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“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe You can think someone is attractive without being attractED to them.

Accel_Lex , KoolShooters Report

Final score:

206points

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Amelia Jade 3 months ago

I'm a woman and I absolutely believe this. I see men all the time that I can see are attractive. I can see why other people find them attractive, but I'm not attracted to them. Off the top of my head: Jason Momoa. He's clearly an attractive man. I can see that. But I'm not attracted to him. He does nothing for me. It's no different than all the women I find attractive that I'm not attracted to because I'm straight. I still have eyes though and can appreciate why others might be attracted to them.

191points

Vegetable-Mall-2329 , Tomé Louro Report

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe The reason why so many men don't show emotion is because at one point in our lives, we opened up, and it was used against us to some degree. It's happened to almost every man at some point. We choose to be distant so we don't get hurt again.

Final score:

199points

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Kimberly Alison 3 months ago

This happens to women over and over again. We’ve been hurt too. It’s still better to share who you are.

107points

It’s no wonder that there’s some misinformation about any topic, including men, floating around on the World Wide Web. People are more likely to believe information that gets repeated more frequently. This is true for both real facts and gossip.

This phenomenon is called the illusory truth effect. It’s a cognitive bias where individuals associate reliability and plausibility with repetition. Somewhat worryingly, it holds true even when someone starts off knowing that the information they’re hearing is false or if they’re suspicious of the source’s reliability.

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe Sometimes we aren't consciously staring at some part of your body, we're just zoned out thinking about something and you happen to be in the line of sight.

Flatulatio , Chinmay Singh Report

Final score:

160points

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David 3 months ago

If I am in thought, often I am looking through the person, not at them.

76points

Spektakles882 , RDNE Stock project Report

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe We can talk with our male friends for hours, and not find out a damn thing about what’s going on with their lives.

And we’re still cool with each other.

Final score:

153points

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Ben Aziza 3 months ago

I have known a guy for 5 years. Played D&D together and yet his name still eludes me. I know him by the nickname...

38points

Scotira 3 months ago

🤣 this feels like a very common thing in D&D and/or LARP at least in my experience. I know and call most of my friends by their nick however ask me their real names, in some cases I have to think really hard about it. And we are talking friends for more than 20 years. Nowadays their kids call me by my nick 🤣😇

8points

HolyDiver 3 months ago

I know my groups first names but not their last... It's weird now that I think about it. It's been like that for over 40 years though.

1point

Edgar Rops 3 months ago

Ex-LARPer here. We've been playing (and that means hiking too) for years, but knew one another by nickname only. Only folks that became close friends learnt real names. Worked like that for both genders.

0points

Rigor Moreno 3 months ago

Its a bro code, you dont ask too personal questions! Wait for them to share info that they want...

4points

Magenta Blu 3 months ago (edited)

That's exactly how conversations should be. please, i really don't want to have personal talks with every single one.. I'm so tired to be that one hearing every thought and wound and grief... There are therapists and reddit posts to vent, i just want small talk, not the history of everyone's traumas. Thanks. I fact I almost stopped talking completely with people, because I got absolutely sick of personal talks.. please people, just stop sharing everything

4points

B Jones 3 months ago

I have enough problems of my own. I don't need to hear yours, unless you really assistance and I can help

0points

fly on the wall 3 months ago

If my friends have something that they want me to know then they will tell me. If I "have to ask" then I am invading their personal space. They know I am there for them if they need me and I am confident that they would reciprocate.

0points

Amelia Jade 3 months ago

My 21 year old son has been best friends with his BFF since they were 7. It is a very rare day that they don't talk. They've pretty much hung out in person or online daily since age 7. I'm always amazed at the things they don't know about each other.

4points

Russell Bowman 3 months ago

Inversely ... 3 or 4 guys in a car ... taking a road trip 2 hours away. Maybe 10-20 sentences exchanged ... still a good time

2points

Winter Eleven 3 months ago

That's me and my best friend... We're both women and talk every day but if someone asks what's she up to... Err well I just talked to her so naturally i have no idea lol

2points

Doctor Detroit 3 months ago

My best friend ended up in the hospital after a bar brawl and the nurse gave me s**t about not knowing his birthday for the check-in. Like b***h, do you even know any men? You planning on buying him a cake or something? I'm sure he doesn't know mine either.

1point

Mark Penwarden 3 months ago

Totally. I often go out with a few close friends and when I get back my wife asks if we talked about this and that, stuff her and the wives/partners talk about. My answer, nope.

1point

R Dennis 3 months ago

I haven't seen my best friend in about 10 years. And about 10 years before that. But we talk on the phone for a couple hours almost every week... it's perfect.

1point

BoredPossum 3 months ago

This exactly! My wife always ask me how my friends families are and don't get that I didn't ask during the three hour phone call. We discussed aliens and the theory of relativity.

1point

BrunoVI 3 months ago

The stuff I learned about my friends by having my wife talk with them! It's not even that I don't care about their lives; I don't know how to ask, and they don't really volunteer, but I have some friends who are way more interesting than I knew before I met my wife!

0points

Tobias Reaper 3 months ago

i was friends with a dude for over 20 years we dont have a single picture together

1point

StrangeOne 3 months ago

Idle chatting about daily lives can be draining. It's like living your life, but then regurgitating everything that's happened all over again to multiple people. No one really cares. Everyone is just trying to find a good time to squeeze in their own experiences while not really taking in what you're talking about. This is why some women just talk over each other, like on The View. I hear some men do this, too, tbf. But it's more common with women. It's hard to find fellow females wanting to talk about anything other than men, their sex lives, their bouts with addiction/bad past lives, their volatile relationship with their parents, kids, work, cooking and what shows they've been binging on.

1point

STJ 2 months ago

And that's just one problem

0points

Ashlie Dearest 3 months ago

Why?

0points

Forrest McCanless 3 months ago

"We still never talk sometimes" - legend.

0points

Sven Horlemann 3 months ago

He he, yep. Guilty.

0points

Yvette Desmarais 3 months ago

What the heck do you talk about?

0points

Lydsylou (she/her) 3 months ago

My dad has friends he doesn't even know the names.of and he's known them like 15 years. I have friends I've known for 3 years and I know more about them than they do themselves

0points

Terry Rex 3 months ago

I only have one friend and don't know much about him at all except I like him. He is a great guy.

0points

Donkey boi 3 months ago

I know what half of my friends do for work; The others, I don't even know if they have a job.

0points

Jon Steensen 3 months ago

Yeah, what goes on in man's life is often rather trivial, and not really that interesting. Hence discussing a common interest, like a hobby or sports seem far more appealing.

-1point

Aroace tiger (she/they/he) 3 months ago

Mood- my friends and I r mostly assigned female at birth

-2points

Helena 3 months ago

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greenguy 3 months ago

bruh

1point

That some of us need an emotional connection to enjoy sex.

penguinmanbat Report

Final score:

153points

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Squirrel Chaser 3 months ago

I absolutely require an emotional connection to enjoy sex.

57points

not_a_cat_i_swear , freestocks.org Report

Psychology Today explains that the illusory truth effect was first established in 1977 with the help of a series of psychological studies. During those studies, researchers found that every time an untrue statement was repeated, people’s confidence in the validity of the information grew.

While this can lead to the accidental spread of misinformation, others can deliberately use this cognitive bias to spread propaganda, especially related to political topics.

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe We don't care for the long gel acrylics or threaded eyebrows or pound of make up.

Final score:

147points

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René Sauer 3 months ago

true. But who says women do it for a man?

157points

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe That as much as you assume we know what you're thinking, we don't. We like directions, instructions, not assuming that we know what we have to do.

Megaman2u , Vera Arsic Report

Final score:

123points

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Amelia Jade 3 months ago

This depends on what he means. I agree that communication is important. But if he's talking about things like household chores--then just no. I shouldn't have to direct and instruct another grown adult what needs to be done in the house. No one is directing and instructing me but I somehow know what needs to get done.

85points

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe Some of us don’t cheat. Some of us don’t like one night stands. I like to know my woman’s body. Easier to make them crazy about me.

WadeFlavor , anait film Report

Final score:

119points

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Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa) 3 months ago

I like to think MOST of us don't cheat. I'm 44 and never cheated once in my life. When I'm into someone I'm all in and I don't see other women that way. Never could wrap my head around cheating.

85points

Automatic-Plastic-53 Report

A major issue with countering the illusory truth effect is that pushing back against misinformation relies on repeating the same lies that you’re trying to debunk. This, ironically, only works to solidify those very same false facts.

One alternative solution is using the truth sandwich approach, as proposed by cognitive linguist George Lakoff. He suggested mentioning the truth, then the lie, and then describing the correct info. Lakoff suggests always repeating more truths than lies.

#10

We actually find you just as attractive without the makeup, my wife still doesn't believe me and gets confused when I compliment her makeup but she actually doesn't have any on. I really can't tell sometimes.

Final score:

117points

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StrangeOne 3 months ago

Some women have such low self-esteem about their natural appearance within themselves, no amount of compliments will convince them otherwise. They worn makeup so much as a part of their morning routine that they don't feel awake and presentable without the pastes, creams and powders slathered on their faces. To them, they would feel unrecognizable and naked, perhaps even scary looking. It's psychological and they need therapy to undo that warped, dysphoric mindset of themselves.

39points

#11

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe Women would be surprised to know just how many of us have been SAed.

savethebros , viresh studio Report

Final score:

107points

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Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa) 3 months ago

THIS! It happened to me more than once. I was 21 years old when I was raped. I also used to date a woman who would get drunk on whiskey and beat me. It's far more common than people think.

86points

#12

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe When I say “I don’t care” about something, I truly do not care. I don’t care if we go to visit your parents or go watch grass grow outside. I really want to do whatever makes you happy.

Knautical_J , Allef Vinicius Report

Final score:

101points

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Fran F 3 months ago

I don’t care, to most women implies either a lack of interest or a dismissal. So if you want fewer fights say “I’m good with whatever you want to do,” not “I don’t care.”

132points

Another alternative is so-called prebunking or inoculation. In short, it involves first explaining how scientific information can be distorted and then moving on to the consensus on the subject.

What false truths have you personally heard about men, Pandas? What misinterpretations do you wish would get corrected everywhere on the internet? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments section.

#13

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe It feels like many women are misinformed about what we find attractive.

Relaxenjoyyourself:
Very true. It seems to me that women get their idea of what a man finds attractive from other women and gay men. I think a lot of celebrity women are too thin and look sick.

Haventyouheard3 , Alexander Mass Report

Final score:

93points

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The Darkest Timeline 3 months ago

Media also warps our sense of what is typical and realistic.

62points

#14

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe The "Nothing Box"...we really do have the ability to think about nothing. Women have a hard trouble believing this. I refer to you the below comedian who explains it well....

Like how so many men love fishing and women can't understand...just switch off and think about nothing.

_VittuPerkele , Austin Neill Report

Final score:

91points

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René Sauer 3 months ago

Wish I could do that. I am constantly thinking about hypothetical scenarios, like, what would I do if I win a couple million in the lottery? What kinda business would I open?

29points

#15

Men want to, need to and would love to be expressive and vulnerable around you, sometimes switching roles and being the one with the shoulder we need to cry on is ok. It doesn’t mean we are weak, it means we trust you like we trust our mother and would like to open up and build a bond where we both feel supported by each other.

I’ve heard a lot of women complain that men don’t share or men aren’t emotional. Tbh if a man gets emotional, y’all either make fun of it, or dismiss him as a weakling, and then ask why we don’t get vulnerable around y’all. We just find it easier to share it with a guy friend (most of whom don’t know how to deal with their own emotional issues so supporting each other is out the window).

And to the few women I’ve met who understand and support men while they’re being vulnerable, thank you.

Bi_guy3 Report

Final score:

90points

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Arkham Wohlfert 3 months ago

Ok, yes, this is a big one. I hate this part. Pick a side, either you want me to be vulnerable, or you don't. Playing both is harmful, confusing and frustrating.

29points

#16

That not all of us are misogynistic, domestic violence prone , controlling , anger issues having a******s . There are many of us who just want to be heard , asked about our interests, accompany you and die fighting for you .
Oh yeah and we just wanna be held sometimes.

Satirical98 Report

Final score:

89points

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BoredPossum 3 months ago

And most of us hate misogyny and a$$hats.

7points

Vlad_The_Great_2 , Jasmine Carter Report

#17

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe Women don’t know what men find attractive. A lot of women I know personally think men love playing mind games. Think playing hot or cold because “men love mystery”. One of the dumbest things I’ve heard in a long time.

Final score:

83points

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winterwidow87 3 months ago

I think it's being ingrained in them by romance novels/movies. The same type of novels/movies that tell the guy to keep chasing the girl after she said no because eventually she'll give in. Those things have done so much damage for straight relationships.

47points

#18

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe 1) Sometimes erections happen and has nothing to do with what we're seeing or thinking about.

2) We really don't get complimented ever. I've seen some women on here recently claim this isn't true.

3) Women are just as responsible as men for men suppressing emotions.

MartialBob , Jeremy Perkins Report

Final score:

81points

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StrangeOne 3 months ago

I think women just don't compliment men because we're worried it's not something men are comfortable with, or it's deemed as not masculine to give a compliment. Women may also feel like if we give a compliment we're inviting the interaction to go further than wanted.

52points

SwearToSaintBatman Report

#19

That we are ready to bang anytime. First of all, I can't get aroused about a woman I don't respect. Don't care how bouncy your figure is if you talk down to the help.

Final score:

81points

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R Dennis 3 months ago

Ugly on the inside trumps beauty on the outside.

22points

Always_Choose_Chaos , cottonbro studio Report

#20

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe It hurts when you invalidate our feelings or tell us we are bad at things.

Final score:

75points

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juni 3 months ago

Yeah. Of course.Everybody wants to be taken seriously. Men and women. I don't quite understand how that seems to be something some people don't seems to understand.

24points

Sufficient-Produce83 , Mike Greer Report

#21

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe Sometimes we don't feel like talking doesn't mean there is anything wrong. We just need time in our own heads sometimes.

Final score:

70points

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Hugh Crawford 3 months ago

Re: see zoning out

15points

#22

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe I gave up dating and chasing women years ago. I was never any good at it and never found it was worth the effort. I'm perfectly fine single so I just can't muster the enthusiasm to bother putting the effort in any more.

My female friends and family flat out refuse to believe I haven't been on a date or hooked up with anyone in about 5 years. They view all guys as desperate, s*x crazed maniacs and the notion that as a single, straight, apparently reasonably attractive man I'm not out trying to hook up with women constantly just does not compute with them and they refuse to believe it.

They think I'm lying or I'm hiding some secret harem of women somewhere, and I've even had some of them try to test if I'm actually gay and hiding it. When I've explained my issues with dating to them in the past they just scoff at it and say 'why don't you just go to a bar and hook up with someone or download a dating app', as if that's all I have to do and I'll have women lining up to get with me. They're baffled when I say it's not that easy for some guys.

chadgalaxy , Pixabay Report

Final score:

68points

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Ben Aziza 3 months ago

I think this dude was around too many people who care about the physical more than the emotional. Also Hot = lots of sex. That is all they see... That is very f****d up regardless of gender.

26points

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#23

Many women believe we don’t care about emotional connection as much as they do, but in reality, we often value it deeply but might express it differently.

Future-World-4024 Report

Final score:

64points

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Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa) 3 months ago

I blame "gender roles". Strong men are supposed to be stoic and strong. Utter BS. We aren't that different.

39points

#24

There are many of us who can work full-time, raise kids, and maintain a household perfectly fine.

izzzy12k Report

Final score:

61points

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Khavrinen 3 months ago

Which just makes me more irritated at the "weaponized incompetence" bastards who make the rest of us look bad.

28points

#25

That we can find women who look very different attractive at the same time.

IrregularBastard Report

Final score:

60points

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Amelia Jade 3 months ago

Women do this too. I have pretty equal crushes on both Keanu Reeves and Chris Farley, and was crazy about Donald Sutherland.

21points

#26

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe We don’t want our girl to be like the girl I like on my instagram feed.

IkramAli007 , Nathan Dumlao Report

Final score:

59points

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Hugh Crawford 3 months ago

Then why do you like her on the feed?

72points

#27

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe We can go months without ever receiving any attention from the opposite sex.

Agreeable-Many7054 , Zen Chung Report

Final score:

55points

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Christopher Crockett 3 months ago

It’s been close to a decade. My own fault really, I just stopped dating when I felt I had nothing left to offer. I miss being with someone that way, but if there isn’t any connection, I just can’t abide. I’m just scenery for other peoples stories now. Not complaining, just stating what is.

26points

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#28

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe That we don't just care about s*x, and that some of us actually care very little about it at all.

orlybatman , cottonbro studio Report

Final score:

52points

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Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa) 3 months ago

There's that whole myth that men think about sex every 12 seconds. It's simply not true.

27points

#29

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe We really dont talk s**t or sex about you.

Can't remember the last time a bud has talked about their sex life or drama life, we just don't talk about that.

Ta-veren- , Helena Lopes Report

Final score:

52points

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Arkham Wohlfert 3 months ago

Ok yeah, this one is just false. When I began "passing" as male after being on hormones to transition from female to male, one of the top 2 major differences I noticed right away was that when men didn't know i was trans they would just randomly start talking super inappropriately about women in their lives, or even just some woman that just left the room. When they know i am, it's rare but still happens. It's either "that b***h is crazy" or something about their bodies and what they do or don't want to do with them. It's far worse than I expected, actually.

36points

#30

The likelihood that we will be over 6 foot, have a good family life, can travel anywhere at the drop of a hat _and_ making 6 figure income is extremely small.

Harms88 Report

Final score:

50points

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Ben Aziza 3 months ago

Tiktok brain should be ignored.

27points

Crusty_Dingleberries Report

#31

1. erections are involuntary. Sometimes a response to mental or physical stimulation, but sometimes you can find yourself having an erection you don't want, and everyone thinks you're horny when you're not.
2. we have a stitchline on our balls from when the labia fused in the womb to create what then became the ballsack.
3. we all have a shoebox of old wires, adapters, connectors, and cables.
4. sometimes we slam doors and break things, not because we're angry or anything like that, but it can be hard to control your strength sometimes, so you might slam a door and then instantly recoil like "oh f**k oh f**k oh f**k" because you realized you shut it too hard - this is also why some men might be averse/scared to choke or slap girls in bed who ask for it; we don't want to cause actual harm, and it's very easy to accidentally go too hard.
5. I don't know anything about, nor talk about, my friends' partners. I care about my friends, but I don't ever think to ask about their partners. whether it's a person they're dating, or one they're set to marry.
6. A lot of guys can be satisfied with a mattress on the floor, a tv and a fridge with only basic supplies. Anything else is nice-to-have, but not necessary for us to want to spend our entire weekend at home just lounging around.
7. and of course, we spend years trying different positions to optimize our fart-sounds.

Final score:

49points

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Skid Marks 3 months ago

I think I need to work harder on number 7.

22points

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#32

We feel sadness after a break up.

MikeyBGeek Report

Final score:

46points

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StrangeOne 3 months ago

Who would think otherwise?

34points

#33

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe That it’s entirely possible to be a perfectly decent guy with social skills and a good heart, yet still struggle to find love.

I’ve found that, as a man, if you ever say you’re struggling with dating, YOU by default are the problem and people will turn into private investigators trying to find out what’s wrong with you. Maybe you’re unhygienic, or you just don’t groom yourself, or you’re secretly a misogynist. It has to be *something*

No, that’s not necessarily true. That is called the Just World Fallacy. If you can’t get a date, people will often give you nothing advice like “just take a shower,” assuming that if dating is a struggle for you then you must genuinely be that clueless. There are scores of well put together men that just aren’t finding love for any number of reasons that are out of their control and insinuating that they always must be doing something wrong perpetuates the stigma against people who are single in adulthood. The stigma that they’re single because something is wrong with them.

I don’t doubt a lot of men have some ridiculous blind spots in the dating world, but based on dating discourse I’ve seen on here, it seems a lot of women think all a man has to do is be a good and fun human being and he’ll be snatched up immediately.

NawfSideNative , LexScope Report

Final score:

45points

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John Cole 3 months ago

So true. Its a lot of pressure to think its always something you are doing wrong. The older I get, the more I think formal dates are quite weird anyway. My wife of 10 years, the best thing when we first met was how little pressure there was. We just hung out and had fun with no judgement, that's how we knew! Every other date I'd been on was just so dang exhausting.

13points

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#34

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe When we say we're fine we mean it... Alternatively if we say we aren't thinking about anything.

Ultralusk , Priscilla Du Preez Report

Final score:

36points

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LonelyLittleLeafSheep 3 months ago

Fine. F****d up, insecure, neurotic, and emotional. Yep, everybody's just fine.

1point

#35

“After 21 Years, My Wife Still Can’t Get Her Head Around”: 35 Facts About Men Women Don’t Believe That almost all the s****y things that happen to women at work also happen to men. We get talked over, talked down to, excluded, "mansplained" too, and underpaid as well. The number of times I've heard women complain about this stuff as if it only happens to women is unreal. Maybe it happens more to women, I don't know, but some women seem to believe it literally never happens to men.

There actually isn't a "boys club" where all the men get together smoke cigars, drink brandy, and discuss how we're going to keep the womenfolk down and rate their b**bs.

ghostofkilgore , Antoni Shkraba Report

Final score:

33points

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René Sauer 3 months ago

Actually, I do believe there exist a few such clubs somewhere.

42points

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Aaron Parker 3 months ago (edited)

It's good to be gay, folks. It's good to be gay.

12points

STJ 2 months ago

All men are gay

0points

similarly 3 months ago

Okay, what about me do I think might surprise women? I like intelligent women. I have female friends. I care about the feelings of the women around me. I'm in my fifties, but I still make an effort to learn more and more how to be a better person, how treat others the way they want to be treated. I said this in a comment above, but I'll say it again: I think I've learned a lot at BP. I think reading people's comments, and learning about people's experiences has really helped me think about how I talk to people, how I act around people. It's really helped me to read about things, for example, that people don't like, or that make people uncomfortable. I think that's the important thing about our communication at BP, is our ability to share with each other and learn from each other through communication.

10points

Auntriarch 3 months ago

Yes! Also I can promise you that the question 'what are you thinking ' will empty my mind quicker than a Dyson vacuum cleaner

6points

Ronald Robin 3 months ago

damn some of these were c**p. where is bp getting the posts from?

6points

Serena Myers 3 months ago

In this case, Reddit.

4points

Joe Bloe 3 months ago

I see this as a looong sexist post, trying to point out how women and men are different, when in the end, we are all the same, with the same experiences, same problems we have to deal with. If you think something happen to you because of your sex only, I can assure you someone from the other sex experienced the exact same thing. Men and women are though to pitch against one another way too often.

4points

Ben Aziza 3 months ago

Some of these posts that generalize women are sexist. I think i only commented on the ones focused on the men. In the same manner i see some women oriented poss here that generalize men. I do the same thing i only interact with the ones that focus on the women. And what i have noticed under such posts that dont generalize if you swap man and woman... It is the SAME THING! the same concepts the same issues in life! It is almost like we are all humans! So you are absolutely RIGHT!

4points

Steve Hall 3 months ago

There was some truth to some of these statements, but there was an equal amount of bull also.

2points

Adam Benson 3 months ago

I would add that we really do like appreciation for all we do - for working hard and putting in long hours at jobs we probably don't like to pay the bills. It's really nice to get a thank you or pat on the back now and again. Women have it tough as working mothers but working husbands/boyfriends and fathers need recognition too.

1point

Janet L 1 month ago

My daughter’s friends have checklists regarding boyfriend height, income, car, job etc which causes them to dismiss any man who doesn’t fit the bill. They miss out on wonderful caring funny men because of these puerile material asks.

0points

Lee Stone 3 months ago

Some of these were great, but most just seemed like guys that believe terrible things about women. Like do you really think that women would be shocked to find out men grieve, that some aren't shallow, that some struggle to find love or attention? If some of these posts are true, the men leaving them must believe women are literal monsters. Also, a post about being a bad communicator followed by a complaint women don't understand you? THEYRE RELATED!

0points

Neopet22 3 months ago (edited)

I think those men speak from personal experiences more than anything. Of course not all women/men are the same but if you had s****y relationships or met awful people,your opinion would definitely be on the negative side.

0points

notlikeyou1971 3 months ago

Another reason victims of abuse don't say anything is because when they do, they are blamed for " provoking" them ." What did you do to cause it?" Instead of looking at the fact that some sick scumbag can't control themselves and gets their kicks off of overpowering a person who is smaller and weaker than them. They are disgusting and so is the person who blames the victim

0points

JB 3 months ago

This is a rare post where the guys on Reddit opened up. There were horrifying comments on both Reddit and here where someone proved the point that guys aren’t allowed to express their pain because “women had it worse”. Abuse isn’t gender specific! Statistics don’t mean sh1t when you’re faced with someone hurt. I just wanna hug everyone who got hurt and whisper tomorrow might be different.

0points

Noproblem 3 months ago

True or False? A male friend once told me if it’s not cold out, and a guy shivers, it means he has to pee.

0points

Aaron Parker 3 months ago

It's common to shiver during or after a nice long pee.

2points

Mariele Scherzinger 3 months ago (edited)

To each their own. I have two brothers, and grew up hearing unfiltered comments about women. Both of them like dolled up women, Meghan Fox type, and they like them tattooed. One of them actually likes smart women, the other is not much of a thinker himself, so his expectations in intelligence are low. One of them has a history of sleeping around, the other has a tendency to pick difficult women and be miserable in the long run, as he is usually good-natured and easy to push around. Both of them love fast cars and other ways to express their masculinity. Both of them adore their various man toys. One collects old toys from his childhood (Masters of the Universe etc.), the other still plays XBox and other games excessively.

0points

David Paterson 3 months ago (edited)

That men can drive safely. A surprisingly large percentage of women will never understand that emitting a high pitched scream while their husband is driving will not improve the quality of his driving. Nor will hanging on for dear life every time he drives around a bend at the signposted speed, pressing a nonexistent brake pedal every time he drives down a hill, or saying "car coming car coming car coming" when it's in a different lane, or reciting the speed limit when it reduces.

-1point

frank behnsen 3 months ago

Heterocentristic views on life suck. Which would be a good thing if only they could occasionally focus on other body regions just for a change.

-2points

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Aaron Parker 3 months ago (edited)

It's good to be gay, folks. It's good to be gay.

12points

STJ 2 months ago

All men are gay

0points

similarly 3 months ago

10points

Auntriarch 3 months ago

Yes! Also I can promise you that the question 'what are you thinking ' will empty my mind quicker than a Dyson vacuum cleaner

6points

Ronald Robin 3 months ago

damn some of these were c**p. where is bp getting the posts from?

6points

Serena Myers 3 months ago

In this case, Reddit.

4points

Joe Bloe 3 months ago

4points

Ben Aziza 3 months ago

4points

Steve Hall 3 months ago

There was some truth to some of these statements, but there was an equal amount of bull also.

2points

Adam Benson 3 months ago

1point

Janet L 1 month ago

0points

Lee Stone 3 months ago

0points

Neopet22 3 months ago (edited)

0points

notlikeyou1971 3 months ago

0points

JB 3 months ago

0points

Noproblem 3 months ago

True or False? A male friend once told me if it’s not cold out, and a guy shivers, it means he has to pee.

0points

Aaron Parker 3 months ago

It's common to shiver during or after a nice long pee.

2points