It's happy spouse, happy house you selfish brat! It's a 2 way street

I get the impression that the poor fiance is more like a necessary evil to her to get her dream wedding, like the celery stick in the Bloody Mary or something

NGL I don't understand people who literally spend a lot of their life dreaming about a wedding day. I get it is a special day but to the point of just having big dreams for a single day seems odd to me.

But why aren't we talking about a culture that puts this in the head of little children??

The debt from that wedding is going to last longer than their marriage.

I used to think about and plan my wedding as a little kid. Then as I got older it turned into me just looking a pictures of beautiful formal dresses not just wedding dresses. Nowadays I'm 35, single and perfectly fine without being in a relationship. However I do still enjoy looking a pretty dresses online for fun

Dreaming of a wedding since little…I mean what kind of a childhood did you have?

If I had 80 grand I sure as shoot wouldn’t spend it on a wedding!

I imagined being a ballerina, working at Archie comics and flying into space. But here I am.... Kids dream up a lot of things. Doesn't mean they're feasible nor rational.

First of all... don't plan everything all at once if it's time-consuming. Secondly, manage your own time better instead of expecting the person you LOVE allegedly to sacrifice their own time and energy to work more than they already do just so you can play wedding planner princess.

80K for a wedding is STUPID!!! they spend that kind of $$$ on the wedding and then gripe and moan about not being able to buy a house, smdh. Priorities ppl

How nice of her to show him so many red flags so he can run now.

I really hope this wedding got cancelled.

I hope he walked away from this fucken idiot and didn't go through with this wedding

Are we sure this isn't an intellectual toddler trolling us all?

Jesus, wtf is wrong with brides thinking its just their wedding. If they want it to be just about themselves then they should marry themselves.

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I'm stunned.

10am, Judge at the house, nice suits, two best men, couple close friends and immediate family, brunch on the patio (made by us), later in evening intimate dinner for wedding party at favorite restaurant. Total around $600, perfection for us.

ROFLMAO!! We decided to get married at the end of August and decided on Halloween for the date! We had a great time!! and no one quit their jobs lol.

"No wife,happy life!"

I feel so bad that in our culture it is normal for little girls to fantasize so heavily about their dream wedding. Sure fantasizing is fine, but it means more to them than the marriage. They want so badly to feel, beautiful, important and special from childhood. It sounds like they are not getting the love they needed and are now seeking it by controlling others.

A person whose life is defined solely by her wedding is not a person. It's really that simple.

holy c**p. Dump her a*s.

Again, your wedding isn't the most important day, the years that follow are.

Run dude, RUN!

My wedding was about my husband and me. I told people to come, wear what they want and no gifts needed. It's not that we were rich, quite the opposite we cooked our own food for the wedding. We just wanted to be together with our friends. It was a beautiful day.

80,000? That is just insane. fiance oughta hike right outta there.

I did my utmost for (now ex) wife to make her happy... She still cheated...

This has to be fake. I refuse to think this is real.

Hope he left her before marriage.

You cannot buy a magical wedding. You can only buy a show. The overall cost of my wedding was maybe 5 to 6 k. For everything! Food, a dress, his clothes, a cake, everything. It was magical. My dress cost 400 bucks and was beautiful. It was cheap because it was last season's wear that originally sold for more than 2k. My cake was made by my aunt. It had two barn owls on it (long time before HP, but barn owls mate for life that's why) I had a chariot with two horses, a gift from the local brewery who also stocked the bar. We rented a community house with an industrial kitchen and two cooks from my fathers workplace's canteen. They cooked a splendid meal and their wifes served it. My sister and SIL (my brother's wife) and my niece decorated the revenue, the chariot and the tables with wildflowers, ivy and some glass beads. My grandmother gave her good linen and china for the tables. The dishes where two different sets for 60ish people but we combined them nicely

I planned my wedding at work. My assistant manager was a huge help