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You can't please everyone. Especially the Internet.
There's a subreddit called r/WeddingShaming and as the name suggests, it's a place where people trash everything from brides and grooms, in-laws and outlaws to venues and menus as well as decor and Uncle Bob's armpit odor.
Of course, it's not all out of spite. Some posts that get a ton of attention are funny and lighthearted. Like the one where a bride shows off her mom's dress, a white gown, way fancier than her own (12,000 upvotes).
But as you might've already noticed in Bored Panda's earlier piece on the subreddit, it's the juicy stuff that gets its 189,000 members riled up. So continue scrolling and join the judging team: upvote the pics that deserve criticism or tell us in the comments if they should be rehabilitated.
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#1
Shaming These Awful Parents, While The Siblings Rock
An engaged couple makes a lot of big decisions about their special day that not only impact them but also their guests; while they want to stay true to their own desires, they also have to consider what their guests might enjoy. After all, everyone's a part of the ride. "Financial worries are usually forefront for most couples," wedding planner Lisa Burton told Bored Panda.
"The worry is they can't afford the wedding day they want and might have to compromise too much. With the couple's expectations being so high, they worry the reality won't live up to the dream."
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#2
This Is A Whole New Level Of Bridezilla
#3
Bride Claims “No Masks Allowed” At Her Wedding
Burton, who has over 14 years of experience throwing weddings abroad, said another worry for her destination wedding couples is that the expectations of the guests — who have spent money flying across the world to attend their wedding — will not be met. "There's a lot of pressure to provide the 'perfect' wedding experience. I try to reassure them that guests are on holiday first and foremost so they are in a more carefree state of mind. Most, if not all guests will not have attended a wedding abroad before, and certainly not at the same venue so they have nothing to compare it to. Even if your day is perfectly simple and intimate they’ll still be experiencing something they’ve never experienced before. This usually helps to calm the bride and groom."
#4
The Audacity Of This Wedding Guest And Their Mum! Plan Your Own Special Moment, Cheapskates!
#5
Newly Engaged Dependa (Not My Story)
But some things can make the guests leave with bitter memories. "Family dynamics can be hard to balance at a wedding," Lisa Burton said. "It's one of the main things a couple can struggle with, especially if the family doesn't get on."
The seating arrangement, for example, can be enough to set off a conflict. "If a family member ends up being seated next to someone they don't like, it can affect the atmosphere at the reception. We once planned an intimate wedding of 16 people and they had 6 tables at the reception (instead of the usual one or two). This was because family members did not speak and refused to sit next to each other at dinner," Burton recalled.
#6
Bruno Mars Disapproves. Probably
#7
Double-Shame? Moh Knew She Had Been Exposed Before The Pandemic Wedding
According to her, expense is another possible issue. "If a couple is marrying at a luxury venue, this typically means the costs of drinks will be high. If the bride and groom don't offer an open bar then guests may have to 'dig deep' if they want a few rounds of drinks. This can often lead to disgruntled 'sober' guests."
Venue accessibility can also cause a few headaches. "If you know your venues has difficult access or steep entryways then make sure your guests are prepared. Less able guests may need help and negotiating steep cobbled pathways is no fun in stiletto heels!" Burton said.
#8
Just Saw This On Facebook... Eek
#9
Went To A Wedding And The Mil Wore This... Would You Be Okay With It?
Hilary Mol 3 years ago
I saw a photo similar to this one (with a similar story, no doubt), and the bride actually got sneaky and paid a server to "accidentally" spill wine on the MIL's "not a wedding dress" dress. I gotta say, I'd be tempted to do something like that if someone was that disrespectful at my wedding.
Event planner, life coach, and author Amanda Hudes thinks that this type of wedding shaming is childish. In her opinion, complete strangers stalking a ceremony via the Internet just to criticize it is akin to talking behind someone's back in high school.
"Shaming comes from a place of insecurity and almost never about the person who is being shamed, but rather the person shaming," Hudes told BRIDES.
#10
Ooooo Yikes
#11
Spotted On Facebook
Jo Johannsen 3 years ago
The bride needs to conspire with her bridesmaids to stick a "I'm not the bride" sign on the MIL's back.
#12
I Feel So Bad For This Bride (Groom's Family Poses For Photos Without The Bride)
#13
Has Any Other Country Had People Wear Their Flag As A Wedding Dress? No? Just... Ew
#14
How Dare People Be Offended When I Want A Giant Wedding In So. California Where Someone Dies From Covid Every 6 Minutes! Muh Freedumb Of Speech!
#15
Man Proposes To Woman After Which She Grabs Her Phone To Upload A Picture On Instagram
#16
Sounds Like It’ll Be A Healthy Marriage!
#17
Sounds Like A Great Idea To Save A Few Cents! May Save Even More When The Twin And His New Bride Don’t Come To Your Wedding!
Manuela Martins 3 years ago
Look, if you write in your post "I don't want to seem rude" you have already given yourself the answer. Deep inside you know this is not the right thing to do, so don't be an a**.
#18
There’s Still Time To Change Your Decor
cat in a tank 3 years ago
i don't get themes like this. i know if i married the love of my life i would do it because i wanted to spend the rest of my life with someone. but these kinds of jokes imply it's more of an obligation by society. you don't even have to marry anyone!
#19
Starting Off Marriage By Secretly Going Against Your Fiancé’s Wishes... Yikes
#20
Is It Possible To Get Married To A Cop Without Theming Your Entire Wedding Around His Job? Extra Sensitivity Points For “Stop Resisting” Being Used In Reference To Donuts, Instead As The Usual Excuse To Kill Black People
Carol Emory 3 years ago
I don't agree with the Stop Resisting wall of Donuts. You could have put a sign up that said "Police tactical supplies, require equipment!"
#21
Engagement Photo Shaming
tw 72 3 years ago
If these two have similar senses of humor, they might just stay together forever.
Sanne H. 3 years ago
Hahaha yes! Whether one likes the photo or not, these people both sure dare to be different!
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Roxy Eastland 3 years ago
It's fun, if you buy into the idea that men do better staying single and women 'trap' them into marriage for selfish reasons. The stats show that married men live longer than single, and single women live longer than married, so the opposite is actually true.
Hugo Raible 3 years ago
Most of the time, men marry because they feel pressure to do it. And yes, in case of divorce, they are usually on the losing side (custody etc)
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Emperor Shrek 3 years ago
I think it’s cute if it is not your style too bad you mean nothing to them, the important thing is that it is their style
Llama_flower93 3 years ago
I think this is a "live and let live" situation. I hate it, but if they're happy and healthy, that's fine.
Nikki Owens 3 years ago
While this would be inappropriate in my culture, I do think it is a cute & funny pic in the context of its own culture.
Chloe *Leah* Pheonix 3 years ago
Thot he was doing a headstand. Upon closer inspection, he is tied to the tractor.
Shelby Jackson 3 years ago
She better gut that deer before it starts to rot or wild animals get it.
Michelle C 3 years ago
Would've been more fun if ya "skinned" him and said look at the white tailed deer I caught!
Hugh Walter 3 years ago
Yeah . . . that's a fun photo, and they're both in on the joke, which took some preparation! They'll be happy . . .
Celtic Pirate Queen 3 years ago
How much you want to bet this is in either Tennessee or Kentucky?
Bonnie Edwards 3 years ago
That's awesome. I love that picture. Especially effective if the family hunts for food.
V33333P 3 years ago
This is such an American thing. Like I live in NZ, I have friends from all over the world, I've traveled, I've been to the states, and this is literally just an American thing. It's so... Tacky. Why. Just why.
Great Panda Mamu 3 years ago
But, would it feel the same if the man and woman were in the other place? It's creepy to me either way.
WhatEvenIsLife 3 years ago
I hate that jokes like this are so common. I don't think it's cute. Marriage is me getting to spend every day with my best friend, not me being "trapped" or "caught" or my life being over. Good grief.
Benjamin Thor Collier V 3 years ago
Some dangerous genetic material floating around the deep south....
Anthony Goldstein (female) 3 years ago
Oh honey, that is not the proper way to hold a gun at all.
Denny Cwiek 3 years ago
Next to the definition of Redneck in the dictionary? Bless their hearts!
H G 3 years ago
Then why don't you enlighten us? Its tacky, but I say live and let live.
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#22
Wedding Shaming Myself A Bit... I Would Personally Recommend To Ask Your Pastor/Celebrant To Step To The Side When The Kiss Takes Place. All Personal Preference Ofcourse. Although Hubby’s Hair Does Smell Good
#23
Even Outdoors, A 500-Person Wedding Feels A Bit Out Of Touch Right Now, Doesn’t It?
#24
Groom’s Mother Hospitalized With Covid And Pneumonia 2 Weeks After Mask-Less Wedding In Florida
Full of Giggles 3 years ago (edited)
The photographer and I were the only two people of 60 that wore a mask at my sister’s wedding. None of events staff wore one. We were in the middle of Arizona’s 3rd wave. My BIL’s family took COVID back to their hometown which had been completely untouched by the virus up to that point. Two people died within the first 10 days the ILs return home. Oh, and BIL’s brother made national news because he was dragged off the plane after refusing to wear his mask on the return flight. Not to mention, my long-COVID (I was not contagious the day of the wedding) became active and I developed pneumonia, again.
#25
My Free Photographer Is So Much More Important Than My Sister’s Well-Being And Happiness!
#26
My First In The Wild Spotting! Same Person. I’ll Just Pay Everyone In Experience!
#27
Don’t All Good Wedding Proposals Start With Being Pressured To Continue An Unwanted Pregnancy? But Seriously, This Is A Terrible Thing To Do
#28
Another Bride Comparing Her Wedding To Protests
troufaki13 3 years ago
What people must understand, is that arguing with idiots is just pointless...
#29
Wedding In Madrid (Spain) Last Week, A City That Most Definitely Do Not Have The Virus Under Control
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Full of Giggles 3 years ago
During our wedding reception, my MIL screeched from the venue lobby in what I can only describe as a drunken banshee trapped inside a Speak and Spell, “You guy’s let faggots marry here. You ruined it. You tainted my baby’s wedding day with your abomination. How could you let them celebrate next to good Christian folks?” She said this as the other couple walking into their reception and being introduced as Husband and Husband. We could hear her crystal clear over our loud music. My husband and I felt humiliated and heartbroken that MIL stole that beautiful moment from the other couple. We ended up sharing our open bar with the other party because they definitely needed a drink.
Raven DeathShade 3 years ago
Oh no, those poor men! It must have been so heartwrenching to have that beautiful moment ruined by such a mean person.
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Hugo A-niro 3 years ago
My father told me of a wedding he went to early 1950s . he was at the fancy reception when the groom's father accused another man of getting freshwith his wife. A fight ensued and soon every one was fighting . my father who was a peaceful man decided there was only one thing he should do.: save the cake. Carefully trying avoid the ruckus s He moved the cake to the floor and shoved it under a table.in corner of room. There. He waited taking small tastes till police came and stopped the fight. The couple were very grateful .
Elem F 3 years ago
That should be a slapstick scene haha. Kudos to your father!
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Leodavinci 3 years ago
If they "don't live in fear", why can't vaccinated people come to their wedding?
Michigan Guy 3 years ago
civil ceremony. a couple friends as witnesses. fifteen, twenty bucks to the county. a lot easier on the wallet and the stress level.
Duncan 3 years ago
Totally agree. That's how i was married. Just a few hundred bucks, some family and less than $1000 on reception, few hundy on photos, no honeymoon. Still together after 14 years.
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Olivia zanetti 1 year ago
I don’t like that y’all was shaming the woman who didn’t want a proposal at her wedding. Like duh, don’t do it at mine either
Amie Redman 3 years ago
Stuff like this makes me happy my husband and I got married at a courthouse. We had 8 people there, aside from us. We’ve been together eleven years and have a beautiful 8 year old son.
Full of Giggles 3 years ago
During our wedding reception, my MIL screeched from the venue lobby in what I can only describe as a drunken banshee trapped inside a Speak and Spell, “You guy’s let faggots marry here. You ruined it. You tainted my baby’s wedding day with your abomination. How could you let them celebrate next to good Christian folks?” She said this as the other couple walking into their reception and being introduced as Husband and Husband. We could hear her crystal clear over our loud music. My husband and I felt humiliated and heartbroken that MIL stole that beautiful moment from the other couple. We ended up sharing our open bar with the other party because they definitely needed a drink.
Raven DeathShade 3 years ago
Oh no, those poor men! It must have been so heartwrenching to have that beautiful moment ruined by such a mean person.
Load More Replies... Hugo A-niro 3 years ago
My father told me of a wedding he went to early 1950s . he was at the fancy reception when the groom's father accused another man of getting freshwith his wife. A fight ensued and soon every one was fighting . my father who was a peaceful man decided there was only one thing he should do.: save the cake. Carefully trying avoid the ruckus s He moved the cake to the floor and shoved it under a table.in corner of room. There. He waited taking small tastes till police came and stopped the fight. The couple were very grateful .
Elem F 3 years ago
That should be a slapstick scene haha. Kudos to your father!
Load More Replies... Leodavinci 3 years ago
If they "don't live in fear", why can't vaccinated people come to their wedding?
Michigan Guy 3 years ago
civil ceremony. a couple friends as witnesses. fifteen, twenty bucks to the county. a lot easier on the wallet and the stress level.
Duncan 3 years ago
Totally agree. That's how i was married. Just a few hundred bucks, some family and less than $1000 on reception, few hundy on photos, no honeymoon. Still together after 14 years.
Load More Replies... Olivia zanetti 1 year ago
I don’t like that y’all was shaming the woman who didn’t want a proposal at her wedding. Like duh, don’t do it at mine either
Amie Redman 3 years ago
Stuff like this makes me happy my husband and I got married at a courthouse. We had 8 people there, aside from us. We’ve been together eleven years and have a beautiful 8 year old son.
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