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An engaged couple makes a lot of big decisions about their special day that not only impact them but also their guests; while they want to stay true to their own desires, they also have to consider what their guests might enjoy. After all, everyone's a part of the ride. "Financial worries are usually forefront for most couples," wedding planner Lisa Burton told Bored Panda.

"The worry is they can't afford the wedding day they want and might have to compromise too much. With the couple's expectations being so high, they worry the reality won't live up to the dream."

#2

This Is A Whole New Level Of Bridezilla

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283points

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Full of Giggles 3 years ago

My heart hurts for the mama. WTF is wrong with people?

245points

#3

Bride Claims “No Masks Allowed” At Her Wedding

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227points

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troufaki13 3 years ago

The last person 👏👏👏👏👏

163points

Burton, who has over 14 years of experience throwing weddings abroad, said another worry for her destination wedding couples is that the expectations of the guests — who have spent money flying across the world to attend their wedding — will not be met. "There's a lot of pressure to provide the 'perfect' wedding experience. I try to reassure them that guests are on holiday first and foremost so they are in a more carefree state of mind. Most, if not all guests will not have attended a wedding abroad before, and certainly not at the same venue so they have nothing to compare it to. Even if your day is perfectly simple and intimate they’ll still be experiencing something they’ve never experienced before. This usually helps to calm the bride and groom."

#4

The Audacity Of This Wedding Guest And Their Mum! Plan Your Own Special Moment, Cheapskates!

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209points

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Hilary Mol 3 years ago

YOU DON'T PROPOSE AT SOMEONE ELSE'S WEDDING.

340points

#5

Newly Engaged Dependa (Not My Story)

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192points

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Jo Johannsen 3 years ago

RED. FLAGS. EVERYWHERE.

244points

But some things can make the guests leave with bitter memories. "Family dynamics can be hard to balance at a wedding," Lisa Burton said. "It's one of the main things a couple can struggle with, especially if the family doesn't get on."

The seating arrangement, for example, can be enough to set off a conflict. "If a family member ends up being seated next to someone they don't like, it can affect the atmosphere at the reception. We once planned an intimate wedding of 16 people and they had 6 tables at the reception (instead of the usual one or two). This was because family members did not speak and refused to sit next to each other at dinner," Burton recalled.

#6

Bruno Mars Disapproves. Probably

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184points

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Eslamala 3 years ago

Still don't get what kind of idiot has a wedding in the middle of a pandemic, and what kind of morons actually attend said wedding. They deserve to get Covid, Ebola, Cholera and the Kennedy curse, because they're idiots.

84points

#7

Double-Shame? Moh Knew She Had Been Exposed Before The Pandemic Wedding

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165points

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Eslamala 3 years ago

Why the fck have a wedding in the middle of a pandemic, though? Just... WHY??

162points

According to her, expense is another possible issue. "If a couple is marrying at a luxury venue, this typically means the costs of drinks will be high. If the bride and groom don't offer an open bar then guests may have to 'dig deep' if they want a few rounds of drinks. This can often lead to disgruntled 'sober' guests."

Venue accessibility can also cause a few headaches. "If you know your venues has difficult access or steep entryways then make sure your guests are prepared. Less able guests may need help and negotiating steep cobbled pathways is no fun in stiletto heels!" Burton said.

#8

Just Saw This On Facebook... Eek

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156points

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Full of Giggles 3 years ago

Welp, that’s one way to lose a lot of friends.

116points

#9

Went To A Wedding And The Mil Wore This... Would You Be Okay With It?

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150points

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Hilary Mol 3 years ago

I saw a photo similar to this one (with a similar story, no doubt), and the bride actually got sneaky and paid a server to "accidentally" spill wine on the MIL's "not a wedding dress" dress. I gotta say, I'd be tempted to do something like that if someone was that disrespectful at my wedding.

222points

Event planner, life coach, and author Amanda Hudes thinks that this type of wedding shaming is childish. In her opinion, complete strangers stalking a ceremony via the Internet just to criticize it is akin to talking behind someone's back in high school.

"Shaming comes from a place of insecurity and almost never about the person who is being shamed, but rather the person shaming," Hudes told BRIDES.

#10

Ooooo Yikes

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135points

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Hilary Mol 3 years ago

Of course it was Florida.

223points

#11

Spotted On Facebook

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132points

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Jo Johannsen 3 years ago

The bride needs to conspire with her bridesmaids to stick a "I'm not the bride" sign on the MIL's back.

145points

#12

I Feel So Bad For This Bride (Groom's Family Poses For Photos Without The Bride)

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124points

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Kat 3 years ago

Sould have never married a man who allows this kind of behaviour towards his bride...

237points

#13

Has Any Other Country Had People Wear Their Flag As A Wedding Dress? No? Just... Ew

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123points

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Sarcastic Cow 3 years ago

Cut is nice, but the fabric...

151points

#14

How Dare People Be Offended When I Want A Giant Wedding In So. California Where Someone Dies From Covid Every 6 Minutes! Muh Freedumb Of Speech!

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120points

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Eslamala 3 years ago

I hope she gets her tubes tied.

63points

#15

Man Proposes To Woman After Which She Grabs Her Phone To Upload A Picture On Instagram

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116points

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Warrior Mama 3 years ago

"If it's not on Instagram it didn't happen"

106points

Albino 3 years ago

Damn, I never happened!

12points

Isah izzy 3 years ago

Woman looks up again and man is gone

23points

Vicky Z 3 years ago

Doesn't matter as long as the photo is on Instagram🙄

1point

Kristie Yuill 3 years ago

I have assume he didn't have a problem with it. If they are this far into their relationship, he MUST know she's that sort of person by now, and if he's not okay with this behaviour, why would he propose to her?

12points

Purbasha Banai 3 years ago

I saw the video few weeks ago. He wasn't okay with it. After a while of sitting down his knees, he threw the phone away from her hand. It wad funny. Absolutely didn't like both of their behaviour

1point

Tapio Magnussen 3 years ago

Time to close the ring-box and run.

9points

Aliquid A 3 years ago

If he is ok with it, and she is ok with it... then mind your own business.

8points

Purbasha Banai 3 years ago

I saw the video. He wasn't okay with it. He was sitting down his knee and the woman only kept on tapping on her damn phone. He threw the phone away from her hand. Everyone had I good laugh. But it was sure to throw a shade at the "to be fiance". Didn't like the girls attitude.

0points

Giovanna 3 years ago

That's one of the saddest things I've even seen.

7points

Raquel Martinez 3 years ago

Then really, you're TRULY blessed.

6points

Emperor Shrek 3 years ago

Maybe she just wants a picture to remember this beautiful moment stop being so quick to assume

6points

Purbasha Banai 3 years ago

A video was being taken. Wasn't that enough? Plus she actually took out her phone to and opened IG camera, it was prolly lagging and he threw her phone away from her hand. Lol. Silly girl.

0points

Manuela Martins 3 years ago

Sad world.

6points

Michelle M 3 years ago

Nothing surprising about this

5points

JLH 3 years ago

How do you know she's uploading to Instagram? The first thing many people do after an engagement is take pictures of the occasion to capture the moment, remember it, and yes, share with other people. Nothing wrong with that.

3points

Laura Dawson 3 years ago

She’s more excited about all the likes & comments “congrats babe xx” “omg girlie I’m so happy for you” “you are so beautiful Queen” coming from this than the prospect of marrying her man

3points

Mewton’s Third Paw 3 years ago

Oh, what happened to the “her wedding, her fiancé, her prerogative” crowd? It only applies to cops and rednecks I guess.

2points

Klas Klättermus 3 years ago

This is not their wedding. This is a man humbling/humiliating himself by going down on one knee and opening up his heart to his love and asking her to love him forever as he loves her, and she just leaves him hanging to take a photo of him in this vulnerable position... I would definitely withdraw my proposal if this happened to me.

0points

Id row 3 years ago

There's no way I could be with someone who is like that.

1point

Valerie Smart 2 years ago

Tacky as all hell. Hoped he said “oops, Nevermind”

0points

Lynne Harbison 3 years ago

Leave your damn phones at home or in the car, when you go out for a special occasion, dinner etc.

0points

Donna Leske 3 years ago

"just crouch there for a few minutes so I can get my answer to you on live and check how many likes I get!"

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Wednesday 3 years ago

He probably knew that about her already...

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Thomas Turnbull 3 years ago

and why not

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Daniele Ribolla 3 years ago

soooo sad.

0points

Mickie Shea 3 years ago

Nice dress

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Chloe *Leah* Pheonix 3 years ago

Ever see something beautiful and reach to your phone to take a pic but decide: "This is a special moment for me."

0points

Purbasha Banai 3 years ago

Lmao. I saw this video in Instagram or Facebook, I don't remember. But he probably didn't like her behaviour either and he was probably hurting by his knees as well, so he threw her phone away from her hand. It was quite the show haha. Everyone had a good laugh. Idk what was going inside anybody's mind, but she probably didn't like it and he had enough. Nevertheless, she's got the ring on her hand either way. So...

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v 3 years ago

Future not-a-husband should have split then and there before she had a chance to land her damned dirty paws on the ring.

0points

Anita Pickle 3 years ago

Maybe he is the same way... I sure hope so or it will be a hard marriage.

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JB Darré 3 years ago

I wonder if he is still waiting for her answer while she's instragraming

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heystobit1231 3 years ago

I have lost faith in humanity.

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Stille20 3 years ago

I feel like there is a lot of judgement here from someone who isn't involved

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Renee Letkiewicz 3 years ago

Ew David!

-1point

Cookie 3 years ago

He forgot to hire photographers.

-1point

Samantha PandaNotBored 3 years ago

You look like a slug

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Ryan Deschanel 3 years ago

That's life now. The next step is making euthanasia of ugly and short people compulsory.

-2points

WoodenLion 3 years ago

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#16

Sounds Like It’ll Be A Healthy Marriage!

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114points

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Carmen Sandiego 3 years ago

*shudder*

114points

#17

Sounds Like A Great Idea To Save A Few Cents! May Save Even More When The Twin And His New Bride Don’t Come To Your Wedding!

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114points

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Manuela Martins 3 years ago

Look, if you write in your post "I don't want to seem rude" you have already given yourself the answer. Deep inside you know this is not the right thing to do, so don't be an a**.

98points

#18

There’s Still Time To Change Your Decor

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113points

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cat in a tank 3 years ago

i don't get themes like this. i know if i married the love of my life i would do it because i wanted to spend the rest of my life with someone. but these kinds of jokes imply it's more of an obligation by society. you don't even have to marry anyone!

119points

#19

Starting Off Marriage By Secretly Going Against Your Fiancé’s Wishes... Yikes

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112points

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Hilary Mol 3 years ago

Yes. Yes, you are.

210points

#20

Is It Possible To Get Married To A Cop Without Theming Your Entire Wedding Around His Job? Extra Sensitivity Points For “Stop Resisting” Being Used In Reference To Donuts, Instead As The Usual Excuse To Kill Black People

Is It Possible To Get Married To A Cop Without Theming Your Entire Wedding Around His Job? Extra Sensitivity Points For “Stop Resisting” Being Used In Reference To Donuts, Instead As The Usual Excuse To Kill Black People

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107points

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Carol Emory 3 years ago

I don't agree with the Stop Resisting wall of Donuts. You could have put a sign up that said "Police tactical supplies, require equipment!"

129points

#21

Engagement Photo Shaming

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104points

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Michelle M 3 years ago

Whatever drives your tractor 🤷🏾‍♀️

112points

#22

Wedding Shaming Myself A Bit... I Would Personally Recommend To Ask Your Pastor/Celebrant To Step To The Side When The Kiss Takes Place. All Personal Preference Ofcourse. Although Hubby’s Hair Does Smell Good

Wedding Shaming Myself A Bit... I Would Personally Recommend To Ask Your Pastor/Celebrant To Step To The Side When The Kiss Takes Place. All Personal Preference Ofcourse. Although Hubby’s Hair Does Smell Good

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100points

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Lys Chen 3 years ago

I could try to photoshop him out if you would like me to? :)

70points

#23

Even Outdoors, A 500-Person Wedding Feels A Bit Out Of Touch Right Now, Doesn’t It?

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98points

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Eslamala 3 years ago

Fckn idiots

100points

#24

Groom’s Mother Hospitalized With Covid And Pneumonia 2 Weeks After Mask-Less Wedding In Florida

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95points

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Full of Giggles 3 years ago (edited)

The photographer and I were the only two people of 60 that wore a mask at my sister’s wedding. None of events staff wore one. We were in the middle of Arizona’s 3rd wave. My BIL’s family took COVID back to their hometown which had been completely untouched by the virus up to that point. Two people died within the first 10 days the ILs return home. Oh, and BIL’s brother made national news because he was dragged off the plane after refusing to wear his mask on the return flight. Not to mention, my long-COVID (I was not contagious the day of the wedding) became active and I developed pneumonia, again.

121points

#25

My Free Photographer Is So Much More Important Than My Sister’s Well-Being And Happiness!

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94points

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Eslamala 3 years ago

You're telling me none of you would think, to yourselves, something like that?? REALLY?? as long as she doesn't say it out loud, I don't see the problem

57points

#26

My First In The Wild Spotting! Same Person. I’ll Just Pay Everyone In Experience!

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91points

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Michelle M 3 years ago

Probably an influencer

121points

#27

Don’t All Good Wedding Proposals Start With Being Pressured To Continue An Unwanted Pregnancy? But Seriously, This Is A Terrible Thing To Do

Final score:

90points

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Helen Haley 3 years ago

Divorced by 25 and in a financial hole till 40.

133points

#28

Another Bride Comparing Her Wedding To Protests

Final score:

89points

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troufaki13 3 years ago

What people must understand, is that arguing with idiots is just pointless...

108points

#29

Wedding In Madrid (Spain) Last Week, A City That Most Definitely Do Not Have The Virus Under Control

Final score:

79points

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troufaki13 3 years ago

I love the wedding outfit tho...

96points

#30

Damn... That Was Pretty Sudden

Final score:

64points

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Chucky Cheezburger 3 years ago

Meh...It can happen. On our first date,I told my (future) wife I was going to marry her, and told her so...Looking back,that's really weird, I know. But here we are 20+ years together closer than ever.

144points