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Arrogant Colleagues Call Those Who Rent In Their 30s ‘Failures’, So This Person Made Things Awkward By Calling Them Out

Snooty Rich People Say Renting In Your 30s Is An Embarrassment, Get Called Out By Their Coworker

Person Calls Out Their Rich Office Workers Who Think That Being Able To Afford A House Is Easy, Makes Things ‘Awkward’Employee Hears Rich Coworkers Mocking People For Not Buying A House, Gives Them A Reality CheckPerson Working For $32k/Year Hears Their $100k/Year Colleagues Mocking People Who Still Rent, Gives Them A Reality CheckEmployee Tells Their Entitled Coworkers That Not Everyone Can Afford A House, Gets Shamed For Person Gets Told They Person Calls Out Colleagues Who Boasted That Buying A House Is Easy, Wonders If He Was Right To Do SoPerson Calls Out Colleagues Who Were Boasting About How They're Not A 'Failure' Because They Can Afford A HouseHis Coworkers Were Boasting About How They Can Afford A House, So This Person Called Them Out And Wonders If It Was The Right Thing To DoArrogant Colleagues Call Those Who Rent In Their 30s 'Failures', So This Person Made Things Awkward By Calling Them OutRich Coworkers Make Fun Of People In Their 30s That Are 'Still Renting', This Guy Calls Them Out
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Whatever your financial situation, you can sometimes forget that far from everyone lives just like you. Those having money problems might be stunned to learn that others don’t count every penny like they do. And the opposite is true, too, as one redditor showed us that the rich can be completely clueless and wrapped up in their own little world.

In a viral post on the r/AITA community, redditor AdOpen1605 wanted to find out if they were a jerk for calling out their well-off colleagues who said that they can’t imagine not being able to afford buying a house. Well, the original poster couldn’t keep silent (and, I suspect, not many of us could if we were in their shoes, either).

Have a read through the full story below and we can’t wait to hear what you think about the situation, dear Pandas! And if for some reason you feel bad about not being able to afford a home, trust me, you really aren’t alone. The stats don’t lie.

One employee called out their rich colleagues who had some illusions about home ownership

Image credits: Jopwell (not the actual photo)

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Image credits: midiman (not the actual photo)

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In a piece for Inc., Jessica Stillman writes about how property-data firm Attom Data Solutions showed how in 74 percent of the United States, the average family can’t afford to buy the median house.

Or, to put it bluntly, in three-quarters of the US, homeownership is out of the question for the average workers. Their average weekly wage simply isn’t enough to cover the mortgage, property taxes, and insurance you’d have to pay for an average house.

However, despite all of this, Statista’s stats show that homeownership rates have actually increased greatly over the past few years. The rate stood at 63.7 percent in 2016 and steadily climbed to 65.8 percent in 2020.

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After the redditor shared their opinion, there was a lot of awkwardness in the office

Image credits: AdOpen1605

“The homeownership rate is the proportion of occupied households which are occupied by the owners. This reached its peak in 2004 before the 2007-2009 recession hit and decimated the housing market. The rate continued to fall until 2016, but has begun to increase again since then,” Statista explains.

According to Statista, Americans still believe that owning their own home is part of the American Dream. After the recession, it was financial hardship, rather than a change in this belief, that led to a drop in homeownership rates.

“Homeownership trends vary from generation to generation. Homeownership among Americans over 65 years old is declining, whereas most Millennial renters plan to buy a home in the near future. This suggests that homeownership will remain important in the future, as Millennials are forecast to head most households over the next two decades,” Statista made predictions about the future.

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Like you probably could have expected, the r/AITA community slapped a big old NTA sign on AdOpen1605’s post, proclaiming that the redditor wasn’t a jerk for speaking their mind while their coworkers were having a moan about anyone who can’t buy a house.

The redditor’s colleagues then suggested that they could help them ‘better themselves’ so that they could afford a home. Even though they might have meant it in a supportive way (getting a good education can really open a lot of doors that you previously thought were locked to you), it sounded very condescending.

And just because a handful of people were able to ‘work their way up,’ it doesn’t mean that it’s the only factor to consider. Effort and hard work don’t always result in success. Timing, risk, taking advantage of opportunities, knowing the right connections, and even plain old luck can greatly affect whether or not you’ll end up being successful.

Here’s how the redditors of the r/AITA community reacted to the story

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What’s the homeownership situation like in your country, dear Pandas? Just how difficult is it to buy a house? Do you plan on getting a house in the near future or will you settle for an apartment? Share your thoughts in the comment section below.

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Storytelling, journalism, and art are a core part of who I am. I've been writing and drawing ever since I could walk—there is nothing else I'd rather do. My formal education, however, is focused on politics, philosophy, and economics because I've always been curious about the gap between the ideal and the real. At work, I'm a Senior Writer and I cover a broad range of topics that I'm passionate about: from psychology and changes in work culture to healthy living, relationships, and design. In my spare time, I'm an avid hiker and reader, enjoy writing short stories, and love to doodle. I thrive when I'm outdoors, going on small adventures in nature. However, you can also find me enjoying a big mug of coffee with a good book (or ten) and entertaining friends with fantasy tabletop games and sci-fi movies.

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I'm a visual editor at Bored Panda. I kickstart my day with a mug of coffee bigger than my head, ready to tackle Photoshop. I navigate through the digital jungle with finesse, fueled by bamboo breaks and caffeine kicks. When the workday winds down, you might catch me devouring bamboo snacks while binging on the latest TV show, gaming or I could be out in nature, soaking up the tranquility and communing with my inner panda.

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andreavilarmelego avatar
Ozacoter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate the entitled people who believe that you just need to study to be rich. Me and my friends/young relatives all studied biology/ economics/maths. We have all minimum two masters and some of them have three. We all speak minimum three languages (spanish catalan and english) and some of us speak a fourth one. One speaks five languages. We werent able to find paid jobs for years. Now that we are in our 30s some have minimum wage jobs, some are unemployed, I am too ill to work. One of the biologists found an ok paid job. The economists took also years to find stable jobs and finally now they can save some money. None of us could ever save enough to buy a house.

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Mewton’s Third Paw
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I sell houses and I think buying a house is nowhere near as important as middle class people try to make it seem. Half the people who “own” their houses struggle to pay their mortgage and the mountain of bills that comes with homeownership. Just to puff their egos and say they own something. So the F what. I wish I didn’t even own my car. Leasing everything is less of a headache and less of a hassle. Those people might be comparatively rich to the poor guy making $32k/yr but I guarantee they only feel rich when they compare themselves to him. They NEED him to be in poverty so their incomes can feel higher.

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Cat
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not all "rich people" are jerks. There was a receptionist at a company I worked for, and she was polite, helpful and a pleasant person overall. I was very surprised when I heard that she resigned and her family was moving overseas, and that was when I found out that she had several houses in some really nice neighbourhoods, a nanny and a maid. She worked because she was bored when her kids went to school and kindergarten

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Mewton’s Third Paw
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Such non sequitur nonsense. Nobody said all rich people are jerks. Nobody said all poor people are nice.

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Random Panda
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is it with the sudden influx of AITA posts here, someone at BP just found the sub and are now reposting their favourites? It's getting really annoying with these low-effort articles with stuff copied off AITA, AskReddit and twitter.

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andreavilarmelego avatar
Ozacoter
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I hate the entitled people who believe that you just need to study to be rich. Me and my friends/young relatives all studied biology/ economics/maths. We have all minimum two masters and some of them have three. We all speak minimum three languages (spanish catalan and english) and some of us speak a fourth one. One speaks five languages. We werent able to find paid jobs for years. Now that we are in our 30s some have minimum wage jobs, some are unemployed, I am too ill to work. One of the biologists found an ok paid job. The economists took also years to find stable jobs and finally now they can save some money. None of us could ever save enough to buy a house.

mintyminameow avatar
Mewton’s Third Paw
Community Member
3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I sell houses and I think buying a house is nowhere near as important as middle class people try to make it seem. Half the people who “own” their houses struggle to pay their mortgage and the mountain of bills that comes with homeownership. Just to puff their egos and say they own something. So the F what. I wish I didn’t even own my car. Leasing everything is less of a headache and less of a hassle. Those people might be comparatively rich to the poor guy making $32k/yr but I guarantee they only feel rich when they compare themselves to him. They NEED him to be in poverty so their incomes can feel higher.

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Cat
Community Member
3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not all "rich people" are jerks. There was a receptionist at a company I worked for, and she was polite, helpful and a pleasant person overall. I was very surprised when I heard that she resigned and her family was moving overseas, and that was when I found out that she had several houses in some really nice neighbourhoods, a nanny and a maid. She worked because she was bored when her kids went to school and kindergarten

mintyminameow avatar
Mewton’s Third Paw
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Such non sequitur nonsense. Nobody said all rich people are jerks. Nobody said all poor people are nice.

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Random Panda
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is it with the sudden influx of AITA posts here, someone at BP just found the sub and are now reposting their favourites? It's getting really annoying with these low-effort articles with stuff copied off AITA, AskReddit and twitter.

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