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A “wonderful” part of being a woman is accidentally smiling while making eye contact with the wrong man and now he is in love and, even worse, insistent that you must be in love as well. No words, deeds or restraining orders will dissuade him from this thought. Fortunately, folks online have taken to screenshotting messages from these sorts of fellows to name and shame them. 

We’ve gathered some of the most delusional expectations “nice guys” have had of women. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote the ones that made you roll your eyes the most and be sure to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section below. 

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Ngvc: "I Make 100k+ A Year, What Do You Bring To The Table?"

Ngvc: "I Make 100k+ A Year, What Do You Bring To The Table?"

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This Guy Who Expected A Relationship With A Woman After He Comforted Her — Also Known As... Just Being A Bare-Minimum Friend

This Guy Who Expected A Relationship With A Woman After He Comforted Her — Also Known As... Just Being A Bare-Minimum Friend

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Ngvc: “You Got A Nice Set Of Mommy Milkers”

Ngvc: “You Got A Nice Set Of Mommy Milkers”

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For those who are not in the loop, a “nice guy” isn’t just a fantastically underrated Ryan Gosling movie or a man who is nice, it refers to a very specific subset of romantically unsuccessful men. These men, similar to the ones in these screenshots, have a misguided and frankly entitled belief that if they are just nice to women, they will receive love and attention in return.

Given the fact that humans are not vending machines, this has no bearing on reality, but when this fact rears its head, these men tend to get very angry. It’s also worth noting that “nice guys” are not particularly nice in general, equating some conversation and favors to being a “perfect partner.” 

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“Toddlers Are Well Built And Curvy”

“Toddlers Are Well Built And Curvy”

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Brenda
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pervert! You DEFINITELY did the right thing! That's creepy as he!!, talking about a toddler that way! Or any child!

UnKool-Aid
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5 months ago

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Calling that woman a pervert then applauding her for doing the right thing is sending a mixed message if ever there was one.

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Trillian
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What people does she know that say she is overreacting? They need to be on the list as well.

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5 months ago

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Rebelliousslug
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had to put my phone down for a while after reading this. The people that say she’s overreacting are shady af too

Dogs on a train
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5 months ago

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I just don't think they really understand. if it happened to them they would understand. i understand where your head is at and I sadly agree. But I do not think those people are shady. (Cool name btw)

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Zedrapazia
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't photograph your children and don't put them online. Even if they don't comment, the pedos will collect these sorts of pictures

MyCatsTheRealPanda
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yes and for the love of God don't bring people you don't know or trust around your children. And do not let them be naked in front of those people. I have kids. I know after going potty sometimes they run around without pants or clothes but when you have someone in your house you make sure they stay covered. Should they have to in their own home? No. But if you're bringing people around, then you have to take steps to protect your kids. Trust no one with or around your children. Period. You know how many "trusted" people violate or hurt children every single day? Too many.

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BrownEyedGrrrl
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Creep. My brother (in his 40s) said to me "I'd f**k her if she wasn't my niece" talking about my daughter. She was 12. I'm glad he's dead.

Eiryn Elliott
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

EW EW EW!!! I couldn't get away from someone like that fast enough. In fact I'd likely report to the police. omg So freaking gross. And men wonder why we don't feel safe with them. A TWO YEAR OLD!!

Katiekat
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Even worse were men online who simply stopped talking to me after I said I had no kids. Oh ok, thanks for outing yourself as a predator early on. Makes me even more glad I never had kids.

Tyranamar Seuss
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I was dating a guy once and his 2 y/o niece was running around naked and he got all excited calling her "sexy X (her name)." Then he was talking about how he couldn't wait until his sister would let her spend the night. Creepy AF.

Regina Holt
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WHAT THE HEL!!!!!!! I'd warn his sister. And anyone else with a young child.

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Anxiousguest
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5 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I will also cut off those who are saying that you are overreacting

Tamra
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This would absolutely drive me to physical violence.

Max Fox
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

WTAF?!! I normally believe that a person should not be punished for their thoughts, but for the safety of children, that man should be castrated.

Rocky
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You know, I hope he knows why. Because if he wasn't called out and never has been.. who knows what he believes he can or will get away with.

Binky Melnik
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I’m sure a two-year-old was trying to impress him. 🙄 I’m sleeved out, I need to go wash my eyes. With Drano.

Roger9er
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5 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We have no idea how many of those disgusting, dangerous and fůckrd up ped0phịles are out there...be aware, parents, please...

Oskar vanZandt
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Protect your child. Cut sick f*cks like this out of your life. Cut those who don't have your back out of your life. Be very careful with allowing anyone to be around your children...

StretcherBearer
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not a proponent of physical violence but I think I would have been a bit physical with his immediate removal. In no universe is this ok.

maka paka
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

She's friggin 2 WTF, cut him out of your life, call the police and send what he said to anyone you know with kids that is just so out there i can't believe anyone is defending him

Kara
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I just threw up in my mouth reading what that guy did.

Diolla
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OK he's a total creep, but why oh why publish naked pics of your children online, where they will stay for eternity for everyone to see?

Jane Alexander
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't just get rid of him fast but let the authorities and CPS know about him. That he speaks openly tells me that he thinks it's ok and that's scary as he**!

Shawn Barry
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

is this serious or a trolling? if serious, ya did the right thing, if trolling, why?

Paul Brown
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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is something seriously wrong with a man who says that about a 2 year old. I hope OP stays far away from this sicko.

Couragetcd
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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Thiat pervert needs to be castrated and lobotomized. No, not the mother 🙄 the dirty commentator.

Danish Susanne
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4 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You certainly didn't overreact. Cut people saying that out of your life and that of your daughters as well.

Gypsy Lee
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anybody sexualizing a 2 year old needs to be shown the exit & avoided like they’re a diseased bag of flaming 💩.

Lise Brouillette
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In a minute he'd have said she was coming on to him and got it into his "mind" she deserved to be raped. "Overreacting"? Those are the exact same cretins who would lay into you and blame you for not "seeing" the signs when something terrible happens. STAY AWAY FROM THIS FREAK.

Bella Sennei
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Uhm, momma, you did the absolute right thing. You and your daughter stay away from that pervert as far as possible!

Lena Flising
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd say you were under-reacting, if that is even a word. A toddler has no concept of "impressing" adult men Sure, kids might like attention, but strictly platonic, child-play, nothing sexualized for about 16 years or so, and definitely not from this dolt, as he'll be way too old for her then.

DC
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If there is a safe way to do so, what about employing his lap as a training facility? For potty training? If there was a safe way ... guess there ain't. Pity, that's a.

Kathrin Pukowsky
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yesterday I was on a packed train, and there was an adorable little girl in a stroller right in front of my seat. She made eye contact and we kept smiling at each other, and I pulled funny faces for her to giggle at. This sort of thing happens pretty often when I use public transport, and I wondered to myself "Why do children flirt with me?" FULL STOP. BRAIN, DAFUQ WAS THAT? THAT SOUNDED SO WRONG! I mean, I guess if "to flirt" just means to make playful contact, then it's technically the right word, but as an adult it has entirely different connotations. I felt creepy for thinking that. Meanwhile this guy is out there spewing this kind of stuff. Ew.

Trialia
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's not the right word in any context, and you were right in thinking it was a creepy thought!

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Ouss Ben Aziza
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some drake levels of creepy holy... no even more it is a baby he is talking about what the hell

LNB87
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

but also... let's not post babies in such compromising positions. those are personal photos for your own eyes, not everyone on fb.

Trialia
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Did you actually read the original post? This happened offline, not over a photo.

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Dogs on a train
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

complimenting? Fick no. A toddler? Bro. you are sad bro. hes a bad mamajamma

Laura Annsmith
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wait, did you post a pic of your daughter with no panties, or was the dude in your presence? Why people post pics of their kids is beyond me, way too many weirdos out there, if he was in your presence, beat his a*s.

Trialia
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He was there in person. Unfortunately, beating someone up just for saying something would be more likely to end with mom in custody and the little girl in foster care, and that's no safer.

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Ngvc "Decent Guy, Only Wants One Thing From His Date"

Ngvc "Decent Guy, Only Wants One Thing From His Date"

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Tobias Reaper
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

when your date says they want to see you again thats a good end to a date what is wrong with this moron

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When told that, actually, being nice via text or internet comment doesn’t make someone instantly fall for you, “nice guys” tend to react with anger. First and foremost, this very quickly shreds any last illusion that they are nice at all. This anger at their delusions being dismissed is almost as ridiculous as some of the demands they have of women who wouldn’t look at them twice. 

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This Guy Who Expected To Find A Match Because He Said He Doesn't Care About Looks Or Sex In His Profile... But Then Had This As His Opening Line

This Guy Who Expected To Find A Match Because He Said He Doesn't Care About Looks Or Sex In His Profile... But Then Had This As His Opening Line

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Ngvc: "It's A Real Shame Too. I Would've Treated You Like A Princess"

Ngvc: "It's A Real Shame Too. I Would've Treated You Like A Princess"

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Shark Lady
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'd be contacting the police as well as his superiors. It was bad enough that he used her personal information to contact her, but that last text was scary and disturbing.

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This is all to say that self-proclaimed “nice guys” tend to be neither nice nor good romantic matches. There have been enough cases where these men, met with rejection, turn to stalking and other forms of harassment that tend to be considerably worse than anything the stereotypical “jerk” might do. 

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This Guy Who Thought He Deserved Constant Communication With His Dating App Match Simply Because They Matched... A Few Hours Prior

This Guy Who Thought He Deserved Constant Communication With His Dating App Match Simply Because They Matched... A Few Hours Prior

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This Nice Guy Who Expected Immediate Replies To His Texts And Then Told The Woman He Was Texting He Was Just Trying To Teach Her A Lesson

This Nice Guy Who Expected Immediate Replies To His Texts And Then Told The Woman He Was Texting He Was Just Trying To Teach Her A Lesson

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Brenda
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5 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone who spams you period, let alone in the middle of the day during normal working hours (when they also should be working), has already shown their true selves. Don't bother replying & block!

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This Guy Who Thought He Deserved A Woman Because Of His Persistence... And Expert Gaslighting Skills

This Guy Who Thought He Deserved A Woman Because Of His Persistence... And Expert Gaslighting Skills

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The main cause of the issue, as with so much else, is a feeling of entitlement. Not only do these fellows think that having a partner is some sort of God-given right, they also have pretty strong opinions about what this partner should do, think and look like. Naturally, we can probably guess that these men most likely don’t, themselves, fit the bill at all, but that is beyond the point. 

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Ngvc: "I Sexually Harassed A Woman Who Didn't Have The Ability To Just Walk Away From Me, And She Isn't Happy About It. And You Women Say You Want Nice Guys"

Ngvc: "I Sexually Harassed A Woman Who Didn't Have The Ability To Just Walk Away From Me, And She Isn't Happy About It. And You Women Say You Want Nice Guys"

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Brenda
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5 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nice guys don't badger a person after they say no. They understand NO means NO!

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Ngvc: "I'm Not A Sexist But Females Owe Me Sex"

Ngvc: "I'm Not A Sexist But Females Owe Me Sex"

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This Guy Who Felt Entitled To A Date After Putting Down Other Women

This Guy Who Felt Entitled To A Date After Putting Down Other Women

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Sue Denham
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Act like a braindead b!tch"? What? You want me to pretend to be you? Kinky!

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Ngvc "I Am Handsome, Educated And Have Money But Single. What Is The Problem"

Ngvc "I Am Handsome, Educated And Have Money But Single. What Is The Problem"

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Ngvc: "I'm Also A Little Older And More Mature Than You (No Offense)"

Ngvc: "I'm Also A Little Older And More Mature Than You (No Offense)"

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Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa)
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Step one: get a screenshot. Step two: take it to the school counselor. Step three: prepare to get a restraining order issued if it continues. I've been stalked before. It's not fun.

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This "Nice And Stable" Guy Who Thought He Deserved A Date After Catfishing 200 Women To Try To Prove His Misogynistic Point

This "Nice And Stable" Guy Who Thought He Deserved A Date After Catfishing 200 Women To Try To Prove His Misogynistic Point

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Ace
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

200 women out of 200 were instantly put off when they found you'd already lied to them before they even clicked on your profile. What a surprise.

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Ngvc: "I'm A Nice Guy Once You Know Me, But No You Judge A Book By It's Cover"

Ngvc: "I'm A Nice Guy Once You Know Me, But No You Judge A Book By It's Cover"

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This Guy Who Mistook A Woman Just Being A Normal Human Being As Romantic Interest And Felt Entitled To A Relationship With Her

This Guy Who Mistook A Woman Just Being A Normal Human Being As Romantic Interest And Felt Entitled To A Relationship With Her

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This Classical Music Enthusiast Who Expected A Dm From This Woman After Insulting Her Taste In Music

This Classical Music Enthusiast Who Expected A Dm From This Woman After Insulting Her Taste In Music

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This Guy Who Thought Buying Someone Drinks Meant They Owe You Sex

This Guy Who Thought Buying Someone Drinks Meant They Owe You Sex

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Sue Denham
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If that's how you expected the evening to end A) you should have gone to a professional and B) $20.00 wouldn't begin to be enough.

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Ngvc: "I Hope He Dead, He Maybe Doesn't Even Love You, I Do"

Ngvc: "I Hope He Dead, He Maybe Doesn't Even Love You, I Do"

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This Guy Who Expected A Date After Showing A Random Woman At A Bar How Much Was In His Bank Account

This Guy Who Expected A Date After Showing A Random Woman At A Bar How Much Was In His Bank Account

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Peppy
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5 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He’s just showing you how much of a banker he is ,…… opps that should have started with a W

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This Guy Who Expected A Stranger On The Internet To Want To Date Him Just Because He (Sort Of?) Complimented Her

This Guy Who Expected A Stranger On The Internet To Want To Date Him Just Because He (Sort Of?) Complimented Her

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Ngvc "I'm Such An Awesome Guy! Why Won't Girls Date Me"

Ngvc "I'm Such An Awesome Guy! Why Won't Girls Date Me"

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Ngvc: "High Value Man"

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lenka
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5 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This guy is clearly not good at his job. Otherwise he would have done his due diligence and properly calculated the risk of being perceived a wanker with an opener like that.

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Ngvc: "I Tried To Be Polite... F**k That B***h"

Ngvc: "I Tried To Be Polite... F**k That B***h"

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