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“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe You can think someone is attractive without being attractED to them.

Accel_Lex , KoolShooters Report

Final score:

206points

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Amelia Jade 3 months ago

I'm a woman and I absolutely believe this. I see men all the time that I can see are attractive. I can see why other people find them attractive, but I'm not attracted to them. Off the top of my head: Jason Momoa. He's clearly an attractive man. I can see that. But I'm not attracted to him. He does nothing for me. It's no different than all the women I find attractive that I'm not attracted to because I'm straight. I still have eyes though and can appreciate why others might be attracted to them.

191points

Vegetable-Mall-2329 , Tomé Louro Report

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe The reason why so many men don't show emotion is because at one point in our lives, we opened up, and it was used against us to some degree. It's happened to almost every man at some point. We choose to be distant so we don't get hurt again.

Final score:

199points

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Kimberly Alison 3 months ago

This happens to women over and over again. We’ve been hurt too. It’s still better to share who you are.

107points

It’s no wonder that there’s some misinformation about any topic, including men, floating around on the World Wide Web. People are more likely to believe information that gets repeated more frequently. This is true for both real facts and gossip.

This phenomenon is called the illusory truth effect. It’s a cognitive bias where individuals associate reliability and plausibility with repetition. Somewhat worryingly, it holds true even when someone starts off knowing that the information they’re hearing is false or if they’re suspicious of the source’s reliability.

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe Sometimes we aren't consciously staring at some part of your body, we're just zoned out thinking about something and you happen to be in the line of sight.

Flatulatio , Chinmay Singh Report

Final score:

160points

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David 3 months ago

If I am in thought, often I am looking through the person, not at them.

76points

Spektakles882 , RDNE Stock project Report

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe We can talk with our male friends for hours, and not find out a damn thing about what’s going on with their lives.

And we’re still cool with each other.

Final score:

153points

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Ben Aziza 3 months ago

I have known a guy for 5 years. Played D&D together and yet his name still eludes me. I know him by the nickname...

38points

That some of us need an emotional connection to enjoy sex.

penguinmanbat Report

Final score:

153points

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Squirrel Chaser 3 months ago

I absolutely require an emotional connection to enjoy sex.

57points

not_a_cat_i_swear , freestocks.org Report

Psychology Today explains that the illusory truth effect was first established in 1977 with the help of a series of psychological studies. During those studies, researchers found that every time an untrue statement was repeated, people’s confidence in the validity of the information grew.

While this can lead to the accidental spread of misinformation, others can deliberately use this cognitive bias to spread propaganda, especially related to political topics.

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe We don't care for the long gel acrylics or threaded eyebrows or pound of make up.

Final score:

147points

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René Sauer 3 months ago

true. But who says women do it for a man?

157points

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe That as much as you assume we know what you're thinking, we don't. We like directions, instructions, not assuming that we know what we have to do.

Megaman2u , Vera Arsic Report

Final score:

123points

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Amelia Jade 3 months ago

This depends on what he means. I agree that communication is important. But if he's talking about things like household chores--then just no. I shouldn't have to direct and instruct another grown adult what needs to be done in the house. No one is directing and instructing me but I somehow know what needs to get done.

85points

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe Some of us don’t cheat. Some of us don’t like one night stands. I like to know my woman’s body. Easier to make them crazy about me.

WadeFlavor , anait film Report

Final score:

119points

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Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa) 3 months ago

I like to think MOST of us don't cheat. I'm 44 and never cheated once in my life. When I'm into someone I'm all in and I don't see other women that way. Never could wrap my head around cheating.

85points

Automatic-Plastic-53 Report

A major issue with countering the illusory truth effect is that pushing back against misinformation relies on repeating the same lies that you’re trying to debunk. This, ironically, only works to solidify those very same false facts.

One alternative solution is using the truth sandwich approach, as proposed by cognitive linguist George Lakoff. He suggested mentioning the truth, then the lie, and then describing the correct info. Lakoff suggests always repeating more truths than lies.

#10

We actually find you just as attractive without the makeup, my wife still doesn't believe me and gets confused when I compliment her makeup but she actually doesn't have any on. I really can't tell sometimes.

Final score:

117points

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StrangeOne 3 months ago

Some women have such low self-esteem about their natural appearance within themselves, no amount of compliments will convince them otherwise. They worn makeup so much as a part of their morning routine that they don't feel awake and presentable without the pastes, creams and powders slathered on their faces. To them, they would feel unrecognizable and naked, perhaps even scary looking. It's psychological and they need therapy to undo that warped, dysphoric mindset of themselves.

39points

#11

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe Women would be surprised to know just how many of us have been SAed.

savethebros , viresh studio Report

Final score:

107points

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Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa) 3 months ago

THIS! It happened to me more than once. I was 21 years old when I was raped. I also used to date a woman who would get drunk on whiskey and beat me. It's far more common than people think.

86points

#12

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe When I say “I don’t care” about something, I truly do not care. I don’t care if we go to visit your parents or go watch grass grow outside. I really want to do whatever makes you happy.

Knautical_J , Allef Vinicius Report

Final score:

101points

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Fran F 3 months ago

I don’t care, to most women implies either a lack of interest or a dismissal. So if you want fewer fights say “I’m good with whatever you want to do,” not “I don’t care.”

132points

Another alternative is so-called prebunking or inoculation. In short, it involves first explaining how scientific information can be distorted and then moving on to the consensus on the subject.

What false truths have you personally heard about men, Pandas? What misinterpretations do you wish would get corrected everywhere on the internet? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments section.

#13

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe It feels like many women are misinformed about what we find attractive.

Relaxenjoyyourself:
Very true. It seems to me that women get their idea of what a man finds attractive from other women and gay men. I think a lot of celebrity women are too thin and look sick.

Haventyouheard3 , Alexander Mass Report

Final score:

93points

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The Darkest Timeline 3 months ago

Media also warps our sense of what is typical and realistic.

62points

#14

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe The "Nothing Box"...we really do have the ability to think about nothing. Women have a hard trouble believing this. I refer to you the below comedian who explains it well....

Like how so many men love fishing and women can't understand...just switch off and think about nothing.

_VittuPerkele , Austin Neill Report

Final score:

91points

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René Sauer 3 months ago

Wish I could do that. I am constantly thinking about hypothetical scenarios, like, what would I do if I win a couple million in the lottery? What kinda business would I open?

29points

R Dennis 3 months ago

I can't turn off. My wife used to think I couldn't focus because I would have so much going on: watching a movie, listening to music, web browsing, talking to her, and doing math in my head all at the same time.... I need constant input to focus. I could tell her exactly what was going on with each thing fully. She saw a storm, I saw a symphony.

3points

Gen X Feral 3 months ago

Omg yes! I plan the layout of my mansion, the color scheme, what dinner parties I'd have, food I'd serve, exotic pets I'd get to have, amazing vacations I'd go on. Keeps me up at night lol

1point

Hobby Hopper 3 months ago

My thoughts tend to drift into the existential. "Is it more likely that God exists without cause or that matter and energy exist without cause? Because, the existence of anything at all seems absurd, yet here we are."

1point

Giraffy Window 3 months ago

Sounds like an ADHD and/or generalized anxiety brain

0points

Jill Rhodry 3 months ago

I think why women have a hard time relating to this is that, in general, we rarely switch off - we're always thinking of what needs to be done when, who needs what etc - this is also why women are trying to get their male partners to understand about the exhaustion that comes with the mental load

10points

Lee Stone 3 months ago

Exactly. All those people missing the issue with the chores post above. Like must be nice to be able to just think about nothing when I have to worry about making sure we don't run out of clothes, have dishes we can eat off, that the floors get swept and mopped, food is stocked, kids have done their homework, etc.

3points

Salty_Sasquatch 3 months ago

This is why I enjoy doing crafts. I'm not very good at them and things look like a kindergartner made it, but while I'm working on it my brain gets very quiet.

1point

Joe Bloe 3 months ago

I'm pretty confident women can do this too.

0points

BoredPossum 3 months ago

That's why we love it. Switching off for once and get away from the everyday life.

0points

Lego Man 3 months ago (edited)

Yeah this is really easy to do when you're out in nature. Like all that's going on in your head if you're just sitting looking out at a landscape is an image of the landscape, no thoughts behind it, just taking it in. It's possible with anything really no matter what you're looking at.

6points

Amelia Jade 3 months ago

I'm a woman and I love fishing. Sadly, my brain doesn't switch off. It's a huge problem for me. I'd give anything for a moment of nothing. My brain "switching off" means I'm thinking about maybe three different things rather than the usual 50.

5points

TotallyNOTAFox 3 months ago (edited)

There is an actual biological reason for this - Men and women have stronger connections between different brain areas. For women it's a left-right side thing and men have more from the front to the back (Study result states that as average). Women chain thoughts together easier, with one thing leading to another and so on while men separate topics from each other more easily

3points

Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa) 3 months ago

ADHD here so it's impossible for me to think about nothing. Good on anyone who can though.

3points

ConstantlyJon 3 months ago

Waffles vs. Spaghetti.

2points

nottheactualphoto 3 months ago

Which clothespins are better: the springy ones, or the other kind?

0points

RenegadeTrader 3 months ago

Some people don't have an internal dialogue. Maybe that's what is meant here?

1point

Noproblem 3 months ago

As Steven Wright says, “there’s a fine line between fishing and standing on the shore like an idiot.”

1point

Caro Caro 3 months ago

Mark Gungor: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SZ6mVumHY9I

1point

Skid Marks 3 months ago

I've had this discussion with my wife. She too finds it strange that we can think nothing. I find it necessary at times.

1point

STJ 2 months ago

Not surprised

0points

MetaMaxNL 2 months ago (edited)

Love this one! There is a fantastic video somewhere about this box

0points

Hodge Elmwood 3 months ago

With ADHD it's almost impossible to think about nothing.

0points

grotesqueer 3 months ago

I'm not sure which I'd believe: that some people can truly think nothing like this, or that they're just less self-aware about it and simply don't realise they're always thinking about something, even if just the beauty of a landscape they're looking at or some other form of experiencing and living in the moment.

0points

Joe Bloe 3 months ago

I don't understand why people want to separate sex so badly!! We all can do the exact same thing with our brain. The difference is not biological, it's placebo effect and bias confirmation. Women can switch off too.

0points

Anne Wyckoff 3 months ago

I'm a woman who hates to make small talk. I often think of nothing in particular also, so I can definitely believe it from a man.

0points

Wendy Hamilton 3 months ago

I love to fish.

0points

Andrew Arons 3 months ago

I like to replay old Gilligan's Island episodes in my head.

0points

🇳🇬 Asi Bassey 🇳🇬 3 months ago

The “Nothing Box” is a beautiful place to be. 😀

0points

Sven Horlemann 3 months ago

Well, when I go for a run, I get into a meditative state of mind. Alright, you might say I §hink nothing". Works for me.

0points

kansasmagic 3 months ago

I "think about" nothing but I'm dark that way. OP means "do not think", I think. (There's a difference.) Not thinking is not a thing I can do. If I'm fishing, I'm thinking.

0points

notlikeyou1971 3 months ago

Mine is good at zoning out and thinking about absolutely nothing. He can shut everything off

0points

MotherofGuineaPigs 3 months ago

I love fishing. The quiet, the smell of the water, the natural beauty on the shores. I learned as a kid from my dad and grandfather, that thinking about nothing can revive your soul and return peace.

0points

Claire Nichols 3 months ago

God I wish I could do this!!! I've only ever been able to 'shut off' when I was a gymnast. That was over 26 years ago!! Still haven't managed to be able to do that when with people, in general!

0points

G A 3 months ago

It always seems to infuriate the women in my life when I say "I'm not thinking I'm just vegging out". They just don't grasp the concept. Maybe we ARE wired differently!

0points

Aroace tiger (she/they/he) 3 months ago

I like thinking but i cant turn it off... idm it

0points

Donkey boi 3 months ago

Unfortunately, I seem to be spending more time in my nothing box than out of it.

0points

Ronald Robin 3 months ago

I do this when I game. No thoughts, just gaming.

0points

Raluca Neacsu 3 months ago

is this what its called? being able to completely zone out without a single thought of feeling until someone or something jolts you out of it and then and only then you realise what you were doing? thats what its like for me. correct me if im wrong, please

0points

Tobias Reaper 3 months ago

sometimes we are thinking about nothing and sometimes we are imagining ourselves in a Die Hard like situation saving people from terrorists

0points

Captive 3 months ago

There was a Seinfeld episode in a plane where the guy zoned out and the lady absolutely hated it

0points

Ben Aziza 3 months ago

Not when you got ADHD... sadly.

0points

#15

Men want to, need to and would love to be expressive and vulnerable around you, sometimes switching roles and being the one with the shoulder we need to cry on is ok. It doesn’t mean we are weak, it means we trust you like we trust our mother and would like to open up and build a bond where we both feel supported by each other.

I’ve heard a lot of women complain that men don’t share or men aren’t emotional. Tbh if a man gets emotional, y’all either make fun of it, or dismiss him as a weakling, and then ask why we don’t get vulnerable around y’all. We just find it easier to share it with a guy friend (most of whom don’t know how to deal with their own emotional issues so supporting each other is out the window).

And to the few women I’ve met who understand and support men while they’re being vulnerable, thank you.

Bi_guy3 Report

Final score:

90points

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Arkham Wohlfert 3 months ago

Ok, yes, this is a big one. I hate this part. Pick a side, either you want me to be vulnerable, or you don't. Playing both is harmful, confusing and frustrating.

29points

#16

That not all of us are misogynistic, domestic violence prone , controlling , anger issues having a******s . There are many of us who just want to be heard , asked about our interests, accompany you and die fighting for you .
Oh yeah and we just wanna be held sometimes.

Satirical98 Report

Final score:

89points

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BoredPossum 3 months ago

And most of us hate misogyny and a$$hats.

7points

Vlad_The_Great_2 , Jasmine Carter Report

#17

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe Women don’t know what men find attractive. A lot of women I know personally think men love playing mind games. Think playing hot or cold because “men love mystery”. One of the dumbest things I’ve heard in a long time.

Final score:

83points

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winterwidow87 3 months ago

I think it's being ingrained in them by romance novels/movies. The same type of novels/movies that tell the guy to keep chasing the girl after she said no because eventually she'll give in. Those things have done so much damage for straight relationships.

47points

#18

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe 1) Sometimes erections happen and has nothing to do with what we're seeing or thinking about.

2) We really don't get complimented ever. I've seen some women on here recently claim this isn't true.

3) Women are just as responsible as men for men suppressing emotions.

MartialBob , Jeremy Perkins Report

Final score:

81points

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StrangeOne 3 months ago

I think women just don't compliment men because we're worried it's not something men are comfortable with, or it's deemed as not masculine to give a compliment. Women may also feel like if we give a compliment we're inviting the interaction to go further than wanted.

52points

SwearToSaintBatman Report

#19

That we are ready to bang anytime. First of all, I can't get aroused about a woman I don't respect. Don't care how bouncy your figure is if you talk down to the help.

Final score:

81points

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R Dennis 3 months ago

Ugly on the inside trumps beauty on the outside.

22points

Always_Choose_Chaos , cottonbro studio Report

#20

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe It hurts when you invalidate our feelings or tell us we are bad at things.

Final score:

75points

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juni 3 months ago

Yeah. Of course.Everybody wants to be taken seriously. Men and women. I don't quite understand how that seems to be something some people don't seems to understand.

24points

Sufficient-Produce83 , Mike Greer Report

#21

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe Sometimes we don't feel like talking doesn't mean there is anything wrong. We just need time in our own heads sometimes.

Final score:

70points

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Hugh Crawford 3 months ago

Re: see zoning out

15points

#22

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe I gave up dating and chasing women years ago. I was never any good at it and never found it was worth the effort. I'm perfectly fine single so I just can't muster the enthusiasm to bother putting the effort in any more.

My female friends and family flat out refuse to believe I haven't been on a date or hooked up with anyone in about 5 years. They view all guys as desperate, s*x crazed maniacs and the notion that as a single, straight, apparently reasonably attractive man I'm not out trying to hook up with women constantly just does not compute with them and they refuse to believe it.

They think I'm lying or I'm hiding some secret harem of women somewhere, and I've even had some of them try to test if I'm actually gay and hiding it. When I've explained my issues with dating to them in the past they just scoff at it and say 'why don't you just go to a bar and hook up with someone or download a dating app', as if that's all I have to do and I'll have women lining up to get with me. They're baffled when I say it's not that easy for some guys.

chadgalaxy , Pixabay Report

Final score:

68points

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Ben Aziza 3 months ago

I think this dude was around too many people who care about the physical more than the emotional. Also Hot = lots of sex. That is all they see... That is very f****d up regardless of gender.

26points

#23

Many women believe we don’t care about emotional connection as much as they do, but in reality, we often value it deeply but might express it differently.

Future-World-4024 Report

Final score:

64points

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Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa) 3 months ago

I blame "gender roles". Strong men are supposed to be stoic and strong. Utter BS. We aren't that different.

39points

#24

There are many of us who can work full-time, raise kids, and maintain a household perfectly fine.

izzzy12k Report

Final score:

61points

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Khavrinen 3 months ago

Which just makes me more irritated at the "weaponized incompetence" bastards who make the rest of us look bad.

28points

#25

That we can find women who look very different attractive at the same time.

IrregularBastard Report

Final score:

60points

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Amelia Jade 3 months ago

Women do this too. I have pretty equal crushes on both Keanu Reeves and Chris Farley, and was crazy about Donald Sutherland.

21points

#26

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe We don’t want our girl to be like the girl I like on my instagram feed.

IkramAli007 , Nathan Dumlao Report

Final score:

59points

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Hugh Crawford 3 months ago

Then why do you like her on the feed?

72points

#27

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe We can go months without ever receiving any attention from the opposite sex.

Agreeable-Many7054 , Zen Chung Report

Final score:

55points

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Christopher Crockett 3 months ago

It’s been close to a decade. My own fault really, I just stopped dating when I felt I had nothing left to offer. I miss being with someone that way, but if there isn’t any connection, I just can’t abide. I’m just scenery for other peoples stories now. Not complaining, just stating what is.

26points

#28

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe That we don't just care about s*x, and that some of us actually care very little about it at all.

orlybatman , cottonbro studio Report

Final score:

52points

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Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa) 3 months ago

There's that whole myth that men think about sex every 12 seconds. It's simply not true.

27points

#29

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe We really dont talk s**t or sex about you.

Can't remember the last time a bud has talked about their sex life or drama life, we just don't talk about that.

Ta-veren- , Helena Lopes Report

Final score:

52points

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Arkham Wohlfert 3 months ago

Ok yeah, this one is just false. When I began "passing" as male after being on hormones to transition from female to male, one of the top 2 major differences I noticed right away was that when men didn't know i was trans they would just randomly start talking super inappropriately about women in their lives, or even just some woman that just left the room. When they know i am, it's rare but still happens. It's either "that b***h is crazy" or something about their bodies and what they do or don't want to do with them. It's far worse than I expected, actually.

36points

#30

The likelihood that we will be over 6 foot, have a good family life, can travel anywhere at the drop of a hat _and_ making 6 figure income is extremely small.

Harms88 Report

Final score:

50points

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Ben Aziza 3 months ago

Tiktok brain should be ignored.

27points

Crusty_Dingleberries Report

#31

1. erections are involuntary. Sometimes a response to mental or physical stimulation, but sometimes you can find yourself having an erection you don't want, and everyone thinks you're horny when you're not.
2. we have a stitchline on our balls from when the labia fused in the womb to create what then became the ballsack.
3. we all have a shoebox of old wires, adapters, connectors, and cables.
4. sometimes we slam doors and break things, not because we're angry or anything like that, but it can be hard to control your strength sometimes, so you might slam a door and then instantly recoil like "oh f**k oh f**k oh f**k" because you realized you shut it too hard - this is also why some men might be averse/scared to choke or slap girls in bed who ask for it; we don't want to cause actual harm, and it's very easy to accidentally go too hard.
5. I don't know anything about, nor talk about, my friends' partners. I care about my friends, but I don't ever think to ask about their partners. whether it's a person they're dating, or one they're set to marry.
6. A lot of guys can be satisfied with a mattress on the floor, a tv and a fridge with only basic supplies. Anything else is nice-to-have, but not necessary for us to want to spend our entire weekend at home just lounging around.
7. and of course, we spend years trying different positions to optimize our fart-sounds.

Final score:

49points

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Skid Marks 3 months ago

I think I need to work harder on number 7.

22points

Dutch Swimmer Goes Viral For Super Revealing Trunks During 2024 Olympics: “Is This Legal?”

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#32

We feel sadness after a break up.

MikeyBGeek Report

Final score:

46points

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StrangeOne 3 months ago

Who would think otherwise?

34points

#33

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe That it’s entirely possible to be a perfectly decent guy with social skills and a good heart, yet still struggle to find love.

I’ve found that, as a man, if you ever say you’re struggling with dating, YOU by default are the problem and people will turn into private investigators trying to find out what’s wrong with you. Maybe you’re unhygienic, or you just don’t groom yourself, or you’re secretly a misogynist. It has to be *something*

No, that’s not necessarily true. That is called the Just World Fallacy. If you can’t get a date, people will often give you nothing advice like “just take a shower,” assuming that if dating is a struggle for you then you must genuinely be that clueless. There are scores of well put together men that just aren’t finding love for any number of reasons that are out of their control and insinuating that they always must be doing something wrong perpetuates the stigma against people who are single in adulthood. The stigma that they’re single because something is wrong with them.

I don’t doubt a lot of men have some ridiculous blind spots in the dating world, but based on dating discourse I’ve seen on here, it seems a lot of women think all a man has to do is be a good and fun human being and he’ll be snatched up immediately.

NawfSideNative , LexScope Report

Final score:

45points

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John Cole 3 months ago

So true. Its a lot of pressure to think its always something you are doing wrong. The older I get, the more I think formal dates are quite weird anyway. My wife of 10 years, the best thing when we first met was how little pressure there was. We just hung out and had fun with no judgement, that's how we knew! Every other date I'd been on was just so dang exhausting.

13points

Woman Put A Water Fountain With A Camera In Her Yard, Here Are 24 Photos Of Regular Visitors (New Pics)

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#34

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe When we say we're fine we mean it... Alternatively if we say we aren't thinking about anything.

Ultralusk , Priscilla Du Preez Report

Final score:

36points

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LonelyLittleLeafSheep 3 months ago

Fine. F****d up, insecure, neurotic, and emotional. Yep, everybody's just fine.

1point

#35

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe That almost all the s****y things that happen to women at work also happen to men. We get talked over, talked down to, excluded, "mansplained" too, and underpaid as well. The number of times I've heard women complain about this stuff as if it only happens to women is unreal. Maybe it happens more to women, I don't know, but some women seem to believe it literally never happens to men.

There actually isn't a "boys club" where all the men get together smoke cigars, drink brandy, and discuss how we're going to keep the womenfolk down and rate their b**bs.

ghostofkilgore , Antoni Shkraba Report

Final score:

33points

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René Sauer 3 months ago

Actually, I do believe there exist a few such clubs somewhere.

42points

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#36

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe That we don’t care about our appearance. Many of us do and put effort into looking good.

Final score:

25points

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Donkey boi 3 months ago

I used to. Now I don't.

5points

50 Of The Most Incredible Shots That Were Submitted To The Comedy Wildlife Photography Awards

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French Diver’s “Jewels” In Tight Swimming Trunks Become Talk Of The Town At Olympics

#37

Not all men are obsessed with sports or video games. Many have diverse interests!

Icy_Maintenance_4482 Report

Final score:

23points

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Ben Aziza 3 months ago

Like playing sports in a video game!

15points

#38

That men actually have feelings.

That men want women to be accountable.

forzamusichoops Report

Final score:

21points

POST

Ronald Robin 3 months ago

For real

2points

#39

When we say that your makeup looks fine and you spend another 20 minutes applying stuff, we really mean it.

Uncleknuckle36 Report

Final score:

19points

POST

Terry Rex 3 months ago

When I say I prefer a woman without makeup I actually MEAN it.

11points

Excellent-Collar-383 Report

#40

That men aren’t affected by relationship issues as much as women.

Final score:

19points

POST

#41

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe That having a hard on doesn't always mean I want s*x. After 21 years together, my wife still can't get her head around that.

crimsonavenger77 , MART PRODUCTION Report

Final score:

18points

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Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa) 3 months ago

Some of us get an erection when we have a full bladder. It makes things really complicated.

19points

Woman Moves Out Of Parents' Home After They Asked Her To Give Her Space To Brother, They Freak Out

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Mom Leaves $250k Inheritance To Son, Throws A Fit When Daughter Stops Looking After Her

#42

We walk around late at night feeling completely safe and carefree.

The_Lat_Czar Report

Final score:

17points

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TotallyNOTAFox 3 months ago (edited)

Wouldn't say that, we just have to fear different things happening to us - Personally I think chances that I'm getting SA'ed are way lower than getting stabbed

6points

#43

Men suffer from domestic abuse at roughly an equal rate to women. They're just much less likely to report it and / or be taken seriously when they do.

Ok_Custard6832 Report

Final score:

16points

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Heffalump 3 months ago

Is there evidence for the 'equal rate'. It's certainly under-reported, but I've never heard anyone seriously claim the numbers are roughly equal, and I don't believe they are.

20points

Accomplished-Cat6707 Report

#44

The idea that men don’t need to talk about their feelings.

Final score:

16points

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BoredPossum 3 months ago

You gotta vent, man!

3points

MajIssuesCaptObvious Report

#45

Not noticing beauty takes conscious work. I can not help my brain wanting to notice (not stare at, just notice) an attractive woman. I hate that my mind gravitates to that. I'd love to just work out at the gym completely, entirely focused on my workout, or just walk to the next shop in the mall with my next purchase in mind, but if an attractive woman walks past, my damn brain says, "Look real quick. Notice." I don't know if it has to do with a subconscious trait to look for threats that turns into interest or if the unconscious brain is constantly looking to "spread my genes," but I wish I could just look out for threats then focus on what I'm doing.

Now that the women I hang out with are older (40s), I have had women tell me that they do notice men more, and some are even noticing women, and they can't seem to turn it off. I tell them that's what it's been like for me since I first realized I liked girls.

Final score:

15points

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Amelia Jade 3 months ago

Women have been like this since they started being attracted to people too. This isn't a guy thing.

13points

Woman Refuses To Chip In For Babysitting Because She Doesn’t Even Have Kids, Asks If She’s A Jerk

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“This Breaks My Heart”: People Stunned—And Angry—After Woman Buys Lost Luggage From Airport

#46

I feel like I'm always in a position where I'm expected to be the one that should be proving my love to women. Never the other way around. As if women were some kind of reward/trophy.

I've observed that nearly everywhere. Men have the pressure to actually do something beneficial to the relationship, women don't have that pressure. Women get away with being the "passive" one very often.

Suppi_LL Report

Final score:

12points

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clairebear 3 months ago

Many men just aren't worth making the effort for, women have been burned. They put everything into a relationship and their reward it either to be taken for granted or cheated on. or both. and in worst cases abused. So yeah, you gotta prove yourself, thank other men for that.

9points

#47

That we are only into our own sexual pleasure. I get so turned on by turning on my wife, especially when she hits the big O.

That’s been a challenge since our boy was born and my wife had 2nd degree tearing and has since had to start on antidepressants.

FullSpirit9610 Report

Final score:

12points

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StrangeOne 3 months ago (edited)

There's a mental trauma that effects lack of sexual desire after birth, too. It's hard to think of your body like you did pre-birth or even pre-pregnancy. You get scared of re-injuring yourself and becoming pregnant again. Knowing how much destruction birth has wrecked havoc on the body is horrifying and you just don't feel attractive and sexy. You feel like your body is for a child, and children are symbols of innocence and in need of nurturing, and in your mind you don't want to confuse the feeling of sexual pleasure with feeding your baby. It may or may not get better. PPD is also a big part.

5points

#48

Some women do not ask about “what is on your mind”. I know this because I have waited for my wife to say it to use it to say something raunchy.

# We have been together for NINE years. She has asked me ZERO times “what is on your mind”.

ahjteam Report

Final score:

11points

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Donkey boi 3 months ago

Feel sorry for you my man. My wife asks all the time.

6points

"I Didn't Start The Dryer": Karen Gets Taught A Lesson After Throwing Out Neighbor's Wet Clothes

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Guy Divorced 3 Years Ago Drops Off 3 Y.O. With His Ex-Wife Completely Out Of The Blue

#49

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe The dating playing field is not level, it’s just not. Women have the better odds and it doesn’t seem close.

fridgemanosteel , Good Faces Agency Report

Final score:

11points

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Ben Aziza 3 months ago

I am speaking in generalities here. The best explanation i got for people being frustrated with dating is the following. The Men feel like they don't have options no matter what they try. The women feel like they only have BAD options no matter what they try. They key is to keep a flexible mind and not devolve into negative thinking not matter how many bad examples you got. Because it is more likely that you just got unlucky or have been dating in a toxic place than the whole world being full of toxic ppl. When you devolve into negative thoughts and gender wars that is all you will see. Then it becomes your reality... that women are gold digging cows and men are assaulting bears. if you became one of those people then that is all you will attract too... Since everyone else will move out of the way to more positive things. Sorry for preaching. I mean thanks for attending my ted talk.

6points

#50

I’ve been with my wife for 14 years and just last week I mentioned blue balls and she defiantly exclaimed “blue balls is a myth!”.

My guess is she learned in school that blue balls isn’t a valid reason for a guy to use as an excuse for sexual acts and she conflated that to meaning blue balls isn’t real at all.

Marty_Mac_Fly Report

Final score:

10points

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BoredPossum 3 months ago

The balls won't be blue.

3points

ActualInteraction0 Report

#51

We don't think our differences mean we are "better".

Final score:

7points

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setsuriseikou 3 months ago

Hm, I wonder how the phrase "like a girl" came to be.

10points

Responsible_Golf_235 Report

#52

That we are less harmful than a bear.

Final score:

7points

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Paula MV 3 months ago

This statement suggests a misunderstanding of the bear analogy. We know we are in danger with a bear. We can't be sure if we are in danger with men. Unfortunately for many of us, men have assaulted us and often they were men we trusted.

18points

“All Three Shot Out Pink”: Triplets' Baby Shower Turns Sour, Pregnant Wife Wants A Divorce

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College Student Does Exactly As Told After Roommates Demand They Keep Their Stuff In Their Room

#53

Surprisingly morning wood.

Sea-Job-5223 Report

Final score:

7points

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TotallyNOTAFox 3 months ago

Just the daily check of body functions - and the most annoying one, too

2points

Weak-Distribution-83 Report

#54

I do not express my emotions the same way as women. Don’t expect me to and don’t get mad when I behave like a man. I live in a house full of women. Just leave me alone.

ind3pend0nt Report

Final score:

5points

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Donkey boi 3 months ago

I'd like a bit more info about what op means when he says 'behave like a man'? Because as a man that grew up in a house full of women, I learned to use my words.

7points

#55

The Man cold.

Final score:

5points

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Donkey boi 3 months ago

Had someone from head office accuse me of having 'Man flu', via the company messaging system. I just replied 'That's a bit sexist.' All of a sudden I've got messages from HR apologising for the 'hurtful comments' I received. A fecking company wide memo has been sent out, sensitivity training invites have gone out... FFS! I wasn't trying to change the world, I just wanted to point out the absurdity of the term. For the record, it was my first sick day in 7 years (I stupidly got covid when the practice was closed, so didn't get to use and sick days).

0points

#56

We can go #1 and #2 at the same time.

darkonark Report

Final score:

5points

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Jill Rhodry 3 months ago

Yeah that's just relaxing your pelvic floor - but also, we can go #1 and #2 and #3 all at the at the same time. 😜

9points

#57

That we are more privileged than them and that our lives are easier.

I'm sorry, but no. Them deciding that we have it easier when they haven't lived a minute in our shoes doesn't fly with me.

Maffioze Report

Final score:

4points

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Jill Rhodry 3 months ago

Ok, but doesn't that mean it works in reverse too which means you can't actually say it's not true?

13points

#58

Men are the most romantic creatures.

We wrote the most romantic poems, books, songs, movies and anything and everything in between.

ArmaNGeddn_2157 Report

Final score:

-6points

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Heffalump 3 months ago

We ran the publishing houses that published only male authors, and books by women were by 'a lady' or under a male pseudonym, e.g. George Eliot. Jane Austin is one hell of an outlier.

12points

#59

I wouldn’t say women think this is a lie, but I’ve never met a woman who has a full understanding of the fact that the male orgasm is a biological imperative. That is, if we never have sex and never touch ourselves, our bodies will force us to have an orgasm anyway, in our sleep, and there’s nothing we can do about it.

No amount of just taking a cold shower and thinking pure thoughts will make our biological imperative go away. When men talk about being horny or needing s*x… this is what we mean. That orgasm is going to happen one way or another. It’s not our “fault.” It’s not because we’re “creeps.” It’s not because “all we think about is s*x.” It’s because our bodies are built this way, and if women find that frustrating or off-putting, they can take it up with the Great Watchmaker.

AttimusMorlandre Report

Final score:

-7points

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Amelia Jade 3 months ago

This just isn't true. First of all--having an orgasm in one's sleep is not isolated to males. Women do it too. It is simply a typical part of being a human. Second--it has nothing to do with how much sex someone is or isn't having. There is no proven correlation between masturbating or having sex and how often one will orgasm in their sleep. And even if there were proof that was true--you NEEDING sex is a YOU problem. If your partner isn't in the mood then you have a hand. Your partner does not need to be present for that orgasm that is going to "happen one way or another." This person absolutely sounds like a creep.

18points

#60

Something women believe is a lie, but is actually true. Men are not complicated. We are simple creatures. When we aren't listening, it means we aren't listening. When we are horny, we are horny and you can either be a part of it or we'll take care of it ourselves. We will cuddle after sex for you, not for us.

If a man doesn't text you as fast as you think is appropriate, it's because we're busy and don't wish to lose focus. Getting annoyed with our lack of communication will only male us not want to communicate.

Anything we do for a woman is for one goal. Sex. Quid pro quo. I do something for you, I'm expecting something sexual in return.

Nephilim6853 Report

Final score:

-30points

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Heffalump 3 months ago (edited)

Last para is flat out wrong for most men. What we do for a women is normally for the joy of making her happy. Nothing makes a man feel more manly than 'made mah woman smile'

27points

Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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What do you think ?

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Aaron Parker 3 months ago (edited)

It's good to be gay, folks. It's good to be gay.

12points

STJ 2 months ago

All men are gay

0points

similarly 3 months ago

Okay, what about me do I think might surprise women? I like intelligent women. I have female friends. I care about the feelings of the women around me. I'm in my fifties, but I still make an effort to learn more and more how to be a better person, how treat others the way they want to be treated. I said this in a comment above, but I'll say it again: I think I've learned a lot at BP. I think reading people's comments, and learning about people's experiences has really helped me think about how I talk to people, how I act around people. It's really helped me to read about things, for example, that people don't like, or that make people uncomfortable. I think that's the important thing about our communication at BP, is our ability to share with each other and learn from each other through communication.

10points

Auntriarch 3 months ago

Yes! Also I can promise you that the question 'what are you thinking ' will empty my mind quicker than a Dyson vacuum cleaner

6points

Ronald Robin 3 months ago

damn some of these were c**p. where is bp getting the posts from?

6points

Serena Myers 3 months ago

In this case, Reddit.

4points

Joe Bloe 3 months ago

I see this as a looong sexist post, trying to point out how women and men are different, when in the end, we are all the same, with the same experiences, same problems we have to deal with. If you think something happen to you because of your sex only, I can assure you someone from the other sex experienced the exact same thing. Men and women are though to pitch against one another way too often.

4points

Ben Aziza 3 months ago

Some of these posts that generalize women are sexist. I think i only commented on the ones focused on the men. In the same manner i see some women oriented poss here that generalize men. I do the same thing i only interact with the ones that focus on the women. And what i have noticed under such posts that dont generalize if you swap man and woman... It is the SAME THING! the same concepts the same issues in life! It is almost like we are all humans! So you are absolutely RIGHT!

4points

Steve Hall 3 months ago

There was some truth to some of these statements, but there was an equal amount of bull also.

2points

Adam Benson 3 months ago

I would add that we really do like appreciation for all we do - for working hard and putting in long hours at jobs we probably don't like to pay the bills. It's really nice to get a thank you or pat on the back now and again. Women have it tough as working mothers but working husbands/boyfriends and fathers need recognition too.

1point

Janet L 2 months ago

My daughter’s friends have checklists regarding boyfriend height, income, car, job etc which causes them to dismiss any man who doesn’t fit the bill. They miss out on wonderful caring funny men because of these puerile material asks.

0points

Lee Stone 3 months ago

Some of these were great, but most just seemed like guys that believe terrible things about women. Like do you really think that women would be shocked to find out men grieve, that some aren't shallow, that some struggle to find love or attention? If some of these posts are true, the men leaving them must believe women are literal monsters. Also, a post about being a bad communicator followed by a complaint women don't understand you? THEYRE RELATED!

0points

Neopet22 3 months ago (edited)

I think those men speak from personal experiences more than anything. Of course not all women/men are the same but if you had s****y relationships or met awful people,your opinion would definitely be on the negative side.

0points

notlikeyou1971 3 months ago

Another reason victims of abuse don't say anything is because when they do, they are blamed for " provoking" them ." What did you do to cause it?" Instead of looking at the fact that some sick scumbag can't control themselves and gets their kicks off of overpowering a person who is smaller and weaker than them. They are disgusting and so is the person who blames the victim

0points

JB 3 months ago

This is a rare post where the guys on Reddit opened up. There were horrifying comments on both Reddit and here where someone proved the point that guys aren’t allowed to express their pain because “women had it worse”. Abuse isn’t gender specific! Statistics don’t mean sh1t when you’re faced with someone hurt. I just wanna hug everyone who got hurt and whisper tomorrow might be different.

0points

Noproblem 3 months ago

True or False? A male friend once told me if it’s not cold out, and a guy shivers, it means he has to pee.

0points

Aaron Parker 3 months ago

It's common to shiver during or after a nice long pee.

2points

Mariele Scherzinger 3 months ago (edited)

To each their own. I have two brothers, and grew up hearing unfiltered comments about women. Both of them like dolled up women, Meghan Fox type, and they like them tattooed. One of them actually likes smart women, the other is not much of a thinker himself, so his expectations in intelligence are low. One of them has a history of sleeping around, the other has a tendency to pick difficult women and be miserable in the long run, as he is usually good-natured and easy to push around. Both of them love fast cars and other ways to express their masculinity. Both of them adore their various man toys. One collects old toys from his childhood (Masters of the Universe etc.), the other still plays XBox and other games excessively.

0points

David Paterson 3 months ago (edited)

That men can drive safely. A surprisingly large percentage of women will never understand that emitting a high pitched scream while their husband is driving will not improve the quality of his driving. Nor will hanging on for dear life every time he drives around a bend at the signposted speed, pressing a nonexistent brake pedal every time he drives down a hill, or saying "car coming car coming car coming" when it's in a different lane, or reciting the speed limit when it reduces.

-1point

frank behnsen 3 months ago

Heterocentristic views on life suck. Which would be a good thing if only they could occasionally focus on other body regions just for a change.

-2points

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Aaron Parker 3 months ago (edited)

It's good to be gay, folks. It's good to be gay.

12points

STJ 2 months ago

All men are gay

0points

similarly 3 months ago

10points

Auntriarch 3 months ago

Yes! Also I can promise you that the question 'what are you thinking ' will empty my mind quicker than a Dyson vacuum cleaner

6points

Ronald Robin 3 months ago

damn some of these were c**p. where is bp getting the posts from?

6points

Serena Myers 3 months ago

In this case, Reddit.

4points

Joe Bloe 3 months ago

4points

Ben Aziza 3 months ago

4points

Steve Hall 3 months ago

There was some truth to some of these statements, but there was an equal amount of bull also.

2points

Adam Benson 3 months ago

1point

Janet L 2 months ago

0points

Lee Stone 3 months ago

0points

Neopet22 3 months ago (edited)

0points

notlikeyou1971 3 months ago

0points

JB 3 months ago

0points

Noproblem 3 months ago

True or False? A male friend once told me if it’s not cold out, and a guy shivers, it means he has to pee.

0points

Aaron Parker 3 months ago

It's common to shiver during or after a nice long pee.

2points