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Unprofessional Housekeeper Mocks Client Online For “Messy” Home, Ends Up Jobless After One Day

Unprofessional Housekeeper Mocks Client Online For “Messy” Home, Ends Up Jobless After One Day

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Hiring someone to clean your house is like going on a blind date with your clutteryou’re putting all your trust in a stranger, hoping they’ll tackle the dust under your bed without judging your dirty laundry … literally. It’s a bold move. But what happens when, instead of tidying up your mess, they decide to turn it into social media content? Yup, disaster.

One Redditor learned this the hard way after hiring a housekeeper to help her deep clean her home. But, instead of a cleaning session, she ended up with fake pics on social media, missed spots, and a bill that’ll make you clutch your pearls.

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Hiring a housekeeper to help you with the mess sounds peachy, until you find out your mess is going viral

Image credits: Polina Zimmerman / Pexels (not the actual photo)

One woman hires help to deep clean her home but ends up being mocked on social media because of her dirty sink

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Image credits: Tima Miroshnichenko / Pexels (not the actual photo)

The housekeeper arrives one hour late and doesn’t finish the job but promises to return the next day for the remaining rooms

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Image credits: Kaboompics.com / Pexels (not the actual photo)

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The woman receives screenshots from her friends, showing her that her housekeeper posted pics of her dirty sink on social media, shaming her for being messy

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The woman fires the housekeeper after one day, paying her less than agreed as she didn’t even finish the job and posted pics of her home online

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The OP (original poster) is a hardworking mom who was juggling so much, she could probably teach a circus classa full-time job, two kids with packed schedules, and a husband recovering from a medical procedure. If you’re imagining her in a superhero cape, you’re not the only one.

But even superheroes need a break. And when the dust bunnies became more like dust gorillas, she did what any sane person would docalled in the pros. The cleaner she chose came recommended by someone the OP trusted. The mission? A $400 deep clean followed by bi-weekly visits to keep things sparkling. Seems straightforward, right? Oh, not so fast.

The housekeeper arrived an hour late, blaming her birthday pancake breakfast with her parents. Okay, fine. I love pancakes as much as the next carb enthusiast, but maybe prioritize scrubbing sinks over syrup when you’re getting paid?

Once she started, her cleaning pace could best be described as sloth-like. After 4.5 hours, she’d managed to clean one bathroom, a bonus room that wasn’t even in use, and part of the living room. The kitchen? The dining room? The foyer? They were apparently left to fend for themselves.

But wait, she did unclog a sink in the master bathroom. Yay, right? Oh, you sweet optimist, no. That sink would soon take center stage in the kind of drama you only expect from reality TV. While our Redditor was out picking up her daughter, the housekeeper texted, saying she had to leave too but would be back the next day to finish up. Reasonable? Maybe. But then the screenshots started rolling in.

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Apparently, this housekeeper’s second job is a wannabe social media star. She had plastered pictures of OP’s clogged sink all over her Facebook stories, complete with snarky captions. I’m talking zoomed-in shots that screamed, “Look at this mess!” Girl, you’re being paid to clean it, not roast it.

Listen, I get it. Before-and-after photos are reasonable, but there’s a difference between showcasing your work and making your client’s bathroom a viral meme. This wasn’t “Look at this amazing transformation!”—it was “Look how gross my client is!” Not cool, lady. Not cool.

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And just to quiet the critics who were about to point out the clutter, she shared a pic of her home in its usual, tidy state

When the OP confronted the housekeeper about her impromptu internet fame, she got hit with some half-hearted apologies and a pinch of passive-aggressive sass. Oh, and a revised bill. The housekeeper decided her half-baked cleaning spree was worth $300 instead of $400.

Now, personally, I’d have handed her $20 and a mop with a note that said, “Finish what you started.” But OP, being far more patient than I could ever be, decided to pay the $300 just to get this woman out of her life and fired her. And honestly, who could blame her? The drama alone wasn’t worth the remaining $100.

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Here’s the thing: hiring help is supposed to make your life easier, not more stressful. It’s like gifting yourself a little slice of paradise. You free up your weekends for actual fun—no more dusting or scrubbing. Just imagine you come home after a long day, and instead of diving into a sea of dirty dishes and laundry piles, you’re greeted by sparkling floors and fresh, lemony air. Sounds like a win to me!​

The pros say that the key to finding the right person for the job is to know what to look for, like the company’s reputation and customer reviews, flexibility in scheduling, transparent pricing, and the quality of the cleaning products used. And, as the OP’s cleaner came recommended by someone she trusted, she agreed to give it a go.

But, when someone enters your home, they’re not just dealing with your mess—they’re stepping into your personal space. Posting your client’s home online without permission isn’t just shady, it’s straight-up disrespectful and an invasion of privacy.

Privacy laws are pretty clear—what happens in your home stays in your home, unless you explicitly say, “Sure, put my dirty sink on blast.”  According to the pros, it’s against the law to reveal private information about someone on a public platform, including social media.

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While the laws differ from country to country, or even from state to state, the general elements of privacy law are pretty much the same, and the cleaner in our story probably broke it. Luckily for her, the OP wasn’t in the mood for a legal mess.

What do you think of this story? Should the housekeeper have been paid anything for her shenanigans? And would you ever let someone back into your home after a betrayal like that? Let us know in the comments.

Netizens side with the woman, saying that the housekeeper’s behavior is unprofessional, and she is not a jerk for firing her

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SnackbarKaat
Community Member
3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People trust a stranger in their home for help, so sad that housekeeper violated that trust

Papa
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree. OP kept saying her house isn't that dirty, but in my opinion that's irrelevant. I don't care how dirty it is, the cleaner was out of line posting pictures of it without asking.

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Captain Grump
Community Member
3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a horrible person (the cleaner). OP shouldn't have to justify her house - it doesn't even matter if you're too lazy or disinterested to keep a clean house, the fact is it's not clean. Why in the f**k else would you hire a cleaner? I'd pay her for the hours worked, then make a mission of letting her references know what she did. I'd also post on any neighbourhood or town groups what happened to try and kill her reputation. If I had the time, I'd send her a belated birthday card with a note saying "If you ever publicly slander me again, I will sue your a$$ into oblivion."

Lailu
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This sort of thing is what stops me from hiring a cleaner. I’ve been struggling with depression for years and so my house is… pretty gross. I’d love to hire someone to help (as the mess is depressing… loop…) but so worried about being judged for the state of my home.

Ginger Winters
Community Member
1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you're in the verde valley area in Arizona I'm a housekeeper who has suffered from depression. I don't judge, I help. I clean, declutter, organize and help you downsize. I even do ovens.

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AnnaB
Community Member
Premium
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She can take pictures for her own personal liability reasons, but to post them is completely off the charts.

Traveling Lady Railfan
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The reason that you would hire a cleaner is because things need cleaning. You don't have to give reasons, it's fine. The cleaner is obviously trying to build content for social media to do a before and after type thing, trying to make her own little reality show for likes and follows and hoping it'll turn into increase business but I'll tell you, I wouldn't hire her unless there was a disclaimer at the bottom of the screen that said that "all property shown have been recorded with owners consent" (or something like that) and even then I don't know if I'd believe it, this is not your property, you have no business taking photos and videos and then posting them to social media. I get that you want to show what a great job you do cleaning, but this is an invasion of privacy.

The_Nicest_Misanthrope
Community Member
3 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

$300 for 4.5 hours work? And you actually paid her that!?! Are you nuts? That's over double what I make in a day!!!

Bryn
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They chose to do it on their birthday, they act like they were forced.

Valerie Brillhart
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would not have paid her what she asked. She did not do the Main things you wanted done. I would also make sure to never suggest her for anything not even to babysit

Livingwithcfs
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That was a major breach of privacy by the cleaner. OP would be perfectly within her rights to talk to the police/lawyer about that breach. The cleaner had not provided any contract to say she would be taking photos and putting them online I assume as tge OP makes no mention of a contract. Personally I wouldn't have paid her a cent after that behavior

Nizumi
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd text her (because you will want this in writing) that I'll pay her for the work done when she takes down the post; and if she puts it back up, we're going to see each other in court over damages caused by breach of privacy.

Pandaodboredem22
Community Member
1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd happily be a reference for a house cleaner, and even for a good one post reviews. But I'd be equally mad if they posted pics of my house without consent

Kerry Fletcher
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

First how long do you think it takes to deep clean 2900sqft by one person. OK she's nuts for filming. She quoted $400 and that's reasonable for a place like that. She was out of line totally but just tell her no thanks, take down the pictures and you can have your money.

Ladedah
Community Member
2 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not even going to f*****g lie... my bathroom sink looks just like that every time my husband gets done grooming and runs off to work (he procrastinates until he's running behind, then blazes through the bathroom like a tornado). Makes me want to strangle him some days. And it never fails that he needs to shave or decides to do some clay face mask on a random whim right after I deep clean the bathroom... or even worse, he'll ask me to cut his hair (he likes a fade and the little bits of hair get EVERYWHERE). So - I guess what I'm trying to say is - f**k that rude-a*s b***h. Everyone's sink gets like that at some point; some of us don't have time to deal with it every single day and decide to ask for help... And some of us will just get pissed off because we JUST CLEANED IT and now it already looks that way, so will let it look like that for three days out of frustration and spite.

Tonyah Mcanelly
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

First of all I know alot of people who use house cleaners and they typically don't post before and after pics. It was unprofessional of her to post on social media. I get why they would because social media can be a good source of advertising. BUT... The cleaner should have gotten permission from the OP to do so . But to stage pictures and roast a client is down right bully material. The cleander didnt even have to clean the entire house . So she should have had it done that day. I would have gone on that girls FB page and given her the negative review for all to see . I feel bad for the OP. she' s been thorugh alot with her husbands illnes and didnt have the energy or time to keep up with anything. I hope the hired help gets instant Karma .

Sue User
Community Member
2 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Due to being physically and mentally ill, my house is a wreck ( which is not helping my depression ). Everyone i talk to wants to come to the house and then quote me a cost. I dont understand why. If it is relatively clean , you get paid for 2 hours, really firtu, you get paid for 4 ( made up numbets) . I get needing to see how long it will take but to not give me a price per hour before they see my home? Can someone explain?

Ginger Winters
Community Member
1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They need to know how much umpf they gotta put in and if they need heavy duty cleaning supplies or just regular supplies. Some people also charge extra when extra effort is needed like using a pumus stone.

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Comment Deleted
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2 days ago

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Down vote for posting a story that is 2 months old. This is no longer relevant and to be honest who the fu*k cares

Papa
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are you new here? I've seen some that are several years old. Who cares?

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SnackbarKaat
Community Member
3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People trust a stranger in their home for help, so sad that housekeeper violated that trust

Papa
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I agree. OP kept saying her house isn't that dirty, but in my opinion that's irrelevant. I don't care how dirty it is, the cleaner was out of line posting pictures of it without asking.

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Captain Grump
Community Member
3 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a horrible person (the cleaner). OP shouldn't have to justify her house - it doesn't even matter if you're too lazy or disinterested to keep a clean house, the fact is it's not clean. Why in the f**k else would you hire a cleaner? I'd pay her for the hours worked, then make a mission of letting her references know what she did. I'd also post on any neighbourhood or town groups what happened to try and kill her reputation. If I had the time, I'd send her a belated birthday card with a note saying "If you ever publicly slander me again, I will sue your a$$ into oblivion."

Lailu
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This sort of thing is what stops me from hiring a cleaner. I’ve been struggling with depression for years and so my house is… pretty gross. I’d love to hire someone to help (as the mess is depressing… loop…) but so worried about being judged for the state of my home.

Ginger Winters
Community Member
1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you're in the verde valley area in Arizona I'm a housekeeper who has suffered from depression. I don't judge, I help. I clean, declutter, organize and help you downsize. I even do ovens.

Load More Replies...
AnnaB
Community Member
Premium
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She can take pictures for her own personal liability reasons, but to post them is completely off the charts.

Traveling Lady Railfan
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The reason that you would hire a cleaner is because things need cleaning. You don't have to give reasons, it's fine. The cleaner is obviously trying to build content for social media to do a before and after type thing, trying to make her own little reality show for likes and follows and hoping it'll turn into increase business but I'll tell you, I wouldn't hire her unless there was a disclaimer at the bottom of the screen that said that "all property shown have been recorded with owners consent" (or something like that) and even then I don't know if I'd believe it, this is not your property, you have no business taking photos and videos and then posting them to social media. I get that you want to show what a great job you do cleaning, but this is an invasion of privacy.

The_Nicest_Misanthrope
Community Member
3 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

$300 for 4.5 hours work? And you actually paid her that!?! Are you nuts? That's over double what I make in a day!!!

Bryn
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They chose to do it on their birthday, they act like they were forced.

Valerie Brillhart
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would not have paid her what she asked. She did not do the Main things you wanted done. I would also make sure to never suggest her for anything not even to babysit

Livingwithcfs
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That was a major breach of privacy by the cleaner. OP would be perfectly within her rights to talk to the police/lawyer about that breach. The cleaner had not provided any contract to say she would be taking photos and putting them online I assume as tge OP makes no mention of a contract. Personally I wouldn't have paid her a cent after that behavior

Nizumi
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd text her (because you will want this in writing) that I'll pay her for the work done when she takes down the post; and if she puts it back up, we're going to see each other in court over damages caused by breach of privacy.

Pandaodboredem22
Community Member
1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd happily be a reference for a house cleaner, and even for a good one post reviews. But I'd be equally mad if they posted pics of my house without consent

Kerry Fletcher
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

First how long do you think it takes to deep clean 2900sqft by one person. OK she's nuts for filming. She quoted $400 and that's reasonable for a place like that. She was out of line totally but just tell her no thanks, take down the pictures and you can have your money.

Ladedah
Community Member
2 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not even going to f*****g lie... my bathroom sink looks just like that every time my husband gets done grooming and runs off to work (he procrastinates until he's running behind, then blazes through the bathroom like a tornado). Makes me want to strangle him some days. And it never fails that he needs to shave or decides to do some clay face mask on a random whim right after I deep clean the bathroom... or even worse, he'll ask me to cut his hair (he likes a fade and the little bits of hair get EVERYWHERE). So - I guess what I'm trying to say is - f**k that rude-a*s b***h. Everyone's sink gets like that at some point; some of us don't have time to deal with it every single day and decide to ask for help... And some of us will just get pissed off because we JUST CLEANED IT and now it already looks that way, so will let it look like that for three days out of frustration and spite.

Tonyah Mcanelly
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

First of all I know alot of people who use house cleaners and they typically don't post before and after pics. It was unprofessional of her to post on social media. I get why they would because social media can be a good source of advertising. BUT... The cleaner should have gotten permission from the OP to do so . But to stage pictures and roast a client is down right bully material. The cleander didnt even have to clean the entire house . So she should have had it done that day. I would have gone on that girls FB page and given her the negative review for all to see . I feel bad for the OP. she' s been thorugh alot with her husbands illnes and didnt have the energy or time to keep up with anything. I hope the hired help gets instant Karma .

Sue User
Community Member
2 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Due to being physically and mentally ill, my house is a wreck ( which is not helping my depression ). Everyone i talk to wants to come to the house and then quote me a cost. I dont understand why. If it is relatively clean , you get paid for 2 hours, really firtu, you get paid for 4 ( made up numbets) . I get needing to see how long it will take but to not give me a price per hour before they see my home? Can someone explain?

Ginger Winters
Community Member
1 day ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They need to know how much umpf they gotta put in and if they need heavy duty cleaning supplies or just regular supplies. Some people also charge extra when extra effort is needed like using a pumus stone.

Load More Replies...
Comment Deleted
Community Member
2 days ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

Down vote for posting a story that is 2 months old. This is no longer relevant and to be honest who the fu*k cares

Papa
Community Member
2 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are you new here? I've seen some that are several years old. Who cares?

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