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We live in a world where, whether we like it or not, we run into people with different views of the world, beliefs, and opinions.

Every now and then, we realize that not all of their claims are equally legit. That became especially true in the times of the coronavirus pandemic when anti-vaxxers and conspiracy theory believers were on the rise.

So imagine when someone asked a seemingly simple question “What fact are you just tired of explaining to people?” on Ask Reddit. It hit a soft spot for too many people and you could see that sheer fatigue left by making sure people get their facts straight is a real thing. Below we wrapped up the most interesting responses.

#1

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand Stella Liebeck, the woman who won a lawsuit against McDonald's over hot coffee, had every right to sue them. It's been mocked so many times over the past 20 years with people ridiculing this woman and making it out like she's some idiot who was surprised that coffee was actually hot and she was just attempting a money grab or something. In reality, the temperature of the coffee was f*****g ridiculous and there was no reason for it to be hot enough to cause 3rd degree burns on her legs when she spilled it. She had to have multiple skin graft surgeries and spent 8 days in the hospital where she lost 20 pounds. After that, she needed additional care at home and was partially disabled for the next two years. She had no choice but to sue to cover the cost of her surgeries. This happened a long time ago, but to this day, I still overhear people mocking this case or making references to it in jest.

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#2

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand I have Generalized Anxiety Disorder. I cannot just decide to not be anxious about stuff. I take medication because I can’t stop. Telling me to just “not worry about it” and “mind over matter” is not going to work. This is a medical issue I am actively being treated for. If I could just choose to stop I would.

Telling me “it’s all in your head” is also useless; of course it’s in my head. It’s a brain problem. Where else is it going to be.

EmiliusReturns , David Garrison Report

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#3

That giving people rights does not remove your rights. You don't get a free right to suppress people who are not like you.

BuT I dOn'T wAnT gAyS tO mArRy... Then don't marry someone of your gender. You can still freely stay married to your opposite gendered spouse. It isn't infringing on your rights. It bugs you that you can't force other people to do what you want.

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Many of our problems, whether at work or in relationships, stem back to communication issues. In fact, this Preply survey showed that Americans are becoming less effective communicators, and respondents say that being interrupted is the biggest communication problem of all.

Other communication problems that drive Americans crazy are being talked over (19%) and having to repeat themselves (18%). So why do people get so miserably frustrated when they are asked to repeat themselves? Well, apparently, it has to do with implying that the listener wasn’t paying attention to what they’re saying and as a result, that makes the speaker feel underappreciated and like they're wasting their time.

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#4

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand When out in public, I am not BABYSITTING my kids or GIVING MOM A BREAK. I am a dad and they are my kids. WTF is wrong with women over the age of 40 who say this s**t to men?

MaritimeMuskrat , Alex Bodini Report

#5

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand Everything is made of chemicals. Not everything “natural” is good and not everything “man made” is bad.

AttilaTheFun818 , Alesia Kozik Report

#6

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand Your opinion does not carry the same weight as an expert who has spent their entire life working on an issue.

az78 , Steve Johnson Report

Repeating yourself is far from the only annoying thing people experience while communicating. Many people are also guilty of giving unsolicited advice, guidance or information that wasn't asked for. Not only is it considered disrespectful and presumptuous to insert your opinions and ideas when they may not be wanted. It can also communicate a sort of superiority, since it assumes the advice-giver knows what's right or best for the listener.

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Bored Panda reached out to Dr. Audrey Tang, a chartered psychologist and author of multiple books, including "Be A Great Manager Now", "The Leader's Guide to Mindfulness," and "The Leader's Guide to Resilience” who said that the one and only person we have a right to manage is our own self.

#7

Being an introvert doesn’t mean I’m shy. It means having a social battery which gets run down and sometimes becomes empty if I don’t have enough peaceful alone time to recharge it.

My job is peopley enough but at least I’m paid to be there. I actively avoid crowds on my time off.

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#8

That migrants can't all be here to BOTH steal our jobs AND claim unemployment benefits.

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#9

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand That my lifelong history of depression has little to nothing to do with my relatively stress-free life. People are always saying, "What do you have to be depressed about?" Believe me, I wish it were that simple.

kippie10003 , Yuris Alhumaydy Report

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What’s worse, if you offer advice, Dr. Tang argues, the person takes it and it all goes wrong, they may blame you. “Or if you offer advice and they don't take it and it still all goes wrong, they may feel they cannot come to you.”

“Sometimes the best thing you can do is be a friend and wait to pick up the pieces,” Dr. Tang argues. In fact, Dr. Tang reminds us that this also applies to explaining truths you are tired of repeating: “You cannot save people from themselves.” Dr. Tang added that if you are trying to do so, then it’s fair to ask yourself “what are you avoiding looking at in YOUR OWN life?”

#10

I'm a male and a nurse. No I don't want to be a doctor. No I'm not going to school to be a doctor. No I don't feel like less of a man because I'm a nurse and not a doctor. And stop calling me doc and doctor. I've told you 5 times I'm your nurse and my badge says NURSE in big letters.

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#11

"I'm just being honest" is not an acceptable excuse for being an a*****e.

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#12

It's couldn't care less, not could care less unless you mean to say you do care

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#13

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand Correlation is not causation

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While communicating with people, it often happens that people ask for advice, but that doesn’t mean they want to hear the truth. Dr. Tang explained that in these instances, they actually just want validation.

“And sometimes I feel the most empowering thing to do is to ask - what do you want me to say - do you actually want my advice or someone to agree with you?” Dr. Tang said. She argues that this will save you time in giving advice to someone who doesn't actually want it.

Dr. Tang concluded that ultimately, every person needs to make their decisions on their own. We can try to prove them wrong or repeat ourselves indefinitely, but at some point, all our effort becomes nothing more than just a waste of time.

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#14

How evolution works. Giraffes didn't stretch their necks. All the ones with short necks repeatedly died before reproducing. Evolutionary filters require mass death and/or overpowering reproduction of a mutation.

Also, science isn't a belief system. Its a method of repeatable testing.

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#15

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand
That disagreeing with someone's opinion isn't an attack on them.

xisiko1120 , Ketut Subiyanto Report

#16

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand THE AIR IS IN THE BAG TO PROTECT THE CHIPS.
YOU ARE BUYING WEIGHT, NOT VOLUME.

darkoh84 , Edu Carvalho Report

#17

Don't get your mental health information from TikTok, facebook, or self proclaimed experts who aren't professionally licensed.

I no longer offer a professional opinion anywhere outside of work, and that includes reddit. I've learned that 95% of the time, people don't want to hear the facts, they just want to circle jerk about whatever reality they've conjured up in their heads, and if you correct them, they'll be pissed off and then it's a bad time for everyone

signed,
a psychiatrist

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#18

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand Antibiotics will not help your virus. Even if you feel really crappy.

pasafa , Ron Lach Report

#19

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand Apostrophes don’t make words plural.

CannaKitchen757 , Anete Lusina Report

#20

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand Just because someone doesn't always need their disability aids, that doesn't mean they're not disabled and faking it. Someone who needs a wheelchair to get around doesn't always mean they can't use their legs. They can still walk short distances.

pumpkinthighs , Marcus Aurelius Report

#21

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand Nothing’s wrong. It’s just my face.

citizenbunny , Alena Darmel Report

#22

That Depression is a real disease

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#23

Maintaining a safe following distance is the easiest thing to do to avoid accidents and yet most people aren’t doing it. It’s basically impossible to react in time to avoid an accident if you’re following less than two seconds behind someone. It doesn’t get you where you’re going faster. The accident will always be your fault. And finally, two seconds is way longer than most people think, most will count one second.

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#24

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand I have insomnia. No I can't just "think about nothing"

Lylat_System , cottonbro studio Report

#25

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand I'm a programmer. I write programs. I don't know why your computer won't turn on

ThunderStruck115 , Jefferson Santos Report

#26

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand My adhd is an explanation, not an excuse

Beautiful-Towel-2815 , Tara Winstead Report

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Jrog
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ADHD in the USA would be an interesting sociological topic. Diagnosed juvenile ADHD incidence is over 5 times the global average. For every medically diagnosed case there are up to three people who self-diagnosed ADHD, most of the times without any real basis. Why is it so prevalent in the USA vs the world, and why so much people who do not have it think they do?

El Dee
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Much of the world doesn't have access to doctors who can diagnose it. It's not more prevalent, just the US has the ABILITY to diagnose..

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Lakota Wolf
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you're my mother, things like ADHD, autism, and mental illness "isn't real"! I am almost all of the things on that list, but I was never even taken to try to diagnose me, because my mom doesn't believe in mental illness/neurodiversity.

ZeroCapacity
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The real problem is too many people use it as an excuse for their b******t

poiplescales
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My nickname as a kid was Fidget but because I was a girl and could mask well enough to do well in school I couldn't even get evaluated until I was 36, even with family history of ADHD. Shocker, I have ADHD.

Icecream Sarang
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Daydreaming. Ditziness. Laziness. Lack of work ethic. It’s such a freaking burden.

SkyBluTomato
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Everything on the list! ADHD has traditionally been diagnosed in children, especially boys, from their tendency to bounce off the walls and climb the curtains. The hyperactivity element is not always quite so visible. As a kid, I (F57) would never have been picked out as having ADHD. However, earlier this year, I was diagnosed with it, including the H part of it. I am not one to shake up a lot of dust outwardly, but if you looked at my inner mind, it's like a bouncy castle with a dozen kids hopped up on sugar in it. For those who like to say that ADHD is not real, why then does it run in families? I read an article recently about having found some, but not all yet, of the genes responsible for ADHD. An interesting point is that within this set of genes there is a subset of them that are also present in autism.

Thomas Ewing
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

An excuse to enjoy the 'good life' without work or responsibility. A homeless person took offense when I told them I would treat if they went to the store for me. Sounds like work! No way!

SmileyMan192
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have ADHD and I have seen many teachers and other people who don't understand it. I'm glad this post exists and if I could, I would be spaming the up vote button like crazy.

Outlier
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LPurdy
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A few items up someone's comment was "you lose weight to make your pants more loose". In the spirit of that comment, to the image above, I say it's "always losing things", not "always loosing things".

A P
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I cannot agree enough!! Yes, finally diagnosed as an adult and my son is exactly the same. Not looking for excuses for what I do or why, but thankfully had an explanation and how to mitigate it and make different choices.

Hotdogking
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I had a Euro for every time I’ve had to explain that I’d never need to work a day in my life!

Centu Rionick
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You've summed up my wife in the above list. Understanding eachother is key!

Raven Red
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

can someone explain this to my legal guardians, and all my teachers?

Tinderella
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate having ADD. I didn’t develop it until adulthood. I think cell phones and internet really kicked it in for me.

ADHD weirdo
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

ADHD and ADD are different!!! People are so dumb. My doctor said they are the same thing. Like WTF

Riley Quinn
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'll be in the middle of a show, when suddenly a thought pops into my head and I have to pause the show to act on the thought. It's not unusual for me to have several internet tabs, a couple of folders, a several documents all open simultaneously because my mind is ping ponging.

S. L. W.
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Right. It's why I wear headphones in class. And no, I don't listen to music in class during instruction. I do for independent work, however. Why my room is mess. Etc

Nichole Harris
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My husband was diagnosed as a child in the late 60s.....he still struggles daily

Jane Hower
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And sometimes a strong cup of coffee can fix most of that. Something about the caffeine speeding up the connections in the brain seem to help. It's been tested on kids and really works.

Becky Samuel
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So what have we learned from these comments? That telling someone to get over their depression, insomnia, or anxiety is wrong, but ADHD is all made up for attention and that's okay to say?

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#27

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand Airplanes don't fall out of the sky when they lose an engine. A 747 can glide nearly 100 miles after losing all engines at cruise.

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#28

That just because I am bisexual doesn't mean I will have sex with anyone.

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#29

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand If I'm working at **night**, I need to *sleep* during some portion of the **day**

spunkyweazle , Shane Report

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#30

Hate against any race is hate; though not always systematic.

Hate against any sex is hate; though not always systematic.

If hate makes you feel good, you are part of the problem.

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#31

Yes, libraries still exist, and yes people still use them, and yes we have things other than print books. Like free covid tests! A weekly vaccine clinic! Classes that are free!

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#32

That I really don’t want to eat meat. I’m not against it. Really, eat all you want. I just don’t like it anymore.

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#33

A hour long youtube video about something does not mean that it is true. It could just mean that some crazy or stupid person posted a hour long video about nothing and you are now dumber for having listened to it and may god have mercy on your soul.

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#34

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand The difference between type I and II diabetes, two completely different diseases

Being a healthcare worker and sometimes even having to explain it to my coworkers is tiring

Xaort , Tima Miroshnichenko Report

#35

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand Viruses are not bacteria

Bacteria are not viruses

georgeathens1 , Mike Kiev Report

#36

Harsh sentencing doesn’t deter crime. Study after study, decade after decade, this has been confirmed.

The most significant effect on deterring criminal activity is likelihood of being caught. Harsh punishment has a negligible effect.

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#37

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand You cannot reduce fat in a specific part of your body - none of those fitness influencer exercises to 'burn belly fat' or 'kill your love handles' do anything - to lose fat you must reduce your overall body fat % with a caloric deficit

fvaiz , Mathilde Langevin Report

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#38

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand That because i can usually figure out how to fix most things does NOT mean i want to fix everything that breaks for anyone else.

Plus_Inevitable_771 , Kenny Eliason Report

#39

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand Historic life expectancy is heavily skewed by high infant mortality. If you got past 4 or 5 years old you had a good chance of making old age. People weren't just dropping dead at 35!

NMonc10101 , Kelly Sikkema Report

#40

You cannot get a raise and wind up with a lower net income because of taxes.

Income taxes are *progressive*. The higher bracket does not apply to the money you make under the threshold.

(This is different from the welfare cliff, which is very real.)

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#41

The president doesn't control gas prices.

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#42

“Share if you agree” on social media will never bring about any form of sweeping changes or reforms, and never will.

Changing your profile picture to a flag/person/KEY WORKER to show solidarity can sod off as well.

“Sending thoughts and prayers and positive energy”

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#43

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand That type-1 diabetes isn't caused by your diet, and it cannot be cured.

Jagged_Rhythm , Alan Levine Report

#44

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand That chronic illness is chronic, like permanent, like forever. Still sick. Not getting better. Get it?

laughingcrip , Andrea Piacquadio Report

#45

I need ur effing identification information because we are at a bank. I don't care who you say you are, you aren't the person you're claiming to be until I have proof.

You can't just walk into the bank, ask for 10k and not expect to be verified. Stop giving me a hard time for protecting your money for you.

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#46

We didn’t “evolve from monkeys” we share a common ancestor

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#47

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand That we are short staffed and you’re just going to have to WAIT.

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#48

How algorithms are built to feed you only what you want to see and hear creating a bubble of ignorance toward everything else.

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#49

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand Gets job at NASA

All extended family asks is if moon landing was real

Pain

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#50

Poison is not the same thing as venom. People call snakes poisonous when really they mean to say venomous. Venom has to be injected into the bloodstream (like a snake bite). Poison has to be ingested to enter your bloodstream. You could drink rattlesnake venom and your stomach acids would kill it, but if you put that same rattlesnake venom on an open wound or injected it for whatever reason- that’s gonna be a problem

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#51

That I don't drink alcohol (any kind) simply because I don't like how it tastes, I even find disgusting the smell

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#52

Celiac is a real disease that millions of people have, including myself, and no it cannot be “cured” by eating bread.

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#53

All media is biased. Even the one you're watching.

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#54

Comic Sans isn’t a bad typeface. It’s a well-made typeface that gets misused. Saying you hate comic sans is like saying you hate hammers because they can’t turn a screw.

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#55

The act of observing can change the phenomenon being observed.

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#56

When it's winter in the northern hemisphere, it's summer in the southern hemisphere, and vice versa. Do you really think it's winter all over the world at the same time?

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#57

When you’re adjusting the temperature on a thermostat, you’re not changing the temperature of air that blows out. You’re just changing how long it’ll stay on for until it reaches that temp.

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#58

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand Shaving doesn't make your hair grow back thicker

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#59

Wheelchairs aren't cheap, and "cheap" wheelchairs are not suitable for everyone, not suitable for hardly anyone in fact. It's not a choice of a £30k wheelchair or a £300 wheelchair, it's a choice between sitting in a chair that fits the needs of the user that enables them to be active in their life, or sitting in an unsupportive seat on wheels that physically harms the person until they're out of it again.

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#60

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand That many Chinese people have my surname, but we're not all related to Jackie Chan, just like how not every person with Johnson as their surname is related to Boris Johnson.

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#61

Basic financial math. I have had to go through and show people that they did, in fact, spend too much money, and that's why they are broke.

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#62

As a twin, no I can not talk to my twin through our minds. And yes we were born on the same day.

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#63

Just because I work in IT, doesn't mean I KNOW EVERYTHING TECHNOLOGY RELATED. IT IS A VAST FIELD

"You work in IT, what phone should I get?"

"You work in IT, do u know why this app isn't working"

We're not all helpdesk or some sort of phone tech support, I promise.

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#64

Tax brackets, no Jenny making an extra 5k does not mean the other 50,000 gets taxed at a higher rate. Only money in the higher bracket gets taxed at that rate not all previous money.

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#65

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand Wifi does not equal internet, I'm mostly telling this to my kids lol. We frequently lose internet connectivity, but the wifi will be working fine. They will never understand.

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#66

Evolution isn't about "becoming better", it's simply change over time.

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#67

"What Fact Are You Just Tired Of Explaining To People?": 40 Things These People Wish Others Would Finally Understand That feelings you have about your thoughts are still feelings and can make or destroy you equally to feelings about non imaginary situations.

Putrid_Tomatillo_251 , Engin Akyurt Report

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