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There are certain times in all of our lives when it’s understandable to be a little demanding: when planning a wedding, when having a baby, and maybe even when it’s your birthday. But as you’ll soon find out, some people use getting married as an excuse to turn into absolute monsters.

Below, you'll find pics that put some of the worst bridezillas the world has ever seen on blast, as well as an interview with Shay Yellin, Editor in Chief of Bespoke Bride. Be sure to upvote the demands you find most egregious, and if you’re ever planning a wedding of your own, please remember not to burn any bridges on your way to the aisle!

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... Human Trash Bag

... Human Trash Bag

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Alexandra Davis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I remember this on Reddit, the OP cut that awful excuse of a friend out of their life and if I remember correctly, many of their mutual friends were so angry they didn't go either.

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“Lose Weight If You Want To Be My Maid Of Honour”

“Lose Weight If You Want To Be My Maid Of Honour”

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Alexandra Davis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Good on OP for standing up for herself and refusing to attend the wedding. I'll never understand the mindset of brides who put their wedding aesthetic above having those near and dear to them involved in their wedding. When I (hopefully eventually) get married, I couldn't care less what my friends look like as long as they are comfortable, happy and by my side. I'm a wheelchair user and know other wheelchair users who have been refused to be in the wedding party because of being in a wheelchair- if any friend of mine did that they wouldn't be my friend any longer!

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I’m sure you’re all familiar with the idea of a “bridezilla”. This term was coined by Boston Globe writer Diane White in 1995 when she was writing an article about difficult brides, and the name just stuck. By 2003, a show called Manhattan Brides, which was later renamed Bridezillas, began filming, and they’ve appeared in popular culture ever since. Movies like Bride Wars (2009) depict women planning their weddings as selfish and ruthless, but we all know that most brides-to-be aren’t actually anywhere near that unreasonable. Planning a wedding can be extremely stressful, and it’s understandable to want things to be perfect.

Unfortunately, however, there are some brides out there who seem to have tunnel vision when planning their big days and have no problem steamrolling all of their loved ones along the way. So to learn more about how common it is for brides to become extremely demanding when wedding planning, we reached out to Shay Yellin, Editor in Chief of Bespoke Bride. Bespoke Bride has been voted ‘Best for Bridal’ by Cosmopolitan Magazine and listed as one of the UK’s top 10 wedding blogs, and lucky for us, Shay was happy to answer some of our burning bridal questions. 

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#4

Holy Smack, A Silent Reception‽

Holy Smack, A Silent Reception‽

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Phoebe Bean
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'll happily give her the silent treatment... what's wrong with brides??

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Fiancé Is In A Bridal Group On Facebook And Came Across This One

Fiancé Is In A Bridal Group On Facebook And Came Across This One

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Helena
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Never once thought about my wedding as a kid. I really do not get these kind of people.

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Bro Needs To Find A New Bride

Bro Needs To Find A New Bride

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According to Shay, it’s extremely common for brides to be particular when wedding planning. “Many of the brides we've worked with at Bespoke Bride were extremely demanding,” she told Bored Panda. “We actually think it's quite normal and reasonable for brides to become unreasonably demanding. Let's face it, it's the BIGGEST day in life for many brides. They have very specific dreams of how this day will look, so if it's not perfect - they can easily get unreasonable.”

We also asked Shay if she could share any experiences of working with particularly difficult brides. “On our Bespoke Bride shop - we sell lots of DIY wedding accessories that can easily be downloaded and printed at home,” she told Bored Panda. “These are very affordable items ranging from $4 to $6. Once we had a client bride that wanted us to re-design the entire item according to her very specific demands. We tried to help and do a few edits, but the more we did, the more she wanted us to edit again. We did a LOT of work for $6!”

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#7

I've Officially Dropped Out Of The Bridal Party. I'm A Size 12 With No Plans On Dropping To A Size 8 By December

I've Officially Dropped Out Of The Bridal Party. I'm A Size 12 With No Plans On Dropping To A Size 8 By December

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Megan Curl
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These are making me more and more depressed about the general horribleness of some people.

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Entitled Bride Wants Bm To Wear Wig To Wedding

Entitled Bride Wants Bm To Wear Wig To Wedding

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Megan Curl
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This was where I had to stop reading this entire post. I’m just too disgusted.

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#9

Bride Cancels Her Wedding Because Her Guests Didn't "Donate" A $1,500 Each To Fund The Event

Bride Cancels Her Wedding Because Her Guests Didn't "Donate" A $1,500 Each To Fund The Event

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Brittania Kelli
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I need to get away from a society where people feel entitled to other's money because they 'need' to throw a lavish wedding. It is a party. If you're getting married so that you can have an Insta perfect party and not because you and your partner want to celebrate your love with your closest friends and family DON'T GET MARRIED!

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When it comes to dealing with challenging brides, Shay says, “You have to be extremely calm and supportive of ‘unreasonable’ brides, even if it's tough and can sometimes make you sick. When you understand the basic psychology behind it - that this is the BIGGEST day in their lives, it makes it easier to deal with. If there are items or things that you really cannot provide - you must come up with a smart answer that details all the reasons why you cannot provide them with the item or service. And most importantly - do it diplomatically, with lots of ‘I'm so sorry!’”

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I Mean... Sounds Kinda Like A Racist/Colorist Bride Here. Thoughts?

I Mean... Sounds Kinda Like A Racist/Colorist Bride Here. Thoughts?

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Jason Boyd
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Also, yellow and dark skin is an awesome combo! I'm pink as, verging on blue after winter - I'd look like the Ukrainian flag!

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#11

Wow

Wow

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Alexandra Davis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

An update from Reddit from someone who saw the original post on Facebook: "She actually goes on to comment that people DID send this to her fiance, she said she was hacked, he bought her story about being hacked, and he was "currently making [her] some eggs" as an apology for believing it was her in the first place. Talk about manipulative & crazy. This poor child." I truly hope that delusional man finally saw her true colours before the wedding (how was she going to explain after that that she actually didn't want the daughter at the wedding?) and realised she wasn't hacked and did write it.

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#12

Op Is Getting Thrashed In The Comments

Op Is Getting Thrashed In The Comments

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Shay also provided some words of wisdom for brides who are in over their heads when wedding planning. “We totally get the brides who become overwhelmed with stress when planning their weddings, even the most ‘unreasonable’ brides,” she says. “We know how stressful it can get, but you need to always look at the other side as well. Wedding vendors will do their utmost to provide you with your wish, but it's not always possible to get EXACTLY what you want. You need to accept that and find creative ways to change your dream just a little bit.”

If you’d like more wedding planning insight and tips from the experts, be sure to visit Bespoke Bride’s website right here

#13

But Her Wedding Is More Important Than Op Dying /S

But Her Wedding Is More Important Than Op Dying /S

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Damitria
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Frankly, at that point you will not be around to care. What are they going to do? Post on Heaven's Facebook and berate you for it? Besides, in the afterlife you hold all the cards. Let them say something - pretty sure hauntings trump gossip any day.

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#14

I Paid For The First Slice After It Was Announced On The Day We'd Be Helping To Pay For Their Cake!! Apparently Didn't Count For The Second

I Paid For The First Slice After It Was Announced On The Day We'd Be Helping To Pay For Their Cake!! Apparently Didn't Count For The Second

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Mrs Irish Mom
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah no problem and can you please give me back my €200 wedding gift asap and i will send you the £3.66 asap

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Cb Bride

Cb Bride

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Alexandra Davis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why are so many woman so fixated on this matching everybody look and vision of this wedding. I get wanting to have a lovely wedding and everyone looking their best, but so many of these brides seem to have forgotten that the wedding is one day and the marriage is so much more important. Also lol at the bride being shocked that all the 7.5" heels look like hooker shoes, what did she expect?!

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This isn’t the first time we’ve covered brides with extreme demands here at Bored Panda, so we looked back at a previous interview with Amber Peterson, Community Manager of Planner’s Lounge, to gain more insight on the topic. When it comes to what brides are allowed to ask of their guests, Amber says, “I think brides can ask whatever they want from their guests, but do not be surprised if that means they opt out of your celebration. Asking for a specific colored attire might mean that guests have to buy something they will never wear again, and for some people, dressing in a way that makes them feel bad about their appearance.”

#16

Looks Before Friends Always Offends

Looks Before Friends Always Offends

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Cathelijne Van
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Again how come that girls get the idea that this day is about aesthetics? And that the day is only about you? That is just so not the point. And you are going to be so unhappy when you think that. Because there will always be something that goes wrong. There will always be someone complaining about something. A wedding is about a happy day for everyone attending..

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Stolen Off Facebook But Though It Applied Here

Stolen Off Facebook But Though It Applied Here

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Found This Bridezilla On Facebook. It Was Someone Who Had Been Trying To Get Along With The New Bride Because She Is Friends With Her Fiancé, But This Was The Last Straw:

Found This Bridezilla On Facebook. It Was Someone Who Had Been Trying To Get Along With The New Bride Because She Is Friends With Her Fiancé, But This Was The Last Straw:

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Alexandra Davis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I would call her bluff and send this to her fiancé and ask if it's true as I bet he has no idea bride is being so rude to one of this friends! The poor woman isn't even in the bridal party and she wants her to change her hair colour and hide tattoos or she doesn't love the couple. Some people really do go on a power trip when they get married!

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In reference to a bride who wanted all of her wedding guests to wear the color yellow and stay silent, Amber previously told Bored Panda, “Some couples don’t care if their guests look bad, but they will be in your wedding pictures for the rest of your life, so I would prefer that everyone looked and felt their best! Dictating how loud they can speak is not only unrealistic, but insulting! Most people know how to behave at a wedding, and if there are specific guests you are concerned about acting out, maybe do not invite those guests.”

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Cb Bride Uninvites Guest For Not Producing Free Centerpieces

Cb Bride Uninvites Guest For Not Producing Free Centerpieces

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Alexandra Davis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Guest has saved herself heartache there as I guarantee even if she had have been given adequate time to make them, she would be paid for that mountain of work as it's "just wood and paint, probably only cost a few £'s!" Those choosy beggar types never take artists time and materials into proper account!

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This Was An Interesting Read Today…

This Was An Interesting Read Today…

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She Wants A Deposit From Her Bridesmaids

She Wants A Deposit From Her Bridesmaids

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“While the wedding is about the commitment you are making to one another, it is also about the gathering of your friends and family, and you should consider their fun and comfort,” Amber went on to explain. “Your wedding is only one day, and you do not want to make the people you love miserable in order to celebrate with you and your partner. If you are unbearable during your wedding, people will remember that for YEARS to come. Be considerate.”

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#23

Can't Believe People Didn't Want To Spend $1,000's On Her. The Nerve

Can't Believe People Didn't Want To Spend $1,000's On Her. The Nerve

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Kel Jones
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Part of me hopes that this is satire . The other part has now lost all hope for humanity.

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Bride N Groom Requests No Perfume On The Women And The Men Are Free Labour, On Top Of Paying $360 A Head

Bride N Groom Requests No Perfume On The Women And The Men Are Free Labour, On Top Of Paying $360 A Head

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Damitria
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

People shouldnt wear overpowering purfume/colonge at a crowded venue. Not because of the reason given but because you never know who has an allergy. On another note, all other request by bridezilla is nuts! Pay to be labor...no thanks!

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Amber also says it’s important to keep your guests in mind when wedding-planning. “A wedding is a large-scale party you are hosting to celebrate your love, and your guests are invited to celebrate with you. Guests should be treated with the same respect and love you expect them to give to you as the engaged couple,” she noted. “This means making sure they are having fun, and are comfortable and at ease. This is the first event you are hosting as a married couple, so be gracious and welcoming!”

#25

Some People Can't Afford It

Some People Can't Afford It

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Bride Is Expecting Everyone To Spend $400 Or More On Her Wedding Gifts

Bride Is Expecting Everyone To Spend $400 Or More On Her Wedding Gifts

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This Literally Just Happened - "I Want My Own Wedding Year"

This Literally Just Happened - "I Want My Own Wedding Year"

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Steve Robert
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is wrong with these women? And why would any decent man want to marry them?

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I usually love attending weddings, but this list is making me hesitant to attend any more any time soon… I don’t want to be belatedly charged for eating cake! Keep upvoting the pics you find most shocking, and feel free to share any personal experiences you’ve ever had with bridezillas in the comments below, pandas. Then, if you’d like to check out another article featuring outrageous bridezilla stories, look no further than right here!

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Bridezilla Won’t Have Non-Vegan Family Members At Her Wedding

Bridezilla Won’t Have Non-Vegan Family Members At Her Wedding

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Hyrule26
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Imma go stand outside the venue eating a chicken leg, anyone got the address?

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Bridezilla Would Accomodate Her Heavily Pregnant Bridesmaid — Forced Her To Pull Out Of Bridal Party

Bridezilla Would Accomodate Her Heavily Pregnant Bridesmaid — Forced Her To Pull Out Of Bridal Party

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#31

Bride Demands 30k

Bride Demands 30k

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You Should Do Nothing with the Fence
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"...a month traveling, bar hopping, swinging, and more in Europe..." Height of COVID. I have no words.

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Photographer Job Needed! Here Are The Requirements For This Bridezilla!

Photographer Job Needed! Here Are The Requirements For This Bridezilla!

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Crop Tops Over Family Everyday, Am I Right?

Crop Tops Over Family Everyday, Am I Right?

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Alexandra Davis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I wouldn't want to wear a crop top but I want my bridesmaid too, but think you'll look awful in it. So instead of finding one of the thousands of dress options that would work and suit you, I'm not asking you to be bridesmaid and instead just want a photo with you, hope you don't mind" is effectively what this nasty bride is saying. If I was the friend I would either say that I don't mind wearing a crop top and call her bluff and say I'm more than happy to if it means being her bridesmaid, or dump her sorry a*s as a friend knowing she's putting a crop top over my friendship.

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Not Even Sure If This Belongs Here But It’s In An Engagement Group So 🤷🏼‍♀️

Not Even Sure If This Belongs Here But It’s In An Engagement Group So 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Bride Insecure Of Fiance's "Womanly" Teenage Daughter...yikes

Bride Insecure Of Fiance's "Womanly" Teenage Daughter...yikes

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HelluvaHedgehogAlien
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, the daughter will start a scene. VERY UNDERSTANDABLE, since this woman here is an idiotic pinch-spotted daemon, and it’s an insult upon the forms of daemons

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Entitled Bridezilla Removes Bridesmaid For Developing Anxiety After A Traumatic Incident, And Still Expects Her To Pay!

Entitled Bridezilla Removes Bridesmaid For Developing Anxiety After A Traumatic Incident, And Still Expects Her To Pay!

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Disappointed Her Guests Aren't Paying For Their Honeymoon In Full

Disappointed Her Guests Aren't Paying For Their Honeymoon In Full

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Bridezilla Thinks Photographers Spare Time Should Be Used To Edit Her Photos

Bridezilla Thinks Photographers Spare Time Should Be Used To Edit Her Photos

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Alexandra Davis
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

For context, the post was made less than a month after Halloween, so certainly within the time frame of when most photographers would be still editing the photos and not like June etc

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Bridezillas Beware, You Are Not Safe From Being Virtually Murdered

Bridezillas Beware, You Are Not Safe From Being Virtually Murdered

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cerinamroth
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Jeez, anyone got the cousin's email address so all the money and flowers can be sent to her instead? I went to a wedding three months after having our first child and I was like a deer in the headlights. My life was upside down, my emotions were upside down and my body was still gigantic. But I loved my belly because I was still processing the fact my tiny baby was not in there any more but outside in the world, where she needs everyone's protection, not just mine. I wasn't ready to be in big groups of people at that point but I am proud of myself for making it at all. I hope the cousin steers clear and focuses on herself and her baby and kicks this piece of trash family member to the kerb permanently.

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