She got served a full platter of "Nope and f**k you to hell and back"

I admire this person calm demeanour, held their sh*t together so well. I'd have delivered the books, with a right hook.

Uggghhh

Just. Wow.

If she can buy a bed, she can rent her own place.

Wow. I'm genuinely shocked that a mom would talk to her kid like that over a freaking Netflix subscription.

Ok, I get it that they're family, but if they agreed on $16 an hour, she deserves to be paid $16 an hour. I'm a nanny and my rate is more than that!

Some people are sooooo clueless and bloody selfish that it makes me want to throw something through a window.

Yassss....not responsible for her f****d up financials.

I have a 2nd cousin that came to Christmas every year at my grandma's and my grandma would get us cousins all a ton of gifts and always only get this 2nd cousin one. The 2nd cousin is now 36 and said she always felt unwanted bc of it. Turns out her dad told her grandma not to get her gifts bc it "undermined" them. But cousin never knew that.. just that she was unwanted for whatever reason an internalized that. Don’t limit what other ppl can get your kids bc your insecure about your own financial situation

Seems it's time to stop supporting her over the amount of child support he legally has to pay.

“The way I see it is I have no obligation to be paying more than I already do for them, and their finances are irrelevant to me.” Yes, agree. But getting a 17-year-old a BMW? Nope. Teenagers take to entitlement and status symbols like fish to water, and should be driving simple, practical, safe cars.

I agree you can get him any car you want however your an idiot for getting a brand new driver a 340i. Too many stories of new drivers getting into trouble with the power the car puts out. Lower engine output identical car would have been a better idea

I could understand if she was concerned about having to pay for upkeep on a beamer but to get mad her ex is giving their son a car that's nicer than hers? Weird logic.

It’s his money and if he wants to buy his son a gift then it’s not any concern of his ex’s. However, why the hell would he get his son a new car? I wouldn’t want to drive an expensive car to school. There could be a jealous kid who keys it or bangs it accidentally with their car door. Also, the insurance for a new car and a young driver must be horribly expensive.

💰💰 flow issues with 2 husbands, can anyone tell me who or what the 💰 issue is caused by 🤦🏼‍♀️

Bet that child support runs out pretty soon...maybe she's going to be in real trouble without it...I see both points but probably he'll have to continue to help her out until the boy moves out.

Perhaps a bit expensive for a child's first car, but if dad pays it in whole, and mom doesn't have to chip in, she ought to be happy that her kid has a car without her having to pay for it.

Imagine thinking your “EX” owes you anything beyond child support lol. It’s not your fault she’s broke and married a broke guy.

Damn man. Poor kid.

Seriously bad attitude from the ex but bad idea for any teenager to get something that powerful as a first car, just a month after passing his test. A Civic would have been much more suitable. Preferably used that he could put a bit of work into to make it nicer and thus learn a valuable lesson about taking care of stuff.

Should have at least got him a car that has functional signal lights.

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But will he help pay for that $2400 brake job it’s going to need in a year?

get out. Get out asap and start your life.

I'm sorry you are going through this. I am in a similar situation. It never ceases to amaze me how vicious family can become when they think there is money...jackals they are! No offense to true jackals.

Dont f*****g let them in....

Yes. You are the a*$*holes. My first stepmother had the same name as me. Yeah it was weird seeing 'my' name on the order of service and later on, the gravestone, but nobody made a big deal out of it, certainly not me. To actually deny a family member the chance to say goodbye just because they look like the deceased is extremely selfish. I get that they're grieving, but the only acceptable reason for asking a family member to stay away is if the deceased personally requested it or family history suggests that it would be a bad idea to have certain relatives in close proximity.

all this entitlement… I'm lost in the woods.

I don't even know the difference between all this junk.

"it'll give him something to do and take his mind of things" /s

Then let her TikTok her way to buttfuck Nopeland

Yeah Nah

Hey at least it’s straight to the point, no beating around the bush

good reply.

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Go to court, 7000 is a lot.

#567 on why not to have kids...

They should pay in full and get banned from the shop.

What is up with people and Netflix?

Well he can obviously get up and cook his own damn dinner and shut the hell up.

If they don't use the pool then why is she asking for it to be opened for her and her family? Idiot.

What a mooch

Wait wtf?