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Assistant Throws Herself A $2,000 Farewell Party As A Popularity Test, Ends Up Without A Job

Assistant Throws Herself A $2,000 Farewell Party As A Popularity Test, Ends Up Without A Job

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Running your own company is a massive responsibility. You have staff depending on you for their livelihoods, and clients expecting work to be done. As a boss, it pays to have an assistant you can trust and depend on. One woman thought she had found that in a recently appointed employee. So she felt at ease going out of town for a conference recently.

Little did she know that a massive party was being thrown with company funds while she was away. But what shocked the boss most, was finding out her assistant had held the expensive “farewell” for herself. Despite not resigning, or even planning to leave. The assistant was fired on the spot, but her boss is now wondering if she made a mistake by letting her go.

Managing staff isn’t always easy, and can come with all sorts of surprises

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One boss couldn’t believe it when her trusted assistant used $2,000 of the company’s money to throw a fake farewell

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Misappropriation of funds is a criminal offense and can have serious consequences

According to the Helfend Law Group, “Misappropriation of funds refers to the illegal use of another person’s money. While the person committing the offense was given lawful access to the money, it is the use for their own purposes or another unauthorized use that makes it a crime.”

Some could argue that the assistant got off lightly for using company money for her “fake farewell”. If Lily’s boss were to lay criminal charges, and she was found guilty, she could face imprisonment, fines, probation, and would have to deal with having a permanent criminal record.

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The law firm notes that misappropriation of funds is similar to embezzlement “in which a person who is entrusted with another person’s money or property steals it for their own personal use.” And adds that in some cases, a person could be charged with both crimes.

There are certain things you’d need to prove to be found “not guilty” of misappropriation of funds

If you ever find yourself charged with misappropriation of funds, it’s probably best to hire a lawyer. But the Helfend Group says your legal team would need to prove a few things to get you off the hook.

For example, if there’s evidence that there was a “lack of intent” on your part. Meaning you didn’t intend to steal or misappropriate the funds. Or maybe you have proof that your company gave you consent to keep the money or use it for personal reasons.

You also might win your case if you can prove that you were wrongfully accused, coerced, were the victim of mistaken identity, or were forced to commit the crime through threats or violence.

There are some other scenarios where the charges could be dropped. One is if the evidence against you is inadmissible in court. For example, it was obtained illegally. Or if there isn’t enough evidence to prove beyond a reasonable doubt that you misappropriated the funds.

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“Lily sounds deranged”: Netizens came to the comments section to show their support for the boss

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Hey there! I'm Shelly, a Visual Editor at Bored Panda. When I'm not working, you'll often find me immersed in creativity, whether it's creating animations, 3D and traditional art, writing, or making music.I've been drawing since I was little, and my passion for visual storytelling really took off after I finished a 2-year Film Academy. It ignited my existing spark for bringing stories to life through visuals. Since then, I've been diving deeper into art and tech, always exploring new ways to tell compelling stories.

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person (i think)
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13 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Experiments have results. The result of this one was “being fired”. And hopefully sued. Results of experiments are not always what you hope for.

David Morgan
Community Member
13 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As others have said, this is an open and shut case of a con-artist stealing from you. Lily can do whatever social experiments she likes with her own money, but she didn't. What possible results could have come from the 'test' anyway? When someone announces they are leaving, people don't flood them with "no, please stay, we beg you" messages unless they are the main character in a novel. They leave, and everyone else gets on with their life. Lily expecting otherwise is either total self-delusion/narcissism, or a b******t excuse for theft.

ArchangelLoki
Community Member
7 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair, one of my colleagues handed her notice in (she was going back to her old industry) and we spent the entire four week notice period trying to convince her to stay. Alas, as of yesterday she's gone. We'll miss her.

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zims
Community Member
14 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lily was the kid who threw parties while her parents went out of town and it shows. Seriously, this is why most places have a probationary period.

StumblingThroughLife
Community Member
6 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

NTA. According to Reddit, the OP has decided against reporting/suing her, as $2,000 isn't worth it. Couldn't copy/paste her update, so what I wrote is pretty basic. She got 31 downvotes for this update, btw.

Hey hey hey
Community Member
14 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow... the nerve of that employee. She's testing boundary on how much she can push

Tams21
Community Member
5 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Spending 2k of company money without permission and on something insane and some people still think the boss is wrong for firing her is insane. What she did was theft.

Rafael
Community Member
7 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If this is real, I guess she had an offer, decided to squeeze funds from the current job, but then the offer elsewhere was rescinded, and she came up with that bullshït.

Lady Miss Pie
Community Member
Premium
32 minutes ago

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Lost Shelly
Community Member
10 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's insane...I hope this other person I know gets fired she misappropriated a lot more than that

_-DungeonKeeper-_
Community Member
2 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That one percent of people who said it was creative in the pool better have misclicked

Michael MacKinnon
Community Member
4 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Theft. The word is theft. The words in response are fire the employee, call the cops and get the person charged. And if that person gives out personal / the company's information on social media, issue a correction laying out the actual facts.

Apatheist Account2
Community Member
7 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The fun thing would have been if she stayed and subsequently quit, then did another party and no-one turned up because they thought it was another fake. Certainly using company fund is an instant dismissal, it's not even a question.

AisForRebel
Community Member
1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

F**k around and find out. Is the perfect description for this!

Beth Wheeler
Community Member
2 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would have immediately fired her as soon as I got back also. Misuse of company funds, theft and whatever else she could be charged with.

Elio
Community Member
3 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lily has severe main character syndrome. She's lucky she only got fired and not charged with theft. People who think Lily is the victim are dumb and are not good people to have as friends. In my experience, it's pretty rare for people to beg others to stay when they put in notice. Even if I like the person who is leaving, I trust that as an adult they can make their own decisions about their life. Anyway, Lily learned that whrn you misuse company money to get attention, the result of that experiment is being fired.

Sea Squirrel
Community Member
5 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As often with these AITA's ... No. You're not. Why do you ask? It's OK to draw a line and stand up for yourself. The actual aßholes are the ones who make you believe you should behave more like a doormat.

Gwyn
Community Member
2 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm guessing other farewell parties weren't this big or expensive. What are the other employees supposed to think if you let this go? It'll cause a lot of gossip and suspicions of favoritism. It would also show them that stealing from the company will be tolerated. Firing was appropriate, get your 2k back in court of you have to.

Pandapoo
Community Member
1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m surprised he/she didn’t get wind of it from the other employees as it was happening. A bartender in the break room, serious liability. I’d have a meeting with the rest of the employees.

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R Dennis
Community Member
12 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This has to be fake. "I fired someone for stealing $2000. AITA?"

Lady Miss Pie
Community Member
Premium
27 minutes ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You guys, this is a fake post. A good percentage of AITA are fake—this one was written by someone who just last week was a 23m. BP, do better. Stop posting these. Fellow Pandas, please stop falling for these stories,

Rachel Pelz
Community Member
1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OK, I'm old-fashioned and it's a public services job...but if someone quits, THEY pay for farewell cake/snacks and (non alcoholic) drinks. Not the employer unless you're like head of everything. (actually, not even then.)

Annabelle
Community Member
1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Curious what happened that was already blurred professional lines. Seems to me, she had her warnings. And if not, well, her response to being appropriately fired shows she doesn't learn from repercussions. Gross that OP has friends who are trying to guilt trip her.

Carney
Community Member
3 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You worry that you were wrong in firing this person? Seriously? Instead of firing you should have made her vice president of cons? I don't know what is wrong with Lilly, but she needs help - desperately. But not from you, from a trained and skillful mental health expert. You, meanwhile, need to stop listening to the folks who are attempting to co-dependent Lilly.

Tristan J
Community Member
4 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What kind of gaslighting society do we live in where this question needs to be asked?

Racing Tadpole
Community Member
2 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why does she have access to a company credit card? You're a bit too trusting...

Tammy
Community Member
6 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This can't be real, what Lily did was a straight up felony.

Vinnie
Community Member
1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe I'm just incredibly lucky with my much younger colleagues, several in their 20s. While I understand that generations have different influences, I also know that age range is not the only one.

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person (i think)
Community Member
13 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Experiments have results. The result of this one was “being fired”. And hopefully sued. Results of experiments are not always what you hope for.

David Morgan
Community Member
13 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As others have said, this is an open and shut case of a con-artist stealing from you. Lily can do whatever social experiments she likes with her own money, but she didn't. What possible results could have come from the 'test' anyway? When someone announces they are leaving, people don't flood them with "no, please stay, we beg you" messages unless they are the main character in a novel. They leave, and everyone else gets on with their life. Lily expecting otherwise is either total self-delusion/narcissism, or a b******t excuse for theft.

ArchangelLoki
Community Member
7 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair, one of my colleagues handed her notice in (she was going back to her old industry) and we spent the entire four week notice period trying to convince her to stay. Alas, as of yesterday she's gone. We'll miss her.

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zims
Community Member
14 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lily was the kid who threw parties while her parents went out of town and it shows. Seriously, this is why most places have a probationary period.

StumblingThroughLife
Community Member
6 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

NTA. According to Reddit, the OP has decided against reporting/suing her, as $2,000 isn't worth it. Couldn't copy/paste her update, so what I wrote is pretty basic. She got 31 downvotes for this update, btw.

Hey hey hey
Community Member
14 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow... the nerve of that employee. She's testing boundary on how much she can push

Tams21
Community Member
5 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Spending 2k of company money without permission and on something insane and some people still think the boss is wrong for firing her is insane. What she did was theft.

Rafael
Community Member
7 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If this is real, I guess she had an offer, decided to squeeze funds from the current job, but then the offer elsewhere was rescinded, and she came up with that bullshït.

Lady Miss Pie
Community Member
Premium
32 minutes ago

This comment has been deleted.

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Lost Shelly
Community Member
10 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's insane...I hope this other person I know gets fired she misappropriated a lot more than that

_-DungeonKeeper-_
Community Member
2 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That one percent of people who said it was creative in the pool better have misclicked

Michael MacKinnon
Community Member
4 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Theft. The word is theft. The words in response are fire the employee, call the cops and get the person charged. And if that person gives out personal / the company's information on social media, issue a correction laying out the actual facts.

Apatheist Account2
Community Member
7 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The fun thing would have been if she stayed and subsequently quit, then did another party and no-one turned up because they thought it was another fake. Certainly using company fund is an instant dismissal, it's not even a question.

AisForRebel
Community Member
1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

F**k around and find out. Is the perfect description for this!

Beth Wheeler
Community Member
2 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would have immediately fired her as soon as I got back also. Misuse of company funds, theft and whatever else she could be charged with.

Elio
Community Member
3 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Lily has severe main character syndrome. She's lucky she only got fired and not charged with theft. People who think Lily is the victim are dumb and are not good people to have as friends. In my experience, it's pretty rare for people to beg others to stay when they put in notice. Even if I like the person who is leaving, I trust that as an adult they can make their own decisions about their life. Anyway, Lily learned that whrn you misuse company money to get attention, the result of that experiment is being fired.

Sea Squirrel
Community Member
5 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As often with these AITA's ... No. You're not. Why do you ask? It's OK to draw a line and stand up for yourself. The actual aßholes are the ones who make you believe you should behave more like a doormat.

Gwyn
Community Member
2 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm guessing other farewell parties weren't this big or expensive. What are the other employees supposed to think if you let this go? It'll cause a lot of gossip and suspicions of favoritism. It would also show them that stealing from the company will be tolerated. Firing was appropriate, get your 2k back in court of you have to.

Pandapoo
Community Member
1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m surprised he/she didn’t get wind of it from the other employees as it was happening. A bartender in the break room, serious liability. I’d have a meeting with the rest of the employees.

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R Dennis
Community Member
12 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This has to be fake. "I fired someone for stealing $2000. AITA?"

Lady Miss Pie
Community Member
Premium
27 minutes ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You guys, this is a fake post. A good percentage of AITA are fake—this one was written by someone who just last week was a 23m. BP, do better. Stop posting these. Fellow Pandas, please stop falling for these stories,

Rachel Pelz
Community Member
1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OK, I'm old-fashioned and it's a public services job...but if someone quits, THEY pay for farewell cake/snacks and (non alcoholic) drinks. Not the employer unless you're like head of everything. (actually, not even then.)

Annabelle
Community Member
1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Curious what happened that was already blurred professional lines. Seems to me, she had her warnings. And if not, well, her response to being appropriately fired shows she doesn't learn from repercussions. Gross that OP has friends who are trying to guilt trip her.

Carney
Community Member
3 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You worry that you were wrong in firing this person? Seriously? Instead of firing you should have made her vice president of cons? I don't know what is wrong with Lilly, but she needs help - desperately. But not from you, from a trained and skillful mental health expert. You, meanwhile, need to stop listening to the folks who are attempting to co-dependent Lilly.

Tristan J
Community Member
4 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What kind of gaslighting society do we live in where this question needs to be asked?

Racing Tadpole
Community Member
2 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why does she have access to a company credit card? You're a bit too trusting...

Tammy
Community Member
6 hours ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This can't be real, what Lily did was a straight up felony.

Vinnie
Community Member
1 hour ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe I'm just incredibly lucky with my much younger colleagues, several in their 20s. While I understand that generations have different influences, I also know that age range is not the only one.

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