People in their early 30s worried about being single? Please, come to Spain... Here if you get married and start having children before turning 30 we think you're too young! :) I had my boy at 41 (yeah, I know it's not the best age...) and I'm not by far the only one...

my wife told me 3 month ago she wanna divorce because she realise she was gay. after 20 years together, 3 kids, house, dogs, etc... feel like s**t but the hard part is that i can't be mad at her because it's not really a choice if she feel trapped in something where she didn't belong. it was a shitty year and it doesn't feel like 2021 gotta be better. live one day at a time since few month. my responsability toward my kids it the only thing who gets me going these last month

I feel like this would be a more worthwhile article if it was about finding love after you’re 40...

After a terrible break up in my early 30's, I stayed single. I was 46 and gloriously single. I had the best life ever. I traveled, I took classes, I had (still have) a career I truly love. I decided that I didn't need anyone to make my life complete, I was enough. And then an old friend messaged me Happy Birthday on my 47th and suggested coffee when the pandemic restrictions eased some. We decided we couldn't wait and met in a park and wore masks and talked for seven and half hours. I am deliriously happy! At this age, we are past the drama, the games, the BS...we communicate openly, we are honest with ourselves and each other, and I have found my love. There is no expiration date on love or a person.

Got married at 39, in 2005. Been married once before, my wife too. She was my class / desk mate in 1984-85, living half-mile from my house. Happiness is, sometimes, just next door!

Went to college at 17, worked in parallel full time since 20, failed college, went to college again at 27, came financial crisis could not afford after 2 years out of 5, had heart problems, got a job instead at 29. Met online at 29, met in real at 30, got married at 32, graduated college at 33, moved to his place in another country at 33, got job 1 in the new country at 33, moved within that country at 34 left job 1 at 37 after a miscarriage, got job 2 with 3 hours commute time a day had a miscarriage, got job 3 at 38, baby at 39 trying for 2nd at 40.

I love these! Thank you from a 34 year old single woman.

Don't get hung up on the idea of soulmates either though. There are definitely people out there who seem to find their soulmate, but it isn't as common as disney wants you to believe. I always think of my grandparents as soulmates, but they still bicker and get on each others' nerves sometimes. My grandma recently told me that once, early in their relationship, they broke up for a couple for a couple of days, but when questioned about it my grandpa said "Huh? That was a breakup?" xD. Anyways, the point is soulmates aren't people who are brought together by the universe and are exactly perfect for each other with no issues. I think real soulmates are people who are able to work through their issues and low points together and come out stronger in the end. Relationships are hard work, so don't expect a perfect person who can accommodate you, find a partner who you can work with. Actually finding them may take years, but who cares, right? It's worth the wait and the effort, I promise.

I was complaining about something on my computer at work, and his mom said her son could fix it. I was like, sounds great. We were 32 when we met, texted for a couple of weeks after he fixed my computer before he asked me out. Our first date was Mexican on the Fourth of July, followed by watching fireworks on an old dirt road. We got engaged on my birthday two months later and were married the following year. One nearly 6-year-old daughter and 12 years in April, we finally decided we were serious enough to adopt a puppy we named Pi cause she only has three legs, and my husband has been teaching our daughter 3.14159. I love a good, punny name for pets.

Met my partner when I was about 32, he was married at the time, but we just hung out, were friends first, then he left his wife. Had our daughter when I was 35.

I'm not gonna lie, I thought I'd lost hope but this post game me some. There is still hope after all!

widowed at 25 (common-law). met my husband the year i turned 30. married at 32. now am 54. we have two healthy young adult sons. let yourself heal, then live your best life. don't even think about "finding" a new partner. it can and does happen you meet "The One" when least expected.

Divorced at 28 after a brief bad marriage. Single for what felt like forever. In 2006, I joined eHarmony for my 45th birthday. Met a 42 yr old never married cutie 3 months later. 2 months after that, he took me home to England to meet his family. 3 more months, we moved in, 15 years later, married for 11, 2 cats and a nice house.

My aunt and uncle met on a dating website

I love love :)

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This is just pathetic.