I remember this on Reddit, the OP cut that awful excuse of a friend out of their life and if I remember correctly, many of their mutual friends were so angry they didn't go either.

Good on OP for standing up for herself and refusing to attend the wedding. I'll never understand the mindset of brides who put their wedding aesthetic above having those near and dear to them involved in their wedding. When I (hopefully eventually) get married, I couldn't care less what my friends look like as long as they are comfortable, happy and by my side. I'm a wheelchair user and know other wheelchair users who have been refused to be in the wedding party because of being in a wheelchair- if any friend of mine did that they wouldn't be my friend any longer!

Wow. The gall.

I'll happily give her the silent treatment... what's wrong with brides??

Never once thought about my wedding as a kid. I really do not get these kind of people.

Im having a 10 year birthday just for my dreads next year just to get back at all the haters!

These are making me more and more depressed about the general horribleness of some people.

This was where I had to stop reading this entire post. I’m just too disgusted.

I need to get away from a society where people feel entitled to other's money because they 'need' to throw a lavish wedding. It is a party. If you're getting married so that you can have an Insta perfect party and not because you and your partner want to celebrate your love with your closest friends and family DON'T GET MARRIED!

Also, yellow and dark skin is an awesome combo! I'm pink as, verging on blue after winter - I'd look like the Ukrainian flag!

An update from Reddit from someone who saw the original post on Facebook: "She actually goes on to comment that people DID send this to her fiance, she said she was hacked, he bought her story about being hacked, and he was "currently making [her] some eggs" as an apology for believing it was her in the first place. Talk about manipulative & crazy. This poor child." I truly hope that delusional man finally saw her true colours before the wedding (how was she going to explain after that that she actually didn't want the daughter at the wedding?) and realised she wasn't hacked and did write it.

What a really terrible person!

Frankly, at that point you will not be around to care. What are they going to do? Post on Heaven's Facebook and berate you for it? Besides, in the afterlife you hold all the cards. Let them say something - pretty sure hauntings trump gossip any day.

I am aware of funeral for a small child where they played Twinkle Twinkle little star. I wasn't at the funeral but I heard comments later where people criticised the song because it had meaning to them and their children, just like the OP's so called friend. Is this not the same as don't call your child Mary after your mother because it's my name....? It's not but feel free to name your children Nicola. There were four Nicola's and two Nicholas' in my class at school so I'm not the precious about it!

Use the songs you like. And then haunt her for the rest of her miserable existence!

OP is DY1NG and they care about the MUSIC on the funeral??? How about, a person you know and like/love won't probably be here a year from now?? And you care about F*CKING MUSIC???? If people around me acted like this about my de@th, I'd just empty my savings and go live the year on a deserted island.... better no people than this kind of people... FFS... I don't think I'm gonna make it to the end of this article...

It’s your funeral, your choice

Did how you want to die! You won't be around to hear them complaining!

Tell them "Stay home if you feel that way. But if you don't come to my funeral, then I'm not coming to yours!"

I hope OP did it anyway. What a horrible "friend"

What does Op mean?

Beatles at my funeral.. I dare anyone to argue with me about them.

Pretty sure MOST songs have special meaning to someone - it's kind of like naming your kid, no one OWNS a name. Use whatever songs you like and f*ck that "supposed" friend.

You do what YOU want. To hell with anyone else’s opinion.❤️

Seriously. The one that uses it first 'owns' it.

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Yeah no problem and can you please give me back my €200 wedding gift asap and i will send you the £3.66 asap

Why are so many woman so fixated on this matching everybody look and vision of this wedding. I get wanting to have a lovely wedding and everyone looking their best, but so many of these brides seem to have forgotten that the wedding is one day and the marriage is so much more important. Also lol at the bride being shocked that all the 7.5" heels look like hooker shoes, what did she expect?!

Again how come that girls get the idea that this day is about aesthetics? And that the day is only about you? That is just so not the point. And you are going to be so unhappy when you think that. Because there will always be something that goes wrong. There will always be someone complaining about something. A wedding is about a happy day for everyone attending..

Ha, take that, pleb

I would call her bluff and send this to her fiancé and ask if it's true as I bet he has no idea bride is being so rude to one of this friends! The poor woman isn't even in the bridal party and she wants her to change her hair colour and hide tattoos or she doesn't love the couple. Some people really do go on a power trip when they get married!

Guest has saved herself heartache there as I guarantee even if she had have been given adequate time to make them, she would be paid for that mountain of work as it's "just wood and paint, probably only cost a few £'s!" Those choosy beggar types never take artists time and materials into proper account!

And let's hope for the kids sake she never will...

Bored panda censored highclass. 😂

Don't you mean "Ex best friend"?

Part of me hopes that this is satire . The other part has now lost all hope for humanity.

People shouldnt wear overpowering purfume/colonge at a crowded venue. Not because of the reason given but because you never know who has an allergy. On another note, all other request by bridezilla is nuts! Pay to be labor...no thanks!

Imagine how much beer and cake you can buy for 250!

Goddamn the people in this entire list.

What is wrong with these women? And why would any decent man want to marry them?

Imma go stand outside the venue eating a chicken leg, anyone got the address?

Ex-friend, right?

😂🤣😳🤣😂

"...a month traveling, bar hopping, swinging, and more in Europe..." Height of COVID. I have no words.

Looks like there won't be any photos taken

"I wouldn't want to wear a crop top but I want my bridesmaid too, but think you'll look awful in it. So instead of finding one of the thousands of dress options that would work and suit you, I'm not asking you to be bridesmaid and instead just want a photo with you, hope you don't mind" is effectively what this nasty bride is saying. If I was the friend I would either say that I don't mind wearing a crop top and call her bluff and say I'm more than happy to if it means being her bridesmaid, or dump her sorry a*s as a friend knowing she's putting a crop top over my friendship.

Why are you marrying someone you can't trust?

Yeah, the daughter will start a scene. VERY UNDERSTANDABLE, since this woman here is an idiotic pinch-spotted daemon, and it’s an insult upon the forms of daemons

What was that last part?

What.The.Hell?

Hey, nobody’s commented here yet! [insert witty original comment]

For context, the post was made less than a month after Halloween, so certainly within the time frame of when most photographers would be still editing the photos and not like June etc