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In an interview with psychologist and family therapist Shannon Benson, Bored Panda asked her to explain the role of gender roles and cultural backgrounds in how exes communicate after a breakup. "Gender roles can influence the way that men and women express their emotions and communicate with their exes," said Benson.

"For example, traditional gender roles may suggest that men are supposed to be less expressive of their emotions and more likely to suppress them, while women are expected to be more open and expressive. This may result in men being less likely to initiate communication with their exes, or less likely to express vulnerability and sadness, while women may be more likely to reach out and express their feelings."

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30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community He asked everyone he knew to call me and say what a loser I am, etc., but I got no calls. Turns out they all sided with me and now a have another huge group of friends.

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Batgirl Kitty 2 years ago

I’m glad it ended well for you!

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30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community Not mine but was given permission to share it.

My sister dated this guy for like 2 years. Super manipulative and toxic a**hole. He flipped his lid when she finally had enough and broke it off.

Told her she was "f*cking worthless anyways" and "___ was a better f*ck anyhow" then he told her he had been planning to "drop [her] a** anyhow because [she was] starting to really pack on the pounds and it was getting gross."

She had an eating disorder for years. And she was really only starting to get back to a healthy weight, so calling her fat was possibly the cruelest thing he could've done.

Luckily, shed been going to therapy by that point and was really happy with the added weight so the words didn't do what he wanted.

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Huddo's sister 2 years ago

Those type of people really are so weak they feel they have to prey on other's weaknesses and insecurities to make themselves feel better. She is well rid of them.

83points

Benson also highlighted that cultural backgrounds can play a role in how exes communicate after a breakup. "Different cultures may have different expectations or norms around communication, emotional expression, and relationships," she noted.

"For example, some cultures may place more emphasis on preserving relationships and maintaining harmony, while others may be more individualistic and focus on personal growth and self-expression. This may result in exes from different cultural backgrounds communicating differently after a breakup. For example, in some cultures, direct confrontation might be seen as impolite and be avoided, while other cultures may view direct confrontation as an important aspect of communication."

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community My ex (mother to my son) said I'm a sad a loser and no one else would want me. She abused me for the two years we were together. I've been in a happy relationship for 7 years now and have the best relationship with my son from my ex. I also have a son with my current partner. :)

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151points

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Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago

Happy to know you proved them wrong ;)

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30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community "You're nothing but a lazy user who nobody wants and nobody loves!!! I also reported your dog stolen and sent both your pictures to every vet in the state so you'll be arrested when you bring him in for his shots!!!"

Not finished with all the legal nonsense, but a no-contact order works wonders.

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135points

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Lena Z 2 years ago

How can anyone stoop so low as to stop someone to take their pet to the vet??

87points

The family therapist also told us about the distinction between healthy and unhealthy communication from an ex post-breakup. "Healthy communication is characterized by mutual respect, kindness, and a willingness to listen and understand each other's perspective," shared Shannon. "It is focused on resolving conflicts and finding a way to move forward in a positive way. It is respectful and non-threatening. On the other hand, unhealthy communication can be disrespectful and often includes personal attacks, verbal abuse or manipulation, and attempts to control the other person. It can make it hard to find closure and move on, and can escalate conflicts."

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community When I realized he was a narcissist, I decided to end things. My son had passed away the year before from cardiac arrest brought on by energy drinks. When he started gaslighting me (again) and I said I was done, he got nasty and physical.

He told me that if I’d been a better mother, my son would still be alive. I lost it and tried to leave. He dove into the car as I was leaving, causing me to accidentally run over his leg. I called 911, then he pulled a gun on me while I was on the phone.

The dispatcher overheard the whole conversation and sent the police. He tried to say I mowed him down but he was partially in the passenger, hanging out the door so they didn’t believe him. They arrested him based on what the dispatcher had relayed. A week later he was arrested AGAIN for breaking his son’s jaw. No revenge needed.

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Kaniwani 1 year ago

I am so sorry for the death of your son. This made my heart hurt.

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30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community He put me in the hospital. Seriously beat me because I had no right, apparently, to make a decision about ‘his life’ without him. This was after a fight where he’d got angry about me using contraception because *he* wanted children.
(25 years ago. I don’t know if he’s even still alive and I’m ok with that.)

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Hensch 2 years ago

Disgusting

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Benson emphasized that "everyone heals differently and has different boundaries," and it's important to "listen to oneself and find what works best for you and your individual needs." She also reminded that "no one should tolerate any form of verbal abuse or harassment," and that it's important to "take steps to protect oneself from unhealthy communication."

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community That without him I'm nothing.

It was just his toxic, narcissistic manipulation to belittle me, as he was doing similar things for 7 years (the time we were together). And this was hilarious, because I was taking care of everything about our relationship - it was me who found and furnished our apartment, I was cooking, cleaning, and paying for most of the stuff as I have a better paid job. I dumped him because he was a narcissist and cared only about himself.

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Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago (edited)

Good for you that you dumped him, those people are such a waist of your time ;)

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30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community He told me that he wasn’t looking for anything serious…we had been together for 8 years, lived together for 6 and I had raised his children like my own. He could just never stop cheating.

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111points

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Smiler 2 years ago

i'm rlly sorry, hope things are better now, u deserve the world <33

33points

#10

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community That he'd slept with his ex the night before and it had shown him how much he "really cared" for me. You know, because there's no better way to say "I love you" than forking someone else.

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110points

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Laura Jackson 2 years ago

Maybe they thought they were on a break? I know, I'll show myself out.....

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#11

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community It's maybe not "nasty" but I still can't wrap my head around it. He said, "It would work if you'd change your attitude". Sure... I really just should be okay with being talked down to the whole time, with being ignored, with being gaslighted... sure thing.

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Lawrencium 2 years ago

I'm glad it didn't work. You definitely shouldn't change to accept c**p like that!

26points

#12

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community My ex-fiancée, the week that my brother died, sent me an email about how we had to delete our wedding Facebook account and that I was a terrible person. I know that he knew about my brother dying, because we have mutual friends that would have told him. I'm glad that I ended things with someone who waited till it hurt the most to hurt me more.

This was one of the many terrible things he said, but it stands out the most.

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Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago

What an a*shole, I'm sorry for your loss...

31points

#13

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community My ex told me that I would never ever get someone of his caliber ever, and that I would wind up with some grease-monkey. Well I did marry a man who worked on cars for a living, and he made 3 times what my ex made, and now my college graduate ex is in his 60s and hasn't worked in his field in decades and now works at a sporting goods store barely above minimum wage.

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David H 1 year ago

hey, many blue collar jobs earn well, and way too many college educated people look down on them, despite many earning better and without student debt

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#14

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community My EX taunted me saying, "you have something like a p*nis... only smaller!" I said, "Oh, you look like my new girlfriend... only fatter and less flexible." She didn't take it all that well!

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Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago

Bam! Good comeback ;)

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#15

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community “What kind of a mother would a girl like YOU be?”

I had become close friends with an Irish co-worker. He was a fairly naïve country boy who loved my tattoos and ever-changing hair color, and was always fascinated with my unusual upbringing and adventures. Until we drunkenly hooked up after our company’s Xmas party, and I became pregnant.

I was almost 30 and wanted to have it and remain friends. He threatened to go back to Ireland to avoid child support if I did not do what HE and his family back home wanted- which was to have the baby and give it up for adoption. At the same time, he wanted to name it after an ex-girlfriend of his. (WT actual F?) I’m on my own in every sense with no family or support system, and I didn’t want my child to grow up in the same miserable poverty that I did. So I had an abortion. As it turned out, I was never able to get pregnant again. So my “family” dies with me.

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Joe D 2 years ago

wow. this one really got me (48M) in the feels. i hurt for you. hope you find that life has blessed you overall

40points

#16

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community He took all of my biggest insecurities and made fun of them. He told me I should be insecure about them and listed out examples of how true they were.

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Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago

I bet he missed all of his own flaws.... but the biggest one was quite obvious, his lack for brains and great taste... All those things he listed as your "insecurities" he once loved, so listing them to you now to put you down is all a lie... kick those insecurities out the door and love yourself just the way you are, because that's the perfect you ;) Trust me, even the ones that we think are "perfect" will always find things they think less of. Hugs

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#17

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community One cheated on me & told me I was an alcoholic (after he got a DUI). Another said that I was mentally ill because I was leaving him after he'd cheated on me (then he got into the boxes I'd packed & stole several of my things). Another told me that he hated that I'd cut my hair, that I should skip lunches (apparently I was getting too fat for him), and that it wasn't hard work but simply dumb luck that I'd been able to land a great career (but he had no problem spending the money I made on old cars & other useless c**p, including using MY severance check to buy an old Ford pickup). When I told him I wanted a divorce, he was shocked. Really? He guilt-tripped me into leaving a couch that was purchased with MY bonus check & ended up giving it away after I left.

I have my grandmother's luck when it comes to lousy men!

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70points

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Pizzagirl 91 2 years ago

Unfortunately, as I learned watching many of my and my sisters' relationships, it's usually not luck, but either a warped self-image or naivety when it comes to those runs of "bad luck" with men... If you learn to recognise your own worth, and that it doesn't depend on other people, you'll be in a position to not let abusive, controlling or otherwise "bad boys" into your life. When you're still too naive to recognise early signs, that's another story. But I've never seen someone who's actually been "unlucky" with men, we all chose poorly. There's a big difference, and it's the fact that you can work on choosing better next time, it's in your hands!

50points

#18

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community I told my ex to choose between his addiction or the kids and myself. He said straight out said his addiction. Good riddance.

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67points

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Barbara Skolly 1 year ago

Sadly the addiction wants to always win

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#19

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community My ex-wife told me I’m a fraud, broke every picture of me in the house, and told me “F*** your music” (I have a side gig as a musician). She then spent six months begging me to come back, but when I finally told her I’m never coming back, she told people in texts that went to my ten-year-old kid’s iPad that I’m a “laughable parent” and that she is the victim of my abuse. It’s been a constant, complete lunacy ever since.

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Sherry Ofus (Submission author) 2 years ago

Oh, and she also said, “You’ll hit rock bottom without me.” I haven’t, and it’s two years later.

37points

#20

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community My husband told me he didn't want to pay alimony because we don't have kids. And therefore I was able to build my career within our marriage. Guess what: we had a son (stillborn) in 2019 AND an elaborate fertility program that led to a miscarriage after in 2021. So yeah, his comment really hurt me.

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Alma Muminovic 2 years ago

Move on and get him out of your life, that’s the best way to heal. My ex owes me 4 grand but I know Ill never see it and it’s just the price I paid to not have him in my life anymore and it was worth it.

22points

#21

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community She said, "I only slept with him (my best friend at that time) once!"

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DuchessDegu 1 year ago

Hope OP got rid of both, they're equally guilty!

23points

#22

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community That I'm not good enough to be loved but my friend, whom you met through me is good enough. Happened 4 times in a row, by 4 different people that don't know each other. It must be true.

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58points

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Jill Bussey 2 years ago

It's not true. You just need to find your perfect person. Don't settle for anything less.

37points

#23

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community "You're not pretty enough to dump someone like me. In fact, *I* say it's over between us!"

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58points

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Full Name 2 years ago

What a d*ck

26points

#24

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community He said he loved me after he slept with my sister and my best friend.

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57points

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Roy Zobel 1 year ago

The sister is quite a character, too.

35points

#25

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community We weren't exclusive or anything but had been close friends for years before we started hooking up. A few months after things fell apart we talked and he told me he had known for about a year that we shouldn't be in touch.

So I asked him why he had spent time with me although him knowing better. The answer was that he had been single for eight years and therefore was desperate and that I had to understand.

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Sandera

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LJ Robinson 1 year ago

He knew it was wrong, he knew there would be fallout. He blew up your friendship over needing to get laid. Then told you you had to understand?? What a piece of sh*t.

19points

#26

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community After I broke up with my ex (after a year of his condescending behavior and I finally had enough after he berated me for posing with an advertisement/billboard of one of my fav K-pop stars), he told me for my next relationship I get into, I would most likely be physically abused.

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55points

Candy

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MimSorensson 1 year ago (edited)

I don’t even know what a K-pop star is, and I still say that’s none of his damned business! If you like whatever a K-pop star is (unless it’s illegal or harmful to others which I highly doubt), that’s awesome and not for anybody in the world to judge - nobody asked for HIS opinion about YOUR likes, what the hell? I sure hope he’d be fine with people pìssing all over what he enjoys in life, otherwise he’s both an αsshole AND a hypocrite.

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#27

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community I don't know if it counts, since I didn't dump them. But the first girl I dated left me for the guy she was cheating on me with, and she told me explicitly. She also told me how much better he was than me.

The second girl I dated admitted to deliberately trying to push me into taking myself out.

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54points

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Full Name 2 years ago

Oof, I hope you find someone better than those two (although I'm sure it's not that hard lol)

27points

#28

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community Dumped him because he could not stop cheating on me. Told him the day I broke up with him, I couldn’t believe I gave him my virginity and he had the gall to tell me he had been a virgin, too. Pure unadulterated a*****e!

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45points

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Lara Verne 1 year ago

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#29

I didn't have a lot of money as I was a single mom and I was doing the best I could. This grown man lived with his mother and had nothing of his own and had the audacity to say to me "At least all my stuff doesn't come from goodwill". Like what stuff do you even have, oh yeah none, it's all your mom's! My stuff might have been second hand but it was MY stuff. I never talked to him again.

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Alison Marchand 1 year ago

Psshh, who doesn't love Goodwill?! I get board games there particularly, you can find some really cool games, and sometimes even new in the package for $2-$5!

5points

#30

My ex falsely accused me of raping him. This was after I spent a year chasing him to terminate the mobile phone contract he'd taken out in my name without my permission, and kept stringing me along saying he'd deal with it.

After I hadn't heard from him for months I contacted some mutual friends to see if they would ask him to contact me. He went off and sent me the most disgusting and abusive email including the false allegations.

I blocked him on all media, and the mobile phone company agreed to terminate the contract immediately for me. He'd been emotionally abusive during the relationship and this gaslighting was another way of trying to retain control.

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25points

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Alison Marchand 1 year ago

Ugh, sorry you had to deal with such an abusive, pain-inflicting person 😞 sucks having to have those memories. Glad the phone company understood the situation, and I hope this guy is loooong gone out of your life!

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#31

Ahhh, got a little list ;p
- I'l kill you when I see you two walking
- You think anyone would want to have sex with a fat pig like you? (My SO likes my body, which is actually just a bit over the voluptuous side)
-You have to get yourself tested for an STD because you could have given it to me. (I never cheated, she however did and never got tested, I should just shut up.)
- If you don't (too many things to specifie) I'll come over with some friends and we'll beat you up. (Never happened, my SO is an ex police-officer and very not impressed by anybody)
- If I kill myself it's your fault (Yeah, not)
- I'll beat up your son! I'm at your house now and you're not home (Called the cops on her then who were there very quick) and also contacted my neighbours to check my house please.
- I order you to break of all contact with my family (with pleasure)
- You have to let me in when I come over to visit you, but only if you send "him" away while I'm there (Like what? You're not that important to me that I even want you to come visit me.)
- I have those things that I took with me when I moved, I'm in the neighbourhood and can bring them by. My response that I didn't need it anymore was not acceptable, I got an email full of hatred yet again...

I'm so happy she's somebody elses problem now, but the most happy I am for the fact that I had the guts to break up and choose for my own happyness finally ;)

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Bubbles and sparks

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Lena Z 2 years ago

Wow that is a lot

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Bubbles and sparks (Submission author) 2 years ago

That's only after breaking up ;p The time we actually had a relationship was not always a picnic either XD

6points

Night Owl 2 years ago

That's some obsessive stalker territory

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Bubbles and sparks (Submission author) 2 years ago

You know, it took me a while to realize that... But you are right, she was that too...

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Notyomama 2 years ago (edited)

I made the mistake of dating a cop when I was young. Never did that again. He stalked me and had other cops watching my every move.

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Bubbles and sparks (Submission author) 2 years ago

That really sucks.... I'm sorry this has happened to you...

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QuokkaVibes 2 years ago

Ok, she's absolutely awful. But if I unserstand correctly, OP came out and is dating a man now. And this woman is the mother of OPs child. I do not judge this and I'm happy OP is finally happy, but I can see how this would drive a woman crazy. Not that this in anyway justifies all the nasty stuff she said, I find her truly disgusting. But I can see how someone could loose it after her spouse comes out of the closet after presumably a few years together. If my interpretation is correct, the sense of betrayal, of "nothing was real", "he knew all along he was gay" etc must be exruciating. She surely needs therapy for trust stuff AND anger managment. Hope OP will be himself and happy from now on, and I wish she gets a chance to start over.

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Bubbles and sparks (Submission author) 2 years ago

@QuokkaVibes Such a shame, I had written a response to yours but it didn't show, so here I go again ;) . Me, I'm a woman and the mother of said son whom I love dearly ;) I never came out as I never got in (the closet). Some would call me bi-se*ual, me, I call myself a human capable of loving other humans no matter the gender because that means nothing to me ;) My ex, now she was the one that cheated, repeatedly, something I never did and will never do as I just don't see the value of it. I'm even kinda boring compared to my man, I've had 3 serious relationships, he's had many many more and that's okay too, I never expect anybody to live life celibate XD My ex was the kind of person that actually convinced me it was my fault she cheated on me and back then, I even believed it.... the power a narcissistic phsyco can have on a person is never to be underestimated. I see that now, back then, hopeless to a fault. I have always been and will always be myself and since I met my SO, I've never been happier in my life and yes, I even hope the ex is happy, I really hope she won't cheat on him as he is actually a good guy.

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Potato 2 years ago

Multiple comments from the same person, bro.

2points

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#32

30 Stories Of The Nastiest Things Exes Have Told Their Partners After They Got Dumped, As Shared By Our Community "You'll never be more than a curiosity sh*g." This was 10 years ago.

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KieLeaHar 1 year ago

Hmmm…. Didn’t realise it when my life turn to about hell on earth 9 years ago.. but I became an OBJECT, not a woman.. I have actually been told by quite a number of scumbags that I am a “Bucket list item”… 😡

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#33

After I split with my child's mother, on Christmas before are custody arrangements, she said she had left the state and that I would never see my child again. She then said I amount to nothing and I should k*ll myself because it would be better for my child to never know me, and she would make sure to tell my child good things about me so they wouldn't know how pathetic I was.

I was a stay at home dad, so at the time I didn't have any money or a job. The house was under her name. I was living in my car that Christmas, but I had a trunk full of presents to give after selling a few things I had. She sent that message after I sat in a parking lot 3 hours waiting for them to show up.

After some time, I well established myself, have a wonderful relationship with my child.

The words she said on that Christmas broke me as a person, but that allowed me to rebuild myself into much more of a father then I would have become without leaving.

...I have a lot of petty things to say 😅 I won't say them, but man I really wanna 😂

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Full Name 2 years ago

That's just cruel

6points

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#34

I was honest. "I just don't feel the butterflies for you anymore. I'm sorry."

He responded, "I haven't felt ANYTHING for you but I didn't just end things."

Well, I did and he should have sooner if that was the truth.

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Alison Marchand 1 year ago

Better sooner than later in that kind of situation!

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#35

"Come catch a bullet." Was together over 20 years, been divorced about 12 years, separated several years before that. This was a text I received last year along with a lot more (I stopped counting after 65) one night while he was obviously drunk and mad at me. Drunker than usual. We hadn't even recently spoken to each other before the barage of texts. And he wonders why his son (30) and ex-wife won't talk to him. He's now blocked.

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20points

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Alison Marchand 1 year ago

What is wrong with some people 🤦🏻‍♀️🙏🏻

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#36

Technically she dumped me, but what she said still hurt.

We were supposed to go out on Valentine's Day, but she came home and said she had other plans. After arguing a bit, she said she had plans with another guy.

So I asked her if she was breaking up with me on Valentine's Day, and her response was "It's rude to cancel plans with someone once you've made them".

Yeah, that stung.

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#37

This will get buried, but still ... my ex-husband (father of my son) told me I was being too kind and nice. Was freakingly disturbing.

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#38

I decided to end things with a guy named Al after he showed some extremely scary red flags. I didn’t think there was a need to have a big discussion about the end of the “relationship” because we’d only been dating for about a month and had only seen each other about 6 times during that month. So I sent him a text saying I didn’t think we were a good match and wishing him a great future. (While it’s usually considered bad form to end things over a text, I was afraid of this guy and didn’t want to ever see him again.)

He sent back a text demanding an explanation, so I replied that the last time we were together he had shown himself to be manipulative, condescending, narcissistic, and controlling. I texted that I didn’t see the need for further communication and asked him to please not contact me again.

He left a 2-page, typed, single-space letter on my door step threatening to sue me for slander if I didn’t agree to talk to him about the “real reason” I broke up with him. In the letter, he said I’d made “serous accusations about his character” that could affect his future job possibilities. He said there must be someone in my life who had decided we shouldn’t be together, and that person must have run a background check on him and decided to only share “the worst parts” with me. He said the person who must have run a background check on him (whoever it might have been) didn’t love me. He told me he missed me and still wanted to be with me, but that if I didn’t agree to talk to him he would “let the lawyers handle it.”

He was the scariest, most unhinged person I’ve ever met, let alone dated. Thank god I saw him for what he was after a short amount of time. He’s the reason I have 3 locks on my door and a home security system.

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Final score:

15points

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Alison Marchand 1 year ago

Dodged a freakin bullet for sure!!! The fact that he came to your doorstep is sooo creepy and violating 😬 good call on the security system.

4points

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#39

I was with a deadbeat drug addict for way too long in my early 20s. I also have severe lupus and my health had just started going seriously downhill. I had a lung collapse out of nowhere and found out that he was sleeping around while I was in the hospital. I broke up with him over the phone while still in the hospital. He proceeded to call my phone repeatedly. I handed it to my sis and told her to take it home with her. My family could call the hospital to speak to me if they needed and my other sister was sleeping beside my bed because I was scared and didn't know any of this was lupus related at the time. The next day, older sister shows up to visit.

Me: Can I see my phone?

Older sister: Not until I clear *insert jerk's name here* texts. And if I see MF again, I'm catching a felony. (She's a half hippy/half Christian woman that seems to love everyone regardless of anything. So this let me know it was bad. I had never heard her use MF before and I didn't think she knew what catching a felony meant until that day.)

Eventually, I got the phone as a new text came in. Actual wording is below with some censoring.

"Of course I cheated on you you disease ridden c-word. Who would actually want your pig a-word?! I hope you die in that hospital."

That was only one of about thirty texts he had sent. Long story short, they got more threatening. Ended in a permanent restraining order after he kept driving by my dad's house pointing his finger like it was a gun every time he saw someone in my family.

Still ended happily for though. He's now in his mid-40s and living with his mommy and I ended up testifying in another restraining order case brought by another woman who found my order and her lawyer called me. That order was granted too and I'm actually still friends with that woman. I'm eleven years married to a man who treats me so respectfully that the first six months I dated him I thought he had to be playing me somehow. Nope. He's just a decent human being and partner. Apparently I wasn't used to that. Health still isn't great but at least I have someone actually willing to be supportive and take care of me when issues arise.

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Final score:

12points

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#40

He told me I'm nothing without him, he said he was going to commit suicide to try and get me back.

Final score:

11points

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Lia Salvatore 2 years ago

well, one cannot exactly date a dead person, so...

16points

#41

My ex-wife about a few years after I divorced her and went through an very contentious divorce process stated she was so disappointed/angry that she could have had me arrested. She stated she knew purposely that she was blocking my exit from even leaving the toilet room in our bathroom, or forcing me to use the back door to get to my car, or even taking the remote for the garage door when i would leave for work. She told me she wanted me to just touch her so she could have me arrested, and take everything from me, especially all three of our kids. I never touched her when she would start arguments and did what my lawyer told me to do, just leave the house and stay at my parents' near by second home. My ex even stated this in front of our eldest child's therapist in a parent/counselor check in meeting.

Plus she was so narcistic that she tried to make me pay more then the state would allow by knowingly filing a false lease from a friend she rented from (through never paid rent it was later found out) with over stated rent values. Well five years later, our eldest finally grew up and unfortunately sees their mother for the type of person their mother is, and just moved in to my house full time. The other two younger kiddos are also asking to move into my house full time (technically is 50/50) since they are not comfortable with mom. I just made sure the last five years i was the rock the kids needed and always there as a parent should be.

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Final score:

11points

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Daffydillz~ 1 year ago

I'm so very glad that you were what your children needed and focused on them. Don't forget to take care of yourself too so you can continue to be what they need. It's very sad that she's pushing her children away. Sending thoughts of strength and courage to you.

1point

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#42

He tried to spread lies that I was a p*dophile and posted revenge porn of me with a summary of how I liked young boys.

This, this from the 30 year old that went on and on abput how he wanted to "deflower" a virgin, forced me to dress up as a schoolgirl as much as possible, previously had *been* with a younger girl and stole underwear from lost and founds so he could do nasty things with them (trust me... nasty).

I was young myself (21), had moved out to be with him, had a mental illness and couldn't support myself. Luckily I got away after several years and what I know now was at least one rape, but it took 3 or 4 years.

Final score:

10points

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Elisha 2 years ago

Wtf I would have slapped the poop out of that guy

5points

#43

“You’re not my girlfriend anymore so I can finally beat the s**t out of you.” I was young and dumb, he was an emotional and sexual abuser. That was the last straw and I finally left him for good after that.

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Final score:

10points

Jennifer Smith

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Lee Banks 2 years ago

I am so glad you got out.

5points

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#44

When I was 17, I dumped my physically / emotionally abusive BF of 2 years (+ added a restraining order)... and he wouldn't quit calling... around 50 times a day... for about 4 or 5 months (obviously, I never picked up).

Eventually, it would only happen when he seemed to be really drunk and - of course - there would be some nasty voice message when I didn't answer... many of which were some version of "I'll f*****g kill you b***h."

On one such night, I received another one of these voice messages when my new boyfriend happened to be around to hear it. Shortly afterward, my boyfriend and I were on our way to somewhere and had to drive past my ex's house to get there (as he was only 2 miles or so away). My ex happened to be out in his driveway drinking when - unexpectedly - my new boyfriend slammed on the brakes, jumped out of the car, and ran toward my ex shouting "Are you the b***h-a*s m**********r who keeps threatening my girlfriend?" My new boyfriend was much larger and much more confident (he had grown up a bit rough and was a fairly seasoned fighter)... and - as a result - my ex merely ran into his house when confronted. (Funny how abusive men always always seem to shy away from physical altercations with people who aren't smaller than them, isn't it?).

Anyhow, we haven't heard from him since.

The "new boyfriend" is now my husband and best friend. We have been together for almost 19 years.

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9points

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Alison Marchand 1 year ago

Awww love the happy ending! So glad you ended up with the partner you deserve 😊

1point

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#45

man I'd regret recalling this, but here we go:
fyi i have a speech problem, mainly stuttering (improving tho) but it was rlly rlly bad last yr especially after lockdown. Sooo when things kinda broke of he said bullshits like 'your novel is a waste of time' 'we can date again once you learn how to speak English *wink emoji' this s**t lowkey hurt bc its not that i cant speak english properly i just have a speech problem that happens regardless of what language I speak. He harassed me way too f*****g much afterward, using his friend's accounts to send hateful messages and even to the extend of personal and school emails. He was a pathological liar and left me scarred for a long time. I'm all g now tho.

Final score:

8points

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GPZ 2 years ago

What a douchebag. Glad you've come out of the other side, hopefully stronger

7points

#46

"Were we even dating?"

Final score:

8points

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Anička 1 year ago

I actually almost said that to somebody...we were theoretically exclusive, proper gf/bf (his idea) but then he was so wishy-washy with everything, he'd ghost for days, sometimes a longer...turns out he was living with his ex/non-ex the whole time, i was just his exclusive, shameful secret. If i'd had more self-respect I'd have been gone at the first ghost. But, ya know ... codependency is a hell of a drug. 💩

0points

#47

My ex stole my dog, then he would call me and tell me, "you're a f##king selfish b##ch and I'm going to beat her and then send her to the pound and they'll put her down". Then he would get her to bark and say, "how does it feel to know you're never going to hear that again?"

Final score:

8points

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Hensch 2 years ago

That’s a sick sick person. This breaks my heart.

9points

#48

Her last text message: "You're a joke. I'm going to destroy you...ruin your life like you did mine. Be afraid. VERY AFRAID. Your life won't end well for you. Goodbye. lol!"

I didn't know it at the time we were dating, but she became an addict, which only made her mental health conditions worse. The night I received this, she told her family she was coming to my place to kill herself in front of me. Woke up at 3am with 4 cops banging on my door trying to find her. They stopped her before she showed up carrying a large chef's knife.

Final score:

7points

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Daffydillz~ 1 year ago

Wow, that sounds really scary. I'm glad they stopped her before she got to your house, that could have turned out very badly. I hope she got the help she needed and that you have support as well. That's a lot to go through. Gentle hugs.

3points

#49

Not exactly something she said to me, so if it doesn't qualify, feel free to delete or downvote.

I had a relationship with a girl in the USA, but we were both Italian. She returned to italy at some point and I made it clear that our relationship was over.

It was never that much "on" for me. In fact, we wouldn’t have had a relationship at all if I had more of a spine at the time, but I was young and foolish and more concerned about her feelings than mine.
She was also a bit stalky and she was always popping up at the same places I was.
At the time I didn't think it weird as all the Italians congregated at a few specific places, but she always managed to find me regardless of where I was staying at any given time or where I went.

Once she was back in Italy, I get a call from my mother, upset that I got engaged and I never told them.

She actually went to my parent's house, a good 300Km from her home, barged in and told them she was my fiancée and we had decided to get married as soon as she graduated college.

At that time international phone calls were expensive and I didn't have a phone they could call me at because I was moving around quite a bit, so she was able to stay at my parent's house for quite a few days before I could clarify the situation.

It was a nightmare. My parents didn't know what to make of it. She was in their house telling them fantastical stories of our romance and our future plans, while all I could contribute to the discussion were intermittent, staticky denials at $5 a minute (I don't remember the actual cost, but it was expensive).

She had pretty much our entire lives planned, with a job in her father's company, a house on her parents property and the two of us married with kids.

I hate to think what she told her own parents and I probably didn't have a good reputation with them after I finally managed to convince her to go back home and stop harassing my parents.

For a while I was afraid to go back to Italy, lest I'd find her at the airport waiting for me.

Final score:

7points

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Alison Marchand 1 year ago

Hope you made it back to Italy safely and happily after all!

0points

#50

He said a *lot* of things to me after I ended it, even that he wish I died, but the one that hurt the most was after our last big argument when I said I was breaking things off

"Finally"

As if he was just waiting for me to hate him enough to turn away

Final score:

6points

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Alison Marchand 1 year ago

Wow, I'm glad it broke off before he could continue to hurt you, and I hope it's getting easier and easier to detach from the hurt of those words 🙏🏻

1point

#51

After I broke up with him he tried to kill himself and blamed it on me. Said I was a terrible person that doesn't have emotions(I do, just sometimes I don't show them) and then somehow got his little friend group and some of the mutual friend group we shared to believe that I sexually assaulted him when he tried to do that to me. He also said that I'm worthless and that he's right in trying to get with another girl almost as soon as I broke up with him. I really hate him, and I'm so glad I moved away. Sorry that it's a bit long and not as good (bad?) as the others.

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Final score:

6points

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Anička 1 year ago

It's bad enough. He was still unkind, manipulative, etc and your experience sounds pretty traumatic anyway. You definitely deserve/ed better!

2points

#52

Ex-broke up with me for a fraternity brother of mine Senior year in college. Probably cheated on me with him but I’ll never know nor do I care. I started dating someone else, who she knew. Ex started asking my fraternity brothers about the new girl. That’s when I lost it. At an internal but formal seniors graduating event, I handed down to my fraternity brother the chair on which me and the ex last had sex on in the locker-room style shower of the fraternity house…which was already a notable event because it took place the day after finals the semester before when we had mistakenly thought the house was empty and we were both quite loud. 2 hours after the fraternity event, I get a call from the fraternity brother which I didn’t answer. 30 minutes later was the ex, which I did. She was barking up a storm about how that I was ruining her image, that I was destroying her good memories…blah blah blah. I didn’t say a word but laughed so hard and hung up the phone. Last I ever heard from her…I married the woman I had started dating and she gets a kick out of the story every time.

Final score:

5points

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Quarryville 1 year ago

They both sound horrible

2points

#53

Years after my divorce, my ex-wife told me I was never a bad husband and was a very caring and attentive father.

Final score:

5points

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Kurtz Frausun 2 years ago

I'm so sorry...my ex wife did the same (telling a mutual friend). She cheated on me with my best friend and said I didn't deserve the pain she put me through because I was a good man. I think that hurt me just as much.

7points

#54

He said that his "professional help" said that it wasn't healthy for me to go no contact, and that is a flaw of mine. I reminded him that #1 I made it clear that I had no desire to get back together, and #2 his IMAGINARY therapist told him the exact opposite of what a therapist would say.

Final score:

5points

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Shark Lady 1 year ago

My ex's therapist actually told her that I was no good for her and she should end our relationship. Looking back I wish she had ended it then because I wouldn't have had to deal with her drunken antics nor would I have got into so much debt, because of her drinking. The final straw was being cheated on. I still wonder what she said to that therapist, call it morbid curiosity.

1point

#55

Well, there was the time that I got home after him trying to force himself on me for a “one last time” to have my five year old announce that according to Daddy my name is actually “F**king, lying b***h”.

Final score:

5points

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Tina Girard 1 year ago

Mine called me an evil adulteress to our 8 y/o daughter.

0points

#56

They didn't say it to me, but they tried to convince the entire school that I was racist...

Final score:

4points

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Christine Jemison 2 years ago

I can one up this, my ex husband who is French and Polish called me the N-word because I wouldn't take him back. The outcome? Kicked him so hard that I broke three of his ribs. Neeeever spoke to me again happened 20yrs ago.

3points

#57

They broke up with me, but they wouldn’t stop misgendering me and they called my brother a p*do. My brother just dated someone two years younger than them, that was the whole excuse. I was trying to stay friends with them but my brother comes before anyone else. Now I have a wonderful partner. :3

Final score:

4points

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Nandros M 2 years ago

Who are they, them? I am confused.

1point

#58

He called me an ungrateful slvtty b!tch. I haven’t even looked in his direction since

Final score:

3points

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Lee Banks 2 years ago

"dumb, slvtty c**t" He was a raging alcoholic, living in a bedbug-filled basement, with a job from me because of previous felonies. (No offense against felons... sometimes things happen.) Said this in front of my mom. to be fair, he reached out years later to apologize, but I very politely declined.

3points

#59

FU, F your Mom and BS cancer. I hope she dies.

Final score:

3points

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Alison Marchand 1 year ago

I hope you and your mom are doing okay, wherever you both are 🙏🏻

1point

#60

So, she cheated on me, not only hit on my best friend five minutes later, but also said “You’re a fat f@ggot and I hope you die” She was…not the best.

Final score:

3points

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Alison Marchand 1 year ago

WOAH what a foul thing for her to say!! "Not the best" - far from it, sounds like

2points

#61

We can still be friends.

Final score:

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Snorky The Pig 1 year ago

And this, my friends, is why I am happily single and intend to stay that way. That one son of a b***h who stole his ex's dog has it coming for him in the next life 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

15points

Patti Vance 2 years ago

actually, my ex has never said anything to my face that was nasty but who know what he could have said. i do know that he changed the story as to why i left several times to different people which annoyed me because the truth would have put him in a bad light. if anything, i am the one that said something nasty to him. prior to my leaving i had been supporting the house and because he wasn't working regularly i also paid his utilities and food after i was gone. we ran into each other at a restaurant at the register. i was with my dad; he was with the girlfriend that he moved in a day after i left. he tossed his bill by mine as i was paying as a joke and my acid tongue let go. i just handed it back with 'sorry-i paid for you long enough. it's her turn."

15points

Amy G 1 year ago

That was beautiful.

8points

Brenda 2 years ago

"I didn't realize how miserable I was until you were gone. " Then 6mo later asked me to go back overseas w/ him as no one needed to know. Our divorce had been final 20 days

10points

Mariko Fujita 1 year ago (edited)

I bought a house while with my ex-fiancee. I was head accountant for an electrical company and he was a manager at a fastfood chain so I put down deposit and paid mortgage while he pitched in when he could. He cheated on me, so I said okay I guess let's end this before getting married and he says "yeah.. I guess that's best.. sooo.. do we split the house 50/50?" lol, I told him no and that I'd give him what he put in plus some cash to get an apartment. He was livid and called his family immediately while angrily saying "she's trying to screw me over!". The house was in my name and he only pitched in with cash for groceries for the 2 months we had the house. Sometimes I wonder what happened to him but then remember it doesn't matter lol!

4points

Danielle Ocasio Fast 1 year ago

My most recent ex was a recovering drug addict when we started dating. About a month after he moved in with me he relapsed (he lied, gaslit me, etc). I tried to be supportive and get him into rehab but he just kept lying and manipulating me. The last straw was when he used my money to buy heroin and tried to choke me out when I got rid of it. I broke up with him and kicked him out (though he refused to give my key back, which is a whole nother sh*tstorm story). About an hour later I got a text that he had overdosed and died. His "friends" wanted me to know before they chucked his phone. I was very upset and called his mom, who was going to contact the police and hospital. Well... About an hour after I called her, guess who showed up at her place? My ex. He had faked his own death to see how I would react. Apparently, the fact I got upset was proof that I loved him and should be with him 🤮

4points

censorshipsucks 1 year ago

wow.

0points

Elin Sandman 1 year ago

”You have fat sausage fingers” and I was like, yeah I know. 🤷‍♀️👋👋👋 They are short, chubby and perfect.

3points

Sprinkles 2 years ago

When I finally left my abusive ex, he told me that I would never find anyone else as good as him. He also told me I would come crawling back in six months and I should be prepared to beg on my hands and knees for him to take me back. Now I'm happily married now to a man who treats me better than I deserve sometimes. From what I hear, my ex isn't doing so well these days. Karma baby.

3points

Patricia Healton 2 years ago

Mine happened the day he moved out. He told me he never loved me and just married me because he felt sorry for me. This after 12 years and two children. I still know no one will love me.

3points

Anička 1 year ago

What an a*****e. I'm sorry. But you can find someone. But first, get thee to therapy! 🙂

3points

Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago

Sometimes sh*t happens before you find your gold ;) I'm so happy for you that you both met, have a lovely life together xx

3points

Dave Hinckley 1 year ago

Had a nasty divorce, trial included. She perjured herself on the stand. Said I took a bunch of stuff when I left, stuff we didn't even own. I also discovered that I used drugs throughout the marriage. She came home one day and I was gone. Planned it for a month. I went through all of our things, separated mine into separate boxes and brought them to storage bin on that last day. I'm willing to bet that she told her friends that she kicked me out and threw my stuff off the balcony. I actually feel sorry for her. Been married now for 21 years to a loving woman. We've been basically inseparable since our first date. Her 3 kids all love me. 1 dog, 2 cats.

2points

MedusaWasBeautiful 2 years ago

Let's see... Mine said, "You will not find anyone." They were right. Its been 20 years since then.

2points

Anička 1 year ago

As i said to P.H. above, you could find someone but maybe go to therapy first so you will be able to find a quality person. Otherwise it's not worth it 🙂

1point

Angela Allen Simms 2 years ago

sx-husband called me up send a ticket to where he's stationed wanting to talk about getting back together. Spent a week together getting it in! at the end of the week with me thinking we would work things out. He becomes quite ugly and says to me "you must think a f$@k matter". I was devastated, he leaves me in the hotel and I'm hurt and pissed. Turn on the tv and sees the Challenger explode and it feels like a metaphor for my life at that moment.

2points

Della 1 year ago

Wow I can't even read all this, it's brutal and horrid. I will never be married again, but I have a wonderful forever person. And 2 dogs 🐶🐶🐓

1point

Shelly Graham 1 year ago

Married for 6 years, he literally lost his mind one evening when after asking him to answer the phone (yes still had a landline) as I was cooking dinner for a dinner party we were hosting. He was playing a game on his computer. When I walked down the hallway to ask who'd called (we had a mobile handset, which he had) I grab the phone to see if I needed to call someone back. He walks up to me, grabs me around my throat, lifts me off the ground and shoved a Colt 1911 into my forehead. I dial 911, he sees me doing it and says, "you call the cops I'll hunt down every member of your family and kill them! You know I could and not ever be caught!". I hung the phone up, yes they called back, at which time I gave an Academy Award performance to 911, telling them, "I'm so sorry, we got a new phone with all the Emergency numbers preprogrammed & I accidentally hit it.". Three hours later he left the house. Following this episode his mental health continued to plummet.

1point

censorshipsucks 1 year ago

wow jesus did you get a restraining order at least?

0points

Beth Bartel 1 year ago

Not my ex, but his second wife told me I should have died instead of our son.

1point

YELLING!!! 2 years ago

My ex-wife went to my mother to try to persuade her to persuade me to not travel to see my new GF(now wife). Also said to our daughter "what can I tell you about your dad that will make you hate him?" Lastly she called up and tried the "what would happen if I tell your wife about _____" I miss her so much 😳

1point

Celtic Pirate Queen 1 year ago (edited)

I just thank God my 5th "online date" was THE GUY. We've been together 15 years, married for one. He loves and accepts me for exactly who I am, good, bad or indifferent. My family calls him "The Boy Scout", he's never been arrested, doesn't drink or do drugs, has never raised his voice to me, God knows never a hand, is always a gentleman (I don't think I've ever opened my own car door) and just an all around nice guy. I wish this kind of love and acceptance for all of you. Peace & love ~

0points

censorshipsucks 1 year ago

"you make my p*$$y shrivel up and dry." Thanks.

0points

Joss 1 year ago

My first husband had a bit of a mental health breakdown the last year or two together (can't quite remember as it was 20 years ago). He started calling me when I was at work and screaming fûck you repeatedly, called me when I was hanging out with a friend after work to accuse me of drinking beer (which I have always hated and don't drink) and licking pussy (which I wasn't, I was talking and getting some emotional support from a friend) and demanded that I come home. He was unemployed for the first three years of our relationship (made sense at first as his father had told him if he moved home and went to college his parents would pay for everything since they wanted him to get an education) and then after I quit my job temporary to appease him while we sorted s**t out, he told me I really needed to get an effing job 2 months later. When he was home not working, he didn't take care of the house. He'd only do chores I assigned and often not even then.

0points

Joss 1 year ago

And he said when we were divorcing that he'd wanted to dump me two months into dating but didn't because I was so sweet he felt I "deserved a second chance." Which suddenly made the several years I'd spend feeling confused and unwanted make a lot more sense. All the times he picked porn over sex with me, all the times he checked out other women obviously in front of me while never chexking me out or ogling me. And of course despite all that the first time we'd had sèx, I hadn't been ready and he'd been pushy. I was 19 when we dot together and hadn't really figured out how relationships were supposed to be yet.

1point

Samantha Lofgren 1 year ago

My ex tried to turn all my friends against me, by telling them I had "gone crazy". He had been sexually abusing me for a year and a half. He isolated me from all my friends, and only when I made an effort to get my friends back did I realize I realize just how bad he actually was.

0points

Кремена Митева 1 year ago

1 0jg00 will

0points

bridget rushford 2 years ago

Go suck this new guys d**k. Its all you where ever any good for anyway

0points

censorshipsucks 1 year ago

straight up abuse.

0points

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Snorky The Pig 1 year ago

And this, my friends, is why I am happily single and intend to stay that way. That one son of a b***h who stole his ex's dog has it coming for him in the next life 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

15points

Patti Vance 2 years ago

15points

Amy G 1 year ago

That was beautiful.

8points

Brenda 2 years ago

"I didn't realize how miserable I was until you were gone. " Then 6mo later asked me to go back overseas w/ him as no one needed to know. Our divorce had been final 20 days

10points

Mariko Fujita 1 year ago (edited)

4points

Danielle Ocasio Fast 1 year ago

4points

censorshipsucks 1 year ago

wow.

0points

Elin Sandman 1 year ago

”You have fat sausage fingers” and I was like, yeah I know. 🤷‍♀️👋👋👋 They are short, chubby and perfect.

3points

Sprinkles 2 years ago

3points

Patricia Healton 2 years ago

Mine happened the day he moved out. He told me he never loved me and just married me because he felt sorry for me. This after 12 years and two children. I still know no one will love me.

3points

Anička 1 year ago

What an a*****e. I'm sorry. But you can find someone. But first, get thee to therapy! 🙂

3points

Bubbles and sparks 2 years ago

Sometimes sh*t happens before you find your gold ;) I'm so happy for you that you both met, have a lovely life together xx

3points

Dave Hinckley 1 year ago

2points

MedusaWasBeautiful 2 years ago

Let's see... Mine said, "You will not find anyone." They were right. Its been 20 years since then.

2points

Anička 1 year ago

As i said to P.H. above, you could find someone but maybe go to therapy first so you will be able to find a quality person. Otherwise it's not worth it 🙂

1point