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Parents Kick Out Their Daughter For Coming Out As Trans, Their DIL Gets Revenge On Them That Ends With Them Having To Sell Their House
There might be some struggles that every family has to overcome or situations where people close to each other don’t actually see eye-to-eye on things. Usually, when these cases happen, family members find a way to solve these problems, but not everyone is successful in finding the right solution. That is what happened to Reddit user @LivingBunch6371, who decided to share some family drama. The woman revealed how she found a way to teach her in-laws a lesson after their kicked out their 18-year-old daughter because she came out as transgender. This enraged her parents who then threw her out without any things, money, or documents.
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The user started her story by explaining how she and her husband had to take care of her 18-year-old sister-in-law after she was kicked out of her parents’ house without her things, documents and money. The parents didn’t take the news that their kid is transgender well, so they decided to cut all ties with her, not allowing her to take any of her things; they cleared out her bank account where she had her own savings and sold her car.
One Reddit user decided to share a complicated family situation that ended in her plotting a revenge plan against her in-laws
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The woman shared that her sister-in-law was kicked out of the house after she came out as transgender
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Other relatives, including the narrator, her husband, and her brother-in-law were shocked by the parents’ behavior. Their actions made the rest of the family stop talking to them, but the woman didn’t think that this was enough of a punishment knowing that they not only turned their back against their own kid but also tried to ruin her life in every way possible. So she came up with a plan that also involved her workplace.
After not being able to bring her in-laws to sense, the narrator came up with the idea to sabotage their business
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The narrator revealed that her workplace was a client of a business operated by her father-in-law. After this incident, the woman talked with her boss about it and he suggested that if she found a new place from which they could buy their supplies, they could switch to them. The woman took some extra time to work on this task and found someone more suitable for their company. But instead of going to her boss right away, the narrator revealed that she waited until her in-laws started to remodel their home and would need all the finances to cover it.
The woman took some time to find a new business that could provide supplies to her workplace that used her in-laws’ services
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When the timing was right, her company switched to a new client because they didn’t have an agreement to stick with her father-in-law’s business, so this way he couldn’t do anything about the situation. This change resulted in her father-in-law having to sell their house in order to save their business. The woman also revealed that after that, they weren’t able to buy a new house and are still upset about the whole revenge plan taking place.
The plan resulted in them having to sell their house as their business had flopped
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A lot of people online were shocked by the parents’ decision to disown their daughter, so they agreed that the way the narrator handled the situation was great. Users questioned the parents and their choices, not understanding why and how they could do this to their daughter. What do you think about this situation? Don’t forget to leave your thoughts in the comments down below!
People online couldn’t believe that the parents turned their back against their daughter
So they thought that the user’s revenge plan was the right thing to do in order to teach the parents a lesson
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deanna woods 3 years ago
My parents told my siblings and I that all they want for us is for us to be happy. They told us that if we were a member of the LGBTQ+ community that they would love us the same. I don't understand how these parents could not only throw their daughter out but also take everything away from her. They were essentially setting her up to fail hoping that would change how she feels. She is so blessed to have such amazing siblings and siblings in law. Children are not put on this earth for their parents to abandon them when times get tough. Children are gifts from God and it is a parents job to love them unconditionally.
v 3 years ago
Religion. People put more love and devotion into an imaginary thing than they do the flesh and blood people right in front of them. It doesn't even matter if that person is there own flesh and blood.
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Suzi Q 3 years ago
Exactly! Children aren't there to live the life they choose. It's awful how these judgmental parents think they can dictate who their children love or who they want to be. They acted on hate against their own child. It's hard to imagine that hate against the LGBT+ can be stronger than the love of their own child. Something is seriously wrong with those parents. They deserve what they got.
Chris Hutchinson 3 years ago
I agree totally with what you say! We told our kids that there was nothing they could do that would stop us loving them. We are still very close as they enter their thirties and I cannot think of any other way I would want our lives!
The Red Panda (she/her) 3 years ago (edited)
Whoever these parents are, I hope someone comes along and f**ks up their lives even more. I am transgender and lesbian and have heard enough of these stories to hate people who would do this with every particle in my body. That is just evil, and those parents/in-laws deserve whatever is coming to them. EDIT: Everyone discounting Ryan Parker, Istax, and Devil's Advocate, thank you for being so supportive and defending me. The aforementioned transphobes, go f**k off.
Lukas-not-Luca (he/him) 3 years ago
Can't reply directly to devil's advocate, so I'll do it here. First off, Red Panda, I fully support you. I'm also trans and people like them... *sigh*. Now, Devil's Advocate, I'm speaking to you. She didn't decide anything. Your assigned gender at birth and gender identity has nothing to do with your sexuality. To put it simply- gender is who you want to have sex as, sexuality is who you want to have sex with. So, using the label of transgender woman and lesbian, we can assume (though this may not be the case), that she wants to have sex as a girl, with a girl. My labels, being a transgender guy and bisexual, mean I want to have sex as a guy with both guys and girls (and any other gender, I just use the term bisexual or queer). Hope that helps!
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Say What 3 years ago
You're kidding, right? They didn't simply disagree, they did everything in their power to ruin her life including making her homeless and stealing all her money. Also, you're a complete hypocrite for calling the commenters FULL of hate for simply disagreeing with the parents. You're an even bigger hypocrite for giving a pass to the parents who are FULL of hate for their daughter. Your bias is astounding.
Lukas-not-Luca (he/him) 3 years ago
What the actual f**k. There are no f*****g decisions. I'm trans and trust me if I had the choice?! I'd never choose this. Each day is a living hell because I'm f*****g trapped in a body that isn't mine. It's not a f*****g choice, and it's not a mental disease. Maybe, like being queer, it was ORIGINALLY classified as a mental disorder, but I assure you, it's not. So, maybe f**k off.
and_a_touch_of_the_’tism 1 year ago (edited)
Fućk off. Also, deliberately misgendering someone is considered hate speech and harassment.
Brian bell 3 years ago
Just to clarify part 2: She was born mentally female at birth, biologically male. Made NO decision whatsoever to "become" anything but who she already was. Don't be confused. Think about your own conceptions of your own gender and your own sexuality and how nobody has a "right" to question those feelings, act accordingly with others.
Brian bell 2 years ago
Ah, sorry about the double wording. Prior to physically transitioning, a (binary) transgender person in mentally one gender, while physically another. They owe nobody an explanation or a reason. Exactly like anyone born without the incongruence. Thus, whatever that person TELLS another that their pronouns are should be respected for that.
The Red Panda (she/her) 2 years ago
That is a complicated question to answer, but I'll pretend you aren't a transphobe and answer anyway. Mentally or psychologically female is how you identify, biologically female is a combination of physically and genetically female.
Rachael Sampson 3 years ago (edited)
Good grief you're dumb. No she was born with a male body but she was always female. And she only likes girls, so that makes her a gay woman. How is that hard to figure out. Gender identity and sexual orientation are not the same thing.
LynzCatastrophe 3 years ago (edited)
Why are people down voting Devil's comment here? If someone doesn't actually understand, then educate them! I grew up in a very small minded small town, I had no idea there was anything beyond the world besides male/female straight through, nobody told me, nobody taught me, I had no examples. I moved to a big city when I went to college and had MANY questions because suddenly the world got a lot bigger. I didn't have a single clue how anything worked. Just like this commenter who probably doesn't know.
ChickyChicky 3 years ago
Because Devil says this kind of s**t all the time, to be a shitty s**t face, not because they don't actually understand. They constantly like to make comments that stress that the person is ActUALly whatever they were assigned at birth. This "person" is on their own anti-trans crusade. "Just to clarify....you're wrong about your gender and I am right."
Ryan Parker 3 years ago
So when you got to the liberal city, you got brainwashed. That's what happened.
aroace man, but german 🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦 3 years ago
my god, this is from a month ago, and even i find this stupid, to help you (through i may have been late) here is the definition of gender. Gender is the range of characteristics pertaining to femininity and masculinity and differentiating between them. Depending on the context, this may include sex-based social structures (i.e. gender roles) and gender identity. [wikipedia] and here is the DICTIONARY DEFINITION. either of the two sexes (male and female), especially when considered with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones. The term is also used more broadly to denote a range of identities that do not correspond to established ideas of male and female. hope that helps.
Dorlinda Chong 3 years ago
Your perception of your gender (a misnomer, technically, since true 'gender' is a language term, pertaining to words that contain a reference to sex not inherent in the object itself, like "La pluma" (female gender, for a pen), however, it was appropriated to mean how one feels ones sex is, while ones attraction to another person is defined by sexuality, ie heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual. So while one can be attracted to the 'correct' sex, one can still not feel that they are the correct gender, and having the proper body for the gender they feel, is more important for their mental stability than conforming to society's mores.
Kim Lorton 3 years ago
If the sister in law was 18 when they kicked her out, her parents committed theft by taking her savings! It was not theirs and they should be giving her that money back, plus interest! That is the worst thing I've heard in a long while of parental behavior. I am so glad she is doing well and has love in her life, and the family she needs!
Monday 3 years ago
The law is a bit grey on those areas, especially if she shared a bank account with her parents (it mentions a joint account in the story). Since they were equal owners of the account they had rights to the money, so it legally isn't theft even though realistically it totally is.
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Joe Reaves 3 years ago
If it's a joint account one party can empty it without the consent of the other unfortunately. Its why so often one spouse cleans the other out before a divorce if they're an asshole.
anarkzie 3 years ago
Wait, if your kids are under that age you can legally steal their money? I did not know that was a thing.
Mad Dragon 3 years ago (edited)
Unfortunately, in the US, if a person is under the age of 18, their parents can legally take money from them without permission, unless the money is held in a trust and the parent abuses the funds. It may not be ethical in most cases, but is is legal.
Mad Dragon 3 years ago
That is different. She had a joint account that her parents' names were on. In that case, they can take all the money out without her permission, just as she could do the same without their permission. It's the same trick some underhanded people use to divert funds before serving divorce papers on their spouse.
Anna Nowak 3 years ago
The really sad thing about that story is that they probably still love her in some twisted way and think they did a good thing. Many of that kind of parents believe that their child has "chosen a wrong and sinful lifestyle" and that by kicking them out they do them a favour. Motivating them to "come back to their senses" or something. It couldn't be further from the truth.
Ryan Parker 3 years ago
Oh yeah! Absolutely for the parents as well!! That kind of behavior will have a negative affect on everyone in their family, I'm sure!!
Got Myself 4 Dwarves 3 years ago
My 4 kids can live their lives to make them happy and content, as long as they don't become serial killers, I've got their back.
Roger Smallman 3 years ago
My darling eldest child came out as trans last year (m to f) and I was completely okay with it. My ex, on the other hand, did the "oh I bet your father is some proud of you!" and I was, the suicide rate of young people in the LGBTQ+ community is very high because of family reactions. My thought is "this is my kid, MY kid, I loved them from the first time I saw them on the ultrasound screen and that love has only grown over the years watching this wonderful child grow, this is just another stage of growth for them"
xxkittyxx00 3 years ago
my dad is very much like you and also thank you for supporting him not many people support people like him (and me) and yea your right suicide rates are through the roof because of LGBTQ reactions i almost killed myself as well cause my friends started hating me for being lesbian cause they thought it was weird
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Apollo Brackady 3 years ago
Thank you!!! People like you help me keep hope about supportive families existing :D
VeninTheNonBinaryRogue 3 years ago
Your entire existence is a f****d up phase that could last forever.
xxkittyxx00 3 years ago
I'm a very very strong member of the LGBTQ and me being only 13 and having already told my dad although I was very scared he was fine with it like I always say ITS THE PERSON NOT THEIR PARTS so if your a non-supporter come fight me because people should love whoever they want like c'mon who cares you only care that they are LGBTQ because your looking at em WHY WOULD YOU TAKE EVERYTHING FROM HER ANYWAYS? oh that's right you didn't take everything cause she still has a heart unlike you
Lyza Kraynek 3 years ago
We need as many of you as possible, keep standing your ground and staying strong & keep smiling, fellow Warrior 🤜
Jesse Ferland 3 years ago
People like this should never be parents. Screw your outdated religious values, your children should come first.
Sky Render 3 years ago
I'm certain this exact story was posted to BP under a different title just a week or two ago... I mean it's still interesting, of course. Just a bit strange to have it pop up again so quickly.
CrunChewy McSandybutt 3 years ago
Judging from how all of their kids reacted, I'm guessing there was a whole lot of shitty behavior from the parents and this was the very large stick that broke the camel's back.
Karis Ravenhill 3 years ago
Brilliant revenge. To the Big_Bad_Boogeyman's comment above where he can't fathom how a parent can just suddenly not want/stop loving their child, the problem is that these types of parents do not, and have never, loved that child. They just 'had' the child through circumstance and kept it, but doesn't mean they ever loved it (most i've seen it's because these parents don't even know HOW to love another human being), so when they want to chuck the child away like a piece of garbage, it's incredibly easy to be so malicious.
Katinka Min 3 years ago
Kicking a child out is bad enough but stealing its money??? Did the police get involved?
Lyn Moffett 3 years ago
They are horrible bstrds and they deserve every piece of bad luck they get. Could your sister in law not have them arrested for stealing her money? She saved it up. Not them. Rotten bstrds.
Lauren Caswell 3 years ago
He cannot, he has already turned into a flower. Don't worry though Ryan, it's 'just a phase'. That's what they told Narcissus 😄
Frankenfrog 3 years ago
How sick in the head do you have to be to screw your own child over just because you can't accept their true self.
Denise Lewis 3 years ago
my story is about getting pregnant my mother thought this was a good time to throw me out it was feb below zero i lived in my car for three weeks in the library parking lot i had ten dollars to my name i finally went to see my father they were divorced yeah he took me in until i ended up in the hospital in labor it was way to soon so they kept me he showed up with some food from mc Donalds and informed me that there will be no babies living in his house he could have told me this right from the start so i could have figured something out not everyone get's good parents and yes i was the youngest we are not spoiled s**t rolls down hill
Apollo Brackady 3 years ago
I hate that people can be this terrible :( my family isn’t exactly supportive but I thank God every day that they didn’t kick me out.
Seabeast 3 years ago
The lesson here for anyone planning to come out to their parents and not sure how they'll take it is, wait until you're old enough to have a bank account in your own name, put any money you've saved into that, move your documents to a safe deposit box, and only tell them after you've done all that. Just in case they behave like these people did.
Random Anon 3 years ago
Some people don't deserve kids. And guess what, now they practically no longer have any.
Faith Hurst-Bilinski 3 years ago
I actively try to keep my adult kids in my life. They have their own lives and I faintly remember what it was like to be young and starting out. They are busy and it is a time when I miss them terribly. I do not understand any parent who does not want their own offspring in their lives.
Amir Ahmed Asif 3 years ago
Taking money from joint account, the money that daughter saved working -is stealing. By law, one of the joint owners can take it, cannot be prosecuted. But, it is a sin. If they believed in higher power, how can they steal the fruit of someone else's labor? This is hypocrisy.
Hugh Walter 3 years ago
What annoys me about this is the ignorance, not only have all forms of alternate sexual identity always been there, but they are becoming more prevalent, in part because of the Human-related, hormone-mimicking polymer pollution in the environment and the food chain - that's just boring-old science! And in part due to the freedoms to be yourself inherent in free, democratic societies - that's just boring-old sociology! Every parent should be ready to be supportive of any LGBTQI+ change or issue in a child of theirs.
alloutbikes@yahoo.com 3 years ago
No one "chooses" to be transgender. They choose to accept what they know and act accordingly. Just like a male picks out his pants and shirt not his skirt because he feels comfortable. So sorry for people being judgmental. I have problems with pronouns when speaking with someone dressing differently than their assigned gender. Are they trans or cross dressing? No disrespect just confused.
Lukas-not-Luca (he/him) 3 years ago
If you're confused, the best bet is to just ask the person their pronouns. Most will greatly appreciate it! I'm a trans guy, but I choose to still wear skirts and dresses, simply because I like them! You can be a transwoman and still be a tomboy, or a transmale and still be a femboy (roseboy? I heard somewhere that some people may consider femboy offensive? idk I use it for myself). When in doubt, just ask!
Load More Replies... Frannie Kaplan 3 years ago
8k is not q joke. I work full time and it took me a year to save that because cost of living is high here. Sounds like my narc parent on one of her rampages
Anagram margana 3 years ago (edited)
Another fake/made up story. Some things just don’t add up.
Thomas brennan 3 years ago (edited)
Totally, the most glaring part is the tone of voice. If you read it back it is written the way a young teenager speaks, not a 20-30 year old woman.
Brooklyn 3 years ago
I really dont want to be mean, rude, or offend anyone in any way, but why are so many people all of a sudden coming out LGBTQ+ ?? Like, there always were LGBTQ+ people, but not like this many...
Alexis Draskinis 3 years ago
Probably because, for reasons known to them, they havent felt safe doing so or didnt think they would be supported if they did. Coming out is a huge deal so you feel like the people who love/support you would no longer do that just because of who you are or who you love, most people would think twice about doing it. It can end up being a complete life overhaul & thats def something you need to be sure you are ready for. In the best case scenario, its simply because they're sick of not feeling like they can be themselves & want to finally do so...
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and_a_touch_of_the_’tism 1 year ago
Thank you for asking politely. Mostly, because it’s become much safer to do so, and also it’s getting more attention than before.
aroace man, but german 🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦 3 years ago
they always have existed. the reason so many people come out now is because now we have terms for it, like being asexual now, was just "not finding the right person" or "lonely" then!
Apollo Brackady 3 years ago
People (most of them) are more supportive now and we don’t have to hide who we are as much :) hope that answers your question
anarkzie 3 years ago
Society is more accepting of LGBTQ+ people now. I'm an Atheist, this is not a problem in the UK where I live, so it's not something I need to hide, If I lived in Saudi Arabia or some place I may need to be careful of who I tell as some people could react negatively to it. With LGBTQ+ people, they use to have to hide now they do not.
Walking On Sunshine 3 years ago
Yeah try not to mention Bible figures while you're spreading your hate.
lazy panda 3 years ago
I don't think "petty" quite covers kicking out your child and then taking their money and their car though...
Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger 3 years ago
If you tolerate intolerance, you become its enabler. Actions have consequences. Seriously, don't tolerate s**t like this and don't push back, because "they are from a different generation", "everyone is entitled to their opinion", yadda yadda. These people went out of their way to hurt their daughter, eff them.
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XSpooky_Mint 3 years ago
Sometimes ya gotta give karma a little push, the parents got exactly what they deserved
Viviane 3 years ago (edited)
@ Deja Katz: You're free to show kindness to anyone who robbed you of your money, documents, possessions, place to live, etc. I'd focus mental energy on the people who reached out in my greatest need, not the ones who acted as if they'd be indifferent if I died on the street.
Hayhaypaula 3 years ago
They didn't crash the business. They just took their business elsewhere. Did you read the article?
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Gaby Almodovar 3 years ago
I don't know, what exactly was that business, but sure was a small one, if can crush just from lacking one partner. So, it's not like there were shareholders, who lost a lot. It was most likely a family business with the very minimum of employees, who sure found another workplace. The parents just got as the Bible says: "fracture for fracture, eye for eye, tooth for tooth; whatever injury he has given a person shall be given to him" - Leviticus 24:20
deanna woods 3 years ago
My parents told my siblings and I that all they want for us is for us to be happy. They told us that if we were a member of the LGBTQ+ community that they would love us the same. I don't understand how these parents could not only throw their daughter out but also take everything away from her. They were essentially setting her up to fail hoping that would change how she feels. She is so blessed to have such amazing siblings and siblings in law. Children are not put on this earth for their parents to abandon them when times get tough. Children are gifts from God and it is a parents job to love them unconditionally.
v 3 years ago
Religion. People put more love and devotion into an imaginary thing than they do the flesh and blood people right in front of them. It doesn't even matter if that person is there own flesh and blood.
Load More Replies... Suzi Q 3 years ago
Exactly! Children aren't there to live the life they choose. It's awful how these judgmental parents think they can dictate who their children love or who they want to be. They acted on hate against their own child. It's hard to imagine that hate against the LGBT+ can be stronger than the love of their own child. Something is seriously wrong with those parents. They deserve what they got.
Chris Hutchinson 3 years ago
I agree totally with what you say! We told our kids that there was nothing they could do that would stop us loving them. We are still very close as they enter their thirties and I cannot think of any other way I would want our lives!
The Red Panda (she/her) 3 years ago (edited)
Whoever these parents are, I hope someone comes along and f**ks up their lives even more. I am transgender and lesbian and have heard enough of these stories to hate people who would do this with every particle in my body. That is just evil, and those parents/in-laws deserve whatever is coming to them. EDIT: Everyone discounting Ryan Parker, Istax, and Devil's Advocate, thank you for being so supportive and defending me. The aforementioned transphobes, go f**k off.
Lukas-not-Luca (he/him) 3 years ago
Can't reply directly to devil's advocate, so I'll do it here. First off, Red Panda, I fully support you. I'm also trans and people like them... *sigh*. Now, Devil's Advocate, I'm speaking to you. She didn't decide anything. Your assigned gender at birth and gender identity has nothing to do with your sexuality. To put it simply- gender is who you want to have sex as, sexuality is who you want to have sex with. So, using the label of transgender woman and lesbian, we can assume (though this may not be the case), that she wants to have sex as a girl, with a girl. My labels, being a transgender guy and bisexual, mean I want to have sex as a guy with both guys and girls (and any other gender, I just use the term bisexual or queer). Hope that helps!
Load More Replies... Say What 3 years ago
You're kidding, right? They didn't simply disagree, they did everything in their power to ruin her life including making her homeless and stealing all her money. Also, you're a complete hypocrite for calling the commenters FULL of hate for simply disagreeing with the parents. You're an even bigger hypocrite for giving a pass to the parents who are FULL of hate for their daughter. Your bias is astounding.
Lukas-not-Luca (he/him) 3 years ago
What the actual f**k. There are no f*****g decisions. I'm trans and trust me if I had the choice?! I'd never choose this. Each day is a living hell because I'm f*****g trapped in a body that isn't mine. It's not a f*****g choice, and it's not a mental disease. Maybe, like being queer, it was ORIGINALLY classified as a mental disorder, but I assure you, it's not. So, maybe f**k off.
and_a_touch_of_the_’tism 1 year ago (edited)
Fućk off. Also, deliberately misgendering someone is considered hate speech and harassment.
Brian bell 3 years ago
Just to clarify part 2: She was born mentally female at birth, biologically male. Made NO decision whatsoever to "become" anything but who she already was. Don't be confused. Think about your own conceptions of your own gender and your own sexuality and how nobody has a "right" to question those feelings, act accordingly with others.
Brian bell 2 years ago
Ah, sorry about the double wording. Prior to physically transitioning, a (binary) transgender person in mentally one gender, while physically another. They owe nobody an explanation or a reason. Exactly like anyone born without the incongruence. Thus, whatever that person TELLS another that their pronouns are should be respected for that.
The Red Panda (she/her) 2 years ago
That is a complicated question to answer, but I'll pretend you aren't a transphobe and answer anyway. Mentally or psychologically female is how you identify, biologically female is a combination of physically and genetically female.
Rachael Sampson 3 years ago (edited)
Good grief you're dumb. No she was born with a male body but she was always female. And she only likes girls, so that makes her a gay woman. How is that hard to figure out. Gender identity and sexual orientation are not the same thing.
LynzCatastrophe 3 years ago (edited)
Why are people down voting Devil's comment here? If someone doesn't actually understand, then educate them! I grew up in a very small minded small town, I had no idea there was anything beyond the world besides male/female straight through, nobody told me, nobody taught me, I had no examples. I moved to a big city when I went to college and had MANY questions because suddenly the world got a lot bigger. I didn't have a single clue how anything worked. Just like this commenter who probably doesn't know.
ChickyChicky 3 years ago
Because Devil says this kind of s**t all the time, to be a shitty s**t face, not because they don't actually understand. They constantly like to make comments that stress that the person is ActUALly whatever they were assigned at birth. This "person" is on their own anti-trans crusade. "Just to clarify....you're wrong about your gender and I am right."
Ryan Parker 3 years ago
So when you got to the liberal city, you got brainwashed. That's what happened.
aroace man, but german 🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦 3 years ago
my god, this is from a month ago, and even i find this stupid, to help you (through i may have been late) here is the definition of gender. Gender is the range of characteristics pertaining to femininity and masculinity and differentiating between them. Depending on the context, this may include sex-based social structures (i.e. gender roles) and gender identity. [wikipedia] and here is the DICTIONARY DEFINITION. either of the two sexes (male and female), especially when considered with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones. The term is also used more broadly to denote a range of identities that do not correspond to established ideas of male and female. hope that helps.
Dorlinda Chong 3 years ago
Your perception of your gender (a misnomer, technically, since true 'gender' is a language term, pertaining to words that contain a reference to sex not inherent in the object itself, like "La pluma" (female gender, for a pen), however, it was appropriated to mean how one feels ones sex is, while ones attraction to another person is defined by sexuality, ie heterosexual, homosexual, or bisexual. So while one can be attracted to the 'correct' sex, one can still not feel that they are the correct gender, and having the proper body for the gender they feel, is more important for their mental stability than conforming to society's mores.
Kim Lorton 3 years ago
If the sister in law was 18 when they kicked her out, her parents committed theft by taking her savings! It was not theirs and they should be giving her that money back, plus interest! That is the worst thing I've heard in a long while of parental behavior. I am so glad she is doing well and has love in her life, and the family she needs!
Monday 3 years ago
The law is a bit grey on those areas, especially if she shared a bank account with her parents (it mentions a joint account in the story). Since they were equal owners of the account they had rights to the money, so it legally isn't theft even though realistically it totally is.
Load More Replies... Joe Reaves 3 years ago
If it's a joint account one party can empty it without the consent of the other unfortunately. Its why so often one spouse cleans the other out before a divorce if they're an asshole.
anarkzie 3 years ago
Wait, if your kids are under that age you can legally steal their money? I did not know that was a thing.
Mad Dragon 3 years ago (edited)
Unfortunately, in the US, if a person is under the age of 18, their parents can legally take money from them without permission, unless the money is held in a trust and the parent abuses the funds. It may not be ethical in most cases, but is is legal.
Mad Dragon 3 years ago
That is different. She had a joint account that her parents' names were on. In that case, they can take all the money out without her permission, just as she could do the same without their permission. It's the same trick some underhanded people use to divert funds before serving divorce papers on their spouse.
Anna Nowak 3 years ago
The really sad thing about that story is that they probably still love her in some twisted way and think they did a good thing. Many of that kind of parents believe that their child has "chosen a wrong and sinful lifestyle" and that by kicking them out they do them a favour. Motivating them to "come back to their senses" or something. It couldn't be further from the truth.
Ryan Parker 3 years ago
Oh yeah! Absolutely for the parents as well!! That kind of behavior will have a negative affect on everyone in their family, I'm sure!!
Got Myself 4 Dwarves 3 years ago
My 4 kids can live their lives to make them happy and content, as long as they don't become serial killers, I've got their back.
Roger Smallman 3 years ago
My darling eldest child came out as trans last year (m to f) and I was completely okay with it. My ex, on the other hand, did the "oh I bet your father is some proud of you!" and I was, the suicide rate of young people in the LGBTQ+ community is very high because of family reactions. My thought is "this is my kid, MY kid, I loved them from the first time I saw them on the ultrasound screen and that love has only grown over the years watching this wonderful child grow, this is just another stage of growth for them"
xxkittyxx00 3 years ago
my dad is very much like you and also thank you for supporting him not many people support people like him (and me) and yea your right suicide rates are through the roof because of LGBTQ reactions i almost killed myself as well cause my friends started hating me for being lesbian cause they thought it was weird
Load More Replies... Apollo Brackady 3 years ago
Thank you!!! People like you help me keep hope about supportive families existing :D
VeninTheNonBinaryRogue 3 years ago
Your entire existence is a f****d up phase that could last forever.
xxkittyxx00 3 years ago
I'm a very very strong member of the LGBTQ and me being only 13 and having already told my dad although I was very scared he was fine with it like I always say ITS THE PERSON NOT THEIR PARTS so if your a non-supporter come fight me because people should love whoever they want like c'mon who cares you only care that they are LGBTQ because your looking at em WHY WOULD YOU TAKE EVERYTHING FROM HER ANYWAYS? oh that's right you didn't take everything cause she still has a heart unlike you
Lyza Kraynek 3 years ago
We need as many of you as possible, keep standing your ground and staying strong & keep smiling, fellow Warrior 🤜
Jesse Ferland 3 years ago
People like this should never be parents. Screw your outdated religious values, your children should come first.
Sky Render 3 years ago
I'm certain this exact story was posted to BP under a different title just a week or two ago... I mean it's still interesting, of course. Just a bit strange to have it pop up again so quickly.
CrunChewy McSandybutt 3 years ago
Judging from how all of their kids reacted, I'm guessing there was a whole lot of shitty behavior from the parents and this was the very large stick that broke the camel's back.
Karis Ravenhill 3 years ago
Brilliant revenge. To the Big_Bad_Boogeyman's comment above where he can't fathom how a parent can just suddenly not want/stop loving their child, the problem is that these types of parents do not, and have never, loved that child. They just 'had' the child through circumstance and kept it, but doesn't mean they ever loved it (most i've seen it's because these parents don't even know HOW to love another human being), so when they want to chuck the child away like a piece of garbage, it's incredibly easy to be so malicious.
Katinka Min 3 years ago
Kicking a child out is bad enough but stealing its money??? Did the police get involved?
Lyn Moffett 3 years ago
They are horrible bstrds and they deserve every piece of bad luck they get. Could your sister in law not have them arrested for stealing her money? She saved it up. Not them. Rotten bstrds.
Lauren Caswell 3 years ago
He cannot, he has already turned into a flower. Don't worry though Ryan, it's 'just a phase'. That's what they told Narcissus 😄
Frankenfrog 3 years ago
How sick in the head do you have to be to screw your own child over just because you can't accept their true self.
Denise Lewis 3 years ago
my story is about getting pregnant my mother thought this was a good time to throw me out it was feb below zero i lived in my car for three weeks in the library parking lot i had ten dollars to my name i finally went to see my father they were divorced yeah he took me in until i ended up in the hospital in labor it was way to soon so they kept me he showed up with some food from mc Donalds and informed me that there will be no babies living in his house he could have told me this right from the start so i could have figured something out not everyone get's good parents and yes i was the youngest we are not spoiled s**t rolls down hill
Apollo Brackady 3 years ago
I hate that people can be this terrible :( my family isn’t exactly supportive but I thank God every day that they didn’t kick me out.
Seabeast 3 years ago
The lesson here for anyone planning to come out to their parents and not sure how they'll take it is, wait until you're old enough to have a bank account in your own name, put any money you've saved into that, move your documents to a safe deposit box, and only tell them after you've done all that. Just in case they behave like these people did.
Random Anon 3 years ago
Some people don't deserve kids. And guess what, now they practically no longer have any.
Faith Hurst-Bilinski 3 years ago
I actively try to keep my adult kids in my life. They have their own lives and I faintly remember what it was like to be young and starting out. They are busy and it is a time when I miss them terribly. I do not understand any parent who does not want their own offspring in their lives.
Amir Ahmed Asif 3 years ago
Taking money from joint account, the money that daughter saved working -is stealing. By law, one of the joint owners can take it, cannot be prosecuted. But, it is a sin. If they believed in higher power, how can they steal the fruit of someone else's labor? This is hypocrisy.
Hugh Walter 3 years ago
What annoys me about this is the ignorance, not only have all forms of alternate sexual identity always been there, but they are becoming more prevalent, in part because of the Human-related, hormone-mimicking polymer pollution in the environment and the food chain - that's just boring-old science! And in part due to the freedoms to be yourself inherent in free, democratic societies - that's just boring-old sociology! Every parent should be ready to be supportive of any LGBTQI+ change or issue in a child of theirs.
alloutbikes@yahoo.com 3 years ago
No one "chooses" to be transgender. They choose to accept what they know and act accordingly. Just like a male picks out his pants and shirt not his skirt because he feels comfortable. So sorry for people being judgmental. I have problems with pronouns when speaking with someone dressing differently than their assigned gender. Are they trans or cross dressing? No disrespect just confused.
Lukas-not-Luca (he/him) 3 years ago
If you're confused, the best bet is to just ask the person their pronouns. Most will greatly appreciate it! I'm a trans guy, but I choose to still wear skirts and dresses, simply because I like them! You can be a transwoman and still be a tomboy, or a transmale and still be a femboy (roseboy? I heard somewhere that some people may consider femboy offensive? idk I use it for myself). When in doubt, just ask!
Load More Replies... Frannie Kaplan 3 years ago
8k is not q joke. I work full time and it took me a year to save that because cost of living is high here. Sounds like my narc parent on one of her rampages
Anagram margana 3 years ago (edited)
Another fake/made up story. Some things just don’t add up.
Thomas brennan 3 years ago (edited)
Totally, the most glaring part is the tone of voice. If you read it back it is written the way a young teenager speaks, not a 20-30 year old woman.
Brooklyn 3 years ago
I really dont want to be mean, rude, or offend anyone in any way, but why are so many people all of a sudden coming out LGBTQ+ ?? Like, there always were LGBTQ+ people, but not like this many...
Alexis Draskinis 3 years ago
Probably because, for reasons known to them, they havent felt safe doing so or didnt think they would be supported if they did. Coming out is a huge deal so you feel like the people who love/support you would no longer do that just because of who you are or who you love, most people would think twice about doing it. It can end up being a complete life overhaul & thats def something you need to be sure you are ready for. In the best case scenario, its simply because they're sick of not feeling like they can be themselves & want to finally do so...
Load More Replies... and_a_touch_of_the_’tism 1 year ago
Thank you for asking politely. Mostly, because it’s become much safer to do so, and also it’s getting more attention than before.
aroace man, but german 🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦 3 years ago
they always have existed. the reason so many people come out now is because now we have terms for it, like being asexual now, was just "not finding the right person" or "lonely" then!
Apollo Brackady 3 years ago
People (most of them) are more supportive now and we don’t have to hide who we are as much :) hope that answers your question
anarkzie 3 years ago
Society is more accepting of LGBTQ+ people now. I'm an Atheist, this is not a problem in the UK where I live, so it's not something I need to hide, If I lived in Saudi Arabia or some place I may need to be careful of who I tell as some people could react negatively to it. With LGBTQ+ people, they use to have to hide now they do not.
Walking On Sunshine 3 years ago
Yeah try not to mention Bible figures while you're spreading your hate.
lazy panda 3 years ago
I don't think "petty" quite covers kicking out your child and then taking their money and their car though...
Yvonne Dauwalder Balsiger 3 years ago
If you tolerate intolerance, you become its enabler. Actions have consequences. Seriously, don't tolerate s**t like this and don't push back, because "they are from a different generation", "everyone is entitled to their opinion", yadda yadda. These people went out of their way to hurt their daughter, eff them.
Load More Replies... XSpooky_Mint 3 years ago
Sometimes ya gotta give karma a little push, the parents got exactly what they deserved
Viviane 3 years ago (edited)
@ Deja Katz: You're free to show kindness to anyone who robbed you of your money, documents, possessions, place to live, etc. I'd focus mental energy on the people who reached out in my greatest need, not the ones who acted as if they'd be indifferent if I died on the street.
Hayhaypaula 3 years ago
They didn't crash the business. They just took their business elsewhere. Did you read the article?
Load More Replies... Gaby Almodovar 3 years ago
I don't know, what exactly was that business, but sure was a small one, if can crush just from lacking one partner. So, it's not like there were shareholders, who lost a lot. It was most likely a family business with the very minimum of employees, who sure found another workplace. The parents just got as the Bible says: "fracture for fracture, eye for eye, tooth for tooth; whatever injury he has given a person shall be given to him" - Leviticus 24:20
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