There's a balance here, though; you need to feel like your feelings are valid, but you also need perspective. too much either way is bad.

Are there really people who do that?

I realize I am in the minority here - But I actually hate that it is assumed that my wife does all of those things and gets all the glory, when I am the one who does them all.

most of the time, they just want to be brutal. the honesty is just coincidental

definitely.

Yea

Yes it is. And my biggest pet peeve is when someone says, "that triggers my OCD." Bish, if you had OCD you would ALWAYS be triggered and trying to manage it. That is how OCD works. I cannot turn it off or turn it on again. I MANAGE my symptoms.

Yeah, I have OCD, hate it when people joke about it.

Maybe add depression to that as well. For some unfathomable reason, it appears to be quite trendy to claim 'depression' at every minor disappointment in life. Anyone who has or has had depression can testify that it's a living, waking nightmare of epic proportions.

omg I have OCD it isn't just liking to clean it is thoughts getting into your head for the longest time whenever I would walk across the street flashes of cars hitting me went through my head like in a movie but worse I hate people that like clean something and then like omg! my OCD is terrible hehehe like no bruh

It has caused a lot of problems with people who actually have it. Being type A does not equal OCD

I'm not doing all those nervous ticks to be cool, I can't help it.

THANK YOU

THIS! Having rituals and compulsions is not something to be taken lightly. Some people have a hard time functioning because of their OCD.

Can someone educate me on what having OCD is like? I've always tried to understand but still am a bit confused. But I agree, having an illness is not ever trendy. People who fake illnesses for attention are a**holes.

All the OCD jokes that are going around are also causing people to take it less seriously, a lot of the times when you tell someone that you have OCD they won't care, they'll either think "well everyone does" or "no you don't, that's just an excuse".

Which puts pressure on others double with this attitude. You just cant reason with them. All of the sudden you are the one against humanity cuz they compare themselves with the handicap, and you're the one making fun of that. Anyway I believe an asshole handicap is an asshole anyway..

agreed

So my mum and I are diseased? I don't have nearly as many problems as I should with that...

Also think about the people on the receiving end who probably don't want to be on some stranger's social media while they are in a bad place in their lives.

people who are upbeat and positive all the time tend to irritate me

Who does that? I'm a Scorpio and I am so annoyed by all the negative prejudices. No, I am not a psychopath because I was born in November and I am certainly not going to make anyone believe that this is a thing.

YES don't just self-diagnose because you daydream. Tell me once a professional diagnoses you bitch

#Facts. Sure you want to spend time with each other but you also have lives outside of it. I don't mean to ignore your partner either btw.

yeah, very dangerous trend...

Yea that sucks

Or exes who hate the current partner of their ex-partner for the same reason

let me tell you, my mother is getting married to her boyfriend and he has met my grandmother and she is NOT abusive nor is my mom's boyfriend's mom abusive to her as far as I know. this needs to stop since it puts a bad name of MIL

Just bc it’s a kid doesn’t mean it’s less important

I generally try to show respect to every person I meet until they give me reason to stop respecting them.

Kids might prefer divorced parents to a home where fights and anger are a daily issue.

Many romantic movies do this and it irritates me. So many creepy or abusive actions or traits are seen as romantic in movies because the love interest is physically attractive. Just stop....

"Hustle" has just become so overused and watered down. What they don't show you is 95% of those "hustlers" have financial support outside of the hustle.

Wat. shes jelly then

This one is weird. The Friend Zone just means that someone you like doesn't like you back, it will happen to every adult at some point in their life, it has nothing to do with being owed something.

this is actually rlly disrespectful and disgusting. m8, if they let you use their phone its bc they trust you. don't exploit that.

I am assuming they mean a partner that wants to know exactly what you're doing every second of the day and want you to be with them 24/7....I'm assuming.

who else thought of "oh she's sweet but a psycho"

Yeah like my ex friends beat me up ( I had bruises) I got horrible anxiety that they would stab me while I was outside bc my mum asked me to go to the store, after the weekend one of them ( didn't even apologise) asked if we could be friends again and I said no bc they beat me caused me pain and anxiety and made me scared to go outside

I feel that this attitude has thankfully changed in the part of the world that I live in, it seems mad to me that someone would think that hitting a child is somehow okay.

love can break down. it doesn't matter how long you have been together it matters if your love is still strong that can build up a relationship

Best way to improve your body image: Throw away any fashion magazines. Go to places where you see real people's bodies, e.g. public pools. (Saunas if you live in a place where this is a thing. Seeing naked strangers will show you that NO ONE has the perfect body.)