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#2

This Literally Just Happened - "I Want My Own Wedding Year"

YOU GET ONE DAY. ONE. NOT THE WHOLE YEAR.

106points

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ucp 6 days ago

So I have a feeling that you soon won’t have a best friend.

41points

#3

“Lose Weight If You Want To Be My Maid Of Honour”

100points

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Skogsrået 6 days ago

Not as close as she thinks...

21points

Setting unrealistic expectations could be a sign of pre-wedding stress. It’s likely a result of the hyperfocus on making things “perfect” and running according to plan. According to psychologist Dr. Paulette Kouffman Sherman, managing expectations could relieve stress.

In an interview with Brides, Dr. Sherman suggests aiming for excellence rather than perfection to help manage expectations.

#4

Just When You Think The Bridezilla Requests Can't Get Any More Ridiculous

I'm a maid of honor in my friends wedding. She goes by her middle name which is Rachel... My first name is Rachel. I am honestly unsure how to answer. Like ma'am I'm not changing my name for your wedding.

secret_side_quest Report

98points

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María Hermida 6 days ago

The right answer here is: "f**k off".

91points

#5

Not Invited To The Wedding, But Still Pay For It

79points

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Bernd Herbert 6 days ago

25K for wedding is obscene.

41points

#6

I Had A Bad Feeling About Her. Run Bro

77points

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Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 6 days ago

More red flags than a parade in China.

177points

You may read screenshots of people posting their Venmo accounts as a request for a cash gift. A 2023 registry study by The Knot revealed that 74% of wedding registry creators prefer to receive money from guests instead of traditional utensils and other home starters.

Some couples use the cash to fund their honeymoons or shoulder expenses for their first homes.

#7

Pay For My Historic Wedding, Y'all!

65points

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Bernd Herbert 6 days ago

"honeymoon in Dubai" is basically all you need to know about this person

85points

#8

She'll Marry In An Empty Church

65points

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María Hermida 6 days ago

What d**g/d**g mixture is she on?

72points

#9

My Mum Is An Artificial Florist And Had An ‘Influencer’ With 70k Followers Ask For Free Wedding Flowers For Exposure

63points

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Pink kitty 6 days ago

Is an artificial florist fake?

9points

According to events director Bryce Carson, this trend has occurred over the past decade. But as he told Fortune in an interview, it isn’t always a cash grab.

“Couples are getting married a little bit older in life. They’re already combining their homes,” he explained. “They do not need two sets of everything.”

#10

Hey, I Know That I've Given My Wedding No Thought But I Want You Dedicate The Next 48 Hours Of Your Life To It

57points

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Tucker Cahooter 6 days ago

OP presumably also thinks all murders can be solved in 60 to 90 minutes

51points

#11

Oh Yeah, That Guy Jon Is Coming Too

56points

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Corvus 6 days ago

What did he do - he said Rachel instead of Emilie? :P

38points

#12

Entitled Bride To Be

54points

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Miss Tinker 6 days ago

Let’s hope your finance comes to his senses & dumps your cruel, shallow a*s.

108points

For many people, living in the internet age means wanting to look good for the ‘gram. Because of this, Carson says people are now heavily focused on turning their weddings into fashion events.

As he points out, some guests may feel hassled by outfit requirements, adding to the already hefty cost of attending a wedding. Therefore, brides and grooms should expect some attendees to “go rogue” and ignore the guidelines.

#13

Cb Bridezilla

47points

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Aballi 6 days ago

She's a real peach.

24points

#14

How Dare Someone Be Pregnant At My Wedding!! I Understand Not Wanting To Host Events, But The Anger At Grandparents Buying Gifts And The Me!!!! Attitude Is So Entitled

46points

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Bald Panda 6 days ago

Reality TV and social media influencers have created a society of narcissists who think the world revolves around them. A culture that worships nobodies, in turn making nobodies feel entitled to the same adulation. It's grotesque.

74points

#15

How About No

46points

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Rachel Parker 6 days ago

I’m looking for a supermarket that will refund my food bills if I throw up.

75points

We’d like to hear from you, readers. Have you experienced entitled behaviors from brides and grooms? How did you handle them? Share your stories in the comments!

#16

Watch Out For Bridezilla Karen

38points

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Kayci Styles 6 days ago

Bye, B***h!

34points

#17

Bride Is Expecting Everyone To Spend $400 Or More On Her Wedding Gifts

36points

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Alyssa Phillips 6 days ago

I'd go with number 5. Fuzzy dice.

50points

#18

Yikes

36points

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Corvus 6 days ago

If we can't record during the seramony, we'll do it during the ceremony ;)

48points

#19

We Sent You This Card So Send Us Money

35points

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Corvus 6 days ago (edited)

"Send us money because we keep you in our hearts."

17points

#20

Bride Mad Moh Is Pregnant And Is "Ruining" Bachelorette

35points

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Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 6 days ago

Am I selfish for wanting everyone's lives to revolve around me?

38points

#21

This Is As Tacky As It Gets.... Not Even A "Buy The Bride A Drink" Just $$$ Pls

34points

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SnootWaggling Fox 6 days ago

I always wonder if these things are intended for the wedding guests and just haven't been erased yet or are targeting randos? Tacky either way, but the former seems far less bad IMHO

5points

#22

God Forbid Her Sister Getting A Tattoo Before The Wedding!

34points

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Corvus 6 days ago

Sounds like a dire emergency. Better call the National Guard!

27points

#23

Ah Yes. Someone Potentially Dying At Your Wedding Is A Much Better Idea Than Simply Not Having Seafood For One Day

33points

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Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 6 days ago

It is definitely more important that you have a prawn, screw your friends health, roll them under the table when they collapse so they are not a trip hazard for others. Ffs.

52points

#24

How Dare Someone Else Get Married During A Covid Bride’s Wedding Year!!!

30points

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María Hermida 6 days ago

Some years ago, it was *my* day; now, it's *my* year. Soon, this flock of imbeciles will demand *my* decade. The biggest problem, in my opinion, is this trend is growing because people are paying too much attention to their invented dramas. If we just told them to f-off the moment they start with their unhinged demands, they would stop. No, I couldn't care less about your wedding, your dress or what colour you sister in law's dress is. Nobody cares. Really. We couldn't care less.

29points

#25

Not As Bad As Some, But Definitely Up There

29points

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Janissary35680 Premium 6 days ago (edited)

Re: "No Apple watches" What's your policy on longcase clocks?

27points

#26

The Entitlement

27points

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Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 6 days ago

If they cannot afford to chip in they should not be shamed for it.

27points

#27

Another Gem In A Wedding Group With A Greedy Bride

26points

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Skogsrået 6 days ago

They are selling their home to pay for the wedding? Are they planning to live on the venue afterwards? "I have regrets", yeah this whole post gave me regrets.

32points

#28

Almost Kicks Out Entire Bridal Party For Not Responding When She Told Them Only To Respond If They Wouldn’t Adhere To Her Demands

24points

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LonelyLittleLeafSheep 6 days ago

"You're right, I know longer want to be in your wedding party. Or a guest either."

7points

#29

Groom Says Fiancé’s Sister Is Too Fat To Be A Bridesmaid

22points

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Tenay Douglas 6 days ago

You not being close to her and saying you don't feel comfortable with her in the party for that reason is valid! However you fat shaming her and dismissing her for your supposed "aesthetic" is weirdo behavior

29points

#30

The Sense Of Entitlement Is Strong Here, Even With A Significant Portion Of Their Expenses Paid For By Family

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J. Maxx 6 days ago

When did it become standard practice for anyone other than the parents to cover wedding costs? I am so grateful that I have ONE friend and the only family I deal with, I live with. Goddess Blessed me!

0points

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#31

Bride Posting Anonymously Wants To Know If It’s ‘Bradzilla’ To Pressure Bridesmaids Into Getting Drunk So They Don’t Have ‘Old Grandma Energy’ At Her Bachelorette Party

15points

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Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 6 days ago

If you need to get drunk with others to have a good time then you have a problem.

28points

#32

Bride Doesn’t Want Her Great Aunt’s Nurse To Attend The Wedding

15points

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Joanne Mendonza-Earle 6 days ago

"Addement" also not a word. Try Adamant.

5points

#33

Bride Steals 30k Of Wedding Donations And Then Asks For More

15points

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Cee Cee 6 days ago

I'd be demanding my money back.

21points

#34

Bride Seeks Dj For Her Day

Gosh, I wonder why she can’t find an affordable DJ y’all

navyscrewdriver Report

15points

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Michael Largey 6 days ago

It's hard to afford a DJ when you can't even afford punctuation marks.

11points

#35

Another Bride Wanting To Cover Up A Family Member’s Body To Fit Her Perfect Day Aesthetic

14points

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Angela C 6 days ago

Presumably you know about the tattoos when you asked her to be in the wedding so you either accept her as she is or ask her to no longer be a part of your wedding party, and when she asks why you can tell her you value aesthetics over her. That'll make her feel real good

7points

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#36

You Must Go Into Debt To Be In My Wedding

Yikes on several bikes
I’d buy something else and show the bride and groom on their wedding day what I got for that amount. Crazy.

14points

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Angela C 6 days ago

Totally stealing the phrase "yikes on several bikes"

9points

#37

This Dude Ordering Women How To Act At His Wedding 🙄

14points

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Gozer LeGozerian 6 days ago

Will be wearing PJ's and sneakers. Check

2points

#38

Bride Writes To The New York Times, Confused About Why Her Best Friend Wants A Plus One To Her Destination Wedding

14points

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Michael Largey 6 days ago

Simple wedding math. No plus one = minus me.

5points

willsingforpopcorn Report

#39

How Dare My 30yo Bridesmaid Have Some Grey Hair!!

I’ve been in the wedding industry for nearly 10 years and this is without a doubt one of the most unhinged posts I’ve seen on a brides group.
Comments are all absolutely slaying her and she’s not replying
Am I naive for hoping it’s a joke?!

13points

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Angela C 6 days ago

Maybe she has grey hair from the stress of having a shallow cúnt for a "friend"

11points

#40

Ep Thinks Someone Should Not Celebrate Their Wedding Because Ep Got Married 17 Years That Same Day. Apparently Eternal Dibs Was Called

13points

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Bananaramamama 6 days ago

My cousin and I got married on the same day just 10 years apart. To be honest it was like date night for me and my husband at their wedding reception (we had a sitter for the kids so we could just enjoy) and we all thought it was wonderful that in such a large family it would be one less extra day our family had to remember 😂

6points

#41

Bride Will Be The Only One Not Wearing Glasses And Isn’t Sure How To ‘Overcome This Issue’… Comments Were Asking If She Was Serious

13points

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Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het 6 days ago

Glasses are normal, your demands are not.

17points

#42

I’ve Never Seen This Before! I Wonder If Anyone Actually Sends Them Money

13points

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SheamusFanFrom1987 6 days ago

Send some love? NAH... How about just "Congratulations, now please move ahead!" instead...

0points

#43

She Sounds Nice

13points

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María Hermida 6 days ago (edited)

I *can* spare the money, but I *don't want* to. Just elope. Forever. Nobody cares.

6points

#44

Bride And Groom Ask Friends For Free Labor And Food And Then Demand That They Buy Special Clothing To Wear At The Wedding

13points

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Skogsrået 6 days ago

No good deed goes unpunished.

5points

#45

Bride Demands 30k

13points

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Skogsrået 6 days ago

Classy.

10points

#46

Hot Tip - Save Money On Your Wedding By Defrauding Your Employer

13points

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Michael Largey 6 days ago

I'm thinking conspiracy to defraud. And they'll try to cheat the photographer too.

6points

#47

Found On A Facebook Post About Someone Asking If They Should Ask The Bride Why They’re Not In The Wedding Party

13points

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Skogsrået 6 days ago

Not in the first wedding but maybe in the fourth? And so on....

4points

#48

If I’m Not In Your Bridal Party Then I’m Not Going

12points

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Widdershins66 6 days ago

Tit for tat . Spitting out dummy, boo hoo.

2points

#49

Sounds Like A Great Idea To Save A Few Cents! May Save Even More When The Twin And His New Bride Don’t Come To Your Wedding!

12points

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Michael Largey 6 days ago

Yep, the best way to be sure people remember an important future date is to hand them a piece of paper when they're dancing around roaring drunk.

3points

#50

Entitled Bridezilla Demands Her Bridesmaids Pay Everything To Look “Pristine” For Photos

12points

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Joanne Mendonza-Earle 6 days ago

In the immortal words of Aerosmith: DREAM ON.

6points

#51

I Can’t Imagine Being So Demanding Over Gifts. Are Loved Ones’ Presence Not Enough Of A Gift

Was naive of me to think joining bridal groups would actually help me in any way. All it’s done is either make me panic over my upcoming wedding or provide me with eye roll moments such as this that at least make me laugh. I feel like we’re in a small minority, especially after this post but we specifically said no gifts

acidtrippinpanda Report

12points

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ucp 6 days ago

We had a gift list at a department store. We only told people about it if they asked. We didn’t want people to think our wedding had an admission price.

7points

#52

Cb Asks To People Pay To Be In Her Wedding

12points

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Michael Largey 6 days ago

How much for a time slot on the wedding night?

4points

#53

Bride Looking For Cheap Photographer/Videographer That Meets All Her Demands…

12points

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Skogsrået 6 days ago

"I want a professional but i'm not willing to pay for it!"

9points

#54

The Entitlement Is Strong With This One

11points

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María Hermida 6 days ago

Yes, you are wrong. A present is offered willingly, whatever a person wants to give you, not something you demand as if it were your right.

7points

#55

Bride Asks If It's Tacky For Her Future Sil To Get Engaged Two Months Before The Most Important Day Of All Their Lives

11points

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María Hermida 6 days ago

The universe doesn't revolve around you, you dumb b***h.

8points

Warm-Promotion-6752 Report

#56

Beggar Bride Asks Stranger To Be Bridesmaid Because She Gives Expensive Gifts - From Wedding Shaming Fb Page

I just... I met this woman once at a wedding where we were both bridesmaids. Apparently the bride told her my gift was "generous" so she wanted me to be her bridesmaid too to cash in? That's a hard pass. I'm wondering now why her other bridesmaid dropped out.

NothappyJane Report

10points

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#57

Since When Was It Ok For The Couple To Dictate What People Wear

The comments were surprisingly supportive of her.

10points

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María Hermida 6 days ago

I wouldn't wear a dress in that colour even at gunpoint, let alone buy one. It's f-ugly.

6points

#58

Bride Wants Bridal Party And Friends To Pay For Her Solo Spa Weekend Instead Of Having A Bachelorette Party

10points

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ucp 6 days ago

Put this idea to them! Then you won’t have to worry about any of them coming anyway, as they’ll all decide you’re not worth the trip. The only issue is getting the money.

5points

#59

Help Provide A Very Detailed Wedding For A Needy Couple On The Fly

10points

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Rachel Pelz 6 days ago

Medical reasons...for this specific setting?

2points

#60

Saw This Today In One Of The Wedding Groups I’m In And Sprinted To This Sub

10points

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Child of the Stars 6 days ago

I don't get these kinds of bachelorette parties. Mine was just my best friend (who was my only bridesmaid) and me watching the original Star Wars trilogy.

13points

#61

Definitely Not Me. But I Couldn't Resist Running To Here When I Saw It

9points

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General Stukov 5 days ago

You're 2 months in planning and this is how you've planned so far? Sweet. Good news, you'll probably be tricking someone else to marry you after you're divorced

0points

#62

A Bride Is Insisting Her Bridesmaid All Wear Converse Sneakers, Even The Ones Who Physically Can't

9points

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María Hermida 6 days ago

Easy, tell her you won't attend the wedding. Stop letting people people treat you like rubbish.

6points

#63

Not Me But A Text Invite My Friend Got

6points

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Child of the Stars 6 days ago

I don't get the problem. They want a formal event and are simply asking for the money instead of physical gifts they don't need or won't use; they're not even asking for an absurd minimum amount.

15points