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Woman’s Dream Baby Name Gets Lifted By SIL So She Just Picks Another One To SIL’s Rage And Dismay
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Woman’s Dream Baby Name Gets Lifted By SIL So She Just Picks Another One To SIL’s Rage And Dismay

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You’d think picking a baby name would be a simple decision, but in some families, it’s a competitive sport. One minute everyone’s smiling at a baby shower, and the next, people are silently plotting name-related revenge. There’s always that one relative who “accidentally” steals a name you’ve been holding onto for years, setting off a chain reaction of side-eyes, whispers, and full-blown confrontations.

This happened to one Redditor after her sister-in-law stole her number 1 baby name, the one she had been dreaming about since she was a kid.

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Mom-to-be loves the name Seraphina, dreams about giving it to her baby girl, but changes her mind as her sister-in-law decides to steal the name for herself

Image credits: Anastasiya Gepp / pexels (not the actual photo)

The sister-in-law was always a fan of timeless names, like Emily or Katherine, but out of nowhere decided to name her baby Seraphina

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Image credits: RDNE Stock project / pexels (not the actual photo)

The entire family was surprised to see the woman’s baby name choice, as they expected her to name her girl Emily, as she always talked about that name

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Image credits: Liza Summer / pexels (not the actual photo)

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The mom-to-be and her husband decided not to use their favorite girl name for their daughter, as they always wanted, because the sister-in-law decided to use it for her baby

Our story begins with a mom-to-be who had her heart set on naming her baby girl Seraphina. This name wasn’t just a choice—it was a lifelong dream. She and her hubby had spilled the beans to everyone about this perfect name and the entire family knew it was “the one.”

But, fast forward to the big day, and her sister-in-law suddenly pulled a fast one and named her baby Seraphina, surprising everyone. The sister-in-law, who had always been into traditional names like Emily and Katherine, suddenly named her newborn the exact name the OP (original poster) had been planning for years.

The entire family was surprised, as everyone expected her to stick to her usual style and pick a timeless name. But nope, out of nowhere, she went for the very name she knew the OP had been gushing over.

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When the time came for the new parents to introduce their baby girl, they opted for a different name altogether. As expected, this raised some eyebrows, with people wondering why they’d ditched Seraphina. The husband kept it vague, saying they simply changed their minds during the pregnancy. But everyone knew what was up—the sister-in-law’s move was as suspicious as it gets, and the in-laws didn’t hesitate to call her out.

This led to some serious family tension. The sister-in-law got defensive, insisting that baby names aren’t owned and anyone can use whatever name they like. But the criticism from her family didn’t stop, with comments flying that she’d only chosen Seraphina out of spite.

And the drama didn’t end there. Feeling cornered, the sister-in-law took her frustrations straight to the mom, claiming that the name-switch made her look like the villain. She even argued that there could’ve been two Seraphinas in the family and accused the mom of stirring drama just to get back at her. The cherry on top? She let slip that she’d been waiting for a confrontation about the name, practically admitting her guilt.

The mom, staying cool, calmly told her sister-in-law that they had every right to pick a new name, just as she had the right to suddenly fall in love with Seraphina. But the sister-in-law wasn’t buying it—she was convinced the change was all about making her look bad and even went as far as accusing the mom of using their daughters to fuel family drama. Well, names really do carry more weight than we think.

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Naming a baby is probably the first major decision parents have to make, when the little one arrives, and it’s a very personal one. Naming a baby is not just about picking something that sounds nice.

Usually, there’s a lot more thought behind it. While some parents have a long list of names to choose from, for others there is really only one choice, something they had wanted for a long time. Just like the OP knew exactly what name she wanted to give her baby girl, as she had been thinking about it since she was a kid.

Research shows that, for many parents, a name carries emotional significance, reflecting family traditions, cultural heritage, or a meaningful story. Some parents choose names based on their values or qualities they hope their child will embody. Others look for uniqueness, wanting a name that stands out from the crowd.

To find out more on the importance of giving babies the right names, Bored Panda reached out to Sophie Kihm, the editor-in-chief of Nameberry. She told us that, according to their annual reports, parents tend to give their babies names that express their personal values, identities, and aesthetics.

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We wanted to know what are the most important factors parents should consider when choosing a baby name. Kihm explained that, “Parents should choose the name they love, regardless of if it’s ‘unique enough’ or adheres to trends of the moment. But if your goal is to balance all these things, it can be done!”

We asked Kihm how parents can balance personal preferences with cultural trends when it comes to naming their babies. She told us that today’s parents usually consider a few different factors when they name their babies – such as honoring heritage, tradition, or a loved one, and combining that with their own personal style or current trends. However, even if a name feels outdated or doesn’t match modern trends, there are creative ways to keep things fresh.

For example, instead of directly using an old-fashioned name like Dolores, Kihm suggests parents could consider variations like Lola or Dolly, explore names that start with the same letter, or draw inspiration from meaningful details about the person being honored.

As names can influence everything from personality traits to career paths, some families find naming their baby quite overwhelming. So, it’s no wonder that any potential “name-stealing” could lead to some serious drama.

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What’s your take on this story? Share your thoughts in the comment section.

People in the comments say that the sister-in-law named her baby like that just to spite the mom-to-be, but doesn’t really like that name

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Hi! I'm Moni. I’m a globetrotting creative with a camera in one hand and a notebook in the other. I’ve lived in 4 different countries, an visited 17, soaking up inspiration wherever I go. A marketer by trade but a writer at heart, I’ve been crafting stories, poems, and songs, and creating quirky characters since I was 7.

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Monika Pašukonytė

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I am a visual editor here. In my free time I enjoy the vibrant worlds of art galleries, exhibitions, and soulful concerts. Yet, amidst life's hustle and bustle, I find solace in nature's embrace, cherishing tranquil moments with beloved friends. Deep within, I hold a dream close - to embark on a global journey in an RV, accompanied by my faithful canine companion. Together, we'll wander through diverse cultures, weaving precious memories under the starry night sky, fulfilling the wanderlust that stirs my soul.

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Janelle Collard
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is why you NEVER tell people the real name you're going to name your baby. There was another post like this + the name stealer found out the name was actually "s**t" in another language. :) (I think Spanish but not sure.)

UncleJohn3000
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't stir the sh1t unless you're willing to lick the spoon ~ Wisdom of the Internet.

LonelyLittleLeafSheep
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2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe parents should stop telling people what they're going to name their baby, even if they've chosen one for sure. Just say "we haven't decided yet. We thought we'd wait and meet the baby first before we decide."

Traveling Lady Railfan
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's a very sweet way to say it... "We haven't decided, we thought we'd wait and meet the baby first."

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Janelle Collard
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is why you NEVER tell people the real name you're going to name your baby. There was another post like this + the name stealer found out the name was actually "s**t" in another language. :) (I think Spanish but not sure.)

UncleJohn3000
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't stir the sh1t unless you're willing to lick the spoon ~ Wisdom of the Internet.

LonelyLittleLeafSheep
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2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Maybe parents should stop telling people what they're going to name their baby, even if they've chosen one for sure. Just say "we haven't decided yet. We thought we'd wait and meet the baby first before we decide."

Traveling Lady Railfan
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's a very sweet way to say it... "We haven't decided, we thought we'd wait and meet the baby first."

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