpell!

nobody10 , Amy Report

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Miss Frankfurter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is inexcusable that when people come from another country not knowing English that there aren't many ways to help them learn. I remember when we, Canada, took in so many Syrian refugees most could not speak English. Their biggest issue was that English classes had not been started fast enough. They want to learn. Make a way.

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group Not me, but a kid who used to be my friend...

He was studios. He got good grades. Teachers loved him. He was well behaved. He wasnt bullied. He didnt bully other kids. He had a lot of friends. He wasnt popular, but he wasnt unpopular. He was definitely more popular than me though. No one had a problem with him. Since he got good grades his parents let him do whatever he wanted. They bought him whatever he wanted. He had the latest video games and consoles as they came out. We loved sleeping over his house because we could stay up all night, jump on the trampoline at 2 in the morning, and we didnt even have to sneak out for mischief. We could just walk out the door. Anyways, he moved in 8th grade. I was sad.

A couple years back someone sends me a facebook message of a local article. This guy stabbed someone 23 times and is awaiting a murder trial. I have no clue where his life took a hard left turn, but it did clearly.

MedicalWelder , Matt Watson-Power Report

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The hard left turn happened when "his parents let him do whatever he wanted. They bought him whatever he wanted. "

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group My mom has been a teacher for the past 25+ years. There was one student in particular that stood out.

This kid was insanely smart. In high school, perfect grades, he also got scholarships on scholarships plus full ride to almost any college he wanted. I think he wanted to be a physicist or engineer for nasa. After high school he headed off to college and fell off of everyone's radar for a few a while.

We learned a few years later what happened. The extreme pressure to always be the best ended up getting to him. Everyone in his life understandably had super high expectations for him, but he couldn't handle it. He had a massive mental breakdown and ended up dropping out of college and went to work in some chain fast food place.

I didn't know him personally, and only met him in passing, but even I was sad. Such a brilliant mind, someone who had a lot of potential, reduced to a tiny fraction of himself. It's been several years since then, and I hope he is doing better.

-PM_me_your_recipes- , Mike Mozart Report

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Miss Frankfurter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Expectations can do you in so badly. Others high expectations of you and sometimes your own expectations of yourself. I think there is even more of that going on in the world these days. The load that students in university are expected to carry can be mentally and physically damaging. It's so sad that this happens to so many people. More than we know.

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group Not mine but my mom's story: she used to teach the second grade and there was a kid who was ruthlessly bullied because he had another finger on his hand, he didn't come from a very good background and had to work jobs in the middle of school for his family (this is pretty common for low income families in India), he was shouted at alot by the principal as he missed like half of the school so my mom told him to come to our house so she could tutor him every few days. He's now studying mechanical engineering att IIT (very prestigious university in India) and reached to my mom on Facebook and thanked her.

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group My best friend got kicked out of his former highschool beacuse he "would never undestand math". Now he's in the second years of astrophisycs phd and he's certantly going places.

NotBarbamento , Wikimedia Commons Report

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Miss Frankfurter
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe it was more about what math he was being taught. I used to be picked on by kids who aced algebra. But then came the time I was acing geometry and they just couldn't get it. To me trig was fun, like decoding secret messages. Those kids. Nope. Not at all. Sometimes you have to adjust the subject material. For them it was algebra. Go with that subject for them and they'll probably move up grades ahead of the one they're in. I envied them so much because my brain couldn't get around it and so I thought I was stupid at math. I guess maybe not. Just different areas.

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group I’ve been on our PTA for a long time, does that count? There was a very skinny quiet kid who was super smart. The other kids picked on him quite a lot but he never stood up for himself. I always thought he would work for NASA or something as he was so smart. I saw his linkedin a few months ago and he is now a prison officer at a maximum security prison.

CircusSeal , Molly Haggerty Report

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group I think this applies to me. I was the kid that never passed exams the first time. Kids would tell me in middle school I would never graduate. First semester of high school I didn't pass 7 out of 14 classes.

Right now I'm halfway through a Masters program for Bioscience engineering at one of the best universities in Europe. I would still call myself a mediocre student, but it's getting better. My thesis will be about vertical farming and for the first time in my life as a student, I'm excited.

angelquzero , Austin Community College Report

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Amery
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You sound SO MUCH like my youngest. Kudos to you!! (ps: Vertical Farming is an excellent choice of a topic!)

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group A mate of mine does some building work for a guy he went to school with 30+ years ago.

The High School Principal stood him up in front of the entire school assembly and said "Take a look at this boy. This is a boy that will never amount to anything".

That boy just sold his house for $20million to buy a bigger one.

whatsupskip , Wikimedia Commons Report

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Miss Frankfurter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What!!!?? He should have been fired. That is so damaging. It's wonderful that the boy didn't listen to that and proved him so wrong.

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group I'm not a teacher but something along the lines happened to one of the kids I graduated with.

She was top of the grade for academics and sports woman of the year every single year since we were 13. She was head prefect in middle school and head girl of our highschool in our matric year. Both her parents were senior management at our old middle school.

She was very very rich, both her parents drove sport cars and she got an Audi SUV for her birthday. She also lived in a poes huge house.

Last thing I heard from her is that she got accepted into one of the best universities in the country, Stellenbosch University, for veterinarian science.

I mean if anyone was going to succeed it would be her?

She's now a secretary at a run down accounting firm in Pretoria that's badly in debt. She's also been to rehab twice.

I have no idea what happened to her but, it just shows. Nothing is cast in stone

yassis_bru , Wikimedia Commons Report

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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Her parents were management at a middle school and that rich??? I’d be suspicious that they had a side criminal business. Like drug trafficking money laundering for gangs. Manufacturing drugs. The management at a middle school all a front. The middle “men” in criminal enterprises are “normal” seemingly upstanding law abiding citizens. All is not what it seems in many wealthy homes. A good indicator of possible illegal begotten money…you find yourself asking “how can they afford their lifestyle on their wages/job???” And they don’t have wealthy parents, inheritance, a trust fund or won the lottery.

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group my dad was a bad kid in school. like really bad.

fought teachers, suspended half the year, expelled from school dances, etc..

anybody in their right mind would bet their life savings against the chance he’d make anything of himself professionally.

well, now he’s 49... never went to college, but worked his way up to his current job making six-figures and had been offered promotions to pay more. talking to him and meeting him you’d never guess he was probably the worst kid in the entire school district. plus, he’d beat my ass if i ever did the sh*t he did.

imkingferrari , Andrei D Report

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Amery
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Perfect example; anything is possible if one chases their dreams. Kudos on YOU for having a great example of a dad.

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group I grew up with this one girl, who ran cross country and track in junior high. I went to a little school, so a lot of times they will let 4th and 5th graders run with the junior high kids. This girl, she hit growth spurt when we were still in elementary school. She towered over boys and girls. Unfortunately, this doesn’t help with running. She was an awkward runner and she would often get last place in cross country. Our track coach didn’t know what to do with her, so he put her in the 800, 400, 200, and long jump. I don’t think she beat anyone in 4th or 5th grade. I felt super bad for her, because she is super nice, just wasn’t an athlete. I think by the end of 5th grade, her PRs (personal records) were around 2 in the 400, 4:10-20 in the 800, 9-6 in long jump, and 50ish in the 200. Well, fast forward a couple months, and she is already better in cross country. She ends up crushing her PR from the year before. Then track came, and she really started to improve. Every year she got better and better. Fast forward 4 years, and we are now sophomores. She has already broken the school long jump and 800 records, and will probably break the 200 and 400 records. She also anchors all the relays she is in. Kind of crazy to remember that she wasn’t always super fast.

The-ManMythandLegend , Charlie Llewellin Report

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Amery
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Her skills grew into her body! Girls have CRAZY growth spurts, oftentimes. Not always timely, LoL. Kudos!

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group I was teaching 3rd grade. I had a kid that would literally shoot spitballs in class. Through a straw. Kid would bring his own straws to school and chew notebook paper to shoot. This happened every day, probably seven or eight times a day I'd catch him doing it. He would just start fu*king with other kids, poking them with pencils and sh*t loudly in the middle of class.

Now, I hate sending kids to the principle because I feel it undermines my authority in the class. This kid was different though. He got sent to the office average twice a week. Just couldn't deal with it. He goes onto highschool. I don't hear good things about him. I don't hear much just that he'd fallen in with a bad crowd. It's 2005 when I'm teaching him in 3rd grade. Flash-forward sixteen years and I pull up to a red light on my way home from work. Red lamborgini. Who is sitting there in the driver's seat? Of course this kid. No sunglasses, actually he had pretty nerdy/hip Jefferey Dahmer glasses on.

"Mr. Igot!" He says. And he smiled at me. Seemed really genuinely happy to see me. I didn't even had time to compose myself, realize it was THIS kid and respond before the light turned green and he rocketed off. He had this smile on that I'll never forget. Good for him!

igotenemies29 , CarSpotter Report

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group I had no social skills and was way behind in grade 9. Dropped out that year, spent the rest of the time I should've been in high school fu**ing around, and now I'm in university TAing a chemistry course and about to graduate with a BS in Biology. My grades are good enough that I am seriously considering med school or law school.

K-12 doesn't mean sh*t. It's not a fit for all people.

whatsupskip , Wikimedia Commons Report

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Miss Frankfurter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And then there's the whole SAT thing. Just because you may not do well at that doesn't mean you shouldn't get the opportunity to go to university. As with so many of these stories you can't judge smarts by test results.

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Not a teacher, but my best friend in high school was the most picked on kid in a high school of 4000 students. He definitely wasn't much of an academic and seemed destined for barely getting through life.

He's now worked his way up in fast food, has franchised a couple Dairy Queens, and worked for Homeland Security in between.

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Miss Frankfurter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why are there high schools with 4,000 kids? Or even 1,000 kids? No wonder they fall not through the cracks, but what i can only imagine to be gaping holes? How can a teacher be expected to know their students well?

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30 Former Students Who Grew Up To Become Not Who Their Teachers Expected Them To, As Shared In This Online Group Went to primary school with a boy who always, always misbehaved. He was also agressive, but fun, if you were on his good side. He also got quite bad grades but managed to just pass. Unfortunately we had a shi**y 4th and 6th year teacher (same teacher both years) that qualified us as "bad kids" and separated us from the rest of the class and actively treated us as worthess. She also had favorites that were allowed to bully other kids. Most kids remember her fondly. I still hate her and her crew of shi**y preteens.

Years later I learned he made it to the national soccer team. Unfortunately, he passed away from an undiagnosed heart condition right before a qualifying match. I hope he was happy and had time to revel in his amazing success before then.

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Amery
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

R.I.P. to your young lad of a pal; I hope he overcame his dealings with that teacher, before his death.

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#32

I have a friend who had mediocre grades as a kid because he had untreated adhd, was heavily bullied, had no social skills, and did badly on rote-memory standardized tests which tested a broad area of topics (he's really good at math, not so much at languages). But as we got older, the materials got better and more specialised, so he had a perfect score for the uni entrance exam and is now one of the top students there in computer science.

Although he still has no social skills so I guess ya cant have everything.

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Amery
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

With the way this world is anymore, lacking social skills is almost a BLESSING in disguise!!

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Not a teacher, but I do have a story. Back in Elementary school I was always the smart kid, as definitions of smart elementary school kids go it means I'm good at Algebra. Another kid struggled with basic stuff, even into his high school years. I meet him about half a year ago, in relation to a business inquiry in Germany. He's apparently now a business owner, which has to do with tutoring, but since expanded into a small consulting company.

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Miss Frankfurter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He took what he knew would have helped him in school and is now providing it for others. Wonderful.

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For me, it was year 4 teacher Mr. Haliwell. I was the kid at school that sucked at school but everyone thought I was dumb. Not this teacher. Not this Bloke. When I picture the Bloke I would say a sorta Freddie Mercury but no overbite. Super flamboyant.

He would praise my ridiculous work. He would get me to certificates. He would get me to read out loud Charlie and the chocolate factory. Turns out I was asked to repeat years multiple times and he went in with my mum and said no, I just need to be taught differently. This is like 1980s so the sh*t today with understanding kids just didn’t exist.

As I went through high school, I was again considered a failure but actually thinking of this Fuc**n legend made me just keep going. I was not a bad student, I love a laugh, a yarn and hanging out but did it while pretending to work. Teachers all really liked me, just thought I was dumb. Saw a child something something that officially determined “unclewombie is lazy”. So I always thought I was.

Well it turns out, school was boring so I didn’t work hard.

I left school, got a job and since then every job I have had I have excelled at. I have super hard work ethic. I am really quite smart and good in my profession. I am paid really really well. And I smash anything I WANT TO DO. I just didn’t like school.

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Amery
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep, just like my youngest (son.) He excels at everything he puts HIS mind to. Not those of others, however!

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I know this isn't the answer OP asked for, but in elementary school, the teachers thought I was mentally challenged, I was put in the "slower" classes, and I remember being good at math but bad at English.

My mom took me to get an IQ test and it turned out I had a higher than average IQ. And, now I'm writing tv/film and novels in LA. Something tells me they didn't think I would end up where I am today. Also, I don't suck at math but I'm not good at it lol.

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Amery
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

^^^ Another kiddo that sounds JUST LIKE MY YOUNGEST, my son. Keep killing it, you!! Kudos!

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There was this girl in my class who used to be so shy. Always say on the last bench. Was friends with only 1 girl. Barely had any social skills. She went on to become the biggest superstar in Indian cinema ( Bollywood). I was her classmate

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Little billy g. He dropped out of college but founded a computer company. He did well for himself.

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Dave P
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Dropped out of Harvard with start up money from his millionaire CEO father.

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