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The life of a woman in today's world is hard to describe. Our society, at least for the most part, no longer promotes a single image of how one should look or behave.

The classic cocktail of femininity, modesty, discretion, virtue, and graciousness has become a relic of a bygone era, an out-of-place artifact in contemporary culture.

But there's an Instagram account that manages to sum it up quite well. At least 1.7 million people who follow it think so. It's called "Female's Problems" and just like the name suggests, it shares memes about the everyday struggles of a modern woman.

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Looking at these memes, it's clear that our society hasn't achieved gender equality quite yet. But that doesn't mean the situation is hopeless.

Chilean writer Isabel Allende, whose novels are often based upon her personal experience and historical events and pay homage to the lives of women, thinks that we're certainly progressing.

"I have lived enough to see great changes in the situation of women," Allende told The New York Times in an interview. "Little by little, women are chipping away the patriarchy. The fact we have not been able to replace it yet doesn't mean we have failed; it means that the job is monumental. But it's not impossible."

"I believe it will happen, but not in my lifetime, and it will happen only if women are educated, informed, connected and active. It takes very little for us to lose the rights we have obtained. Best recent example: the Taliban. In a few days, women and girls lost all their rights in Afghanistan, and the most awful form of patriarchy took over the country. We have to be vigilant: Given the wrong circumstances, it can happen anywhere."

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If Your Man Can’t Handle Your Period Then Drop Him. It’s Natural! @periodugh

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

he is a keeper i will go to your house and pester you every waking moment unless you are already married to him

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Dm To 10 Groups For A Shoutout

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Agnes Jekyll
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Republicans have just passed a law (trying to find the state) that allows family members of the rapist to sue if the woman who has been raped for getting an abortion.

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We can even verify this quantitatively. Since 2006, the Global Gender Gap Index has been measuring the extent of gender-based gaps among four key dimensions: economic participation and opportunity, educational attainment, health and survival, and political empowerment. Tracking the progress towards closing these gaps over time, it reports benchmarks and provides country rankings that allow for effective comparisons across and within regional peers. According to its 2020 findings, there is still a 31.4% average gender gap that remains to be closed globally.

Across the four characteristics, on average, the largest gender disparity lies within political empowerment. Despite being the most improved dimension that year, the gap on this subindex has only been closed by 25%, meaning there are still not enough women occupying seats in government across the world.

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Explain Yourself

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Brendan Roberts
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I sometimes wonder why we are so attracted to boobs. I mean, they look no better than any other part of a woman's body. Why aren't I turned on by elbows?

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However, it's important to note that the political empowerment subindex fails to measure the legal rights of women and girls in comparison to those of men, which plays a significant role in determining the extent to which a society is equal.

"Although progress [has been] made in advancing women’s rights, it has been slow and inconsistent, and many sex-discriminatory laws remain entrenched,” Romina Canessa, a human rights lawyer at Equality Now, told Global Citizen. “When governments deny women and girls the same rights as men and boys, this legitimizes discrimination and abuse, and means they have no formal recourse if their rights are violated.”

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Facts Af

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IzzieM
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is true! I apply this to my fur-children too. It was my choice to have them.

Louloubelle
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I subscribe to this. I just wish sometimes my children would not resent me for having them.

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Brendan Roberts
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

True. Some parents boast that they look after their kids. THAT'S YOUR JOB!

fat and happy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was thinking the same thing. All my parents chose to have me for is a punching bag or something to blame for everything that's wrong. But my sister was their pride and joy I get exactly what you mean and I feel so bad for you my fellow forgotten child

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DrGirlfriend
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Like a class as soon as anyone getting ready to have, to adopt to be a caregiver for a child. I support your message

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DrGirlfriend
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was hit and bullied in my home growing up, I never spanked my kids, I don't bully and push them to the brink just because I can. I love them, and do all I can to give them every ounce of love, attention and adoration I was not given. I owe them that. This post is everything

McGovernor
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You (like my partner) are evidence that viscious cycles can be broken, use it to define what you dont want to be as a parent and let your love radiate x

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BasedWang
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

sadly this is exactly how people SHOULD feel, but often don't

BJames
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is a fine line between "you don't owe me anything" and "you're 20 years old, the least you can do it the quackin dishes, roomie!"

LynzCatastrophe
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anytime someone tells me I should have kids because otherwise nobody will take care of me later in life, I have a few arguments: one, if I have kids, they have no obligation to do so. Two, this is a dumb reason to have kids. Three: I have nieces and nephews, they're capable as well but have no obligation to do so either. Four: my favourite one, if I'm at the point in life where someone needs to take care of me because I can't do things for myself anymore, then kill me. Because there is no longer a reason for my living.

Ally MacMann
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This attitude should be considered the absolute bare minimum of being a parent. If that isn't set as a foundation of raising a kid then everything else that a parent does is on shaky ground. I find it astonishing that so many parents don't get this.

Monkey Spunk
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Damn right, I really didn't appreciate what my parents did for me growing up. They had their faults but they used to go above and beyond which is why now my dad's dead I try to do stuff for my mum despite her "I'll get a handyman to do it" protests. It's payback time mother, now sit down and shut up while I put a new fence up for you.

Heather Steinbrink
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate this sentiment! My children didn't ask to be born and neither has any other child. Yes, I "owe" them a good life but I also "owe" them the lesson that life is better when people give and take. I want my kids to learn that love involves caring for others. My kid doesn't need to ever pay my electric bill but I hope they would be willing to make me a meal if I was sick in bed.

Cherries and Lace
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

YEP! Outside of human decency and basic respect (which is my job to maintain worthiness of) my kids don't owe me anything. And those 2 things aren't because I am their mother, it's because I expect that of them for all people

Munchkin
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i've seen this tiktok and my parents will regret that i ever did because i am SO going to use this against them in a huge fight to leave them speechless!

elSti
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They also owe you a good upbringing which includes learning you that not all in life is Fun. I don't think they ll be as impressed as you Imagine.

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Mokayokok
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hopefully they didn't just say it for clout and isn't actually this way IRL.

April Taylor
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I decided when I was 14 not to have kids since I can barely take care of me.

Official_Blink
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is exactly what I told my mother about how it was her decision to have me , not mine.... I was grounded-

Jan Moore
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Around the time I turned 45-50 I started sending flowers to my Mom with a Happy Mothers Day card, I miss my mom.

JJM
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And so very true. I wish more parents would realize this,

Mz Phit
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I fully agree- (speaking as a formerly neglected child of the eighties...) my son gets my support for everything

Queen Mab
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish everyone would read this statement and really take it in because this is one thing that simply can't be disagreed with. It's true of pet ownership as well. When you acquire a pet you are morally obligated to do the best for your pet to the best of your ability. Period.

ohjojo (me/mine)
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

While it is a great comment, I think spiritually your children chose you

Got Myself 4 Dwarves
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just want cuddles from my babies - especially noe- ov very strong painkillers and I feel sad. I nerf people to mark mr feel less alone and scared

Zophra
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well... I think they owe the common decency that should be shown to any reasonable human being.

Mia D
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Tell that to my father, he thinks just because he shared 1 tiny cell with my mother now 35 years later I owe him everything, my life, my money and the rest.

DogGoneOlive
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish my Mother heard that. "I feed you and give you clothes! I gave you life! The least you can do is be nice to me!" Like okay- I never asked to be here

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The economic and labor market gender gap has been closed by 58%. This is due to the fact that, on average, only 55% of women are participating in the global workforce, and their presence in higher-yielding positions is even lower.

Plus, this disparity is exacerbated by the global wage gap, which affects women across all industries and backgrounds, and has remained relatively stagnant throughout the last five years or so. These components highlight the challenges women face to escape poverty and become financially and economically independent. 

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Ladies Is This True Haha

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Vera
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Count"?? Are we gathering points to be worthy for the other sex??

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This Is So Sweet 🥺❤️ Has Something Like This Ever Happened To You?

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Genuinely curious as to why a Trigger warning is necessary on a period post...

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At least 35 of the 153 surveyed countries have closed the education gender gap by 96.1%. However, this number varies across education levels.

Globally, girls are less likely to receive an education due to gender-based discrimination, child marriage, and the burden of fulfilling domestic chores, all of which prevent young girls and teens from attending school. 

While more young girls and women are attending primary and secondary school, less than half are going on to attend college.

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Thoughts ?

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K Witmer
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I tell my husband I watch them to learn the signs if he's thinking of murdering me bc he thinks I watch to learn how to murder him wo being caught. Lol. When I reality I really like the narrators voices

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Although the global gender gap for health care and survival has been closed by 95.7%, millions of women worldwide still do not have equal access to health care, especially reproductive health care.

Jennifer Weiss-Wolf, vice-president for development at the Brennan Center for Justice, thinks that period poverty and menstrual stigma play significant roles in holding society back from achieving gender equality, noting that these barriers can also hold them back from participating in politics, the workforce, and education.

“If menstruation inhibits anybody from any one of those things, it inhibits them from all four, which places it squarely in the heart of what it means to achieve full gender equality,” she explained. “If we don’t have policies in place to ensure a safe and open, and accurate discussion around menstruation, treatment of menstruation, in all of these ways, we are leaving off the table a considerable component.” 

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In order to achieve gender equality and make all of these pictures a thing of the past, countries across the globe must increase the number of women in government, ensure education is accessible to all women and girls, create free or affordable child care so that more women can participate in the labor market, and provide access to safe reproductive health care.

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This Is So Sad But True 🥺
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Hseed
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's really sad most of them are related to safety. It's a s++tty world we are living in.

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Any Guys Ever Ask You This?
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Just answer: No, but have you ever been kicked in the balls several times a day for a whole week every single month since you were 11?

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100% Agree

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foxking
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

same. my family has a lot of games, and we like to play them late then go to bed. its fun. :)

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Female Problem

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Ozacoter
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have this so often! Endometriosis causes both bad cramps and bad bowels pain and somethings the first lrads to the second. I am always like "did I eat something bad?", "is it my period?"

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Spell Your Crushes Name Letter By Letter For A Shoutout

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Logan Shinall
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Been there recently. My ex showed me almost no affection like that unless I asked for it, and then she would make fun of me for asking for cuddles. My girlfriend does stuff like that without me asking and I legit have to hold back tears most of the time cos it makes me feel so loved. Good tears, for sure

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Jayne Kyra
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have yet, in 33 years of my life, find jeans that fit my height. Even when I lost weight I could not find a pair that fit. Not to mention the lack of pockets...

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😭😭 @femalesproblems @emotionsquote.s

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Munchkin
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

it makes my blood boil that they put apostrophes in period because I AM SATAN AND I WILL FORCE A PERIOD INTO YOU SEE HOW YOU LIKE THAT

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Munchkin
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i HATE this type of person but the annoying bit is that i can't say anything because i am this petty and my future husband will hate me

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How @femalesproblems & @colespruose Doing Makeup 😭

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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looool, that is so god damn true and I wanna know why on earth we do that 😂😂

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🎉 Periodt

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Monday
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Eh day 2 is okay for me, it's day -1 that the issue. That's when I'm angry all the time for no reason and then when I realize I have no reason to be angry I'm angry about the fact that I'm angry.

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What Are Your Thoughts

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MyOpinionHasBeenServed
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not gay or lesbian, but as an artist I have always preferred drawing females and figure-hugging fashions because females. Some say it's a focus on sexualization. Absolute non. It's way more complex than that and difficult to describe.

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Tag Your Girls Lol

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foxking
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

hahaha. at my school, we aren't as expressive as "NOOO HOMOOO BROO" but i have seen it happen. its sad too bc it shows boys dont want to be gay, even if they are. :(

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W For This Legend

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