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30 Men That Showed Their True Colors With Their Weird And Delusional Expectations For Women
A “wonderful” part of being a woman is accidentally smiling while making eye contact with the wrong man and now he is in love and, even worse, insistent that you must be in love as well. No words, deeds or restraining orders will dissuade him from this thought. Fortunately, folks online have taken to screenshotting messages from these sorts of fellows to name and shame them.
We’ve gathered some of the most delusional expectations “nice guys” have had of women. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote the ones that made you roll your eyes the most and be sure to share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section below.
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#1
Ngvc: "I Make 100k+ A Year, What Do You Bring To The Table?"
Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 7 months ago
Expertly shot down. This was fantastic to read. Marry me.
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#2
This Guy Who Expected A Relationship With A Woman After He Comforted Her — Also Known As... Just Being A Bare-Minimum Friend
#3
Ngvc: “You Got A Nice Set Of Mommy Milkers”
For those who are not in the loop, a “nice guy” isn’t just a fantastically underrated Ryan Gosling movie or a man who is nice, it refers to a very specific subset of romantically unsuccessful men. These men, similar to the ones in these screenshots, have a misguided and frankly entitled belief that if they are just nice to women, they will receive love and attention in return.
Given the fact that humans are not vending machines, this has no bearing on reality, but when this fact rears its head, these men tend to get very angry. It’s also worth noting that “nice guys” are not particularly nice in general, equating some conversation and favors to being a “perfect partner.”
#4
“Toddlers Are Well Built And Curvy”
#5
Why Aren't Women More Superficial?
#6
Ngvc "Decent Guy, Only Wants One Thing From His Date"
Tobias Reaper 7 months ago
when your date says they want to see you again thats a good end to a date what is wrong with this moron
When told that, actually, being nice via text or internet comment doesn’t make someone instantly fall for you, “nice guys” tend to react with anger. First and foremost, this very quickly shreds any last illusion that they are nice at all. This anger at their delusions being dismissed is almost as ridiculous as some of the demands they have of women who wouldn’t look at them twice.
#7
This Guy Who Expected To Find A Match Because He Said He Doesn't Care About Looks Or Sex In His Profile... But Then Had This As His Opening Line
#8
Poor Brandon
#9
Ngvc: "It's A Real Shame Too. I Would've Treated You Like A Princess"
Shark Lady 7 months ago
I'd be contacting the police as well as his superiors. It was bad enough that he used her personal information to contact her, but that last text was scary and disturbing.
This is all to say that self-proclaimed “nice guys” tend to be neither nice nor good romantic matches. There have been enough cases where these men, met with rejection, turn to stalking and other forms of harassment that tend to be considerably worse than anything the stereotypical “jerk” might do.
#10
This Guy Who Thought He Deserved Constant Communication With His Dating App Match Simply Because They Matched... A Few Hours Prior
#11
This Nice Guy Who Expected Immediate Replies To His Texts And Then Told The Woman He Was Texting He Was Just Trying To Teach Her A Lesson
#12
This Guy Who Thought He Deserved A Woman Because Of His Persistence... And Expert Gaslighting Skills
The main cause of the issue, as with so much else, is a feeling of entitlement. Not only do these fellows think that having a partner is some sort of God-given right, they also have pretty strong opinions about what this partner should do, think and look like. Naturally, we can probably guess that these men most likely don’t, themselves, fit the bill at all, but that is beyond the point.
#13
Ngvc: "I Sexually Harassed A Woman Who Didn't Have The Ability To Just Walk Away From Me, And She Isn't Happy About It. And You Women Say You Want Nice Guys"
#14
Ngvc: "Just Trying To Be Nice"
#15
Ngvc: "I'm Not A Sexist But Females Owe Me Sex"
#16
This Guy Who Felt Entitled To A Date After Putting Down Other Women
Sue Denham 7 months ago
"Act like a braindead b!tch"? What? You want me to pretend to be you? Kinky!
#17
Ngvc "I Am Handsome, Educated And Have Money But Single. What Is The Problem"
#18
Ngvc: "I'm Also A Little Older And More Mature Than You (No Offense)"
Ray Ceeya (RayCeeYa) 7 months ago
Step one: get a screenshot. Step two: take it to the school counselor. Step three: prepare to get a restraining order issued if it continues. I've been stalked before. It's not fun.
#19
This "Nice And Stable" Guy Who Thought He Deserved A Date After Catfishing 200 Women To Try To Prove His Misogynistic Point
#20
Ngvc: "I'm A Nice Guy Once You Know Me, But No You Judge A Book By It's Cover"
Rayne OfSalt 7 months ago
"women won't sleep with me because they're sl*ts" is a bizarre take.
#21
That Happened
#22
This Guy Who Mistook A Woman Just Being A Normal Human Being As Romantic Interest And Felt Entitled To A Relationship With Her
#23
This Classical Music Enthusiast Who Expected A Dm From This Woman After Insulting Her Taste In Music
#24
This Guy Who Thought Buying Someone Drinks Meant They Owe You Sex
Sue Denham 7 months ago
If that's how you expected the evening to end A) you should have gone to a professional and B) $20.00 wouldn't begin to be enough.
#25
Ngvc: "I Hope He Dead, He Maybe Doesn't Even Love You, I Do"
#26
This Guy Who Expected A Date After Showing A Random Woman At A Bar How Much Was In His Bank Account
#27
This Guy Who Expected A Stranger On The Internet To Want To Date Him Just Because He (Sort Of?) Complimented Her
#28
Ngvc "I'm Such An Awesome Guy! Why Won't Girls Date Me"
#29
Ngvc: "High Value Man"
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Ace 7 months ago
The worst thing about this is a growing number of incel 'communities' mainly online chat groups, who encourage each other to share stories about how they're constantly being rejected by the 'bitches' in favour of 'chads' and how the deserve so much better. They manage to convince themselves that all women are superficial and will only ever date what they (the incels) think is the perfect specimen of manhood.
bElLa sTairZz 7 months ago
whilst they (the incels) only date women they see as the perfect specimen of womanhood
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Limey Cheesehead 7 months ago
The sad thing is that most of these men wouldn't date a woman who they didn't think was "perfect". I'm sure they'd reject any woman who isn't thin and conventionally beautiful.
devotedtodreams 7 months ago
Okay, real question: is this what dating is like in all age groups who use the internet, or is this more a "younger folks" thing? I'm almost 36 and sometimes think it would be nice to have a partner once more... but if this is what the dating landscape is like, I'd rather die alone.
ScootyPuffJr 7 months ago (edited)
I'm dating in my mid 40s, and I haven't run across a dude like these in at least15+ years. The dating pool gets smaller as you age, but I think the quality improves!!
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Ace 7 months ago
The worst thing about this is a growing number of incel 'communities' mainly online chat groups, who encourage each other to share stories about how they're constantly being rejected by the 'bitches' in favour of 'chads' and how the deserve so much better. They manage to convince themselves that all women are superficial and will only ever date what they (the incels) think is the perfect specimen of manhood.
bElLa sTairZz 7 months ago
whilst they (the incels) only date women they see as the perfect specimen of womanhood
Load More Replies... Limey Cheesehead 7 months ago
The sad thing is that most of these men wouldn't date a woman who they didn't think was "perfect". I'm sure they'd reject any woman who isn't thin and conventionally beautiful.
devotedtodreams 7 months ago
Okay, real question: is this what dating is like in all age groups who use the internet, or is this more a "younger folks" thing? I'm almost 36 and sometimes think it would be nice to have a partner once more... but if this is what the dating landscape is like, I'd rather die alone.
ScootyPuffJr 7 months ago (edited)
I'm dating in my mid 40s, and I haven't run across a dude like these in at least15+ years. The dating pool gets smaller as you age, but I think the quality improves!!
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