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My Message To The Guys That Fat-Shamed Me By Making Pig Noises
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My Message To The Guys That Fat-Shamed Me By Making Pig Noises

My Message To The Guys That Fat-Shamed MeI Was Anorexic 4 Years Ago, Here's A My Message To The Bullies That Fat-Shamed Me NowHere's What I, A Former Anorexic, Can Say To The Teens That Fat-Shamed Me By Making Pig NoisesI Was Fat-Shamed But It Reminded Me That My Mental Health Is More Important Than WeightHere's What I, A Former Anorexic, Have To Say To The Bullies That Fat-Shamed MeMy Message On Mental Health To The Bullies That Fat-Shamed Me Without Knowing My PastSeveral Teens Fat-Shamed Me, A Former Anorexic, So Here's My Reply To Them I'm A Former Anorexic And Today I Got Fat-Shamed, So Here's My Response To Those BulliesMy Message To The Guys That Fat-Shamed Me By Making Pig NoisesI'm A Former Anorexic And Today Some Guys Made Pig Noises At Me, So Here's My Response To Those Bullies
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When I was 16 I developed an eating disorder (anorexia). I also struggled with depression and self-harm issues. The last 4 years I’ve been in several (clinical) treatments. I am still not there yet, but I am further along the road to recovery than ever.

Yesterday something happened to me which made me think (and stress) a lot. It was such a small thing, but it was like a bomb hit me.

Now, I’m writing a message to the guys who fat-shamed me.

This is me (20)

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Although I still don’t have a healthy weight, I am so much happier now. I am going to own my size. I hope one day I can mean something to the world. I hope by then, they have seen and read this article and learned from it.

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Lotte
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have so much respect for her! I hope she will find confidence in her body because she look stunning!

Leekun
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Better to have a little meat on your bones and be healthy than being thin as a twig and close to death. Also, some teens are real s**theads. I know from experience. Trying to act cool by being rude and insulting when in reality they just look stupid. Don't mind them. Ignore the pathetic little idiots and love yourself because that's what you deserve

Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

@AlphaPuck I agree that being overweighed isn't the most healthy option! Fortunately, my blood results are great! I cycle 17 miles on every week day and eat a lot of veggies and enough fruit! Unfortunately I am a huge stress and emotion eater and I do have a lot of binges besides my healthy eating pattern. I hope I will go back to a healthy bodyweight in the future, but a big difference between now and then is my mental health state. I no longer punish my body by hours of exercising on little to no food. I am able to live again. Lots of love, Eva xx

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Alexandra
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i think you are beautiful just the way you are and don'tlet anyone give you doubts.

Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All these beautiful and sweet comments are bringing me to tears. You guys are the ones who give the world hope, love and respect. You make the world a better place <3 Thanks guys for being awesome, the world needs more of you <3

Lizzie the Crayon
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are so beautiful, and you shoulsnt change, you are an amazinf person, no matter what some snobby teens think. 💗

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PyroarRanger
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not anorexic, but sometimes I feel so fat, and bulky. I've got a lot of dysphoria (not dysmorphia) from my body, and I sometimes limit what I eat because I feel fat. Then other times I'll eat a lot because I feel so thin, and I weigh 110 pounds, I'm 5'2 34" (5'3"), and I can't decide what I want. My stomach feels huge and I look down at my feet while I'm in the shower, and sometimes I can't see my knees, but my breasts make me cry because they feel so big. People say I shouldn't starve myself, but I feel like I need to, in order to keep myself happy. I want more weight so I don't feel thin, but I don't want it at the same time, because my breasts will grow with it... I'm sorry for taking your time for venting about my body issues, downvote me if you want to.

Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You deserve the help you nees. Please go and find a place to talk about this problem. It is real and difficult. Hope you realise one day your body does not define you and you are good enough no matter what size you are ❤

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John R.
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is an absolute knockout!! It was their petty jealousy that they will never be even half this beautiful!! Live your best life, and don't ever let anyone tell you that you aren't good enough!!

Caryn Zent
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are certainly not fat. And you have beautiful skin. You have been through a lot and are still going through it. You are right, don't let the snorting idiots make you doubt yourself.

Margaret McFarland
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You mean something to the world now. You have shown tremendous courage not only by facing your demons, but by opening up about that struggling and speaking out against those thoughtless idiots. You made my hero list <3

Joshua L
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is absolutely gorgeous at BMI 30. That self-contentness on her face is the most stunning part of her. No matter the BMI, the most beautiful woman is a happy one. Anyone that could shame a woman they are with about her weight and be okay with their misery is a tragic individual that will never know love. I'm damn proud of her.

JillVille
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kiddo, you are doing amazing! The things you have overcome are not for the weak. You are so STRONG!!! Don't let idiots get to you, they have no idea how much stronger you are mentally than they are.

Freya the Wanderer
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't cave in to artificial ideas about beauty. A century and change ago, fat was sexy because it meant you got enough to eat and thus had to be prosperous. Here's a word to add to your vocabulary: zaftig. It's from German and means "pleasingly plump."

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Marcia Ferris
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are a super hero! You do have a purpose and place in the world. You own you!

Bri Nicole
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As someone who has fully recovered from Anorexia, I'm so happy for you that you've realized your worth. You look SO beautiful and full of life now. Keep going. Don't let yourself fall back into Anorexia. You've seen how much better life is. Imagine when you're fully recovered. It's worth it. Ps. You're not fat so don't call yourself that!!!

Kesyra
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Body size aside (any size), the fact that you're making a statement and standing up for yourself is a sign of better self confidence already. Keep that goal in your sight, you're going to reach it!

John Carr
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I went through a long period of body hatred, social anxiety, self harm and depression. I still struggle with depression and self harm but I got to the stage where I no longer give a s**t about what people say or think about how I look. It's a long road so go- you are young and have one of the most beautiful smiles I've ever seen. Keep that chin up, the smile on, and the middle finger ready if someone says something disparaging. By the way, I'm a man. These things can happen to anyone - young/old/male/female. It's how strong you are that matters, and you are strong!

Cora-lee Reid
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're actually ridiculously beautiful. Not just physically, but mentally too for having the courage to share your story. Humans constantly judge each other and it's so mean and unnecessary. Keep up your amazing progress!

Maggie Masters
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Girl! Love your curves! Those who don't mind matters and those who mind don't matter! You go girl stay strong

Trisha Haskett
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She tells my story. Once 100 pounds, I amazingly became pregnant.Caring more about my unborn child than myself I started eating. I then realized my soon the be Wasband only loved the weak, child like boney girl. When I weighed healthy 130 he cheated with another skinny, messed up girl. I'm an old lady now at 200 lbs. No man ever came near enough to hurt me again. I love me!

Foxxy
Community Member
5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are so strong. I hope one day you can be happy with yourself. BTW I think you look incredible.

HoffLensMetalHedLovesAnimalsUK
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are pretty as anything and have lovely sparkly eyes, easy for me to say but please don't listen to the idiots, YOU need to be happy with yourself and you have every reason to be. People will always project their happiness and flaws on to other people. Best of luck.

Sugar Latte
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is SOOO beautiful, just the way she is! I admire her!!! 😊

Violaine LB
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are not skinny and you know that, but you do look healthy and you look so much happier. Health comes in many sizes - I am myself fairly thin, but I eat c**p (about just enough of it, but c**p), and my mum who eats nice and healthy is actually overweight. Size is not always a reflection of health. You look fab anyway and eating c**p is better than eating nothing!! <3 Ignore the haters and look after yourself. Love xxx

Sarah Schwill
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honey, sorry to tell you but you are mit fat! You are a beautiful, healthy looking, young women. Boys like that are super insecure and they only feel strong in a group. Don’t bother... unfortunately there will always be stupid humans (women and men). Just stay true to yourself, you owe them nothing. You need to love you, that is the only thing that really matters. You are a great woman, and what you achieved in that young age is marvellous! Rock on 🤘

Doris Wilson
Community Member
5 years ago

As a former anorexic sufferer myself I understand where you are coming from. I am now a size 12 (UK) and I think you look beautiful. I just shown this to my husband and he says to never change who you are, there are people who will always be mean to validate their own existence and there are people who will love you for you and worship the ground you walk on! I have recently thrown out my scales, as long as my clothes still fit I am doing ok! And you will too! For every 10 people who are mean in the world there is one who will see the world in a beautiful way! <3

Rachael Marrast
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is tough in a superficial world to be happy and content with your own body/image, but in order to stay happy and sane we have to try our best. I applaud you for overcoming such a huge obstacle. You are fearfully and wonderfully made by God almighty and you are beautiful!! Keep working on being who you want to be and not who everyone thinks you should be.

Monika Soffronow
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bullying can have disastrous consecuences. The way I define bullying is this: any unrequested negative comment about the way look or the way you are is bullying. I honestly believe that a lot of people bully others daily without ever taking into account that what they are doing is quite simply bullying. The opposit of bullying is to give someone a compliment. After all, is a compliment not an unrequested positive comment on your person or appearance? "Recoveryforeva" is a great handle. I wish you the very best for the future, you really have come a long way.

UnicornHuman
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just wanted to pop down here to say that HER EYES AND SKIN AND HAIR ARE SO DAMN BEAUTIFUL LIKE WTF

Kim Lorton
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How sad. You never have to or need to justify yourself to anyone, or need their approval, to be you! The real problem, is them! Their mamas, never taught them the power of words, or the meaning of kindness. Probably neither love. You just keep being you, and forget about those a******s. And any other asssholes you encounter. Sometimes, the need to feel better. Makes them hurt others, shame them. Because they know no other way, or. How to ask for help. Next time some a*****e snorts or makes pig noises , stop and say, awww! Not too long out of your pigpen huh? Dont worry, you’ll learn English soon!

Katinka Min
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I lost a friend to anorexia. She looked lije the picture on the left and it was heartbreaking. I struggle with overeating and I know how hard it is to find a good balance with food. But being a bit on the fat side of things won't kill anybody (I am, too) whereas starving oneself will. I am very gla,d the poster is alive and on the way to a happier live. Live is worth living.

Lauren Bond
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

people are arseholes. its one of the biggest things i have come to terms with in life. they are arseholes, because they have nothing going on for themselves, they are scraping the bottom of the barrel of life having no plans to better themselves; they spend their days making fun of those who are struggling but are still going places. you are strong and beautiful and i hope one day i can be as strong as you are on my own journey.

Caren Johnson
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I miss my 86 lb frame often. An adult anorexic, gaining the weight back has been brutal to my self esteem. I remind myself.. I'm not breaking bones, my teeth are breaking and falling out anymore, and I am stronger than I have been ever because of yoga. It's sad that we have to feel we aren't perfect enough. Love you life now and let no one get in your way of who you are .

Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

thank you for your beautiful comment! You are amazing! Fighting an eating disorder is really hard and you got stronger and healthier which means you are a strong person. XOXOX keep on going

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Mindy Keys
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People are horrible all over. I am naturally thin and get told to 'eat a sandwich' and ;only dogs like bones, real men like curves'. Looks like we can't win, sister. Stay strong and remember when someone says something hateful to you it speaks volumes about them, and says not one syllable about you. Bless.

FABULOUS1
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is certainly the problem with our society and the way we think we have the right to shame someone no matter their appearance. While their are health issues with being over weight, why if someone is happy in their own skin does anyone have the right or audacity to put them down? You look amazing and healthy, and happy. It is hard to get past those with cruel intentions but you got this. Whatever is going to make you feel comfortable in your own skin should be your goal. i have struggled with my weight my entire life, even starving myself just to lose weight. But my outside appearance does not reflect the person I am inside, be you that is all that matters in this life.

Ed Souza
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey I was bullied too when in high school. I believe most people experienced it at some point. I'm not saying what those people did to her was justifiable, it was wrong. I'm glad she's doing well now.

Stephanie Gwynne Green
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are SOOOO MUCH MORE than your dress size. I send this message out to the universe. I have lost three stone plus and I don't hive a f**k what others think if me. What you see, is what you get, don't like it, move the f**k on. I don't care. I have physical and mental disabilities I am do F*****G PROUD of all my imperfections. I am what I am. These are gifts from my deseased mum, who I miss 24/7. Its a reminder telling me that she is with me everyday, and that's what my imperfections tell and give me. They are my security. XD. I will NEVER be ashamed of being I perfected, making mistakes ect. I am only human after all. Thus girl rock, and she uz just as beautiful as any other. Social media is a deseased concept and a dead one. Love and be you for you. No one is perfect.

Nichole Kae
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I made an account on here just so I could tell you that you are beautiful!! Although my issues aren’t nearly the magnitude that yours are, I hope that I can have the same strength you do to keep going forward. <3

borklaser
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Much love to you. I am 35 and have struggled with eating disorders since I was 15, I've weighed anywhere from 85 to 185 over the last 20 years. Always continue to work to improve yourself mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. ❤️

Lieselotte Pennings
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are beautiful and I disagree with you saying you are fat! Maybe you believe that you have a bit too much on you, but my definition of fat is not what you look like. Keep working on your mental health, that's the most important thing there is. Wish you the best!

Lynne Darroch
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reminder that it says 1000x more about a person who would try to diminish another person - a stranger no less - for their personal amusement than the person they are commenting on. Behaviour and attitude are choices, unlike physical & mental conditions, and if for those choose to be sadistic and cruel, the universe usually takes care of people like that in the long run. I'm also sure they spent the day mocking skinny people, tall people, short people, "wrong colored" people, people with visible disabilities, and in private, each other.

Maggie Masters
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Girl! Love your curves! Those who dont mind matters and those who mind dont matter. You go girl

Daria Z
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, I'm not a boy so I dunno if it counts but to me you look very nice and charming. From experience, I know that everyone has to fight their inner demons, and you seem to be an effective fighter :-)

Lila Launehase
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think this is "fat"! You have more flesh on your bones like one of "Heidi's Girls", but you are definitely not unhealthy obese. You have a beautiful smile and I wish you all the best for you way!

Stephanie Hewitt
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your weight looks fine, you look beautiful. Don't let someone's ugly shade your beauty!

Elly Clifton
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You look so beautiful, and I'm so impressed by your attitude. Leave the pigs to their snorting, you are so much better than them.

Amy Pattie
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel her story! I looked skinny and healthy once but I could feel myself dying, and one day I decided I wanted to live and since then I became hungry again. I’m now heavier than I’ve ever been and also healthier than ever. She looks gorgeous and so much more full of life! Best wishes to you!

GamerGirl123
Community Member
5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are beautiful and I admire your strength to overcome challenges!

Jo Johannsen
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are fighting a hard battle, but it sounds like you have your head on straight. Best of luck achieving your goals and having some incredible adventures.

Sarah Locke
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope she can see the problem with fat shaming is within the person who is doing the shaming. Much love to you and to continue your recovery, you look beautiful on the inside & out!

Valerie Lessard
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is not fat, this is slightly overweight. Nothing to worry about. You look gorgeous, but more importantly, you feel better.

Elisabeth Bergbom
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are so beautiful and have such inner strength, I will never be able to fathom. You go girrrrl!

Kuro Neko
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thanks for this, I had a similar problem in my youth; and am still honestly on the long road of recovery. I really hope you meet your goals and go on to be the best you <3

Katie and Jared Coates
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are so beautiful inside and out! The haters are insecure about something in their life. You have risen above!

Nataliia Portillo
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for you! and don't let the haters bring you down... YOU LOOK GORGEOUS! Mental health is definitely a struggle for so many people, including myself. You are an inspiration! Keep on keeping on and just remember the haters hate cause they have nothing in their lives to be proud of, so they love to bring other people down cause it makes them feel bigger than they are. I hope you accomplish everything you set out to be and if you ever need a friend or words of encouragement DM me on insta @nattpb

AF1402
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Go you!!! It’s so true. And for what it’s worth, you can be fit and heavy, having curves definitely doesn’t stop you from having all the adventures in the world! Most important thing is health, and mental perhaps more than physical. Amazed by your recovery, and wish you all the best for your continued journey!!

Nikki D
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, anorexia is no joke. Your before picture looks like my mom's back in the 70s, she got down to 80lbs at 5'7". Although she is recovered, she still has some strange eating habits. Best of luck on your journey, my mom is 64 and doing great and you will too.

Alexandra Iva
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You go girl ! Do not let anyone tell you off ! Be proud of your beautiful self and own it ! Much love <3

Serkan Cavdar
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you‘re looking great! don‘t let the insecurities of other take you down

Susan Geraghty
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Only people with deep insecurities make fun of others so that they can feel better about themselves. You are gorgeous!

Kate McCarty
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And you can attain a healthy weight. But those guys will still be a******s. Keep up the good work. The world is better with people like you lighting the way.

Diana Popova
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please don't call yourself fat. You are not. To me, you look healthy and I can see your body is full of life :) I know it's hard to believe, because I used to be fat-shamed in school as well and I know that feeling sort of never goes away. Just bear in mind that there are more people out there who see you for how beautiful you really are than there are bullies (who you should actually feel sorry for).

Lvisman96
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so glad that you are on the road to recovery. It hurts my heart when beautiful women let the ugliness of the world define what they think of themselves. You say that you are not 'there' yet...yet, you are stronger than so many people ! I hope that you are incredibly proud of yourself ! You are an inspiration for the world.

Sandy
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You look absolutely stunning! Guys that do things like that have no self esteem and make themselves feel better by demeaning others, try and not let them affect how you feel about yourself, it only gives them power, they are bullies after all.

MysticSailora
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

she doesn't look fat to me! she looks normal, maybe not like people on tv, but normal sized in real life!!

Grace Wiebe
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wouldn't say she's "fat" & how she is now is definitely better than being a walking skeleton. There will always be insecure people who feel the need to display their insecurity with mean comments, but at the core, they feel worthless too. Hurting people hurt people. Broken people break people. Healed people heal people.

Iulia Kelly
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It happens to everyone. I was emaciated throughout my teens and twenties due to an autoimmune disease. People regularly said cruel things about my appearance. You have to ignore them. They aren’t psychologically sound individuals.

Christina Sersif
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And I'm sure the little bullies who snorted at you looked perfect as all bullies do.

Petra Grünwaldová
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel urge to tell you, that you're very beautiful and look much healthier than before!

Eliyahu Rooff
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Weight control is often almost impossible. My dear wife went from a size 22 to a size 8, and I understand what it takes. While the author may not be at her ideal weight, she's close enough that she can have a good life without worrying about health issues. As for those rude young men, all I can say is this: if someone hasn't asked for your opinion about their weight, appearance or clothing, don't offer it. You may be assured that the person knows exactly how much he or she wears, what she looks like and what she's wearing. Only exceptions are if someone is unzipped, has a large insect crawling on them, or has something stuck to their clothing that they can't see. Other than that, it's none of your business.

Elaine Dodge
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You already mean something to the world, lovely one! Don't wait till you reach some mark of the scale - go have those adventures NOW!

Christophe Beunens
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My message to anybody who cares what other people think of them : don't!! It does not matter if you are thin, fat, long, short, gay, black, green or have anything that falls beyond what other people think as "normal" : As long as you feel good in your skin, and you are happy : you are doing good! In your case, you are definately not fat, no matter what anybody said. But you are, from your comments, not entirely happy yet. I wish you a lot of courage, on finding this happiness. Remember : You are the most important person in your life!

Mel Michael
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Awwww she's beautiful. I hope she gets to the place where she can see herself the way I do.

ravenswood1000
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are gorgeous! Don't let the a******s get to you (and that is what they are, a******s).

Aryan Aryan
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is very pretty, such great eyes and a wonderful smile. Don't pay attention to idiots, just be your beautiful self and enjoy life!

Ashley Thomson
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But this woman is so gorgeous??? Why is "thin" only ever considered attractive when in reality any size can be beautiful? It's more important to be healthy and happy than wreck the body to please some a*****e.

HellCat
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dearest... I know how you feel. At least partially. I've struggled with weight my entire life, and I've been bullied by my mother, my peers, random strangers. All I can say is that I wish I looked like you. Seeing what you've gone through is both heartbreaking and heartwarming because you did it! You are amazingly strong and beautiful and to those who even dare to glance at you sideways, just two words: F**K OFF! Much love to you, beautiful and strong girl! <3

Misty Ferguson
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are a beautiful young woman! People who bash other people are just very insecure, and they make themselves feel better by making others feel bad. And ps I think there is a difference between fluffy and fat! :) Curvy-vs-S...7223cf.png Curvy-vs-Skinny-5cca7f17223cf.png

Theamazingfrobo
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Girl you are fabulous!!! Thank you so much for sharing, I've been battling with depression and low self confidence about my own body since I was a little kid. Just like you I am getting the help I need and still have a long way to go. You are an amazing person and absolutely beautiful! Thank you so much again.

Freya the Wanderer
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What we really need is skinny-shaming. :D But seriously - we don't. Nobody should be shamed for his/her BMI.

Owiella Freddie
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OMG, you're gorgeous, girl! Those boys only snorted because their brains were not developed enough to form real words! ;)

Id row
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These people are meaningless in your life, they don't matter. You'll probably never even see them again. I just consider these people background noise to what I'm doing. Of course, you can always kick them in the nuts, too, if it'll make you feel better ;)

Adam K
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would just hug you. You are so far from fat, I think you look great.

Katerina Portokalia
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The problem with this story is that when they are posted, everyone is being nice. But walking down the street, that is a different story. Walking down the street the majority will turn their heads, either to look at you or away from you. Around here we all are nice and supporting, but out there, in the real world, the cruel fact is that if anyone gives you attention, it is to criticise. You are either thin and get cat called, or fat and get (sometimes literally) spit on. I don't know if you get the point, but ... well I hope you do. Anyway, as someone in the same position and roughly the same weight, I see you. And ps, you actually do look beautiful, it's not just people being nice.

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

hi there! Thanks for commenting! I really feel you… Unfortunately a lot of people characterize fat/plussize people as lazy and unhealthy, although in my case I cycle 17 miles every week day and love veggies! I do have a lot of emotional binges, what's why I gained that much weight. I wish you the best in your journey of selflove and acceptence. To me, you are awesome! Lots of love xxx Eva

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Maria Rohlen
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm so impressed with how strong you are and how much happier you look now. You go girl, never let them drag you down to their level of insecurity!

Kate (She/Her)
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Much Respect! I love your personality! Don't let anyone keep you down, just hold your head high and keep going! You are Beautiful!!

Emma Jolivet
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It scares me because your photo from 2017 looks almost like me. I'm a professional ballet dancer, and the pressure they put on us to stay stick thin is extreme. You look incredible and healthy in those images!! I say "in those images" because I'm around 2 years late.

Little Swallow
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She might be not satisfied yet with her weight but I do find her really attractive

Marija Rencar Horvat
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Girl,you are beautiful,full of life and joy, young lady.The most important thing is that you feel good and happy in your body. Enjoy life every single day of your life. Embrace your body and mind because a lot of changes are ahead of you and you will face them with confidence and strength that is in you. Those guys don't deserve a comment. Let mi tell you(i am 51and a performing artist),they are insecure and scare as it gets. So chin up, and walk with pride, conficence and smile.

Beatrice
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I suffered from anorexia and bulimia. People call me curvy now. I don't feel good in my body and have huge struggles to accept it. But me too I'm mentally and physically at a better stage than I was while mylself starving or puging to death. You look great! I just wish people would mind their own damn business. They don't know what massive battle it is to overcome this sort of illnesses. At "least" you are making someone sad with this sorts of comments, at worst you throw someone under a bus, if you will. No, body positivity should not encourage to live unhealthy. But to encourage to accept people and their body as they are. Most weight problems are caused by mental health problems, it helps to be heard and accepted, being shamed and insulted does exactly nothing rather than making this persons life just even more challenging. I wish for your on your way all the best, but you are already doing so incredibly! Own it :)

Sara Price
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She say she still doesn't have a "healthy weight"... is that because she needs to gain more to fully stop the disordered eating? A person can be healthy at any size she is happy (except maybe with a BMI of 11).

Gone Acosta
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

10/10 would smash! Humor aside. Nothing wrong at all with how you look. And the most important thing is how you feel. Glad that you are on the path of owning your own happiness. Once you shut out the noise, life is better :)

KumagorouBeam
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

so how exactly are you fat? you made a huge change for the better and every hater can go f... him/herself ffs. way to go, i hope you make your dream come true in living your life to the fullest.

Kari Slater
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are NOT FAT!!! You are beautiful. I’m so proud of you for dragging yourself back from the brink of death. It is not an easy journey. Look at what you’ve accomplished. You are an amazing human.

Nostalgic Hyena
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There's a girl at my school who's overweight, and kids call her nasty names all the time. There's one boy in particular who does it a lot, and he was discussing with his friend that "she looks like Shrek had a baby with a whale", to which that kid started editing a picture of Shrek's face on a whale to show it to him. If you ask me, the real pigs are the kids making fun of her.

Fiona Toms-Yarnton
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

YOU are beautiful - your skin is clear, your eyes sparkle, your hair is lustrous - those who put you down are either blind or completely insensitive (probably both). You are lovely and deserve happiness.

Jennifer Nazario
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to be the same way. Focused on how I looked and so much so, it made me miserable. Because no matter what little I ate or how much I exercised, I felt like i looked worse than other people. They had the flat stomachs and I could never achieve that. But then, I had my first son. I ended up with a c section (emergency) and after almost dying, I realized the stomach I was left with was a symbol of how strong I really am. How they cut me but I didn't die. How I stopped breathing and yet, have my 3rd child now. Look back at your past. Wave at how weak you were and look in the mirror about how strong you ARE. AND KNOW, that will never be you again. I don't care what others think about me. Because my sons think I'm beautiful. And I feel beautiful. Because I see myself in them. And now can't believe how I ever thought I was ugly. Because they are such handsome boys.

Belinda Crum
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You look great. Some people are just a******s. It is good that you are getting your life on track. You do you! Don't worry about what other people think, as long as you're happy.

NanZ
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so happy that you are doing so much better than you were in 2017. If people thought before their words came flying out of their mouths, they would not do such damage to others. Their parents need to teach them better. You are strong and beautiful and I hope you achieve all of your goals. You look perfect to me.

Lisa Chambers
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The now photo looks normal and just fine. If you want more muscle tone, then go get it, but you look fine as you are. That before photo is so harsh, so...haunting. Your mother gave birth to you because she wanted to, she wanted you to be here, experience things, love and be loved. None of that has anything to do with what your body weight is at any time during this life. Also jerks who make sounds like that are also pretty aware of what people think of them, so feel free to show them what you think of their behavior. I find a combo look of disgust - rbf - scowl - the queen disapproves/off with their heads - mom look tears people down to three year olds who just figured out they are about to get their business jammed. Own it. Love to you.

Non-New-Toni-An
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A lot of men like curvy or chubby women really, and they don't have the balls to admit it.

Lizzie the Crayon
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good Luck on your recovery, youre beautiful, and dont let some,snobby teenage humour try and change that. 👍

Sardonic Scribe
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

@recoveryforeva — My dear, you are ABSOLUTELY STUNNING in EVERY way! You are the proud owner of a body that has, quite literally, been through a war - and you have the scars to prove it. Not only do you have a gorgeously curvy figure, but your skin is glowing, your smile is magical and damn gurl, your fashion sense if en pointe! Love every inch of yourself every single day, because at the end of it all - it will always be YOU. MUCH love from a fellow struggler in Canada.

Catherine Spencer-Mills
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are beautiful. May I recommend christyharrison.com/foodpsych and the related Facebook group, Food Psych Podcast Listener Discussion. People who have been there and are Healthy at Every Size. Best wishes.

Ralph Burton
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Listen, you have beaten Anorexia so you ARE a winner, you are beautiful, I bet those guys were jealous of the way you look, just laugh at people like that. Be strong.

MK Unicorn (MAGGIE)
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are beautiful and amazing, those teens were just looking for attention. You go girl!

Chelle Snail
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are so beautiful!! <3 I am proud of you for sticking through it all and ignoring these pig snorting idiots. I too have a great respect for you :)

Ágota Schimanovszky (schagatha)
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Girl, you are beautiful!! No matter you'll gain or loose some weight, you will be just as beautiful. If you have curve, than use them and rule the world, 'cause you can! <3 And when you meet again brainless people, just smile and walk away, no matter how hard is that. If you don't give them what they expect, they'll loose. I'm so glad that you got here, I wish you the best, never give up! <3

Lori Toohey
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You look amazing and absolutely lovely. I'm very proud of you for fighting your demons!

Kay Grainge
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You look so beautiful, please find confidence in yourself as I think anyone who begs to differ probably has issues themselves.

Eric Mikalo
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

TBH she's not as fat as those poorly raised kids try to make her seem. And she is very beautiful, and emotionally strong ladies. We can all learn some vital lessons here. The most important one is that you should never judge someone on their apperance. You do not know what they have| are going through.

Maureen Donnelly Rousseau
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Doesn't matter what you look like what size you are my dear girl there will always be haters. Just remember you are fabulous just the way you!

E FourOFour
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

SHE IS NOT FAT. This is how normal women are supposed to look.

Rebekah
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Teens are a******s. I'm proud of you! (and side note.... hot damn! You have gorgeous eyes!)

Lizzie the Crayon
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey I'm a High Schooler!!! 😬 Lol though...kinda...but i see what you mean, these particular teens were really buttholes.

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Tone Kristoffersen
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are beautiful, never doubt it! And for the petty person «guaranteeing» your triglycerins and LDL must be too high; BS! I have always been this size (BMI 32) and never ever had anything but perfect results. I am a health professional, active with skydiving, yoga, and physical work. You can be big and super healthy too! Love and Live 💪

Nancy Kenaston
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You look AMAZING!!! I am SO glad you are here, learning to thrive, and speaking truth. Thank you for sharing a piece of your story with us. May you grow STRONGER & WISER every day! God wanted a YOU in this world, and I'm so glad He did.

Jessica butts
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am a healthcare provider do not listen to the people telling you to lose weight, the anorexia is 100x more deadly than being overweight/obese.

Jessica butts
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I unfortunately know exactly how this feels, but you are on the right path op! You look great! Those guys are a******s and their punishment will be living with themselves.

kayenne contreras
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are not fat you are a beautiful woman, those who make fun of others do it because of their own insecurities. Keep your head up and believe in yourself.

Kristine Cottrill
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are gorgeous! I struggled with eating disorders for 25 years. One day I woke up and said it's not worth it. My family and true friends love me no matter what.

Vannessa Bowes
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The fact that she could post all her progress tells me she has reached a point a little further to a positive life and a better mind set. If what they did does not bother u I am hopeful that everything else will just be a story to help others to a road of recovery and hope.

Dani_has_arrived <3
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are gorgeous, honestly body fat and health are quite different, you don't need to be slim to be healthy. And you don't need to be overweight to be unhealthy.

Dani_has_arrived <3
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am aware that this is quite late but just in case know that there are always people out there that will support you unconditionally

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Joseph Holtom
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are an AMAZING & BEAUTIFUL woman! Coming from a man who has suffered with an eating disorder for almost my entire life, you are someone to be admired & respected!

JoAnne Soper-Cook
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You look absolutely gorgeous. Just gorgeous. Don't listen to ignorant, nasty people. Love your beautiful self.

Lisa Gibson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish more young women understood and had the strength that you have. We are pressured to look perfect. Good for you for taking the steps to regain your Mental health. Keep up the amazing work!

Kat Hi
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stand up for yourself! I have Hoge respect for you. Keep on going. Don't let those asholes take you down. They are not worth it <3

June
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are beautiful! I know what you mean, and you have to pass through such things to completely understand what it is about. The truth is: you can do something about your weight or self-confidence, but can they do anything about their oversized stupidity?

Mary Mills-Brown
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are an inspiration. Often when people behave the way those teens did, it is because they have negative things going on in their own lives. Feel sorry for them and take strength in knowing you are a better person and getting stronger all the time. I predict amazing things happening in your future and you will deserve all of them.

Ravenjane Scythes MCC
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People can be ignorant, but that's THEIR problem. When you're on your own, inside your own head, it's difficult to process ignorant people, you'll get there you are inspiring and beautiful, keep reading thee replies and take on board the support you have. x

Jusi Jt Amo
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow she’s so beautiful and doesn’t even know it 😍😍😍😍

Aneese
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are not fat and who the hell cares if you are? Be YOU. The BEST YOU that you can be. That is all that matters. It is YOUR life to live, not theirs. Never mind the a******s. They are not worth mentioning. Karma will take care of them. You just keep on the path you made for yourself. Never mind the weeds along the way.

Louise Brigance
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Where ever your journey takes you, may you always find peace and joy. You look fine right now and be accepting of that. Good luck and go forward!!

Trish Greene
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are absolutely beautiful! Please don't let the bastards get you down. Obviously they have their own issues they can't deal with, hence they pick on others. You do you girl. Congrats!

Joyce Marinara
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We all have demons we battle on a daily basis and it sucks that the world can be so shallow and cruel. But, keep doing you and continue to be resilient to the bs that comes with some people! :)

Frozengeckolover
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are gorgeous and you deserve all the great adventures that life can offer. I admire you for all the progress you have made. You are strong and wonderful just like you are. Please don't wait until you think you are "perfect" to do the things you want to do in this life. You are perfect now because you are you. We only get one go around. Go on some adventures now. Don't let anyone stop you, including yourself.

Liz C
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well done on your recovery! Your enthusiasm and determination for your future were the reminder I needed today to not let my negative thoughts take hold. Thank you for sharing, you already have made a difference in my world.

Sol Veig
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Where on earth are you fat? You may be a bit(!) overweight but a long way away from fat!!! You look so much better now!

Nyree Williams
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are stunning! The BMI is a joke, btw. Keep working on yourself and your goals. That you had the courage to post this thread says a lot about your recovery.

jamie peeba
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like round figures. So do lots of other people. Stay strong Lady. You are awesome.......

White Lilly
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are a fighter.. don't care about those rude/ignorant/stupid teens on the streets.. you look absolutely beautiful 💓 and I am not being only nice, I am being honest..

Slune
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey! Don't be skeptical! You are just natural wonderful.....and I envy your cat and ice cream;) Stay cool and keep up your positive thoughts

Asia
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I cheer for you. Have two friends with eating disorders, one used to be so bad I made my peace with the fact that she'll die, but luckily she recovered (at least for now).

Magpie
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For some more information on this issue ( not a book that excludes anything ) try Fat is a Feminist Issue. by ( umm approx ) Susie Orbach. ..... More info is always good ? Why does our culture *still* focus so much on what women look like?

Ronda Jo Patane
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I spent most of my young life under weight. Now I struggle being over weight. But I don’t let it define me. I am beautiful as I am. But it is sad that today’s society would consider such a gorgeous being with curves as fat. I think you’re stunning.

Si
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5 years ago

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Kathryn Baylis
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You aren't fat, you're beautiful and curvy. Plus kind, intelligent, and strong. Perfect just the way you are. Anyone who disagrees with me can go f**k themself.

Eduardo Pereira
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To my eyes, you do not look fat. In your "now" photos you look very beautiful and, forgive me for saying so, very desirable. I respect you very much. Keep on going!

Full Name
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What sucks about anorexia (besides the fact it's a mental illness) is that it chemically "rots" your brain and can change it forever if you take it too far. I've seen it happen. It's definitely a mental health issue more than a bully issue. Yeah it's lame to be an a*****e and make pig noises (obviously) but that shouldn't be enough to push you to such and extreme. More attention needs to go to the mental health side because people act like if the bullying stops, these people would lead perfectly happy lives otherwise.

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hi there thanks for you comment. Please notice my anorexia happened a long time before the pig noise. Those noises were just a lill something to remind me I still have to work on my self esteem. Xoxo

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Biljana Malesevic
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

BMI 30 is a bit over, but she does not seem overweight at all, she is quite fit. It seems like a mistake in calculation or BMI is generally poor indicator of someone's possible weight issues. And yes, some people are clueless and stupid, and even if we all know that we let them sometimes get to us. There will always be someone who will try to hurt you for any stupid meaningless reason. Don't give that person any thought, they do not deserve it.

Russian Otaku
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5 years ago

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Such a disgusting outlook to people who had the courage to treat fats as they should be. Better to be like a concentration camp survivor then fat. Being fat has extremely more negatives and this disgusting r******d outlook on thinking being fat is ok is worse then encouraging smoking or minor drug use.

Reginald Joseph
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you need a hug. In the meantime, keep in mind how much damage your words can do.

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Sydni William
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5 years ago

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WTH IS WRONG WITH YOUR EYEBALLS??????? WHY ARE THEY SO WHITE?

Ben Smith
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5 years ago

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“Fatphobic?” LMAO. Sorry, you mean healthy. You took it to the extreme, glad you got help, but quit blaming others.

Lauren Kaufmann
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are you kidding me? healthy means eating healthy food and exercising to a healthy extent, not bullying those who look wider than them...

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Lotte
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have so much respect for her! I hope she will find confidence in her body because she look stunning!

Leekun
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Better to have a little meat on your bones and be healthy than being thin as a twig and close to death. Also, some teens are real s**theads. I know from experience. Trying to act cool by being rude and insulting when in reality they just look stupid. Don't mind them. Ignore the pathetic little idiots and love yourself because that's what you deserve

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

@AlphaPuck I agree that being overweighed isn't the most healthy option! Fortunately, my blood results are great! I cycle 17 miles on every week day and eat a lot of veggies and enough fruit! Unfortunately I am a huge stress and emotion eater and I do have a lot of binges besides my healthy eating pattern. I hope I will go back to a healthy bodyweight in the future, but a big difference between now and then is my mental health state. I no longer punish my body by hours of exercising on little to no food. I am able to live again. Lots of love, Eva xx

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Alexandra
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

i think you are beautiful just the way you are and don'tlet anyone give you doubts.

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All these beautiful and sweet comments are bringing me to tears. You guys are the ones who give the world hope, love and respect. You make the world a better place <3 Thanks guys for being awesome, the world needs more of you <3

Lizzie the Crayon
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are so beautiful, and you shoulsnt change, you are an amazinf person, no matter what some snobby teens think. 💗

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PyroarRanger
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not anorexic, but sometimes I feel so fat, and bulky. I've got a lot of dysphoria (not dysmorphia) from my body, and I sometimes limit what I eat because I feel fat. Then other times I'll eat a lot because I feel so thin, and I weigh 110 pounds, I'm 5'2 34" (5'3"), and I can't decide what I want. My stomach feels huge and I look down at my feet while I'm in the shower, and sometimes I can't see my knees, but my breasts make me cry because they feel so big. People say I shouldn't starve myself, but I feel like I need to, in order to keep myself happy. I want more weight so I don't feel thin, but I don't want it at the same time, because my breasts will grow with it... I'm sorry for taking your time for venting about my body issues, downvote me if you want to.

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You deserve the help you nees. Please go and find a place to talk about this problem. It is real and difficult. Hope you realise one day your body does not define you and you are good enough no matter what size you are ❤

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John R.
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is an absolute knockout!! It was their petty jealousy that they will never be even half this beautiful!! Live your best life, and don't ever let anyone tell you that you aren't good enough!!

Caryn Zent
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are certainly not fat. And you have beautiful skin. You have been through a lot and are still going through it. You are right, don't let the snorting idiots make you doubt yourself.

Margaret McFarland
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You mean something to the world now. You have shown tremendous courage not only by facing your demons, but by opening up about that struggling and speaking out against those thoughtless idiots. You made my hero list <3

Joshua L
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is absolutely gorgeous at BMI 30. That self-contentness on her face is the most stunning part of her. No matter the BMI, the most beautiful woman is a happy one. Anyone that could shame a woman they are with about her weight and be okay with their misery is a tragic individual that will never know love. I'm damn proud of her.

JillVille
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Kiddo, you are doing amazing! The things you have overcome are not for the weak. You are so STRONG!!! Don't let idiots get to you, they have no idea how much stronger you are mentally than they are.

Freya the Wanderer
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't cave in to artificial ideas about beauty. A century and change ago, fat was sexy because it meant you got enough to eat and thus had to be prosperous. Here's a word to add to your vocabulary: zaftig. It's from German and means "pleasingly plump."

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Marcia Ferris
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are a super hero! You do have a purpose and place in the world. You own you!

Bri Nicole
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As someone who has fully recovered from Anorexia, I'm so happy for you that you've realized your worth. You look SO beautiful and full of life now. Keep going. Don't let yourself fall back into Anorexia. You've seen how much better life is. Imagine when you're fully recovered. It's worth it. Ps. You're not fat so don't call yourself that!!!

Kesyra
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Body size aside (any size), the fact that you're making a statement and standing up for yourself is a sign of better self confidence already. Keep that goal in your sight, you're going to reach it!

John Carr
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I went through a long period of body hatred, social anxiety, self harm and depression. I still struggle with depression and self harm but I got to the stage where I no longer give a s**t about what people say or think about how I look. It's a long road so go- you are young and have one of the most beautiful smiles I've ever seen. Keep that chin up, the smile on, and the middle finger ready if someone says something disparaging. By the way, I'm a man. These things can happen to anyone - young/old/male/female. It's how strong you are that matters, and you are strong!

Cora-lee Reid
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You're actually ridiculously beautiful. Not just physically, but mentally too for having the courage to share your story. Humans constantly judge each other and it's so mean and unnecessary. Keep up your amazing progress!

Maggie Masters
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Girl! Love your curves! Those who don't mind matters and those who mind don't matter! You go girl stay strong

Trisha Haskett
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She tells my story. Once 100 pounds, I amazingly became pregnant.Caring more about my unborn child than myself I started eating. I then realized my soon the be Wasband only loved the weak, child like boney girl. When I weighed healthy 130 he cheated with another skinny, messed up girl. I'm an old lady now at 200 lbs. No man ever came near enough to hurt me again. I love me!

Foxxy
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are so strong. I hope one day you can be happy with yourself. BTW I think you look incredible.

HoffLensMetalHedLovesAnimalsUK
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are pretty as anything and have lovely sparkly eyes, easy for me to say but please don't listen to the idiots, YOU need to be happy with yourself and you have every reason to be. People will always project their happiness and flaws on to other people. Best of luck.

Sugar Latte
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is SOOO beautiful, just the way she is! I admire her!!! 😊

Violaine LB
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are not skinny and you know that, but you do look healthy and you look so much happier. Health comes in many sizes - I am myself fairly thin, but I eat c**p (about just enough of it, but c**p), and my mum who eats nice and healthy is actually overweight. Size is not always a reflection of health. You look fab anyway and eating c**p is better than eating nothing!! <3 Ignore the haters and look after yourself. Love xxx

Sarah Schwill
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honey, sorry to tell you but you are mit fat! You are a beautiful, healthy looking, young women. Boys like that are super insecure and they only feel strong in a group. Don’t bother... unfortunately there will always be stupid humans (women and men). Just stay true to yourself, you owe them nothing. You need to love you, that is the only thing that really matters. You are a great woman, and what you achieved in that young age is marvellous! Rock on 🤘

Doris Wilson
Community Member
5 years ago

As a former anorexic sufferer myself I understand where you are coming from. I am now a size 12 (UK) and I think you look beautiful. I just shown this to my husband and he says to never change who you are, there are people who will always be mean to validate their own existence and there are people who will love you for you and worship the ground you walk on! I have recently thrown out my scales, as long as my clothes still fit I am doing ok! And you will too! For every 10 people who are mean in the world there is one who will see the world in a beautiful way! <3

Rachael Marrast
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is tough in a superficial world to be happy and content with your own body/image, but in order to stay happy and sane we have to try our best. I applaud you for overcoming such a huge obstacle. You are fearfully and wonderfully made by God almighty and you are beautiful!! Keep working on being who you want to be and not who everyone thinks you should be.

Monika Soffronow
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bullying can have disastrous consecuences. The way I define bullying is this: any unrequested negative comment about the way look or the way you are is bullying. I honestly believe that a lot of people bully others daily without ever taking into account that what they are doing is quite simply bullying. The opposit of bullying is to give someone a compliment. After all, is a compliment not an unrequested positive comment on your person or appearance? "Recoveryforeva" is a great handle. I wish you the very best for the future, you really have come a long way.

UnicornHuman
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just wanted to pop down here to say that HER EYES AND SKIN AND HAIR ARE SO DAMN BEAUTIFUL LIKE WTF

Kim Lorton
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How sad. You never have to or need to justify yourself to anyone, or need their approval, to be you! The real problem, is them! Their mamas, never taught them the power of words, or the meaning of kindness. Probably neither love. You just keep being you, and forget about those a******s. And any other asssholes you encounter. Sometimes, the need to feel better. Makes them hurt others, shame them. Because they know no other way, or. How to ask for help. Next time some a*****e snorts or makes pig noises , stop and say, awww! Not too long out of your pigpen huh? Dont worry, you’ll learn English soon!

Katinka Min
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I lost a friend to anorexia. She looked lije the picture on the left and it was heartbreaking. I struggle with overeating and I know how hard it is to find a good balance with food. But being a bit on the fat side of things won't kill anybody (I am, too) whereas starving oneself will. I am very gla,d the poster is alive and on the way to a happier live. Live is worth living.

Lauren Bond
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

people are arseholes. its one of the biggest things i have come to terms with in life. they are arseholes, because they have nothing going on for themselves, they are scraping the bottom of the barrel of life having no plans to better themselves; they spend their days making fun of those who are struggling but are still going places. you are strong and beautiful and i hope one day i can be as strong as you are on my own journey.

Caren Johnson
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I miss my 86 lb frame often. An adult anorexic, gaining the weight back has been brutal to my self esteem. I remind myself.. I'm not breaking bones, my teeth are breaking and falling out anymore, and I am stronger than I have been ever because of yoga. It's sad that we have to feel we aren't perfect enough. Love you life now and let no one get in your way of who you are .

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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

thank you for your beautiful comment! You are amazing! Fighting an eating disorder is really hard and you got stronger and healthier which means you are a strong person. XOXOX keep on going

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Mindy Keys
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People are horrible all over. I am naturally thin and get told to 'eat a sandwich' and ;only dogs like bones, real men like curves'. Looks like we can't win, sister. Stay strong and remember when someone says something hateful to you it speaks volumes about them, and says not one syllable about you. Bless.

FABULOUS1
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is certainly the problem with our society and the way we think we have the right to shame someone no matter their appearance. While their are health issues with being over weight, why if someone is happy in their own skin does anyone have the right or audacity to put them down? You look amazing and healthy, and happy. It is hard to get past those with cruel intentions but you got this. Whatever is going to make you feel comfortable in your own skin should be your goal. i have struggled with my weight my entire life, even starving myself just to lose weight. But my outside appearance does not reflect the person I am inside, be you that is all that matters in this life.

Ed Souza
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey I was bullied too when in high school. I believe most people experienced it at some point. I'm not saying what those people did to her was justifiable, it was wrong. I'm glad she's doing well now.

Stephanie Gwynne Green
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are SOOOO MUCH MORE than your dress size. I send this message out to the universe. I have lost three stone plus and I don't hive a f**k what others think if me. What you see, is what you get, don't like it, move the f**k on. I don't care. I have physical and mental disabilities I am do F*****G PROUD of all my imperfections. I am what I am. These are gifts from my deseased mum, who I miss 24/7. Its a reminder telling me that she is with me everyday, and that's what my imperfections tell and give me. They are my security. XD. I will NEVER be ashamed of being I perfected, making mistakes ect. I am only human after all. Thus girl rock, and she uz just as beautiful as any other. Social media is a deseased concept and a dead one. Love and be you for you. No one is perfect.

Nichole Kae
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I made an account on here just so I could tell you that you are beautiful!! Although my issues aren’t nearly the magnitude that yours are, I hope that I can have the same strength you do to keep going forward. <3

borklaser
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Much love to you. I am 35 and have struggled with eating disorders since I was 15, I've weighed anywhere from 85 to 185 over the last 20 years. Always continue to work to improve yourself mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. ❤️

Lieselotte Pennings
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are beautiful and I disagree with you saying you are fat! Maybe you believe that you have a bit too much on you, but my definition of fat is not what you look like. Keep working on your mental health, that's the most important thing there is. Wish you the best!

Lynne Darroch
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Reminder that it says 1000x more about a person who would try to diminish another person - a stranger no less - for their personal amusement than the person they are commenting on. Behaviour and attitude are choices, unlike physical & mental conditions, and if for those choose to be sadistic and cruel, the universe usually takes care of people like that in the long run. I'm also sure they spent the day mocking skinny people, tall people, short people, "wrong colored" people, people with visible disabilities, and in private, each other.

Maggie Masters
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Girl! Love your curves! Those who dont mind matters and those who mind dont matter. You go girl

Daria Z
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well, I'm not a boy so I dunno if it counts but to me you look very nice and charming. From experience, I know that everyone has to fight their inner demons, and you seem to be an effective fighter :-)

Lila Launehase
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think this is "fat"! You have more flesh on your bones like one of "Heidi's Girls", but you are definitely not unhealthy obese. You have a beautiful smile and I wish you all the best for you way!

Stephanie Hewitt
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Your weight looks fine, you look beautiful. Don't let someone's ugly shade your beauty!

Elly Clifton
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You look so beautiful, and I'm so impressed by your attitude. Leave the pigs to their snorting, you are so much better than them.

Amy Pattie
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel her story! I looked skinny and healthy once but I could feel myself dying, and one day I decided I wanted to live and since then I became hungry again. I’m now heavier than I’ve ever been and also healthier than ever. She looks gorgeous and so much more full of life! Best wishes to you!

GamerGirl123
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are beautiful and I admire your strength to overcome challenges!

Jo Johannsen
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are fighting a hard battle, but it sounds like you have your head on straight. Best of luck achieving your goals and having some incredible adventures.

Sarah Locke
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hope she can see the problem with fat shaming is within the person who is doing the shaming. Much love to you and to continue your recovery, you look beautiful on the inside & out!

Valerie Lessard
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is not fat, this is slightly overweight. Nothing to worry about. You look gorgeous, but more importantly, you feel better.

Elisabeth Bergbom
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are so beautiful and have such inner strength, I will never be able to fathom. You go girrrrl!

Kuro Neko
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thanks for this, I had a similar problem in my youth; and am still honestly on the long road of recovery. I really hope you meet your goals and go on to be the best you <3

Katie and Jared Coates
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are so beautiful inside and out! The haters are insecure about something in their life. You have risen above!

Nataliia Portillo
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good for you! and don't let the haters bring you down... YOU LOOK GORGEOUS! Mental health is definitely a struggle for so many people, including myself. You are an inspiration! Keep on keeping on and just remember the haters hate cause they have nothing in their lives to be proud of, so they love to bring other people down cause it makes them feel bigger than they are. I hope you accomplish everything you set out to be and if you ever need a friend or words of encouragement DM me on insta @nattpb

AF1402
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Go you!!! It’s so true. And for what it’s worth, you can be fit and heavy, having curves definitely doesn’t stop you from having all the adventures in the world! Most important thing is health, and mental perhaps more than physical. Amazed by your recovery, and wish you all the best for your continued journey!!

Nikki D
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow, anorexia is no joke. Your before picture looks like my mom's back in the 70s, she got down to 80lbs at 5'7". Although she is recovered, she still has some strange eating habits. Best of luck on your journey, my mom is 64 and doing great and you will too.

Alexandra Iva
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You go girl ! Do not let anyone tell you off ! Be proud of your beautiful self and own it ! Much love <3

Serkan Cavdar
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you‘re looking great! don‘t let the insecurities of other take you down

Susan Geraghty
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Only people with deep insecurities make fun of others so that they can feel better about themselves. You are gorgeous!

Kate McCarty
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And you can attain a healthy weight. But those guys will still be a******s. Keep up the good work. The world is better with people like you lighting the way.

Diana Popova
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Please don't call yourself fat. You are not. To me, you look healthy and I can see your body is full of life :) I know it's hard to believe, because I used to be fat-shamed in school as well and I know that feeling sort of never goes away. Just bear in mind that there are more people out there who see you for how beautiful you really are than there are bullies (who you should actually feel sorry for).

Lvisman96
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so glad that you are on the road to recovery. It hurts my heart when beautiful women let the ugliness of the world define what they think of themselves. You say that you are not 'there' yet...yet, you are stronger than so many people ! I hope that you are incredibly proud of yourself ! You are an inspiration for the world.

Sandy
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You look absolutely stunning! Guys that do things like that have no self esteem and make themselves feel better by demeaning others, try and not let them affect how you feel about yourself, it only gives them power, they are bullies after all.

MysticSailora
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

she doesn't look fat to me! she looks normal, maybe not like people on tv, but normal sized in real life!!

Grace Wiebe
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wouldn't say she's "fat" & how she is now is definitely better than being a walking skeleton. There will always be insecure people who feel the need to display their insecurity with mean comments, but at the core, they feel worthless too. Hurting people hurt people. Broken people break people. Healed people heal people.

Iulia Kelly
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It happens to everyone. I was emaciated throughout my teens and twenties due to an autoimmune disease. People regularly said cruel things about my appearance. You have to ignore them. They aren’t psychologically sound individuals.

Christina Sersif
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And I'm sure the little bullies who snorted at you looked perfect as all bullies do.

Petra Grünwaldová
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel urge to tell you, that you're very beautiful and look much healthier than before!

Eliyahu Rooff
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Weight control is often almost impossible. My dear wife went from a size 22 to a size 8, and I understand what it takes. While the author may not be at her ideal weight, she's close enough that she can have a good life without worrying about health issues. As for those rude young men, all I can say is this: if someone hasn't asked for your opinion about their weight, appearance or clothing, don't offer it. You may be assured that the person knows exactly how much he or she wears, what she looks like and what she's wearing. Only exceptions are if someone is unzipped, has a large insect crawling on them, or has something stuck to their clothing that they can't see. Other than that, it's none of your business.

Elaine Dodge
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You already mean something to the world, lovely one! Don't wait till you reach some mark of the scale - go have those adventures NOW!

Christophe Beunens
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My message to anybody who cares what other people think of them : don't!! It does not matter if you are thin, fat, long, short, gay, black, green or have anything that falls beyond what other people think as "normal" : As long as you feel good in your skin, and you are happy : you are doing good! In your case, you are definately not fat, no matter what anybody said. But you are, from your comments, not entirely happy yet. I wish you a lot of courage, on finding this happiness. Remember : You are the most important person in your life!

Mel Michael
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Awwww she's beautiful. I hope she gets to the place where she can see herself the way I do.

ravenswood1000
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are gorgeous! Don't let the a******s get to you (and that is what they are, a******s).

Aryan Aryan
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She is very pretty, such great eyes and a wonderful smile. Don't pay attention to idiots, just be your beautiful self and enjoy life!

Ashley Thomson
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But this woman is so gorgeous??? Why is "thin" only ever considered attractive when in reality any size can be beautiful? It's more important to be healthy and happy than wreck the body to please some a*****e.

HellCat
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dearest... I know how you feel. At least partially. I've struggled with weight my entire life, and I've been bullied by my mother, my peers, random strangers. All I can say is that I wish I looked like you. Seeing what you've gone through is both heartbreaking and heartwarming because you did it! You are amazingly strong and beautiful and to those who even dare to glance at you sideways, just two words: F**K OFF! Much love to you, beautiful and strong girl! <3

Misty Ferguson
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are a beautiful young woman! People who bash other people are just very insecure, and they make themselves feel better by making others feel bad. And ps I think there is a difference between fluffy and fat! :) Curvy-vs-S...7223cf.png Curvy-vs-Skinny-5cca7f17223cf.png

Theamazingfrobo
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Girl you are fabulous!!! Thank you so much for sharing, I've been battling with depression and low self confidence about my own body since I was a little kid. Just like you I am getting the help I need and still have a long way to go. You are an amazing person and absolutely beautiful! Thank you so much again.

Freya the Wanderer
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What we really need is skinny-shaming. :D But seriously - we don't. Nobody should be shamed for his/her BMI.

Owiella Freddie
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OMG, you're gorgeous, girl! Those boys only snorted because their brains were not developed enough to form real words! ;)

Id row
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These people are meaningless in your life, they don't matter. You'll probably never even see them again. I just consider these people background noise to what I'm doing. Of course, you can always kick them in the nuts, too, if it'll make you feel better ;)

Adam K
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would just hug you. You are so far from fat, I think you look great.

Katerina Portokalia
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The problem with this story is that when they are posted, everyone is being nice. But walking down the street, that is a different story. Walking down the street the majority will turn their heads, either to look at you or away from you. Around here we all are nice and supporting, but out there, in the real world, the cruel fact is that if anyone gives you attention, it is to criticise. You are either thin and get cat called, or fat and get (sometimes literally) spit on. I don't know if you get the point, but ... well I hope you do. Anyway, as someone in the same position and roughly the same weight, I see you. And ps, you actually do look beautiful, it's not just people being nice.

Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

hi there! Thanks for commenting! I really feel you… Unfortunately a lot of people characterize fat/plussize people as lazy and unhealthy, although in my case I cycle 17 miles every week day and love veggies! I do have a lot of emotional binges, what's why I gained that much weight. I wish you the best in your journey of selflove and acceptence. To me, you are awesome! Lots of love xxx Eva

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Maria Rohlen
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm so impressed with how strong you are and how much happier you look now. You go girl, never let them drag you down to their level of insecurity!

Kate (She/Her)
Community Member
1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Much Respect! I love your personality! Don't let anyone keep you down, just hold your head high and keep going! You are Beautiful!!

Emma Jolivet
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It scares me because your photo from 2017 looks almost like me. I'm a professional ballet dancer, and the pressure they put on us to stay stick thin is extreme. You look incredible and healthy in those images!! I say "in those images" because I'm around 2 years late.

Little Swallow
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She might be not satisfied yet with her weight but I do find her really attractive

Marija Rencar Horvat
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Girl,you are beautiful,full of life and joy, young lady.The most important thing is that you feel good and happy in your body. Enjoy life every single day of your life. Embrace your body and mind because a lot of changes are ahead of you and you will face them with confidence and strength that is in you. Those guys don't deserve a comment. Let mi tell you(i am 51and a performing artist),they are insecure and scare as it gets. So chin up, and walk with pride, conficence and smile.

Beatrice
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I suffered from anorexia and bulimia. People call me curvy now. I don't feel good in my body and have huge struggles to accept it. But me too I'm mentally and physically at a better stage than I was while mylself starving or puging to death. You look great! I just wish people would mind their own damn business. They don't know what massive battle it is to overcome this sort of illnesses. At "least" you are making someone sad with this sorts of comments, at worst you throw someone under a bus, if you will. No, body positivity should not encourage to live unhealthy. But to encourage to accept people and their body as they are. Most weight problems are caused by mental health problems, it helps to be heard and accepted, being shamed and insulted does exactly nothing rather than making this persons life just even more challenging. I wish for your on your way all the best, but you are already doing so incredibly! Own it :)

Sara Price
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She say she still doesn't have a "healthy weight"... is that because she needs to gain more to fully stop the disordered eating? A person can be healthy at any size she is happy (except maybe with a BMI of 11).

Gone Acosta
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

10/10 would smash! Humor aside. Nothing wrong at all with how you look. And the most important thing is how you feel. Glad that you are on the path of owning your own happiness. Once you shut out the noise, life is better :)

KumagorouBeam
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

so how exactly are you fat? you made a huge change for the better and every hater can go f... him/herself ffs. way to go, i hope you make your dream come true in living your life to the fullest.

Kari Slater
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are NOT FAT!!! You are beautiful. I’m so proud of you for dragging yourself back from the brink of death. It is not an easy journey. Look at what you’ve accomplished. You are an amazing human.

Nostalgic Hyena
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There's a girl at my school who's overweight, and kids call her nasty names all the time. There's one boy in particular who does it a lot, and he was discussing with his friend that "she looks like Shrek had a baby with a whale", to which that kid started editing a picture of Shrek's face on a whale to show it to him. If you ask me, the real pigs are the kids making fun of her.

Fiona Toms-Yarnton
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

YOU are beautiful - your skin is clear, your eyes sparkle, your hair is lustrous - those who put you down are either blind or completely insensitive (probably both). You are lovely and deserve happiness.

Jennifer Nazario
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I used to be the same way. Focused on how I looked and so much so, it made me miserable. Because no matter what little I ate or how much I exercised, I felt like i looked worse than other people. They had the flat stomachs and I could never achieve that. But then, I had my first son. I ended up with a c section (emergency) and after almost dying, I realized the stomach I was left with was a symbol of how strong I really am. How they cut me but I didn't die. How I stopped breathing and yet, have my 3rd child now. Look back at your past. Wave at how weak you were and look in the mirror about how strong you ARE. AND KNOW, that will never be you again. I don't care what others think about me. Because my sons think I'm beautiful. And I feel beautiful. Because I see myself in them. And now can't believe how I ever thought I was ugly. Because they are such handsome boys.

Belinda Crum
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You look great. Some people are just a******s. It is good that you are getting your life on track. You do you! Don't worry about what other people think, as long as you're happy.

NanZ
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so happy that you are doing so much better than you were in 2017. If people thought before their words came flying out of their mouths, they would not do such damage to others. Their parents need to teach them better. You are strong and beautiful and I hope you achieve all of your goals. You look perfect to me.

Lisa Chambers
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The now photo looks normal and just fine. If you want more muscle tone, then go get it, but you look fine as you are. That before photo is so harsh, so...haunting. Your mother gave birth to you because she wanted to, she wanted you to be here, experience things, love and be loved. None of that has anything to do with what your body weight is at any time during this life. Also jerks who make sounds like that are also pretty aware of what people think of them, so feel free to show them what you think of their behavior. I find a combo look of disgust - rbf - scowl - the queen disapproves/off with their heads - mom look tears people down to three year olds who just figured out they are about to get their business jammed. Own it. Love to you.

Non-New-Toni-An
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A lot of men like curvy or chubby women really, and they don't have the balls to admit it.

Lizzie the Crayon
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good Luck on your recovery, youre beautiful, and dont let some,snobby teenage humour try and change that. 👍

Sardonic Scribe
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

@recoveryforeva — My dear, you are ABSOLUTELY STUNNING in EVERY way! You are the proud owner of a body that has, quite literally, been through a war - and you have the scars to prove it. Not only do you have a gorgeously curvy figure, but your skin is glowing, your smile is magical and damn gurl, your fashion sense if en pointe! Love every inch of yourself every single day, because at the end of it all - it will always be YOU. MUCH love from a fellow struggler in Canada.

Catherine Spencer-Mills
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are beautiful. May I recommend christyharrison.com/foodpsych and the related Facebook group, Food Psych Podcast Listener Discussion. People who have been there and are Healthy at Every Size. Best wishes.

Ralph Burton
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Listen, you have beaten Anorexia so you ARE a winner, you are beautiful, I bet those guys were jealous of the way you look, just laugh at people like that. Be strong.

MK Unicorn (MAGGIE)
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are beautiful and amazing, those teens were just looking for attention. You go girl!

Chelle Snail
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are so beautiful!! <3 I am proud of you for sticking through it all and ignoring these pig snorting idiots. I too have a great respect for you :)

Ágota Schimanovszky (schagatha)
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Girl, you are beautiful!! No matter you'll gain or loose some weight, you will be just as beautiful. If you have curve, than use them and rule the world, 'cause you can! <3 And when you meet again brainless people, just smile and walk away, no matter how hard is that. If you don't give them what they expect, they'll loose. I'm so glad that you got here, I wish you the best, never give up! <3

Lori Toohey
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You look amazing and absolutely lovely. I'm very proud of you for fighting your demons!

Kay Grainge
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You look so beautiful, please find confidence in yourself as I think anyone who begs to differ probably has issues themselves.

Eric Mikalo
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

TBH she's not as fat as those poorly raised kids try to make her seem. And she is very beautiful, and emotionally strong ladies. We can all learn some vital lessons here. The most important one is that you should never judge someone on their apperance. You do not know what they have| are going through.

Maureen Donnelly Rousseau
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Doesn't matter what you look like what size you are my dear girl there will always be haters. Just remember you are fabulous just the way you!

E FourOFour
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

SHE IS NOT FAT. This is how normal women are supposed to look.

Rebekah
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Teens are a******s. I'm proud of you! (and side note.... hot damn! You have gorgeous eyes!)

Lizzie the Crayon
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey I'm a High Schooler!!! 😬 Lol though...kinda...but i see what you mean, these particular teens were really buttholes.

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Tone Kristoffersen
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are beautiful, never doubt it! And for the petty person «guaranteeing» your triglycerins and LDL must be too high; BS! I have always been this size (BMI 32) and never ever had anything but perfect results. I am a health professional, active with skydiving, yoga, and physical work. You can be big and super healthy too! Love and Live 💪

Nancy Kenaston
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You look AMAZING!!! I am SO glad you are here, learning to thrive, and speaking truth. Thank you for sharing a piece of your story with us. May you grow STRONGER & WISER every day! God wanted a YOU in this world, and I'm so glad He did.

Jessica butts
Community Member
1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am a healthcare provider do not listen to the people telling you to lose weight, the anorexia is 100x more deadly than being overweight/obese.

Jessica butts
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I unfortunately know exactly how this feels, but you are on the right path op! You look great! Those guys are a******s and their punishment will be living with themselves.

kayenne contreras
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are not fat you are a beautiful woman, those who make fun of others do it because of their own insecurities. Keep your head up and believe in yourself.

Kristine Cottrill
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are gorgeous! I struggled with eating disorders for 25 years. One day I woke up and said it's not worth it. My family and true friends love me no matter what.

Vannessa Bowes
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The fact that she could post all her progress tells me she has reached a point a little further to a positive life and a better mind set. If what they did does not bother u I am hopeful that everything else will just be a story to help others to a road of recovery and hope.

Dani_has_arrived <3
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are gorgeous, honestly body fat and health are quite different, you don't need to be slim to be healthy. And you don't need to be overweight to be unhealthy.

Dani_has_arrived <3
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am aware that this is quite late but just in case know that there are always people out there that will support you unconditionally

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Joseph Holtom
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are an AMAZING & BEAUTIFUL woman! Coming from a man who has suffered with an eating disorder for almost my entire life, you are someone to be admired & respected!

JoAnne Soper-Cook
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You look absolutely gorgeous. Just gorgeous. Don't listen to ignorant, nasty people. Love your beautiful self.

Lisa Gibson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I wish more young women understood and had the strength that you have. We are pressured to look perfect. Good for you for taking the steps to regain your Mental health. Keep up the amazing work!

Kat Hi
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stand up for yourself! I have Hoge respect for you. Keep on going. Don't let those asholes take you down. They are not worth it <3

June
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are beautiful! I know what you mean, and you have to pass through such things to completely understand what it is about. The truth is: you can do something about your weight or self-confidence, but can they do anything about their oversized stupidity?

Mary Mills-Brown
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are an inspiration. Often when people behave the way those teens did, it is because they have negative things going on in their own lives. Feel sorry for them and take strength in knowing you are a better person and getting stronger all the time. I predict amazing things happening in your future and you will deserve all of them.

Ravenjane Scythes MCC
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People can be ignorant, but that's THEIR problem. When you're on your own, inside your own head, it's difficult to process ignorant people, you'll get there you are inspiring and beautiful, keep reading thee replies and take on board the support you have. x

Jusi Jt Amo
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4 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow she’s so beautiful and doesn’t even know it 😍😍😍😍

Aneese
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are not fat and who the hell cares if you are? Be YOU. The BEST YOU that you can be. That is all that matters. It is YOUR life to live, not theirs. Never mind the a******s. They are not worth mentioning. Karma will take care of them. You just keep on the path you made for yourself. Never mind the weeds along the way.

Louise Brigance
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Where ever your journey takes you, may you always find peace and joy. You look fine right now and be accepting of that. Good luck and go forward!!

Trish Greene
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are absolutely beautiful! Please don't let the bastards get you down. Obviously they have their own issues they can't deal with, hence they pick on others. You do you girl. Congrats!

Joyce Marinara
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We all have demons we battle on a daily basis and it sucks that the world can be so shallow and cruel. But, keep doing you and continue to be resilient to the bs that comes with some people! :)

Frozengeckolover
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are gorgeous and you deserve all the great adventures that life can offer. I admire you for all the progress you have made. You are strong and wonderful just like you are. Please don't wait until you think you are "perfect" to do the things you want to do in this life. You are perfect now because you are you. We only get one go around. Go on some adventures now. Don't let anyone stop you, including yourself.

Liz C
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Well done on your recovery! Your enthusiasm and determination for your future were the reminder I needed today to not let my negative thoughts take hold. Thank you for sharing, you already have made a difference in my world.

Sol Veig
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Where on earth are you fat? You may be a bit(!) overweight but a long way away from fat!!! You look so much better now!

Nyree Williams
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are stunning! The BMI is a joke, btw. Keep working on yourself and your goals. That you had the courage to post this thread says a lot about your recovery.

jamie peeba
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I like round figures. So do lots of other people. Stay strong Lady. You are awesome.......

White Lilly
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are a fighter.. don't care about those rude/ignorant/stupid teens on the streets.. you look absolutely beautiful 💓 and I am not being only nice, I am being honest..

Slune
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hey! Don't be skeptical! You are just natural wonderful.....and I envy your cat and ice cream;) Stay cool and keep up your positive thoughts

Asia
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I cheer for you. Have two friends with eating disorders, one used to be so bad I made my peace with the fact that she'll die, but luckily she recovered (at least for now).

Magpie
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For some more information on this issue ( not a book that excludes anything ) try Fat is a Feminist Issue. by ( umm approx ) Susie Orbach. ..... More info is always good ? Why does our culture *still* focus so much on what women look like?

Ronda Jo Patane
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I spent most of my young life under weight. Now I struggle being over weight. But I don’t let it define me. I am beautiful as I am. But it is sad that today’s society would consider such a gorgeous being with curves as fat. I think you’re stunning.

Si
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5 years ago

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Kathryn Baylis
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You aren't fat, you're beautiful and curvy. Plus kind, intelligent, and strong. Perfect just the way you are. Anyone who disagrees with me can go f**k themself.

Eduardo Pereira
Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To my eyes, you do not look fat. In your "now" photos you look very beautiful and, forgive me for saying so, very desirable. I respect you very much. Keep on going!

Full Name
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What sucks about anorexia (besides the fact it's a mental illness) is that it chemically "rots" your brain and can change it forever if you take it too far. I've seen it happen. It's definitely a mental health issue more than a bully issue. Yeah it's lame to be an a*****e and make pig noises (obviously) but that shouldn't be enough to push you to such and extreme. More attention needs to go to the mental health side because people act like if the bullying stops, these people would lead perfectly happy lives otherwise.

Community Member
5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hi there thanks for you comment. Please notice my anorexia happened a long time before the pig noise. Those noises were just a lill something to remind me I still have to work on my self esteem. Xoxo

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Biljana Malesevic
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5 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

BMI 30 is a bit over, but she does not seem overweight at all, she is quite fit. It seems like a mistake in calculation or BMI is generally poor indicator of someone's possible weight issues. And yes, some people are clueless and stupid, and even if we all know that we let them sometimes get to us. There will always be someone who will try to hurt you for any stupid meaningless reason. Don't give that person any thought, they do not deserve it.

Russian Otaku
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5 years ago

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Such a disgusting outlook to people who had the courage to treat fats as they should be. Better to be like a concentration camp survivor then fat. Being fat has extremely more negatives and this disgusting r******d outlook on thinking being fat is ok is worse then encouraging smoking or minor drug use.

Reginald Joseph
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

you need a hug. In the meantime, keep in mind how much damage your words can do.

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Sydni William
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5 years ago

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WTH IS WRONG WITH YOUR EYEBALLS??????? WHY ARE THEY SO WHITE?

Ben Smith
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5 years ago

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“Fatphobic?” LMAO. Sorry, you mean healthy. You took it to the extreme, glad you got help, but quit blaming others.

Lauren Kaufmann
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5 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Are you kidding me? healthy means eating healthy food and exercising to a healthy extent, not bullying those who look wider than them...

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