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Every bride and groom wants a perfect wedding. It ideally only happens once in a lifetime, and wanting the event to turn out exactly how they envisioned it is understandable. 

However, some would step on other people’s toes just to let things fall into place, which is unacceptable. Thankfully, we have the internet to expose such entitled behavior

Scroll through to find screenshots showing ridiculous requirements, self-serving actions that put other guests in potential danger, and monetary gift requests to fund a honeymoon. Hopefully, you have never experienced any of these.

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    #2

    This Literally Just Happened - "I Want My Own Wedding Year"

    This Literally Just Happened - "I Want My Own Wedding Year"

    YOU GET ONE DAY. ONE. NOT THE WHOLE YEAR.

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    ucp
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So I have a feeling that you soon won’t have a best friend.

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    Setting unrealistic expectations could be a sign of pre-wedding stress. It’s likely a result of the hyperfocus on making things “perfect” and running according to plan. According to psychologist Dr. Paulette Kouffman Sherman, managing expectations could relieve stress. 

    In an interview with Brides, Dr. Sherman suggests aiming for excellence rather than perfection to help manage expectations.

    #4

    Just When You Think The Bridezilla Requests Can't Get Any More Ridiculous

    Just When You Think The Bridezilla Requests Can't Get Any More Ridiculous

    I'm a maid of honor in my friends wedding. She goes by her middle name which is Rachel... My first name is Rachel. I am honestly unsure how to answer. Like ma'am I'm not changing my name for your wedding.

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    You may read screenshots of people posting their Venmo accounts as a request for a cash gift. A 2023 registry study by The Knot revealed that 74% of wedding registry creators prefer to receive money from guests instead of traditional utensils and other home starters.

    Some couples use the cash to fund their honeymoons or shoulder expenses for their first homes.

    #7

    Pay For My Historic Wedding, Y'all!

    Pay For My Historic Wedding, Y'all!

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    #9

    My Mum Is An Artificial Florist And Had An ‘Influencer’ With 70k Followers Ask For Free Wedding Flowers For Exposure

    My Mum Is An Artificial Florist And Had An ‘Influencer’ With 70k Followers Ask For Free Wedding Flowers For Exposure

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    According to events director Bryce Carson, this trend has occurred over the past decade. But as he told Fortune in an interview, it isn’t always a cash grab. 

    “Couples are getting married a little bit older in life. They’re already combining their homes,” he explained. “They do not need two sets of everything.”

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    #10

    Hey, I Know That I've Given My Wedding No Thought But I Want You Dedicate The Next 48 Hours Of Your Life To It

    Hey, I Know That I've Given My Wedding No Thought But I Want You Dedicate The Next 48 Hours Of Your Life To It

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    Entitled Bride To Be

    Entitled Bride To Be

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    Miss Tinker
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Let’s hope your finance comes to his senses & dumps your cruel, shallow a*s.

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    For many people, living in the internet age means wanting to look good for the ‘gram. Because of this, Carson says people are now heavily focused on turning their weddings into fashion events. 

    As he points out, some guests may feel hassled by outfit requirements, adding to the already hefty cost of attending a wedding. Therefore, brides and grooms should expect some attendees to “go rogue” and ignore the guidelines.

    #14

    How Dare Someone Be Pregnant At My Wedding!! I Understand Not Wanting To Host Events, But The Anger At Grandparents Buying Gifts And The Me!!!! Attitude Is So Entitled

    How Dare Someone Be Pregnant At My Wedding!! I Understand Not Wanting To Host Events, But The Anger At Grandparents Buying Gifts And The Me!!!! Attitude Is So Entitled

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    Bald Panda
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Reality TV and social media influencers have created a society of narcissists who think the world revolves around them. A culture that worships nobodies, in turn making nobodies feel entitled to the same adulation. It's grotesque.

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    We’d like to hear from you, readers. Have you experienced entitled behaviors from brides and grooms? How did you handle them? Share your stories in the comments!

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    #19

    We Sent You This Card So Send Us Money

    We Sent You This Card So Send Us Money

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    #20

    Bride Mad Moh Is Pregnant And Is "Ruining" Bachelorette

    Bride Mad Moh Is Pregnant And Is "Ruining" Bachelorette

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    #21

    This Is As Tacky As It Gets.... Not Even A "Buy The Bride A Drink" Just $$$ Pls

    This Is As Tacky As It Gets.... Not Even A "Buy The Bride A Drink" Just $$$ Pls

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    SnootWaggling Fox
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I always wonder if these things are intended for the wedding guests and just haven't been erased yet or are targeting randos? Tacky either way, but the former seems far less bad IMHO

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    #22

    God Forbid Her Sister Getting A Tattoo Before The Wedding!

    God Forbid Her Sister Getting A Tattoo Before The Wedding!

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    #23

    Ah Yes. Someone Potentially Dying At Your Wedding Is A Much Better Idea Than Simply Not Having Seafood For One Day

    Ah Yes. Someone Potentially Dying At Your Wedding Is A Much Better Idea Than Simply Not Having Seafood For One Day

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    Nathaniel He/Him Cis-Het
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It is definitely more important that you have a prawn, screw your friends health, roll them under the table when they collapse so they are not a trip hazard for others. Ffs.

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    #24

    How Dare Someone Else Get Married During A Covid Bride’s Wedding Year!!!

    How Dare Someone Else Get Married During A Covid Bride’s Wedding Year!!!

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    María Hermida
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some years ago, it was *my* day; now, it's *my* year. Soon, this flock of imbeciles will demand *my* decade. The biggest problem, in my opinion, is this trend is growing because people are paying too much attention to their invented dramas. If we just told them to f-off the moment they start with their unhinged demands, they would stop. No, I couldn't care less about your wedding, your dress or what colour you sister in law's dress is. Nobody cares. Really. We couldn't care less.

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    #25

    Not As Bad As Some, But Definitely Up There

    Not As Bad As Some, But Definitely Up There

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    6 days ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Re: "No Apple watches" What's your policy on longcase clocks?

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    #27

    Another Gem In A Wedding Group With A Greedy Bride

    Another Gem In A Wedding Group With A Greedy Bride

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    Skogsrået
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They are selling their home to pay for the wedding? Are they planning to live on the venue afterwards? "I have regrets", yeah this whole post gave me regrets.

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    #28

    Almost Kicks Out Entire Bridal Party For Not Responding When She Told Them Only To Respond If They Wouldn’t Adhere To Her Demands

    Almost Kicks Out Entire Bridal Party For Not Responding When She Told Them Only To Respond If They Wouldn’t Adhere To Her Demands

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    LonelyLittleLeafSheep
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "You're right, I know longer want to be in your wedding party. Or a guest either."

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    #29

    Groom Says Fiancé’s Sister Is Too Fat To Be A Bridesmaid

    Groom Says Fiancé’s Sister Is Too Fat To Be A Bridesmaid

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    Tenay Douglas
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You not being close to her and saying you don't feel comfortable with her in the party for that reason is valid! However you fat shaming her and dismissing her for your supposed "aesthetic" is weirdo behavior

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    #30

    The Sense Of Entitlement Is Strong Here, Even With A Significant Portion Of Their Expenses Paid For By Family

    The Sense Of Entitlement Is Strong Here, Even With A Significant Portion Of Their Expenses Paid For By Family

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    J. Maxx
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When did it become standard practice for anyone other than the parents to cover wedding costs? I am so grateful that I have ONE friend and the only family I deal with, I live with. Goddess Blessed me!

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    #31

    Bride Posting Anonymously Wants To Know If It’s ‘Bradzilla’ To Pressure Bridesmaids Into Getting Drunk So They Don’t Have ‘Old Grandma Energy’ At Her Bachelorette Party

    Bride Posting Anonymously Wants To Know If It’s ‘Bradzilla’ To Pressure Bridesmaids Into Getting Drunk So They Don’t Have ‘Old Grandma Energy’ At Her Bachelorette Party

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    #34

    Bride Seeks Dj For Her Day

    Bride Seeks Dj For Her Day

    Gosh, I wonder why she can’t find an affordable DJ y’all

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    Michael Largey
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's hard to afford a DJ when you can't even afford punctuation marks.

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    Another Bride Wanting To Cover Up A Family Member’s Body To Fit Her Perfect Day Aesthetic

    Another Bride Wanting To Cover Up A Family Member’s Body To Fit Her Perfect Day Aesthetic

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    Angela C
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Presumably you know about the tattoos when you asked her to be in the wedding so you either accept her as she is or ask her to no longer be a part of your wedding party, and when she asks why you can tell her you value aesthetics over her. That'll make her feel real good

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    #36

    You Must Go Into Debt To Be In My Wedding

    You Must Go Into Debt To Be In My Wedding

    Yikes on several bikes
    I’d buy something else and show the bride and groom on their wedding day what I got for that amount. Crazy.

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    #38

    Bride Writes To The New York Times, Confused About Why Her Best Friend Wants A Plus One To Her Destination Wedding

    Bride Writes To The New York Times, Confused About Why Her Best Friend Wants A Plus One To Her Destination Wedding

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    #39

    How Dare My 30yo Bridesmaid Have Some Grey Hair!!

    How Dare My 30yo Bridesmaid Have Some Grey Hair!!

    I’ve been in the wedding industry for nearly 10 years and this is without a doubt one of the most unhinged posts I’ve seen on a brides group.
    Comments are all absolutely slaying her and she’s not replying
    Am I naive for hoping it’s a joke?!

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    Angela C
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Maybe she has grey hair from the stress of having a shallow cúnt for a "friend"

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    #40

    Ep Thinks Someone Should Not Celebrate Their Wedding Because Ep Got Married 17 Years That Same Day. Apparently Eternal Dibs Was Called

    Ep Thinks Someone Should Not Celebrate Their Wedding Because Ep Got Married 17 Years That Same Day. Apparently Eternal Dibs Was Called

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    Bananaramamama
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My cousin and I got married on the same day just 10 years apart. To be honest it was like date night for me and my husband at their wedding reception (we had a sitter for the kids so we could just enjoy) and we all thought it was wonderful that in such a large family it would be one less extra day our family had to remember 😂

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    Bride Will Be The Only One Not Wearing Glasses And Isn’t Sure How To ‘Overcome This Issue’… Comments Were Asking If She Was Serious

    Bride Will Be The Only One Not Wearing Glasses And Isn’t Sure How To ‘Overcome This Issue’… Comments Were Asking If She Was Serious

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    #42

    I’ve Never Seen This Before! I Wonder If Anyone Actually Sends Them Money

    I’ve Never Seen This Before! I Wonder If Anyone Actually Sends Them Money

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    SheamusFanFrom1987
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Send some love? NAH... How about just "Congratulations, now please move ahead!" instead...

    #44

    Bride And Groom Ask Friends For Free Labor And Food And Then Demand That They Buy Special Clothing To Wear At The Wedding

    Bride And Groom Ask Friends For Free Labor And Food And Then Demand That They Buy Special Clothing To Wear At The Wedding

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    #46

    Hot Tip - Save Money On Your Wedding By Defrauding Your Employer

    Hot Tip - Save Money On Your Wedding By Defrauding Your Employer

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    Michael Largey
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I'm thinking conspiracy to defraud. And they'll try to cheat the photographer too.

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    #47

    Found On A Facebook Post About Someone Asking If They Should Ask The Bride Why They’re Not In The Wedding Party

    Found On A Facebook Post About Someone Asking If They Should Ask The Bride Why They’re Not In The Wedding Party

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    #48

    If I’m Not In Your Bridal Party Then I’m Not Going

    If I’m Not In Your Bridal Party Then I’m Not Going

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    #49

    Sounds Like A Great Idea To Save A Few Cents! May Save Even More When The Twin And His New Bride Don’t Come To Your Wedding!

    Sounds Like A Great Idea To Save A Few Cents! May Save Even More When The Twin And His New Bride Don’t Come To Your Wedding!

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    Michael Largey
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep, the best way to be sure people remember an important future date is to hand them a piece of paper when they're dancing around roaring drunk.

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    Entitled Bridezilla Demands Her Bridesmaids Pay Everything To Look “Pristine” For Photos

    Entitled Bridezilla Demands Her Bridesmaids Pay Everything To Look “Pristine” For Photos

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    #51

    I Can’t Imagine Being So Demanding Over Gifts. Are Loved Ones’ Presence Not Enough Of A Gift

    I Can’t Imagine Being So Demanding Over Gifts. Are Loved Ones’ Presence Not Enough Of A Gift

    Was naive of me to think joining bridal groups would actually help me in any way. All it’s done is either make me panic over my upcoming wedding or provide me with eye roll moments such as this that at least make me laugh. I feel like we’re in a small minority, especially after this post but we specifically said no gifts

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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We had a gift list at a department store. We only told people about it if they asked. We didn’t want people to think our wedding had an admission price.

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    #53

    Bride Looking For Cheap Photographer/Videographer That Meets All Her Demands…

    Bride Looking For Cheap Photographer/Videographer That Meets All Her Demands…

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    #54

    The Entitlement Is Strong With This One

    The Entitlement Is Strong With This One

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    María Hermida
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes, you are wrong. A present is offered willingly, whatever a person wants to give you, not something you demand as if it were your right.

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    Bride Asks If It's Tacky For Her Future Sil To Get Engaged Two Months Before The Most Important Day Of All Their Lives

    Bride Asks If It's Tacky For Her Future Sil To Get Engaged Two Months Before The Most Important Day Of All Their Lives

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    #56

    Beggar Bride Asks Stranger To Be Bridesmaid Because She Gives Expensive Gifts - From Wedding Shaming Fb Page

    Beggar Bride Asks Stranger To Be Bridesmaid Because She Gives Expensive Gifts - From Wedding Shaming Fb Page

    I just... I met this woman once at a wedding where we were both bridesmaids. Apparently the bride told her my gift was "generous" so she wanted me to be her bridesmaid too to cash in? That's a hard pass. I'm wondering now why her other bridesmaid dropped out.

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    #57

    Since When Was It Ok For The Couple To Dictate What People Wear

    Since When Was It Ok For The Couple To Dictate What People Wear

    The comments were surprisingly supportive of her.

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    María Hermida
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wouldn't wear a dress in that colour even at gunpoint, let alone buy one. It's f-ugly.

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    #58

    Bride Wants Bridal Party And Friends To Pay For Her Solo Spa Weekend Instead Of Having A Bachelorette Party

    Bride Wants Bridal Party And Friends To Pay For Her Solo Spa Weekend Instead Of Having A Bachelorette Party

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    ucp
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Put this idea to them! Then you won’t have to worry about any of them coming anyway, as they’ll all decide you’re not worth the trip. The only issue is getting the money.

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    #59

    Help Provide A Very Detailed Wedding For A Needy Couple On The Fly

    Help Provide A Very Detailed Wedding For A Needy Couple On The Fly

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    #60

    Saw This Today In One Of The Wedding Groups I’m In And Sprinted To This Sub

    Saw This Today In One Of The Wedding Groups I’m In And Sprinted To This Sub

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    Child of the Stars
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get these kinds of bachelorette parties. Mine was just my best friend (who was my only bridesmaid) and me watching the original Star Wars trilogy.

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    #61

    Definitely Not Me. But I Couldn't Resist Running To Here When I Saw It

    Definitely Not Me. But I Couldn't Resist Running To Here When I Saw It

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    General Stukov
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    5 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    You're 2 months in planning and this is how you've planned so far? Sweet. Good news, you'll probably be tricking someone else to marry you after you're divorced

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    #62

    A Bride Is Insisting Her Bridesmaid All Wear Converse Sneakers, Even The Ones Who Physically Can't

    A Bride Is Insisting Her Bridesmaid All Wear Converse Sneakers, Even The Ones Who Physically Can't

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    María Hermida
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Easy, tell her you won't attend the wedding. Stop letting people people treat you like rubbish.

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    #63

    Not Me But A Text Invite My Friend Got

    Not Me But A Text Invite My Friend Got

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    Child of the Stars
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    6 days ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get the problem. They want a formal event and are simply asking for the money instead of physical gifts they don't need or won't use; they're not even asking for an absurd minimum amount.

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