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‘Right In The Fedora’ Entitled Guy Gets Destroyed By This Woman
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‘Right In The Fedora’ Entitled Guy Gets Destroyed By This Woman

Entitled ‘Nice Guy’ Gets Put In His Place Perfectly'Playing Hard To Get. I like' Creepy Entitled Dude Gets Put In His Place'Right In The Fedora' Entitled Guy Gets Destroyed By This Woman“I Told You 'NO' Four Times”: Woman Puts An Entitled “Nice Guy” In His Place After He Bombards Her With Texts At 1AM“You Are A Predator”: Entitled ‘Nice Guy’ Bombards Female Co-worker With Texts At 1AM, Gets Perfectly Put In His PlaceWoman Shuts Down A Nice Guy After He Doesn’t Take No For An Answer And Keeps Pressuring Her To Go On A DateWoman Shares Creepy 1AM Texts From A Woman Shares Creepy Texts From A 'Nice Guy' Can't Handle Rejection, Immediately Changes His WaysWoman Goes Off At A 'Nice Guy' After Rejecting Him Politely Wasn't Convincing Enough
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There’s nothing truly nice about a nice guy. If you have met one, you know it. Often predators in disguise, these dudes think they’re somehow entitled to a woman’s affection for being kind. You can meet them anywhere: work, university, your friends’ circle and you name it, which makes it even more disturbing and creepy.

But this woman who recently got bombarded with texts by one entitled nice guy wasn’t going to put up with it. On the contrary, after receiving a series of weird messages at 1AM at night demanding that she go on a date, and accusing her of “playing hard to get,” she had a whole lot to tell him.

Scroll down below to the master move in putting a creep in his place right below, and be sure to share your thoughts on incidents like this in the comments. Also, if you’d like to get to know more about the toxic nice guy culture, be sure to check our previous post with women sharing their cringy nice guy stories that are all too real.

Turns out it was an entitled ‘nice guy’ and he was not leaving the chat that easy

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The paradox of the term “nice guy” is that indeed, there are many nice dudes out there. Dr. Robert Glover, a psychologist and expert in nice guy syndrome, describes this type of guy as a male who puts other people’s needs before his own, avoids any confrontations, partakes in doing favors, gives out emotional support, does his best to stay out of any trouble, and genuinely acts nice towards others.

Finally, the woman was pressured to respond and she said she’s not interested

The nice guy idea is basically an opposite to another popular men’s archetype known as “bad boy” or “jerk.” The negative part about something so seemingly positive like a nice guy is that by expressing their affectionate, generous, helpful, understanding behaviors, he will come across as more attractive, sexually appealing than other men. To put it bluntly, a nice guy believes he deserves a reward, which is a woman’s romantic or sexual interest in him.

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Disturbingly, the nice guy didn’t take no for an answer

The problem of being a nice guy is that the person doesn’t come across as nice to a woman at all. With a lifetime of frustration, nice guys tend to be really angry deep inside. Moreover, they often have difficulty setting boundaries, especially when it comes to sexual compulsiveness.

After constant pressure, the woman had had enough and laid it all out loud and clear in the message

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It’s also no secret that nice guys can be really passive-aggressive and manipulative as seen in this particular case. They also repeat the annoying behaviors making them ever less likeable. No wonder nice guys often get rejected by women, which makes them feel overlooked, mistreated and abandoned.

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And two more things before she blocked the creep…

Image credits: mackiemister7

The worst part is that nice guys don’t take no for an answer, which immediately turns them into sexual predators. One basic fundamental rule of any communication with another person is respecting their decision, whatever it may be. No means NO, and that’s the end of the story.

This is what people commented on this whole incident

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Liucija Adomaite

Liucija Adomaite

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Liucija Adomaite is a creative mind with years of experience in copywriting. She has a dynamic set of experiences from advertising, academia, and journalism. This time, she has set out on a journey to investigate the ways in which we communicate ideas on a large scale. Her current mission is to find a magic formula for how to make ideas, news, and other such things spread like a virus.

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Liucija Adomaite

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Liucija Adomaite is a creative mind with years of experience in copywriting. She has a dynamic set of experiences from advertising, academia, and journalism. This time, she has set out on a journey to investigate the ways in which we communicate ideas on a large scale. Her current mission is to find a magic formula for how to make ideas, news, and other such things spread like a virus.

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Justinas Keturka

Justinas Keturka

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I'm the Visual Editor at Bored Panda, responsible for ensuring that everything our audience sees is top-notch and well-researched. What I love most about my job? Discovering new things about the world and immersing myself in exceptional photography and art.

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Troux
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Her: 'You are a f*****g predator.' Him: 'I have more than enough experience with women who play hard to get' .....It's pretty unsettling that he doesn't even realize they just said the exact same thing. I strongly believe this guy will make the news some day.

KatHat
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Agree up to the last setence. This is COMMON. There are MILLIONS of guys who respond like this. This isn't special or unusual. Tragically.

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Caro Caro
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a creep. She's lovely, drop dead gorgeous bla bla bla until she said NO. All of a sudden she's a sl*t or a c*nt or a whore? How many woman have experienced this here on BP. Just post Heck Yes.

Grace Barclay
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No is a two letter word. No is a full sentence. End of. I read this recently on a Bored Panda post. I use it constantly with anyone who does not respect my no.

kaycee14
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And his refusing to accept her "no" is a HUGE red flag. Why would anyone agree to go out with someone who has shown they won't listen to "no?"

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Troux
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Her: 'You are a f*****g predator.' Him: 'I have more than enough experience with women who play hard to get' .....It's pretty unsettling that he doesn't even realize they just said the exact same thing. I strongly believe this guy will make the news some day.

KatHat
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Agree up to the last setence. This is COMMON. There are MILLIONS of guys who respond like this. This isn't special or unusual. Tragically.

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Caro Caro
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What a creep. She's lovely, drop dead gorgeous bla bla bla until she said NO. All of a sudden she's a sl*t or a c*nt or a whore? How many woman have experienced this here on BP. Just post Heck Yes.

Grace Barclay
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

No is a two letter word. No is a full sentence. End of. I read this recently on a Bored Panda post. I use it constantly with anyone who does not respect my no.

kaycee14
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And his refusing to accept her "no" is a HUGE red flag. Why would anyone agree to go out with someone who has shown they won't listen to "no?"

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