"If men can r*pe woman when they're wearing joggers and a hoody or little girls wearing little girl clothes, it shows that it's not the clothes that make men do that" - a repeat for the ones in the back... Rape is a combination of misogyny, powerplay, humiliation, degrading and opportunity, not clothes.

Rāpe and sexüal a*sâult behaviors are usually about power, control, aggression, and anger towards women, not about the act of sêx. I was wearing a pair of waffle textured maroon baggy pajama pants and my husband's oversized XL baggy navy NFL football t-shirt with huge random numbers on the front, with no makeup on and my hair in a ponytail. In fact I never wore makeup unless my husband and myself were going out somewhere nice together, because my job was physically demanding and I didn't see the need for it. The guy was my husband's so called friend from next door that came over to ask to use our phone as my husband had been letting him use it on our porch while his was off. My children were asleep in bed. I blamed myself for it for years. It was very disturbing to me. We had just returned home from a week long camping trip that my husband had insisted that he go on with us, as well as another couple that we know from out of state. That was in 99' I'm much better now.

You’re right, the clothes have nothing to do with it. Nothing the woman wears or does can ever—-so should never—-indicate she was “asking for it”. I mean, people who have the habit of blaming victims for their own rapes need to get real A. S. A. F*****g P. What kind of perverse logic makes them think a woman ever “asks” to be raped, ffs? Rape is not a crime of attraction or sex; it’s a crime of domination, humiliation, and having power over the victim’s life. Even women covered head to toe in a niqab risk being assaulted or raped. Back in the day when women wore long dresses, corsets, pantaloons, and several layers of petticoats, all covering them everywhere but their heads, they still ran the risk of rape or sexual assault. Clothing style does not matter to a rapist, because a woman is merely prey, and therefore an opportunity for the predator to indulge their sick power fantasies. Teach your sons to respect women, and to assist them when they feel threatened (or have been attacked), to take a “No!” at face value, to totally cease what they’re doing, and not try to press for more. To stand up for women when other men are harassing them. Teach them not to just say or do nothing when their “friends” are harassing women (or worse). To call their “bros” out when they’re indulging in misogynistic talk, to stop them when they start acting menacingly toward a woman or show them substances they plan to spike a woman’s drink with, and to forcefully yank their worthless asses away from any woman they’re menacing, cornering, blocking, forcibly pulling on, or worse—-even if they have to kick the other guy’s a*s to get him to stop. Women have always been unjustifiably blamed for men’s inability to control themselves. That self control is what needs to be instilled in men. They need to be held accountable for their actions, and pay consequences instead of being given a pass. That’s a tall order. I know. But the sooner we start, the sooner the problem starts going away.

Here to underline this one first time I was 5 the last time I was assaulted jeans and a sweater so let's put this myth to bed. There was a gorgeous art exhibit I think called what I was wearing of outfits of what people were wearing when attacked

There's a very powerful exhibit that is just outfits... of what people were wearing when they were raped. If you can walk past a nun's habit and a little girl's onesie and still say that, "She was asking for it by what she was wearing", then you're not protecting women, you're just protecting r*pists.

For real.

Sure, you say that now...but when the hunters come for their dinner of veal there win be enough pearls to clutch...