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Brother Expects Guests To Pay For His Wedding, Is Shocked And Mad When They Start Dropping Out
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Brother Expects Guests To Pay For His Wedding, Is Shocked And Mad When They Start Dropping Out

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“I want nothing to do with my brother and his fiancée,” the person who goes by the name of Spidercactus56 on Reddit stated in a post on the Wedding Shaming community.

They explained that “They have done plenty of things over the years which have resulted in family and friends going no contact but that’s a whole load of other stories.”

The last drop for the author was their upcoming wedding. “The thing that pissed a lot of people off was that if we wanted to go to their wedding, we had to pay our share of the wedding,” the Redditor shared and added, “this wasn’t discussed beforehand, it was just expected of everyone.”

More so, the wedding wasn’t cheap, to say the least, and every guest was expected to give a hefty contribution in order to make their big day come true. In an unexpected turn of events, the wedding got canceled, and the drama escalated up to a boiling point.

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    The author later added some more details in response to these comments

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    I'm a visual editor at Bored Panda. I kickstart my day with a mug of coffee bigger than my head, ready to tackle Photoshop. I navigate through the digital jungle with finesse, fueled by bamboo breaks and caffeine kicks. When the workday winds down, you might catch me devouring bamboo snacks while binging on the latest TV show, gaming or I could be out in nature, soaking up the tranquility and communing with my inner panda.

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    StayClassy
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is 3 years old. BP is doing a deep cut on Reddit today

    MimSorensson
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t spend my life on Reddit so it was news to me. I’m good. I never expected breaking news on BP, if I wanted breaking news, I’d go somewhere else.

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    TheKitKatLizard
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The reddit account has this story posted on like 3 different subs, a handful of comments to comments, and 1 comment on a post about a cat most recently and another comment on a random post as first thing on the account, probably to seem more real. Most likely super fake.

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    Sonja
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This sounds like a narcissist who's trying to loyal-test his friends and family. I've seen this happening in smaller scales and cut a 'friend' out when I found out that this is what he tried to do. People who do that willfully create situations where you have to go out of your way to accommodate them, and they do so to 'test' you to find out if you're 'worthy'. They also never accommodate your needs, because if you ask them for anything, they just turn that right around on you for another 'test' of your loyalty and how xou react when you won't help them.

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    StayClassy
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is 3 years old. BP is doing a deep cut on Reddit today

    MimSorensson
    Community Member
    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t spend my life on Reddit so it was news to me. I’m good. I never expected breaking news on BP, if I wanted breaking news, I’d go somewhere else.

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    TheKitKatLizard
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The reddit account has this story posted on like 3 different subs, a handful of comments to comments, and 1 comment on a post about a cat most recently and another comment on a random post as first thing on the account, probably to seem more real. Most likely super fake.

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    Sonja
    Community Member
    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This sounds like a narcissist who's trying to loyal-test his friends and family. I've seen this happening in smaller scales and cut a 'friend' out when I found out that this is what he tried to do. People who do that willfully create situations where you have to go out of your way to accommodate them, and they do so to 'test' you to find out if you're 'worthy'. They also never accommodate your needs, because if you ask them for anything, they just turn that right around on you for another 'test' of your loyalty and how xou react when you won't help them.

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