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Man Lets Out An Indoor Cat He Hates “Probably Hoping For Her To Get Lost”, Fiancée Goes Off At Him In Front Of His Whole Family
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Man Lets Out An Indoor Cat He Hates “Probably Hoping For Her To Get Lost”, Fiancée Goes Off At Him In Front Of His Whole Family

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Recently, a frustrated 35-year-old woman shared an incident on Ask Reddit asking people for advice to see if she was right in an argument with her fiance. Just two months ago, she moved in with her fiance and it was going well until “he started complaining about Zoey’s cat.” Zoey is the author’s 13-year-old teen daughter, whose cat “is so sweet and quiet most of the time and so I had no idea what the issue was exactly.”

One day, the woman got a call from Zoey, in tears, who said the cat was not in the room nor anywhere in the house. This was unusual because she’s an indoor cat and the family never lets her out.

The author and her daughter searched for the cat everywhere, but when the neighbor told her he saw her fiance carrying the cat outside, it was the last straw. Read on below to see how the story evolved.

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    “In spite of cats being natural born hunters, a cat who has lived indoors its whole life, may not be able to find enough food,” Molly DeVoss, a certified feline training, and behavior specialist who runs Cat Behavior Solutions agency told Bored Panda in a request to comment on the incident.

    “Additionally, a life outdoors is a sentence for a shorter life; there are so many dangers cats encounter outside. Hit by cars, disease, injury, fights, harm from humans not wanting them in their yard, are just a few of the dangers an outdoor cat faces,” DeVoss explained.

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    “In my personal opinion, she didn’t choose a potential husband with the same value system as she has – and that’s always a recipe for disaster,” cat behaviorist said and added that “Our pets are our family too, and we owe it to them to align ourselves with others who feel the same.”

    Many showed their support for the author and warned her about thinking of staying with a person like him



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    Liucija Adomaite

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    Ilona Baliūnaitė

    Ilona Baliūnaitė

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    I'm a Visual Editor at Bored Panda since 2017. I've searched through a multitude of images to create over 2000 diverse posts on a wide range of topics. I love memes, funny, and cute stuff, but I'm also into social issues topics. Despite my background in communication, my heart belongs to visual media, especially photography. When I'm not at my desk, you're likely to find me in the streets with my camera, checking out cool exhibitions, watching a movie at the cinema or just chilling with a coffee in a cozy place

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    Ivana
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother married an abusive alcoholic who kicked my sister out and my cat out of the house. My cat got ran over and my sister got raped by the family member she was forced to live with when she was 12. So don't marry that man is all I'm saying. My mother's husband cracked my skull open when I was 11 and I woke up a week later in the ICU and was thrilled to find out he bolted to avoid being arrested for almost killing me. I remember looking at my mom as she updated me on what happened, and I smiled at her and told her "Worth it". I don't talk to my mother much.

    Yoga Kitty
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, harm one of my cats and you will sit outside on your fªnny in under one minute - and then run for the hills and be glad that nothing worse happened to you...

    Kathryn Baylis
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same, except I like the comment “I’ve seen the cat, the man should be composted”, so I would probably follow that route. Me: “Uh gee, I don’t know where he is. He just left in a huff one day and never came back.” Friend: “Wow! What a beautiful garden! What’s your secret?” Me: “Oh, I compost”.

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    Ivana
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My mother married an abusive alcoholic who kicked my sister out and my cat out of the house. My cat got ran over and my sister got raped by the family member she was forced to live with when she was 12. So don't marry that man is all I'm saying. My mother's husband cracked my skull open when I was 11 and I woke up a week later in the ICU and was thrilled to find out he bolted to avoid being arrested for almost killing me. I remember looking at my mom as she updated me on what happened, and I smiled at her and told her "Worth it". I don't talk to my mother much.

    Yoga Kitty
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow, harm one of my cats and you will sit outside on your fªnny in under one minute - and then run for the hills and be glad that nothing worse happened to you...

    Kathryn Baylis
    Community Member
    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Same, except I like the comment “I’ve seen the cat, the man should be composted”, so I would probably follow that route. Me: “Uh gee, I don’t know where he is. He just left in a huff one day and never came back.” Friend: “Wow! What a beautiful garden! What’s your secret?” Me: “Oh, I compost”.

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