The USA exists in more than just one place. It shows up in music, movies, headlines, and everyday conversations around the world. That kind of presence builds expectations, whether we mean to or not.
But what you imagine doesn’t always line up with what you see on the ground. These Redditors shared what threw them off during their time in the States, and their stories range from funny to flat-out bizarre. Scroll on and check out the moments that stuck with them.
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The working homeless. People who work full time and live out their cars. The lack of social parachute is disgusting for such a rich country. It doesn't care about the people but the rich buggers who own it.
And the idiots vote for it to continue and get worse.
Any full time job should earn enough for food, housing and basic expenses. Anything less is exploitation of the workforce.
This this this. Oh for the days where ONE person could earn the family income. When this changed is (IMO) when society started to decline.
Load More Replies...Best Third World Country, I can't remember who said that, but it's pretty accurate.
Americans seems to have a low boundary that they accept this and not protest. Having 2 jobs or this would be my cue to protest
We do protest, a lot, but it's not covered much in national news. One news host, Rachel Maddow, just commented during an interview about this last night. She said recent coverage is difficult bc protests are small and widespread. (Our late night comedians seem to do a better job covering the news these days anyway.)
Load More Replies...A couple years ago I heard the U.S. referred to as the "best third world country," and I believe it.
USA is not rich. Well, compared to less fortunate countries it is, I suppose, but that's where it ends.
The country is - only a very few people are.
Load More Replies...We're not far from that in the good 'ole Spain. The rate of poverty amongst full time workers is on the rise, so is the housing crisis. There are already people living in their vans. Temporary hospitality workers in the islands rent balconies for the season..
I used to live on Ibiza - you're right, the workers had been priced out of anywhere halfway acceptable to live in.
Load More Replies...A big part of this is how much our media is controlled and manipulated by political propaganda. They really have poor rural America convinced it's their fault they're poor and only by giving the rich elite and big businesses endless tax breaks will help them out of it. If they just work hard of course. Because you want to be like them, right?
Had always been told "America is the Greatest country in the world" and as a young man was contemplating moving there.
Went and was shocked at the amount of homeless, D**g addicts on the street, people with stories about how their lives fell apart due to medical debt. The fact that things i took for granted in my country "6 weeks government mandated vacation" and free healthcare was not a thing.
And that is before i met people at the college i was studying at that had friends, or had themselves seen school shootings or knew people who died in them.
To me, America felt like a 3rd world country it was like walking into an open prison where tripping on the sidewalk could "lock you up" in debt for life.
A place where my host family told me not to leave after a certain time due to fear that if i wandered the wrong neighborhood a gang could accost me and potentially hurt me.
I was shook to my core and gained a huge apreciation for my home country, a place where the only homeless people i had seen had been so because they completely refuse to interact with society, where no one had to worry if a knee operation or their education would shackle them with debt for life.
I left my home country wanting to move, and came home apreciating all i had so much more. My country has its own problems but by god i am so much more free than i thought.
Third world countries are more conscious about making laws. There will be people who are s**t but laws are there.
I'm from a Third World country. We have laws and social protections, like universal healthcare, and federally supported retirement pensions. Our country, Brazil, isn't even a poor country. We're just still finding our way out of decades of mismanagement and rampant corruption during the dictatorship. The results of which are extreme social inequality. The middle class have a very good standard of living, in fact even better than the middle class of the United States. But that's mostly because the middle class makes up a smaller percentage of the population, and the lower classes, which are a much larger segment of the population, live in absolute poverty. This is the direction that the United States is definitely heading.
Load More Replies...As Calvin and Hobbes said, "Maybe he's heard about [USA] and dreams of living in a land of freedom and opportunity. Well someday I'd like to meet that little boy... and tell him the AWFUL TRUTH ABOUT THIS PLACE!" (1988, very ahead of its time)
America feels like a 3rd world country to this lifelong American. And it is only going to get worse. The Golden Age of America has returned, says Trump, and by that he means the richer will get richer and pi$$ all over everyone else.
We once aspired to greatness. Now we are aspiring to mediocrity. In Florida they want to pass a law to "allow" youth as young as 15 to work overnight shifts on school days. We're heading for the 16th century.
All of this. About living in America after moving from Scotland. Every. Single. Paragraph.
Thank exPres Ronald Reagan - *HE* closed down the mental health facilities + turned people onto the streets.
For statement like this that reference one's home country, it would be helpful to know what that home country is.
Americans do monuments really, really well. Was awed by the size of Arlington cemetery but sickened by the pride the tour guide had in announcing it was almost full and they’d be opening up another section soon (this was 2015 with troops still in Afghanistan). Also struck by the hypocrisy of Americans thanking vets for their service while ignoring the number of maimed and homeless ex-military I saw begging in different parts of the country.
They love their veterans but votes for a guy that despises them and shows it every chance he has.
He loves the military as a hammer but disdains those who man it as “suckers and losers” yet, the right still vote for him because he promises to own the libs.
Load More Replies...Now old Elon wants to cut service for veterans. And it looks like congress is going to let him.
The American military is no longer a peacekeeping force and has become an industry where those who join do so for benefits (money, education, poverty in general). If there is no social protection for civilians (30-40-50 years of service), why should there be any for the military (the contracts are for what...2-5-15 years?)
Were they ever a peacekeeping force? The internationally known peacekeeping force is Canada........"Does the United States Contribute Peacekeepers? Yes, the United States does contribute peacekeepers. As the unofficial leader of the United Nations, the United States plays a significant role in orchestrating peacekeeping operations all over the world. On the other hand, the United States has only contributed a few dozen peacekeepers. People coming from the United States are often required to have at least five years of professional law enforcement experience before they are allowed to join peacekeeping operations. The bar is also relatively high because the United States often contributes armed personnel to various conflicts around the world. Therefore, the United States is hesitant to contribute peacekeepers because it can sometimes be difficult to tell the difference between someone who has joined as a peacekeeper and someone who has joined as a soldier."
Load More Replies...Bored Panda got in touch with Liv, who sparked the conversation on Reddit, to learn what inspired her curiosity about people’s culture shocks in the US.
“I saw a similar post a while back explaining their experience coming to the US from a different country, so I thought it would be interesting to hear perspectives from all around the world,” she told us.
Originally from Canada, Liv spent about three years living and studying in the States, giving her some firsthand experience with the local culture. And in her view, some of the common stereotypes do hold up.
“There is definitely a big difference in portion sizes and more additives in food. This would add to the obesity problem in the US.”
As for the stereotype that Americans aren’t as smart, Liv thinks it’s not so black and white. “That really depends on what school you go to. I went to a private school there and I think I had a good education. When I came back to Canada, I don't think I struggled more than my peers.”
'Yes, America has its problems, but it is still the best country in the world!"
"Oh! Have you ever traveled abroad?"
'Why would I? This is the best country in the world!"
I've had this conversation more than once in the U.S.
My father about Australia although he had never been anywhere else. His reasoning; "The government says so."
I think the problem is less the physical travel outside the US than the lack of awareness of the rest of the world, how many countries are just as free (if not more free), also have free speech, take better care of their citizens. It seems that US citizens are taught that the rest of the world is still living in caves. Not one country on the globe is perfect but there are many that are objectively better in many ways than the USA.
When I've been to America I've met so many Americans who have very little knowledge about anything outside America. Even outside their own state! Scary actually, because they can vote for a president who is out the gate crazy and not even know what they do.
Load More Replies...I feel almost the same way about American exceptionalism as I do about white superiority. There is ZERO evidence of whites being superior (and I am white,) and less and less evidence of American exceptionalism, although it still exists here (in small amounts, on life support.)
At one time, maybe America was the best country in the world. Not anymore. This saddens me.
50's probably. Now it's north and west Europe
Load More Replies...Yep. Their USA propaganda is huge. The land of freedom while you have no rights, black people get killed daily by cops, guns are more protected than females and an idiot with loads of money is in power.
Tipping culture was very intimidating especially coming from a south east asian country.
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It's getting bad at this point, even for us Americans. We're now getting asked to tip cashiers for doing nothing out of the ordinary, it's getting ridiculous.
Like I told my wife, if I have to stand up to order, I'm not tipping anything, and no amount of social pressure is going to change my mind on that.
I do not really understand why you guys not just stop it? If nobody would tip anymore, waiters would look for different jobs, nobody would do it anymore, restaurants would be forced to pay people properly. Does not work in the real world, i know....
Unions and strikes, like the rest of the world did 100 yrs ago.
Load More Replies...It's not the tipping culture, it's the "don't pay your employees enough" culture. And the bosses and corporations are to blame.
And by tipping you keep enabling it and it won't stop
Load More Replies...I've even gotten automated tipping prompts on self-checkouts, self-serve car washes, and self-serve gas stations. It's getting ridiculous.
"Would you like to tip your ATM? 10% 15% 25%"
Load More Replies...Mandatory service charges rolling into the UK. Real Greek, Rosa's Thai, the boycott list grows. I am happy to tip cash or card based on how good the service was, but not pay a service charge for just two people. It used to be 6 people or more. Pay staff properly. Ban zero hours contracts already.
In India, we have something called service charge but it is optional.. Also tipping is optional..
Ahbjunwan, if we do this then the employees will go homeless and hungry till the point comes where owners will charge. Especially the big chains.
The amount of poverty and homelessness for "the land of opportunities".
And also the sheer amount of plastic waste, everything is in plastic. You want a to-go coffee? Oh here, let me stick a pointless plastic piece on-top of the coffee cup lid.
On the other side, the land is beautiful, the national parks are amazing!
The national parks won't be amazing for much longer. "Drill baby drill" tRump is already seeing to that. I'm glad you had the chance to enjoy them.
The same people that cheer on all the cuts are going to be in for a rude awakening when they go on their vacation to a NP this summer and it’s in terrible shape. But I’m convinced it’s all part of a right-wing plan to say, “See; look how bad the government is at managing this land! We should sell them to the highest bidder!” That’s what they do: they get elected on a platform of “The government sucks at everything,” then they do everything in their power to undermine government. It’s disgusting but then disgusting people vote for it.
Load More Replies...In the U.S. (having lived there), poverty is viewed as a choice. You're poor because you are lazy. Generational wealth on the other hand makes you a demi god from birth.
Yup. We started out as a country rejecting royalty but have ended up making the generationally wealthy into the new royalty.
Load More Replies...And then EU coutries are forbidden to use plastic straws and lids. It's great and I don't mind using paper straws and cardboard lids, even if they make a life a bit harder (as a coffee worker and a customer). Sometimes it's just frustrating that the biggest markets in the World produce so much plastic waste that everything smaller counties do are buried.
We bought food for our vacation appartement, we are only two people and don´t eat a lot. The bin was full with plastic waste to the rim for only one day!!! When i brought my own bags to a supermarket, the staff rolled their eyes like i was a lunatic and threw my purchases in at least 10 plastic bags i didnt want and shoved me away for to be too annoying.
I am so concerned about the future of our National Parks (among lots of other things). They have been called "America's best idea." They were designated so that they could be enjoyed for generations. They are a supposed to be protected for the future. But now the orange mangled hell-beast wants to destroy them.
The plastic is worldwide. Not fair to single out America on this one.
Cash assistance maxes out at $182.00 for 1 adult per month. Is this supposed to be funny
Load More Replies...Recently, the relationship between the US and Canada has been facing some tension, with the US administration pushing the idea of closer integration and many Canadians pushing back. From boycotting American products to canceling trips, the reaction has been strong.
“I am definitely not a fan of the '51st state' idea,” Liv admitted, echoing the frustration of many fellow Canadians. “I personally like having free healthcare, and I don't want to spend a fortune on maintaining my health and go into debt. Canada has also provided a lot of support for the US, so the treatment right now is really frustrating.”
Just how un-walkable everywhere was.
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Yes! As an American I usually only vacation in pedestrian friendly places. I love a walkable downtown. I don’t want to have to use a car to get around.
Somehow we are so broken that many of our cities are unwalkable. I'm looking at you Vegas...
Vegas is walkable if you do it inside buildings! I had decent stroll along the strip in air-conditioned comfort. Dallas was horribly unwalkable - it was an obstacle course of parking lots and rough land to get a few doors down to a different restaurant, and crossing the road was insane - 8 lanes and no crosswalks.
Load More Replies...I think it’s 50/50 to be honest. The sheer scale of the U.S. makes a huge difference. I can walk across my home town in 20–30 minutes, that wouldn’t even get you out of the sprawling housing estate suburbs. That said, when we explored some U.S. cities with an American friend, we broke them in under an hour on foot. They’d much rather spend an hour sitting in traffic with the air con than walk for 20 minutes.
I cannot speak for whole world, but I know about people in Prague that never even owned a car. Getting a license and buying a car to them sounds like getting a helicopter for most people. It may be fun, but most of the time it is useless, you have to put it somewhere, pay a lot for maintenance and fuel,... "But what about vacation", well, they go by train or plain with a suitcase. I met even one family where nobody had driver license, ever. They live in the town center, so they do not need it at all.
Don't have a car for 14 years now. It would be nice but too expensive and not really necessary
Load More Replies...Not sure where OP was. You might have problems as a pedestrian in some suburban or rural areas, but I think most large cities are fairly easy to walk around, with plenty of sidewalks.
A sidewalk is the bare minimum. European urban areas usually go for pedestrian zones.
Load More Replies...We have some sidewalks, but they are often uneven tripping hazards and people driving pay no regard to the pedestrians trying to cross the clearly marked crosswalks.
There are thousands upon thousands of very walkable cities of modest size all over the United States.
How many ads there were on TV regarding healthcare and the need to sue someone.
fossilCreature:
I have type two diabetes, but I manage it well. It's a little pill with a big story to tell...
This s**t needs to be banned. it is in some countries.... reason why I avoid tv. The most soulless ads with the most generic people and music. it's awful. This is what hell is.
Llama_Shaman:
Military ads at the airport. S**t was like being in Starship Troopers.
They were in the U.S. until courts ruled that bans violated the first amendment.
Load More Replies...I hate this! I'm American. Listing all the dire side effects, up to and including death, while the people in the ads are singing and dancing.
And they always have the side-effect section sped up to hyperspeed so you can just barely catch most of them, but you always hear "DEATH" D:
Load More Replies...This country is becoming a Trump Dump, and it is only going to get worse as long as he is running the country with his BFF moron Musk, and the a*s kissers in the congress. They’re a joke. Trump has all their balls in his desk, so they do nothing
It’s the other way around; Trump gives the oligarchs whatever they want for their money. The guy who says he can’t be bought is owned by the billionaires.
Load More Replies...I don't think that military ads are an only US thing though, the bus I took yesterday had an job ad for radar system operators on it here in Germany
I don't see the point of those anyway, since they then rattle off a generic list of "may cause heart attacks, strokes, sudden organ failure, cancer, and death". Who would hear this and want to buy a medication?
The thing is, you can't just go and buy these like acetaminophen or other over the counter d***s, they are by prescription, and your doctor has most likely considered and rejected use at that time. Lot of money being spent for a really non-consumer commodity.
Load More Replies...The Starship Troopers thing is very real. The number of people I've met who think it's a feel-good movie and not a cautionary tale on fascism is appalling.
Load More Replies...It's all because a lawyer wanted to advertise in a local papers classified ads. Became a freedom of speech issue. And here we are.
noooo I read the part with the type two diabetes and I heard the song, now its stuck in my head noooooo
Prescription ads make a lot of sense. Are you really going to argue against having more information?
The huge side gap in stalls of public restrooms. I don’t want to make eye contact with strangers while my pants are down.
My personal theory is that it because the US is so litigious. Business owners don't want to be sued by someone getting in trouble (dying?) in their restrooms and no one being able to see.
Has anyone ever come up with a reasonable explanation for these gaps?
Standard installation involves using a pair of small pot metal (white metal) brackets that are attached to either the wall, pilaster (support panel), or to another panel itself. These brackets, by their design, provide a 'stand off' between each panel. That stand off varying from one inch, to as much as three. Depends on the installer putting them in. The stand off is there to help with making the panel fit. Each panel, door and pilaster comes in standard sizes. The most common being 57.5 inches per panel, 8 inch per pilaster, and 24.5 inch for doors. (That's length, not height.) When you install them, however, quite often the architects have measured things out in such a way, that the installer is having to either add, or remove some distance to make everything fit in relation to the plan. So, that 'gap' allows them to shift things around. So, if the gap is wide, blame the architect who designed something and didn't leave the installer much room to work with.
Don't worry. Pretty soon they'll likely take the doors off altogether in case the restroom guard didn't get a really good look at your genitals before being allowed entry. The cover-charge of performing the gyno-spread for the restroom guard may not be enough to get these pervs enough thrills. And remember, they can do this to your daughter as young as FOUR years old. She will be SA'd in this way every time she needs to use the toilet, all to prevent her from being SA'd in a 1 in about 10 million chance it would happen INSIDE the restroom by a trans woman (who is in fact, a woman). What convoluted thinking it must have taken to come up with this little pearl.
40 year old American here. I've never had anyone look through the gaps while doing my business. I am disturbed that so many Europeans were peeping through the gaps that they had to make the stall a prison than the gaps here in the US.
The “Me first” “Main character” mindset. It was everywhere. No one had consideration for those around them, everyone seemed so self involved, selfish, and only out for themselves. Everything from not watching where they walk and blatantly stepping in front on moving “foot traffic”, rushing to get off planes when asked to stay seated so a few passengers can make their connections, making unreasonable demands of service staff, I could go on.
After experiencing it firsthand, I understood how Trump got voted in. There doesn’t seem to be a “for the greater good” vibe, just a “what’s in it for me” vibe.
"Don't ask what you can do for society but what society can do for you"
The US has always been about individualism and look where it got us 😞
THANK YOU! I thought I was going mad. Everyone seems to think they're the star of their own Truman show, other people/animals are just furniture in the broadway play of their existence, with no care for the damage they cause as long as they're winning.
This is only getting worse as people stare at screens and don't interact with other people. Like they're the only one who exists.
But that's something people do everywhere. And still people in other countries show more consideration.
Load More Replies...After like 6 other posts on how friendly we are... Maybe it was a bad area?
Elderly people working. We had a waitress at a hotel who looked like she was in her eighties. It made me sad that she had to keep working.
Lucky you.... I'm anticipating Granny adult films lol
Load More Replies...This is not a US thing. In Europe plenty of retired people work in charity shops and retail. Sometimes for money sometimes for social connections, to stop themselves giving up on life.
I plan to have a part-time job if I am lucky to live in my senior years. Just something for extra cash and structure in my day.
Load More Replies...My mother had to work until she was 83 to pay off my father's medical debt.
On the other hand, some older people enjoy working. A woman who worked at my local supermarket retired, then went to work in Bed Bath and Beyond. She told me she didn't have to, she just got bored. Other people just love what they do and want to keep doing it as long as they can. I've known a lot of quite elderly teachers/professors. It's sad if you have to, not if you want to.
It's an ignorant assumption that she "had" to keep working. I know quite a few seniors who are retired yet keep a part-time job and/or volunteer just to keep busy and out of the house.
The current government doesn't want you to retire here. They need people to fill positions because of course " we don't want or need immigrants ". Glad I won't be around in 20 years to see how far we fell.
Maybe she was working because she likes it. Many older people find retirement incredibly boring and want to be working with people.
Look to your left? US flag.
Look to the right? US flag.
Car park? Huge US flag.
Car dealership? More flags than cars.
I always thought that bit in Spiderman was over the top but flaaaags! 😂.
The amount of signs people have for their preferred candidate in local elections as well.
That's always been weird to me. Political candidates are treated like gods for a while, and it's so strange to me. Living in England, during this most recent election, I think I saw two signs on people's fences, and they didn't have a catchy tagline or name on them; they just said 'Vote Labour'. I've never seen someone with a bumper sticker, hat or shirt. You have flags and banners, paint your trucks, march in the streets, shout from the rooftops. I live in a large-ish town, and the only Union Jack I see is flying on the town hall. That's it.
Load More Replies...Not only that, but having kids pledge allegiance to it every morning in school!
and they are really rabid about them. like you can't let a flag touch the ground, but you can have an American flag thong up your rear.
That's always been so weird to me seeing people wear it. The actual US Flag Code, which is not mandatory, says the flag shouldn't be worn as an article of clothing. If it touches the ground, you're just supposed to move it.
Load More Replies...I'm an American, but I spent a large part of my childhood overseas. I still find saying the pledge of allegiance weird. What is this?
Flying the International Flag of Planet Earth myself...
This all happens mostly around the edges of the US, I live in the middle. Our signs are for seed corn.
Notice I didn't say America out of respect for our neighbors who behave themselves. Edit: Imagine future history lessons. "No, all of America wasn't divided. Only the part called "united" LOL
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The fact that not having a car means you are screwed.
Haven't driven one for almost 20 years. But Portland is different.
A town you can walk around? One of the reasons I liked California on my first visit there, after a number of business trips to NY/NJ and one to Miami was the little town of Palo Alto, where our offices were based. Loved it. Oh, and at the restaurant we walked to they understood about food and wine, unlike the previous trip to Miami Beach, where I even once had a waiter ask me, when I wanted to see the wine list after we'd ordered our meals, f you wanted wine why didn't you order it at the beginning with the other drinks?".
Load More Replies...NYC is a place where you could get around fairly well without a car. But I agree that many places, especially in the south, a car is practically a necessity.
My great aunt was who lived in Chicago was deathly afraid of driving and never owned a car. She got around all right
True. Plus we're not going to destroy a national park just to add sidewalks and roads. The current person in the Whitehouse might try though. Ugh.
Load More Replies...Not in NYC, the only city in the US with European walkability.
Not exactly shocking, but makes you nervous that they can carry a gun on them anywhere. Want American snacks from Walmart? Careful, there could be a shooting
The day before my family and I visited Mall of America there was a shooting in a shoe store. Outside the mall there’s stickers claiming “no guns allowed”.
It's ridiculous observing people carrying in the southern states. Bud, you are a 300 lbs blob of fat. Those camo pants are not doing you any favor, and the extender on your gun holster speaks volumes... You probably are not physically fit enough to raise an eyebrow, let alone weights. Everyone can see you are a jelly pudding cosplaying as Rambo, are we supposed to be scared of you? What are you going to do in case of an emergency, fumble your tiny hand in your fat rolls to retrieve your gun?
The problem is when HE is the emergency... cosplaying can be a sign of mental illness when it gets out of control and thinking he is Rambo while carrying a real gun has crossed the line.
Load More Replies...Republican's love their guns and jesus more than their children and neighbor.
I think I've heard somebody once joke that the "Green zone" in Bagdad is more secure than an US shopping mall
It absolutely is, because although there are more guns in the GZ, everyone there is trained to use them safely, and has gone through a lot of training in co-operating and working together despite stresses. In the civilian world, you don't know who has a weapon or what ther intentions are with it. If a civilian is feels disrespected or threatened, that weapon might come into play.
Load More Replies...They worry more about 2nd amendment rights then all the rights being taken away.
Was queuing to get into Disneyland when a couple with a child in a pushchair were turned away at the metal scanner. Overheard the woman angrily saying "I can't believe you brought that to Disneyland!!!" Seems he thought Mickey Mouse might give him some trouble!
I do own a small gun as a woman for protection from crazy people. It is just one. I did my licensing and training for and it is locked away. My house had gotten burglarized in the past, and it does give a little peace of mind, but there are a lot of people with armory arsenals and that is just ridiculous.
Gun familiarity/education is a good thing; ownership isn't always, even for home protection. I took a gun safety course and spent time at a shooting range so that I would not be *unfamiliar* with - and thus irrationally afraid - of guns. My state (California) has pretty strict gun laws, so most people don't walk around open-carry. But - my mother is 80 years old and fearful of burglars and wants to get a gun. My sister and her friend also live with my mother, and all I can picture in my head is my mom "hearing something" in the night, grabbing her gun, and shooting my sister as my sister comes downstairs for a drink of water in the middle of the night. >_< (not saying your situation is like my mom's, but I'm terrified of my mother owning a gun.)
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I’m always shocked at how little Americans know about history or events beyond their own borders.
Agreed. As a young adult I read 'How the West Was Won'. The author seemed to think he was writing a book about how brave Americans created their nation but I was reading about about how they bought or stole it all from the French and Spanish. So weird. And don't get me started about the passengers on the Mayflower and religious freedom. They went to America to basically set up a Caliphate but for their vision of Christianity. They wanted the exact opposite of religious freedom.
Load More Replies...Like how much they promote themselves in WW1. While they did some stuff, we Canadians were the spearheads that took down the Germans and their allied countries without USA lifting a finger until halfway through the war
It wasn’t even halfway, the came with just over a year to go.
Load More Replies...I was actually just talking about this with my brother. We hear a lot about how the S got rid of slavery, but we never actually hear anything about how other countries got rid of it. With as little we learn about civil rights movements in other countries, you'd think that the emancipation proclamation was what ended slavery around the world. Lincoln just said 'Cut that s**t out' and that was it. It would be nice to have a bigger frame of reference for civil rights than just our country.
Depends on where you go. Often as with most places the most ignorant among us are the loudest.
And how little they know about the Constitution and how our government works. Once a comedian asked a Trump supporter if they had read the constitution. He said "well, not all of it. Have you?" The comedian answered "Yes, it's really pretty short" and he pulled a copy out of his pocket. Guy just totally refused to believe him. Another example: I had a colleague who was studying for his citizenship test. He asked me if I could explain why we had a Senate and a House of Representatives. So I explained it. He told me he had asked a lot of people and I was the first one who could give him an answer.
Ok, this one is true. In grade school we were repetitively taught American history and a little European history ad nauseum. When I went to college I went a little crazy with all of the options and ended up taking Eastern Asian, African, Latin American histories because it was all new to me and I found it incredibly eye opening. And I wasn't even a history major.
Something that surprised me was how many people with unchecked mental illness were on the streets. It just felt like a huge amount of people who've fallen through the cracks and not received the support they need. Been to 5 states and several cities and NYC was particularly bad for this and it was pretty heartbreaking.
While on a business trip, one of our local foremen (who also volunteers with charity organizations) explained me why NYC has a high concentration of loonies and homeless. First, sheer population size plays a role; even if the ratio is average, the absolute number of affected individuals is higher, and they tend to congregate in the city center, making them more visible. Second, since the 1970s, NYC has invested heavily in facilities for the homeless, offering easier access to food banks, shelters, and sanitation services. As a result, the city attracts individuals seeking aid from less supportive areas, both independently and through questionable state programs that bus people from the Midwest and South to places like NYC and California
Reading all of this: There is something rotten in the land of the "free"
You're free to pay for meds, health insurance, and therapy, or not. You're free to "help your family" or save up by starting to work part time throughout high school, free to negotiate your own salary faaar away from those pesky unions, and free to sue after your loved ones díed in some mass shooting or due to violated health/security regulations. In other words: you have to buy your freedom, and the poor are free to starve. To paraphrase Terry Prattchett: freedom can get you kiIIed.
Load More Replies...Again: court rulings. In the 1970s, America released most of its mentally ill onto the streets after the courts ruled they couldn't be held against their will. That's when the homeless population exploded, but by now housing inaffordability in New York and the West Coast has overtaken that as the major cause. The thing is that a ton of the mentally ill break all sorts of laws and the police ignore them; I understand you can't force someone into a mental hospital if they don't want to be there, but it seems to me that rather than ignore crime because it seems cruel to put them in jail, you could sentence them to a hospital. When I lived in Boston, there was one guy who would fall to the floor, fake a seizure and p**s all over the floor in a McDonald's... all just for attention. The cops said, "He does this every day; the judge is just going to release him."
Taking your point, it seems as though some of them were forced OUT of hospital, rather than having a wish to be released granted.
Load More Replies...Is there anything in the US that is free of charge? Only libraries?
LA is just full of homeless people, ironically within a stone's through of some of the most expensive properties in the country!
California has absolutely evil government which deliberately restricts housing supply to make hundred-billionaires of developers.
Load More Replies...I feel any major city is quite bad for mentally ill people. Paris is extreme in this aspect as well.
This is one of the many reasons we can’t have universal healthcare in the US. Conservatives don’t think mental illness is real
You can thank Ronald Reagan for dismantling the mental health system in the US.
Getting charged for everything, the amount of hidden costs was nuts.
Same with Alaska, Oregon, New Hampshire, and Montana! Having lived most of my life in no sales tax states, I find it confusing, when I encounter it, too.
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Canadian here. I’ve never craved vegetables more than when i came back from a road trip in the US. It’s not so bad in big cities, but on the road i could hardly find anything healthy to eat.
"on the road" no you won't find it there unless you hit an old time diner. You came from Canada? The north is literally vegetarian territory, especially the PNW. Maybe don't go all the way to Texas next time. Baby steps. lol
Where did this person travel in the US where they couldn't find vegetables, or at least a salad? It shouldn't have been that hard to find some healthy choices
A "salad" can easily be 2000 calories... Just top it with a few chicken nuggets, a pint of ranch, a few slices of garlic berad, and nothing healthy remains.
Load More Replies...Completely agree, when we Europeans would travel for meetings in the U.S. we'd be offered platters of Krispy Cream donuts, chocolate chip cookies and brownies at a coffee break. In Europe, we had fruit, bread and cheese.
You can always find something if you look. Grocery stores have fresher options now and usually you can even get something at a fast food place (i.e. grilled chicken tenders instead of fried)
If you could not find anything healthy to eat on the road then you were not looking...at all.
I went with my sister to Las Vegas in 2012. I’m English and vegetarian. There was NOTHING healthy for me to eat and the smell of fast food was nauseating. I hated every minute I was there.
British Columbia, Canada has some of the best food, I have ever eaten.
As both a tourist and an immigrant (now a naturalized citizen) I will never not find the level of racial segregation alarming.
Look up a data visualisation of most cities based on the % of people from minority backgrounds and you'll see concentrated populations, often in areas annexed off from other areas by highways. And there's usually a shocking lack of amenities and infrastructure in those areas too. Plus fewer parks, sidewalks, trees and I could honestly keep going.
I was especially shocked when I found out that school funding is significantly influenced by the property taxes paid by people in the catchment for that school.
It seems completely unconscionable.
In any civilized country you would think, funding the public schools in the poorest areas better than those in the richer areas would be a good idea to induce equality and reduce crime rates.
With Trump's dismantling of the DOE, it's only going to get worse.
Load More Replies...You are right. How we fund our schools is unconscionable. I live in a state where the state government collects all the property taxes and schools are funded based upon how many students they have enrolled and what types of special services they need. But I think we are the only state that does that.
Probably. I've paid property taxes in two states. Both allowed richer districts to separate in order to take their tax money with them. The entire situation was done poorly each time
Load More Replies...On most things the states operate as their own country. They have the same governmental structure as the federal government. So, yes, services and other programs depend on where you are. There can be states next to each other that can differ a lot on these issues. That being said, the systemic racism is just appalling.
Underdeveloped public transit system and everyone having a car.
That happens when the car lobby gets its foot into enough government doors.
Do people just not understand how vast the US is? The US is roughly the same size as all of Europe. I personally have a 42 mile, one way, commute from a tertiary rural road (5 miles from a main road) to my urban office daily. The infrastructure required to support public transport for myself and millions of others in the same situation is not practical or sustainable.
How pleasant and welcoming almost everyone was. I found the majority of people I interacted with to be friendly, polite, interested in where I came from when they heard an accent etc. I’m afraid I had allowed myself to believe that all this c**p we see online reflects the reality in US for most people, which it absolutely doesn’t. People in USA were getting along with their days and along with each other pretty well from what I see.
I travelled all over the USA in the mid 2000s and visited a lot if out of the way small towns. The people were all amazingly friendly and hospitable to me... because I am a white male. That would change very quickly if I said anything remotely contradictory or even made a joke about their religion, politics or completely insular world view
In most countries, people just get along generally. There are ALWAYS a proportion of arseholes that have a problem with some portion of the rest of society (Jews, Catholics, immigrants, Asians, homosexuals, whatever) and they make a lot of noise and trouble. The reset of us (IMO) aren't so much welcoming and accepting as we just don't give a s**t - I don't care if my neighbour has more melanin in his skin than me. How does that possibly help or harm me? And even if it does, what is he supposed to do about it? Let him get on with his life.
True, but "most countries" don't go about popularly electing a leader that openly mocks and defiles those social norms of live and let live.
Load More Replies...It's sad that many people around the world see the worst Americans in the news and assume we're all like that. OP is correct, most of us are not the jerks that people believe we are
In smaller places, yes. Santa Fe was amazing how polite and welcoming everyone was. Larger places, they go through the motions, but there is no sincerity in it.
No, you don't meet real people in smaller places. My parents, my friends, are not these people. You just don't know them. I have lived in Rwanda for over 20 years, and I come from smaller places. We don't support a second of this.
Load More Replies...Yes true, very friendly. But now with the new administration, it is hard to say who actually is authentically caring and who isn't
The weird uncanny valley vibe from customer service and wait staff. The overly enthusiastic act just creeped me out because it felt so fake.
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Most waiters and waitresses that I’m friends with genuinely are just like that. They actually enjoy serving and want people to have a good time. Can see how that could be overwhelming if you’re not from here though.
Many are genuinely nice (as they should be, doing customer service work), but they really turn on the charm because they're hoping you give them a nice tip.
I used to live on my tips to the point I would forget I was even supposed to pick up a paycheck. The check was so small it was insignificant. I lived on tips. So yeah, I was very nice. But I am anyway so it worked out.
Load More Replies...Alex, believing your server is genuinely friendly is like thinking that str|pper (BP censors, really???) is *really* in love with you... It's an act. They despise you and will absolutely throw merciless jokes about you in the back of house. Their only interest in you is how much you are going to tip.
I disagree, I’ve only worked in places where we b***h about only shìtty customers who treat us like poop not general customers, I loved serving people, I literally did a double diploma in hotel management and then fell in love with waitressing and bar and did that for 20yrs. Loved it.
Load More Replies...As someone who has worked in hospitality in Europe and the U.S., what I have observed is the focus in the U.S. is a sunny disposition, over experience or competence. The whole, "hire attitude you can teach skills" . Except....they are never taught the skills. The times I've asked to have my red wine chillled (26°C is not "cellar temperature) and it was brought literally ""on ice". In a bucket with the bottle sitting on top of the ice....no water by which to immerse it...
I tried waitressing, and HATED it. I'm ****NOT*** like that. It was overwhelming, and I'm from here.
Random people will stop and talk to you. I'm used to a friendly nod or a "good morning" but in America they're open to conversations with strangers.
I'm on the other end of that scale. I AM polite and friendly, but I'm a private person, and I hate small talk and personal drama. I'll gladly show you where Aldi keeps the ketchup and even walk you there. I'll ask you if I can fetch you a cup of coffee on my way to the cafeteria. I'll actively offer for you to skip me in line if you only have three items versus my full cart. But I REALLY don't wanna know about your husband's visit to the dentist, your kids' rehearsals, or your hamster's diarrhea. Consequently I will keep my private business to myself and my circle of friends, too.
Load More Replies...We do that in the UK. But it's only permissible in queues and bus stops. 🙂
I kinda like this, because it never got overbearing (in my experience at least). The convo ends just at the right time
I like it too. It's my favourite thing about Americans.
Load More Replies...California too. People standing in line at the DMV or grocery store will strike up conversations all the time - unless everyone is glued to their phones :(
Load More Replies...As an introvert I would be very stressed to be social all the time. But if I'm ever travelling in US, I would need to appreciate their more talkative culture and push my antisocial a*s to be more outgoing in there. Then I could be normal grumpy self back home.
The sheer size of portions made me question if I was in a buffet or a restaurant.
It's not even true anymore for any food with a sliver of quality. In many proper restaurants the portions are now down to manageable size, but at the same high prices.
Back in the day.. Yeah.. but honestly it hasnt really been that way for quite a few years now. Shrinkflation. We pay twice as much now for a big mac than we did several years ago and it isnt even half the size.
Like someone else mentioned, portions are down but prices are still high. If you do happen to get bigger portions, it is actually quite nice to split into multiple meals.
I eat in restaurants or have take-out maybe 5 or 6 times a year. Restaurant food is c**p unless I pay 100$ a plate. It takes great food to beat my own food.
I only went to New York, but there were two things that really struck me.
The subway looked so underfunded; the stations were dirty, the trains were broken, and it definitely didn't feel as safe as the London underground or other similar sized metros.
The thing that really surprised me was the number of people clearly having mental health issues just left to fend for themselves. I know other countries aren't perfect when it comes to looking after these people, but in NYC there were so many!
people with mental health, I addressed in another comment. The metro thing deserves a discussion, though. The NYC metro system is the most expensive and highest budget metro system in the world, by far. Compared to the London Tube and the Paris Metro, that handle about the same number of passenger per year, are all in the 400km ballpark for track length, their operating budget is almost tenfold the competitors. Construction cost per km is about twice the Paris metro, and 8 TIMES the London Tube, but NYC metro has been historically marred by design flaws and severe maintenance issues. Aging infrastructure and lack of long-term planning or investments by MTA led to some stretches being over 100 years old and lacking alternative routes. Signaling system dates back to the end of WW2, and has not been upgraded to modern systems, and different track stretches have different turn and speed specs.
A major issue is the quality of trains: the policy of buying american-built rolling stock in the 1970s led to splitting orders among several major constructors (St Louis Car Co, Pullman, MK), with one common denominator: c**p quality. These cars are still in service and prone to problems. They were built for cheap and with tons of saving shortcuts, lacking redundant systems and technical features that were already commonplace in Europe. The newer Kawasaki and the Canadian-built R62s are a bit better, but still they are 40 years old and designed to be the cheapest version possible of the Kawasaki railcars family
Load More Replies...I actually found the subway to be safer than I'd imagined. Probably down to watching TV shows.
Only going to NY was your mistake. Lived in American my whole life and have no desire to ever go to NY.
If I ever manage to visit the US New York would be my first choice of stay. Mostly because I'm interested in historical/science museums, and because of the *apparent* culinary/cultural diversity. Public transport seems to be an actual option instead of a joke, and outside of high summer and blizzard season the weather is more manageable than sweltering LA, let alone any place south of/within the bible belt (which I'd avoid anyway due to lack of personal tourist highlights and an allergy to overenthusiastic prayers).
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I don't know how else to explain it but literally everything there is too much.
The customer service, the portions, the buildings, the cars, the way so many people act, just everything. Too big. Over the top. They do everything to excess. It's too much. I couldn't stand it.
A blind man is unafraid to travel and experience new things around the world. Eventually, his travels take him to Texas. When he gets to his hotel room, he feels the bed. “Wow, this bed is huge!” “EVERYTHING is bigger in Texas!” says the bellhop cheerfully. The man heads downstairs to the bar, settles into a huge barstool and orders a beer. A mug is placed between his hands. “Wow, these drinks are enormous!” The bartender disclaims: “EVERYTHING is big in Texas!” After downing a few, the blind man asks where the bathroom is. “Second door to the right,” says the bartender. The blind man heads for the bathroom but accidentally enters the third door, which leads to the swimming pool, and the poor guy falls right in. The few swimmers there were shocked when a man suddenly popped his head up from under the water flailing his arms and screaming, “Don’t flush, DON'T FLUSH!!!!!”
A salesman from England is showing a salesman from Texas around. Every time they see anything, the Texan says "Eh, we have bigger in Texas". Eventually this starts to annoy the English guy, so when they return to the hotel, the English guy bribes housekeeping to sneak a lobster into the Texan's bed. Unsurprisingly, the Texan makes a big fuss when he discovers the lobster, yelling for someone to come and look. The Engish guy says "What, haven't you ever seen a bed-bug before?". The Texan pauses for a second, and not to be out-done, says to the lobster "Hey, don't be scared little guy. Why, poor thing is just a baby"...
Load More Replies...All over the world and then they cry because of pollution, too much waste and bla bla blaa.
Went to the cities, eh? Why would you do that when there are so many better places to go?
Well, I for one already live rural, so when on vacation I'm looking for something out of my daily experience. That leaves mostly culture, cuisine, and scenery. Big cities in general have more variety in categories A and B (museums, theatre, clubs, restaurants) than Podunk, Kansas, though I'll admit rural places are more authentic and lack the skyscrapers, hustle and bustle to obtruct idyllic views and tranquility.
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As a solo female traveler that only visited major cities on the east coast, it was that everywhere I went, most people acted friendly but there seemed to be an underlying sense of anxiety and caution. It's hard to explain but it was as if fear and worry was built into their worldview in a way I haven't seen before.
You can be friendly and cautious. Caution when interacting with a stranger is warranted. Humans are predators, our eyes face forward.
"Fear and Worry was built into their worldview..." This is how historians will refer to America after our inevitable collapse :(
Not sure when they visited, but there have been several events that have shaken the US to it's core. The first was 9/11. Anyone who was a full fledged adult before 9/11 will tell you that we are not as free as we were before 9/11. The gov't let us down and instead of reassuring the public, they took it as an opportunity to exert more control on the populous. The second was Trump. He has been steadily and purposely dividing the country along racial and political lines. Yes, it was happening before, but Trump was an adrenaline shot for dysfunction. Last was the pandemic. People in the US (as a whole) have never, in recent generations, been introduced to their own mortality. Thanks to Trump, we lost twice (or more) of the people than was necessary, to this disease. We had the worst infection/survival rate in the first world, thanks to his lack of leadership. People still haven't recovered and it affects our social interations.
Seeing a sign on a restaurant, the first time I was ever there, stating that it was a "gun free zone". Live in Canada, have lived in the far North close to the Arctic Circle, in large inner cities, in small rural farm communities, we certainly have our share of guns here, but to see something like this needing to be stated was....unsettling to say the least.
I tell Americans that it must be hard to live in a place so dangerous that you have to be armed to go to the grocery store.
I was shocked at the state of your roads. They were f*****g s**t. The shameless amount of food waste was sickening.
Back in the 90s, I worked at Pizza Hut and I'd throw out a 50g (about 100L) garbage can of overproved dough about once a week.
UK roads are bloody awful. Cyclists could die hitting some of the potholes on my daily journey, which goes through 2 decent sized towns before reaching a third.
I can cross from one county with terrible roads into another that are in a far better state of repair.
Load More Replies...Sometimes I wonder if the roads stay this trash so that mechanics can keep making pretty pennies fixing all the damage they cause.
The photo looks more European though. There are cobblestones and a tram-rail underneath.
Lots of US cities had cobblestones and tram rails, before they were removed with the car-centric cultural shift of the 1920-1950s. By the end of the 1910s, there were over 17.000 miles of tram tracks laid in the US, in every major city.
Load More Replies...The roads in us are a whole lot better than in Canada or pretty much anywhere else tho tbh
Buddy, you call "roads" things that in most of the world would be called "ditches"
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So much sugar in everything. I wasn’t able to drink the sweet tea as it tasted sweeter than our cordial without water added.
It's not only the real sugar, when they switched to high fructose corn sirup, it just became worse...
So, for those curious, the proper way to make southern "Sweet Tea" is as follows: Boil 4 to 6 bags of tea in 1 liter of water. Add sugar by the cup full until it no longer dissolves in the water. Dilute roughly 1/2 liter to 1 gallon of water. Oh, and the reason we drink it like this traces back to colonial days. By the time Tea (which usually was imported into boston or nyc) reached the southern states, it had been adulterated and cut to the point that it wasn't palatable. Adding sugar made it drinkable.
When i was in Germany, I got a pretty serious Ritter Sport with hazelnuts a*******n. My favorite chocolate.
And Ritter is mid-quality at best by European standards. Also, they had a bunch of ethical controversies in the past decade, quite a few people boycott them over their treatment of workers.
Load More Replies...And yet my Doc STILL whined at me for using 1/4c of sugar in a GALLON of tea. Just enough to knock the fuzz off the tea. Nephew and his husband uses 2 cups/gal.
The difference in US and European products (the same brand) is vast. More sugar, more ingredients. US chocolate....
Chocolate is even more extreme, as not only it is rich in sugar but also contains butyric acid, making it unpalatable to everyone not used to it. And I do not even speak of the HFCS, which is illegal in most of Europe.
Load More Replies...As a diabetic, this worries me for when I go to the States this year!
Definitely be careful! :( Sugar is EVERYWHERE in our products, even tomato/pizza sauce, burger buns, bread, etc. I have a lot of family members with diabetes and they have to be incredibly careful.
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How absolutely obese they are.
Eating healthy is expensive and most Americans are too poor to afford it...
Rubbish. Eating healthy is all about shopping properly and cooking your own food, not just heating up junk.
Load More Replies...Again, a vast over-generalization. Obesity is a problem, yes. But like a lot of these remarks, it doesn't hold true for all Americans. I would really like to know where people were visiting from, and what part of the U.S. they visited.
Of course no generalisation does hold truth to everyone. General weight is also rising rapidly everywhere. But what shocks people in US is not the amount of overweight people, but the amount obesity. And in the eyes of people living in huge amount of other countries, even seeing one person so obese that they can barely walk is really rare. Seeing two at the same time is a thing you might have never seen before. Even if every single other person there would be healthy, seeing that is shocking. And yes, I know Obesity is mostly everywhere. But as I've never seen anyone in that level I can't help being a bit shocked. I would also be shocked at seeing a gun on a person as I've never seen that in person either.
Load More Replies...Maybe, but i met a lot of really sporty people.. Dont drink sugar lemonades but water with a little lemon, cook from scratch if you can, with lesser fat, a vegetable soup, pasta or rice with vegetable and a little meat sauce, after a long days work . Do a great amount and freeze it in portions.
Measurements show that the US is far more obese than Germany, Italy, or even the UK. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_countries_by_obesity_rate. I assume that your claim about the CDC is just as unfounded.
Load More Replies...I honestly thought the front door opening up right in the living room was just a trope for TV shows because of the studio audience and such. No, turns out many American homes are designed this way. Blew my mind. You'd never find a single home or apartment without some kind of entrance hall, foyer or mudroom where I'm from.
Yeah, I remember watching ALF as a kid and all of us thought it weird how the house entrance opened directly into the living room.
Not only does my house not have an entryway/front hall/foyer, the master bedroom and bathroom are... all just one big room. The bathroom is not separated from the rest of the room at all. The toilet just sort of sits there out in the open where I can see it from my bed.
Load More Replies...In the Northeast, almost no one uses the front door. Most use the back door, which usually enters through the kitchen. Hell, I don't even have a path to my "front" door, and the driveway comes down to the "back" of the house.
I have lived in the Northeast my entire life and have never used my back door as entry. Always the front door and pretty much everyone I know is the same.
Load More Replies...It's not unusual in older houses in the UK either. Mainly smaller ones though, and particularly Victorian-era terraced housing of which there is still a huge amount.
The standard terraced house plan during the Victorian period for middle-class and workers' housing included an entrance hall and stairs to one side, with two floors of two rooms each. I can't think of a home I've been in that didn't have some kind of hallway to be honest. Admittedly the latter is just anecdotal but I'm in a fair number through work.
Load More Replies...Yep quite common in the UK. A lot of people add on a portico of some sort later.
While not overwhelmingly common, hallway-less houses, or those with minimal hallways, are increasingly becoming a trend in UK new builds, especially in smaller homes, as designers prioritize open floor plans and efficient space utilization. Hallways or a porch, lobby type area, are pretty common.
Load More Replies...I hate that. The house where I grew up had a proper foyer before you got into the living room or family room. My previous apartment had a small entry hall. I don't know that you could call what I've got now a hall, just a couple of steps (footsteps, not stairs) before opening into the living room.
In English towns, terraced houses are the norm. My front door opens into my living room.
I think this is so you can see their 'wealth' as soon as possible. I had a house that had a living room and a family room. Living room had all of the expensive furniture and was almost never used. Ridiculous excess.
Yeah, nah (as we say in Australia). I live in a 50s built timber clad worker's cottage, and the front door opens directly into the living room. It's quite a small house, and there's just no room for an entryway. It's definitely not about displaying wealth. There's a whole bunch of reasons why houses are designed the way they are - there's no one reason.
Load More Replies...How big it is. Theoretically, I knew that it’s big, but my husband and I did a road trip from SF through Yosemite via Tioga Pass and down through Death Valley to Las Vegas. It was amaaazing how much scenery we saw and I was flabbergasted with the changing of the landscape. From Las Vegas we drove to LA and then flew to NY. It was wild, esp for a first timer from SE Asia. Such a thrilling and awe-inspiring experience.
We generally travel at night. Miss a lot of scenery, but the only ones on the road are us and some truck drivers. I WILL say the area near the Va/NC border on 77 is beautiful, looking 10 miles across the valley to the east, especially at sunrise.
I live in Southern California. A two-hour drive in any direction will put me in an entirely different biome (ha-ha, yes, if I go west I'll be in the ocean biome...) But yeah, snow, desert, mountains, forest, and swamp are all within a two-hour drive of where I live. Haven't been on a vacation to any of those places since I was a kid, though. :(
An old joke: Americans think 100 years was a long time ago. Europeans think 100 miles is a long way to go.
Probably not my ‘biggest shock’, but something that hasn’t been mentioned that I can see:
The amount of billboards along roads. A ludicrous amount. And sooo many of them are for personal injury lawyers (and by that, I mean there are an insufferable amount of Morgan&Morgan billboards).
I live in Southern California. The lawyer billboards are ESPECIALLY hilarious here. The lawyers either have hilarious, ridiculous names (there's one in my area who calls himself "Sweet James") or they're dressed like an NPC from the Yakuza games, leaning up against a muscle car/luxury sports car like a Lambo, looking out at you as if they're making a promise to k!ll your enemies instead of argue your case in court.
Load More Replies...The sheer amount of personal injury lawsuits is mind-boggling to me. It's as if everyone is waiting to finally sue another person to get their money.
If an injury can cost you your life savings and your house due to medical (insurance) problems, suing someone to cover the costs becomes a necessity.
Load More Replies...We had them banned in my state, but somehow, a church is still allowed to have one...
Cereal aisle.
Fun fact, the vast majority of the cereals shown in photo cannot be legally sold on army and schools ground because the sugar content is way higher than what is considered healthy for human consumption by NIH standards.
You mean the ' not woke', 'we don't care if you die' NIH(now)?
Load More Replies...I don’t get it…. Why call it Cereals?! These are sweets! I would gain hellalot of weight by eating these for breakfast, same like eating Cookies.
They're called cereals because they're made from some sort of grain of (mostly) cultivated grasses (corn, wheat, oat,...). So, technically, you're eating cereals with every bit of toast you munch, every handful of popcorn and, by extension, rice pudding and pasta. The illusion lies in perceiving anything "cereal" as "something healthy". You can try eating "healthy" veggies all year and ruin their nurtitional value by deep frying them until all the vitamins are gone, and drowning the sorry remains in ranch sauce - and then complain how you've been "living on nothing but greens forever and still gaining weight".
Load More Replies...Amusing story: When Kelloggs came to India, they were big on telling that they will replace Indian breakfast options.. A few moments later: they are selling boxed version of the same indian breakfast like Poha and Upma. While there is a decent size of Indians who do eat cereals, we havent yet given up on Indian breakfast.
All the wonderful herbs of India make for a flavor bomb - Kellogs just has - what? - sugar?
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I'm surprised nobody said this yet, and maybe it's a bit cliché, but the socioeconomic race divide was absolutely stunning to see, different than what I could have imagined.
And I lived in London at the time, which has a huge mix of cultures and class divide as well, but this was so different. So much more systemic if you know what I mean?
I went to Washington DC for work, I decided to stay in an Airbnb in a residential area. And every day I took the bus from the nice white neighborhood through a "slum" of poc neighbourhoods with visible poverty and signs of systematic neglect (I spare you the details).
Then arrived in central DC in my nice white office, where the only poc people are the staff like cafeteria workers and cleaners.
Given there are whole "brown towns" in The Midlands, and areas of London, I cannot agree. I had cause to visit Wightman Road-never known a place so badly named. It was like a Souk.
Ah yes. G A is one of those people who can't get their head round the idea of brown people not being a tiny minority. I'm a Brit. The idea that there are 'whole "brown towns" in The Midlands, and areas of London' is racist hate-mongering promoted by racist hate-mongers such as Nigel Farage and - alas! - an awful lot of mainstream politicians too, not just the frog-faced tw3rp himself. And certain corners of the gutter press... It's all nonsense. In any case, what's wrong with brown people? They're people, just like all other people.
Load More Replies...The race disparity. Public transport was very not white. Any fast food place had poc behind the counter. The most blatant was the zoo. All the workers and guides were white and then the security staff at the gate were all poc. Stores too, clerk white security guy black. I knew it would be bad but I didn’t expect it to be so glaring.
I'm white, but I was adopted at birth into a Hispanic family. The term "person of color" is not meant to imply difference and separation. It is a descriptor, the same way "white" is a descriptor of skin color. My family are POC and are proud to use the term and prefer it to "brown person".
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How dirty the Hollywood Walk of Fame is… on TV it looked so neat.
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This is even referenced symbolically at the beginning and end of The Substance.
Donald Trump has a star?!? Gee, they give them away like flyers
Load More Replies...That it’s a foreign country. That might sound weird but you think you know America because you see so much of it on tv/music/cinema and because we share a language but it’s not until you go there you realise that it’s truly a foreign country, with all sorts of customs and habits you’re unfamiliar with.
Someone from the UK (cos English speaking), thinking they knew the US from the amount of American TV they get there, shocked to find that the differences were much greater than they thought. Actually they're wrong, it's not so much _a_ foreign country, but several foreign countries,.
Load More Replies...Thanksgiving, Halloween, St Patrick's Day Superbowl, not celebrating Boxing Day, Independence Day. Either not celebrated or done in much smaller ways in the UK. Nothing wrong with it at all, just giving some examples. College Sports also not a thing.
Load More Replies...No other country has such representation in media and almost everyone has seen the same locations and tropes for decades. That gives a sense of familiarity that no other country has. It's not hard to understand
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Long roads with no shoulder to pull over and no turning points for miles.
Have you invited it to the gym for shoulder day? I think not.
Load More Replies...I live in a small town and a lot of the rurals roads have very or no little shoulders to pull over otherwise you would be going in a ditch.
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Walking past a Hooters and seeing a 12 year old boy having a birthday party with two adult women in their tiny outfits present him with a cake. He was surrounded by male family members. I was horrified.
i find the idea abhorrent, didnt take off in the uk as i believe we are a little more civilised
Hmn, I like both big tiddies and little ones and I enjoy looking at attractive ladies as much as anyone, but Hooters always felt low-class to me. Nobody is being forced to work there, there is no nudity, but nevertheless you feel slightly grubby for having been. Sorry, just my opinion.
I was only once in a Hooters, and that only to get emergency food (low blood sugar) and use their bathroom. Don't get the appeal to go there for the staff's assets to be honest, but who am I to judge others
I was 9 or 10 and my brother was around 13 when our parents (Dad AND mom) took us to Hooters. It wasn't either of our birthdays and I can't remember either of us actually requesting it? It weirded me out, which I think was the idea? A little fun at our expense. The food was ok, but I threw up almost immediately after we left, which I never lived down, including after later on coming out to the family. To be fair, it's fair game. I totally would have made the same jokes in their shoes because COME ON... someone has to.
JTFC, you can see more skin at a car wash, beach, or public park than at a Hooters'. You were "horrified"? I've walked down streets in Europe where there's a s-e-x shop with displays in the window showing hard core p-o-r-n. But yeah, Hooters' is "Horrifying". I don't even like Hooters' food, but this one is ridiculous.
"horrified" seems over the top - but to be fair: we Europeas generally don't take kids to pórn shops or bróthels to celebrate their birthdays.
Load More Replies...Ha! Haven't been to one since I was young 20s. Would never take my son. Let the people have their fun. Unless I am raising a saint or two I have no room to judge.
Don't try to raise saints. They're generally only appointed as such after an often premature and horrific déath.
Load More Replies... Drive in banks
Drive in pharmacies
We have drive in fast food joints but you guys weaponized the concept.
Believe it or not, they're more common in Ohio and Indiana than in Florida.
Load More Replies...Haven't seen a drive-in bank in Southern California since I was a kid in the 90s. However, MOST pharmacies I see nowadays are drive-in pharmacies. I live in a beach/tourist town, though, that is VERY car-dependent with really cruddy public transportation.
The poverty. And the wealth.
All the while that morons willingly vote for people like Chump and his ilk, this will always be so. Billionaires need to be taxed heavily. Nobody needs that sort of money. But then that gets labelled communism by the uneducated who would actually benefit from it. But that applies to all countries and all rich barstewards.
"Nobody needs that sort of money." I love it when people feel the need to tell others what they need. Hey, GA, post your income and expenditures, then I'll tell you what you should and should not be spending money on.
Load More Replies...Mmm...i saw this quite a lot in the Middle East too. The haves and the have nots.
Every place I visited in western Europe, everyone seemed to be pretty much the same, financially. By which I mean, no glaring extremes of poverty or wealth. Everyone also was so slim and fit! Even though there were a LOT of smokers, they were all pretty athletic. It was kind of wild. A good wild though, they weren't all wheeling around on a power scooter eating cheetos and smoking cigarettes.
Load More Replies...I went grocery shopping in Florida, and there were rows and rows of processed foods (specifically frozen pizzas that came with chocolate chip cookies) vs. the little section of produce. The rows of sugary cereal and all kind of junk blew my mind, and not in a good way.
The key to successful shopping in a US grocery store is to stick to the perimeter. Don't even bother going down the aisles for the most part.
absolutely agree. I recently stopped eating corn syrup and limited sugar and I gotta say, its not easy to figure out what to eat. Its possible but sometimes I find it difficult to even find things that are okay to eat.
Load More Replies...That's why poor people are fat. Healthy food is expensive. Especially for 16 kids and 9 baby daddies. I keep waiting for People Chow. Seriously, listen to "Underwear go inside the pants" By Lazyboy. Hilarious
The produce section is usually the biggest section, followed by the meat section, followed by the bakery. Walk around the perimeter unless you need something canned or baking supplies. It should go produce, meat, dairy, bakery in a counter clockwise manner. If you see only processed food, that's not a grocery store, that's a bodega or a gas station.
Oh, so THAT's what a bodega is. I always thought that word sounded like a little café. But it's a corner store?
Load More Replies...Bull. Walk into most grocery stores and the produce section is huge. You definitely weren't in a Publix.
It like swimming through a river of mud to find a pocket of water. It's terrible. I do question if it is intended to keep people unhealthy. Healy foods are oddly twice as much. Why? Actually the food is one of the only things I do not like about my country.
Really? The food is the only thing you don't like?
Load More Replies...I went to Walmart in Florida and I actually thought I’d died and gone to hell.
It's a vicious cycle. We subsidize corn growers. So we have an overabundance of corn. So they use it as a product in EVERYTHING, which ends up driving demand for, you guess it, more corn. We did the same thing with dairy farms and now we have caves crammed full of "government cheese"
I landed at JFK. Shortly before that we were over a residential area, and I was shocked by how it was just horizon to horizon same size house lots in a grid pattern, not broken up by apartment buildings, or parks, or shopping areas...just houses and houses and houses...and more houses...
This construction pattern is commonly called "suburbia", and has been studied a lot as a cause for a swath of social problems and psychological negative effects. It's been proven it is a major cause for social isolation, from the lack of defined city centers where communal spaces are typically located. This in turn leads to a steep reduction in availability of interaction and socializing opportunities. The monotone constructions style and layout has been linked to decrease in mental stimulation among adult and children, and as the root cause for some forms of juvenile depression, that can find an outlet in criminal behaviors. This often combines with economic and even racial segregation, creating -especially in lower classes- a fertile ground for loneliness, elevated anxiety, sense of alienation, reduced self-efficacy, all effects connected to a bunch of parasocial issues.
Curiously, living on affluent suburbs has been also documented as a cause of major stress, insecurity and depression from the need to keep up with unwritten or perceived social expectations, while sharply increasing isolation from lack of community-based support networks. Environmentally, it makes the inhabitants dependent on cars and limits the possibility of physical activity, with a remarked negative effect on the health of individuals and communities as a whole.
Load More Replies...It depends where you are. I live in suburbia. The city is zoned so that no point is more than 1 mile from light commercial (stores, gas station, restaurants, etc.). You can't swing a dead cat without hitting a park. There's a walking path behind my house, there's a commons area in my development with a walking path, there's a full a*s park with soccer fields and a playground across the road, there's another park about a half mile away, another huge park a mile away with about 15 miles of walking paths and trails. There are deer, coyotes, and turkeys everywhere. Also, a huge amount of Cooper's hawks for some reason. I'm also 5 minutes from 3 major highways so I can get anywhere fast. Yes, there are Levittowns out there (little boxes on the hillside) but it's not everywhere by any means.
American city planning is more about dedicated areas and less about mixed concepts like here in Europe
As a NYer, WTF? Places like described exist in Arizona, etc., but New York??? For starters, New York City is on four different land masses. You couldn't even build that if you wanted to. For another, it's older than that sort of mass planning. Levittown, a suburb 20 miles away, once sorta looked like that... it was the first such planned community. But it's transformed so much over the decades. And it's 30 miles from Manhattan because no way could they find the land to build that any closer.
When the waiter takes your card from you and walks away with it to use the machine to pay
The waiter coming over and asking every 10 mins how the food is and being overly friendly
How loud people talk. Literally everyone can hear their conversation.
Tipping culture. Don’t even get me started on that.
Walking into an establishment and seeing a “no firearms beyond this point” sign on the door
In some shops we were shocked to see snacks locked inside a glass cupboard so we needed to ring the bell and ask a member of staff to unlock it just so we could get a Reese’s bar of chocolate.
But all in all I loved the US each time I visited. The people are very friendly and I will definitely be back again!
"snacks locked inside a glass cupboard" In gas stations they lock the staff in glass boxes and you have to ring the bell.
Not in any gas station I've been in. I'm in America, mid-Atlantic area.
Load More Replies...It's gonna blow their mind when they realize how often 'no firearms beyond this point' signs get blatantly ignored. Hopefully, not literally, but it's America, so there's always the chance...
"The waiter coming over and asking every 10 mins how the food is and being overly friendly" Good way to make me want to tip even less
No kidding. If I wanted to be harassed while trying to eat a peaceful meal and have a conversation, I'd stay home where the kids are.
Load More Replies...What happens when someone does not want the debit card out of their sight? Is it acceptable to go with the waiter?
Can't do that with a debit card. Only with a credit card. For a debit card you MUST be there put in your PIN.
Load More Replies...I can see this happening in a high crime rate. Even Walmart is locking up stuff you used to get right off the shelf. One example is ink cartridges for printers.
Certain areas are considered no go zones due to poverty. As an Aussie visiting my exes family in illinois (outside chicago) close to the Wisconsin border. They told us to avoid certain towns and bars, it was certainly overtly racist but I saw it more as a social-economic thing but they didn't and blamed the people living there not the conditions that led to it.
There are areas in every state and most cities that are higher risk for criminal activity in the US, sure, but that is true worldwide. Yes. I have traveled outside the country, and spoken with others that have. Always a lot of chatter about how horrible the US is (some quite warranted, as we have specialized in putting the fun in disfunctional), but it is not all pixie dust, sunshine and unicorn farts elsewhere either. That said, we have a lot of work to do, hope we have what it takes to get it done.
I gotta ask... Where near the border of Wisconsin?? I grew up there, spent equal amount of time in both states, where do you not go?? With an Aussie accent you would be the hit of the party in most towns. The smaller ones on the border are some of the most welcoming places in the US... Where were you ? Rockford?? I could see Waukegan/North Chicago etc on the lake, but that is the Navy base area. It used to attract lots of nefarious types feeding off of the Pleebs. Whoever runs the place said town was off limits about 20 years ago and that area has cleaned up a bit. My dad worked in north Chicago, at big Pharma and we spent alot of time in all of those lake towns. As soon as you hit the border life is good. The ultra conservative picture the media paints of Wisconsin is crazy far off...
There was how sweet the supermarket bread was but the bread from normal bakers was great. Coke tasted weird due to using HFCS and not cane sugar.
Coke doesn't taste different, it feels different. HFCS always feels slimy to me. It coats my tongue like cough syrup.
I mentioned it elsewhere, but I had British chocolates (including Galaxy bars) when my sister came home from a tour overseas - I had previously had NO IDEA how gross most American "chocolate" is XD
Load More Replies...That VAT isn't included in anything you buy, and making me do maths to work out how much i should tip.
Move the decimal one digit to the left and double it is the rule I use. I also have a minimum dollar amount I will tip. I think our pay structure for servers in particular is completely ridiculous.
For those curious why this is, it's down to each state, city, and sometimes county having different tax rates. Stores, especially chain stores in multiple states or cities, show the price before tax, as this allows them to standardize their pricing. So, it's easier to say something is 4.99 across the board, as opposed to having to say it's 5.06 in one city, and 5.12 in another.
Canadian so expected similarities in general but here's what's different:
Hospital and pharmaceutical commercials are commonplace.
Hwys are littered with very tall and obtrusive chain restaurant signs and billboards (laws where I live prevent these).
Fireworks and Jesus billboards.
Debit and credit machines are not as widespread as I expected.
Flying into the US is never smooth due to customs (other places are not so intense).
As an Indian, I am very nervous when travelimg to the West generally. Everywhere else, my anxieties turn out to be without reson. USA scares the s**t out of me every time. Officers are Too cold and totally unwelcoming even when I visit usually for academic conferences.
If anyone is foolish enough to bother wanting to go there. Why risk being disappeared?
Load More Replies...US customs with small chidren though was great. Invited to queue jump security and customs, lack of sleep taken into account in answering the 30 questions.
I was once asked, jokingly, if I was a d**g dealer. We'd done the passport, eye-scan, purpose of visit, business? What's your business? Pharmaceuticals... Ah, so you're a d**g dealer, Joke!. But I didn't treat it like a joke and answer yes, oh no sir.
Load More Replies... How dirty it was. Trash everywhere. All over the streets and some highways
Also the food portions are HUGE compared to Canada’s. And it’s super salty too. Not necessarily seasoned but salt overtakes any flavour.
The bad drivers.
No one knows anything about my home country but I know everything about theirs 😭.
What is your home country? Statements like this are a bit frustrating. And how do you know "everything" about the U.S. except the stereotypes you accuse American of only knowing about your country? Hell, I don't think any American knows "everything" about America.
Foreign countries get lots of US TV shows, lots of documentary about the US and is therefore familiar with customs, way of speaking and a basic idea of how the US looks and works. This doesn't happen the other way round..
Load More Replies...Some of this, I think, comes down to scale. It's about 1000 kilometers from London to Barcelona. It's nearly 4000 kilometers from New York to Los Angeles. Four times the difference, but you're still in same country, same money, same language, etc. So, for example, there's not a lot of incentive to learn other languages because you can drive for days and never meet anyone that doesn't speak yours.
I didn’t believe that all New Yorkers actually dressed that cool. I thought it was just something TV exaggerated until I finally visited and realized that, yeah, every single one of them really is that effortlessly cool.
From casual and effortless to bold and unique, everyone had a distinct sense of style and each outfit felt like a personal expression of who they were.
Very different to what you see in my city.
I have not been to NY yet. In Europe, Paris Milan and London will give do that to you as well.
Cheese. Everything seemed to have cheese on it, warranted or otherwise.
Typical cheese in the US is not cheese. Really have to hunt for actual cheese.
We have real cheese in Wisconsin, and I'm sure other states too. Born and raised here, if I go to other states I do notice the lack of real cheese. Velveeta and any of those powdery cheese like substances are diabolical and disgusting to me. But as a Wisconsinite, there aren't many foods not made better with cheese.......just sayin.
Load More Replies...How much weight I gained in 1 week! Your food is pumped with absolute c**p.
Moreover, healthy food is more expensive. It just feels like a plot to get more people into medical debt.
My theory: It's easier to control the poor if they are too fat to stand up against the government (or at all)
Load More Replies...WE KNOW! But WE ARE BROKE! We cant afford the healthy stuff. Hell, a lot of us can BARELY afford the c**p food youre talkin about. It costs between $5-8 for a 5 lbs bag of potatoes.. I can get a box of instant for $3. And make more from it! As an actual bag usually lasts a meal or so and I can get 3=4 meals out of a single box. Which means I can now afford to also pay may electric bill. That fresh corn looks amazing, but its a $1 an ear.. I can get a can of corn for the same price that will actually be enough for the family. Where as I would have to spend $6-8 to get enough fresh corn to do the same d**n job. UHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
In one road trip across the US, I encountered much of what other commenters have said, but one surprising thing was this: if you can think of a way to staple a bed to the back of a vehicle, the Americans do it. So many different ways to have a vacation driving around with a caravan, a popup top on the back of a pickup, a winnebago, so on and so forth. They do like their driving vacations, and are creative about how.
My van has a pop-up top with a bed in it. I've never used it for camping or even used it at all XD (It's a Volkswagen Eurovan with the Westfalia package.) However, my van also has a table in the center portion, and I've taken many a lunch break in my van, eating alone at my table, with all the curtains pulled, in glorious solitude XD When I worked retail, my co-workers used to come knock on the van and be like "Pleeeeease can we come in and sit down too?" XD
Visited New York years ago from London and it was one of the best places I’ve ever been to. Everyone was wonderful, kind and polite. Every person called us sir/ma’am, opened doors for me in and my husband. We went when Donald Trump had just gotten into power and I was nervous being foreign but I didn’t have to be. We saw the thanksgiving Macy’s parade and met two different groups of people, who were talking about their political views very politely.
I don’t even want to start on all the amazing food we ate. From delicious soul food in Harlem, to the best steak I’ve ever had (I forget the name of the place).
As a whole I’d love to go back to the USA and visit other places and it’s on my bucket list.
Thank you for your your kind and positive recollection. Like so many other cities (London?) it's huge and varied and would take a lifetime or three to explore. Yes, I grew up in NYC.
I'm Canadian, grew up very close to the border.
The thing that has always "shocked" me is how much more affordable (even with the exchange rate taken into consideration) clothes a 30-minutes drive away. Like, I once bought a sweater at Macy's (which, granted, was on sale) only to be shopping at The Bay a couple of months later and come across the exact same sweater at 3x the price.
As an European, it used to be true in the past, it's not anymore. Levi's, Ralph Laurent, DKNY, Nike, and even some European brands were cheaper. Now, everything is wildly more expensive, and quality is generally worse. The Levi's you buy in Europe are generally made in Turkey, Pakistan and Poland, while the American ones are made in Mexico, Bangladesh and China. There is a stark difference in the quality of seams and the weight of the fabric.
The size of the cars, suburbs without sidewalks, getting shouted at for jaywalking because we didn't know that was a thing.
Jaywalking is now completely legal in my state. It is TERRIFYING. People just run across major busy streets because they know they won't get ticketed for jaywalking. I live in Southern California - our average city streets are as big as highways in other states, and there are TONS of cars driving very, very fast. And yes, our pedestrian fatality rate has gone up quite a bit ever since jaywalking became legal :(
Sounds like they should be doing something about the cars rather than restricting the pedestrians. The concept of 'jaywalking' is alien in much of the world, although here in Switzerland you're not supposed to cross a road within 50m either side of a designated crossing. Never heard of anyone being done for it though. Oh, and crossing on a red man is not illegal ether, although I believe it is in Germany.
Load More Replies...Yes, there are other countries where you'd be corrected for stepping into the road outside of pedestrian lights (not the UK, we don't care)
Load More Replies...How GOOD the food is in large cities. Literally everything I had was ridiculously delicious and huge portions, I’d 100% be 300lbs if I lived there.
It's "delicious" because they add a shitton of sugar, fat, cream and butter to anything. A 2016 USDA study reported that 92% of single-serve restaurant offerings exceeds the recommended calories for the average person for a single meal. The average restaurant serving has over 1200 calories, with American-style restaurants averaging over 1400. another study highlighted how 50% of restaurant offerings are deemed of "little to no nutritional quality" (goes up to 70% for fast food places). The remaing 49,9% were still high in unhealthy fats or sugar, with LESS THAN 1 MEAL OVER 1000 being of ideal nutritional quality. Breakfast items were the most egregious in their unhealthiness, and over 10% of Americans consume their breakfast in fast food places.
How do you explain Shawarma and Kabobs? Delicious. And Elotes my goodness I miss those.
Load More Replies...Extra ingredients in the milk.
"The Korova milkbar sold milk-plus, milk plus vellocet or synthemesc or drencrom, which is what we were drinking. This would sharpen you up and make you ready for a bit of the old ultra-violence."
Upvote for the Burgess quote. One of many dystopian novels that doesn't sound quite as far-fetched today as it used to.
Load More Replies...I don't know about extra ingredients, but I do know they abuse their dairy cows terribly and feed them antibiotics because they're so overcrowded and have no pasture to graze, and they're fed GMO feed, so they're already being poisoned on top of being abused, so the milk is bound to be of poor quality. Maybe they add things to make it palatable?
The driving in NYC scared me. Everything was going so fast, the GPS couldn’t keep up. I wasn’t even the driver lol.
Honestly? Water level in the toilets, like wtf. That s**t's disgusting, in this case may be literally so. The first time I went for numero dos I was just sitting there hoping it wouldn't splash up.
But it helps with odor control, and prevents stains. Yes, I know you could use a brush, but why not reduce the need for that in the first place?
In Europe, we have those with just a little amount of water. Not a swimming pool like in the USA
You realize no one is expecting there to be NO water in the toilet, right? A little bit of water is perfectly reasonable.
Load More Replies...How attractive the girls are.
Ok thanks BP, that's ambiguous. I was gong for d u m b a s s.
Load More Replies...Take me on down to New York City, where the grass is green and the girls are pretty.
Paradise City. That song was a deliberate antithesis of another track on the same album, Welcome to the Jungle, that was referencing NYC. So the paradise was specifically anywhere else.
Load More Replies...I'm not American but it's really time that this article subject is canned. There's nothing here that hasn't been said a million times before.
"If you can think of a way to staple a bed to the back of a vehicle, the Americans do it" - currently at #61 - that one was new to me.
Load More Replies...That would involve more Reddit copying, BP prefer recycling. There is some great content on Reddit about differences and expereinces in other countries.
Load More Replies...How many f*****g times is BP going to do this list? Its the same s**t over and over again. Its tiresome and lazy
Lets switch this to criticising unrestrained capitalism rather than US bashing again. Many of these problems are about capitalism's effects on people. Of course.... guns are terrible.
50% bashing. Most of the bashing was against corps and poverty, which is fine.
Load More Replies...Wow! It's been a few weeks since the EXACT SAME content. Also, news flash- people from other countries find other countries different than their home country.
I'm a US special ed. teacher struggling with the latest regime's hellscape and having constant battles with our healthcare system. I didn't vote for these clowns. I start my mornings with meetings regarding what to do if ICE raids our school. I come to this site for a bit of levity while we're all fighting for our lives over here. But no, just keep kicking us in the nuts repeatedly with these redundant lists that are neither helpful nor entertaining.
And now I'm even more depressed about having to live here. Thanks, BP.
1. Generalizations. America is vast and varied. 2. It would help to know where you are from.
This story comes across as completely biased. Yes, the U.S. has its flaws—just like every other country. No place is perfect or a one-size-fits-all solution for everyone. If someone doesn’t like where they are, they’re free to seek out a place that suits them better. That said, the U.S. has undeniably made a significant impact globally—whether through its movies and TV, advancements in technology, or cultural influence. I’m Danish and I'm currently living and working in China, and one thing I genuinely appreciate about the U.S. is the freedom to express myself and be who I am without fear of censorship. And yes, you do in fact get the right to "vote" in the US. It's a word my fellow coworkers don't even know the meaning of.
I'm not American but it's really time that this article subject is canned. There's nothing here that hasn't been said a million times before.
"If you can think of a way to staple a bed to the back of a vehicle, the Americans do it" - currently at #61 - that one was new to me.
Load More Replies...That would involve more Reddit copying, BP prefer recycling. There is some great content on Reddit about differences and expereinces in other countries.
Load More Replies...How many f*****g times is BP going to do this list? Its the same s**t over and over again. Its tiresome and lazy
Lets switch this to criticising unrestrained capitalism rather than US bashing again. Many of these problems are about capitalism's effects on people. Of course.... guns are terrible.
50% bashing. Most of the bashing was against corps and poverty, which is fine.
Load More Replies...Wow! It's been a few weeks since the EXACT SAME content. Also, news flash- people from other countries find other countries different than their home country.
I'm a US special ed. teacher struggling with the latest regime's hellscape and having constant battles with our healthcare system. I didn't vote for these clowns. I start my mornings with meetings regarding what to do if ICE raids our school. I come to this site for a bit of levity while we're all fighting for our lives over here. But no, just keep kicking us in the nuts repeatedly with these redundant lists that are neither helpful nor entertaining.
And now I'm even more depressed about having to live here. Thanks, BP.
1. Generalizations. America is vast and varied. 2. It would help to know where you are from.
This story comes across as completely biased. Yes, the U.S. has its flaws—just like every other country. No place is perfect or a one-size-fits-all solution for everyone. If someone doesn’t like where they are, they’re free to seek out a place that suits them better. That said, the U.S. has undeniably made a significant impact globally—whether through its movies and TV, advancements in technology, or cultural influence. I’m Danish and I'm currently living and working in China, and one thing I genuinely appreciate about the U.S. is the freedom to express myself and be who I am without fear of censorship. And yes, you do in fact get the right to "vote" in the US. It's a word my fellow coworkers don't even know the meaning of.
