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Injured Woman Refuses To Be Bullied Out Of Her Priority Seat By Entitled Dad
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Injured Woman Refuses To Be Bullied Out Of Her Priority Seat By Entitled Dad

Injured Woman Refuses To Be Bullied Out Of Her Priority Seat By Entitled DadWoman Gets Priority Plane Seat Because Of Her Car Crash, Entitled Dad Wants It For HimselfEntitled Dad Throws A Fit When Car Crash Victim Refuses To Swap Seats With Him On FlightDad Asks Person Injured After Car Crash For Their Plane Seat, Loses It When He Doesn't Get It“That Is MY Family, Change Seats”: Man Orders Car Crash Victim To Move, Sulks When Told ‘No’“I Was Hit By A Truck”: Injured Woman Can’t Switch Seats With Random Passenger, Drama Ensues“I Was Hit By A Truck”: Injured Woman Stands Firm Against Entitled Dad's Pressure To Change SeatsMan Wants Woman Who Was Clearly Injured To Switch Seats With Him, Fumes When She Refuses“I Was Hit By A Truck”: Injured Woman Refuses To Yield Priority Seat To Entitled Dad
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Where’s your passport? Did you remember to separate your liquids into a small, clear bag? How much time do you have before boarding starts? 

Traveling is stressful enough on its own, but when you’re also dealing with a fresh injury, the experience can be excruciating. And unfortunately for one woman who simply wanted to get home as quickly as possible to rest, she first had to endure a flight with an obnoxious passenger. Below, you’ll find a story that she shared on the Entitled People subreddit, as well as some of the replies readers left her.

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This woman needed to travel across the country to get home after suffering serious injuries in a car accident

Image credits: Suhyeon Choi (not the actual photo)

But she was unable to have a smooth flight, thanks to a fellow passenger who really wanted to swap seats

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Image credits: Paul Hanaoka (not the actual photo)

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Passengers often want to switch seats while flying

It’s perfectly natural to want to move to a different seat while flying. If I see an open row or a seat available next to one of my loved ones, I’m always holding my breath until the flight attendants confirm that boarding has been completed. As soon as I know that nobody else is coming, I jump at the opportunity to slide into an open window seat or move away from the stranger next to me to provide us both with more space.

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But as much as I love picking my own seat on a flight, I am well aware of the fact that I’m not entitled to move. I made the choice to save $20 and leave my seat in the hands of the airline. So if I ask someone if they’d like to swap seats and they decline, or I end up in a middle seat squeezed between two strangers, I accept that. After all, we all paid the same amount to be there.

In recent years, there’s been a lot of discussions online surrounding flight etiquette. And of course, swapping seats is often part of the conversation. But according to former flight attendant Anais Monique, if you really want to switch seats, there’s a right way to go about asking. Monique wrote a piece for Business Insider detailing why flight attendants always prefer that passengers simply sit in their assigned seats. 

But moving around can inconvenience flight attendants and fellow flyers

She explained that moving seats can sometimes complicate flight attendants’ jobs, if they need to know where passengers with severe allergies, disabilities, special meals and flight connections are. And if a flight is full, it’s best to avoid moving around so as to not cause delays or force lots of other passengers to be inconvenienced.

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Monique does note, however, that when swaps are possible, she’ll prioritize those for families or unaccompanied minors. Kids traveling alone might feel more comfortable sitting as close as possible to the flight attendant’s jump seat, and parents who aren’t next to their families can usually be moved to be with their kids. Finally, Monique says the elderly, disabled passengers, passengers with injuries, and those who have extremely tight connections should be prioritized as well.

But we always have to keep in mind that fellow passengers might not take kindly to our requests to swap seats. According to a survey from Kayak, 58% of flyers think it’s appropriate to ask if you can move to sit next to a friend or family member. However, 64% don’t like it when passengers ask to move simply because they’re nervous flyers, and 77% say seat switching should not be allowed “just because.” 

Passengers are always allowed to refuse to change seats

If you do want to relocate, it’s probably best to ask a flight attendant first, rather than a passenger. They have more authority and may be able to find an even better seat for the person you’re expecting to relocate. And when it comes to how you should respond when someone asks if they can have your seat on a flight, etiquette expert Diane Gottsman told the Independent that it’s always okay to decline, “no excuses necessary.”

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Plus, if it’s imperative that you have a particular seat while on a flight, USA Today recommends simply planning ahead. You can almost always pay to choose a seat while booking your flights to avoid any of this hassle in the future. Or, simply choose an airline to fly that doesn’t assign seats, so you’ll have an opportunity to pick as long as you board first. 

We would love to hear your thoughts on this situation in the comments below, pandas. Have you ever been pressured to swap seats while on a flight? Feel free to share, and then if you’re interested in reading another Bored Panda article discussing seat drama while flying, we recommend checking out this piece next! 

Later, the woman responded to several comments and provided more info on the situation

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Readers shared their thoughts, as well as similar stories of their own and suggestions for next time

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Howdy, I'm Adelaide! I'm originally from Texas, but after graduating from university with an acting degree, I relocated to sunny Los Angeles for a while. I then got a serious bite from the travel bug and found myself moving to Sweden and England before settling in Lithuania about two years ago. I'm passionate about animal welfare, sustainability and eating delicious food. But as you can see, I cover a wide range of topics including drama, internet trends and hilarious memes. I can easily be won over with a Seinfeld reference, vegan pastry or glass of fresh cold brew. And during my free time, I can usually be seen strolling through a park, playing tennis or baking something tasty.

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Adelaide Ross

Adelaide Ross

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Howdy, I'm Adelaide! I'm originally from Texas, but after graduating from university with an acting degree, I relocated to sunny Los Angeles for a while. I then got a serious bite from the travel bug and found myself moving to Sweden and England before settling in Lithuania about two years ago. I'm passionate about animal welfare, sustainability and eating delicious food. But as you can see, I cover a wide range of topics including drama, internet trends and hilarious memes. I can easily be won over with a Seinfeld reference, vegan pastry or glass of fresh cold brew. And during my free time, I can usually be seen strolling through a park, playing tennis or baking something tasty.

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I'm a visual editor at Bored Panda. Looking at pets and memes is the best part of my work. I love to travel and want to see the world. Still looking and exploring stuff I like and want to do so thats exciting... and sometimes not

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Vėja Elkimavičiūtė

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I'm a visual editor at Bored Panda. Looking at pets and memes is the best part of my work. I love to travel and want to see the world. Still looking and exploring stuff I like and want to do so thats exciting... and sometimes not

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E.V.
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he wanted to help his family, he could've switched seats with his wife. Lol

Debbie
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7 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And then op had to get up every time they want to switch. He could have requested a trade with someone in the row behind his wife and kids. The people in front and behind the children might be very happy to switch seats to get away from them. And who wouldn't want to trade a middle seat for a window seat?

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Trillian
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I choose my seat specifically bc I want to be comfortable (aisle, bc I am tall with long legs). I am not changing for anyone. You want to sit with your family? Book accordingly. I don't owe you my seat.

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E.V.
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If he wanted to help his family, he could've switched seats with his wife. Lol

Debbie
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7 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And then op had to get up every time they want to switch. He could have requested a trade with someone in the row behind his wife and kids. The people in front and behind the children might be very happy to switch seats to get away from them. And who wouldn't want to trade a middle seat for a window seat?

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Trillian
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7 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I choose my seat specifically bc I want to be comfortable (aisle, bc I am tall with long legs). I am not changing for anyone. You want to sit with your family? Book accordingly. I don't owe you my seat.

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