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We no longer live in a world where it's enough to just take a picture of a positive pregnancy test to announce you're expecting a baby. A post like that would get such low traction, that social media algorithms would bury it deep down people's feeds and even your parents wouldn't see the message.

In order for the word to spread, you need to come up with something more engaging. And while some people successfully find interesting and creative ways to let everyone know about the upcoming addition to their family, others end up trying so hard, they completely overdo the whole thing.

There's a Facebook group called 'That's It, I'm Pregnancy Announcement Shaming' and it has all the inappropriate innuendos, sexist remarks, and other popular cliches that people apparently think are OK for such an occasion. Since the group's creation, however, its members have shared so much content, that it would take you a really long time to find the best (worst?) gems. But don't worry, we at Bored Panda have done it so you wouldn't have to.

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Under His Eye

Under His Eye

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Tamra
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can often laugh at dark humor, but this isn't it. Either these people are ignorant, or they truly think it's okay to co-opt a theme of rape to announce their pregnancy. Probably both. It's sick. Editing to add: this is not the only couple to do this kind of announcement. Google "Handmaid's Tale birth announcement". A couple, from Florida, no less, were completely astounded at the negative reaction, and couldn't understand why people wouldn't like it. 🙄

Stoopham McFernybabes
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am guessing ignorant. I’m thinking they processed it in their minds only as far as “characters in a tv show and won’t that be funny” rather that processing it all the way to “rapist character and sex slave character”.

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Ange Marsden
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Is this a pregnancy shoot or an announcement of how f$#cked up the father is?

Mrs. Jan Glass
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ask Serena Joy. It's astounding how many women find this role acceptable, even seek it out. Internalized misogyny is a f****d up thing, folks.

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ButFirstCoffee
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This reminds me of an ex who tried to force me to have a baby 20 years ago. Luckily, my body refused to cooperate. A dodged a bullet! F**k you Adrian, wherever you are!

Tigerpacingthecage
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is so extremely offensive and urgh. WHY on earth would you like to be seen as a rapist? Or someone who is just a suppressed baby machine? I really don't understand at all. Either they are stupid and ignorant to history OR reaally misogynistic. Both are nothing to be proud of. (Side note; the series was really good but I got almost nauseous at times from the horror.)

Mrs. Jan Glass
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Honestly? Conservatives don't believe husbands can rape their wives. If they are married, he is entitled to sex from her, to her body. In the US, several states are rushing through overturning marital rape laws along with Roe v Wade, and if that isn't the writing on the wall of Gilead....

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Fintch
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh, the amount of disrespect showed for another human being, in just one photo!

Suzanne Tilson
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The Handmaid's tale...a book all about women being enslaved as baby makers..all while wearing red hoods

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Disha Nath-Sepoy
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The image alone is making me vomit. I haven't even read the text yet. What is wrong with that people?!

Mangaboi
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Can someone explain what's wrong with this? I don't get the reference?

Mrs. Jan Glass
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Atwood's novel, women exist only as passive vessels of rape for their male owners, and their male owners' wives. They have no identity but through those male owners, so their names are Offred, Ofglen, Of-Their-Owner. They are raped repeatedly to be forced into pregnancy, to bear children for their owner and his wife. This is literally the future that Conservatives want and we are two short steps away from it, thanks to the overturning of abortion laws. If you think that's hyperbole, pull your head out of your a*s and GO EFFING VOTE, DAMMIT.

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Nimues Child
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Bullet dodged. Congratulations on getting out of a relationship with someone so horrible.

Echidna learns extreme ironing
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I watched the first season of this but couldn't watch any more after that. My husband couldn't watch the first season as it made him feel angry and upset him too much.

Miocha
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Husband's masculinity is so fragile he chose to be seen as a rapist to boost his ego

A.
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Let's just say that when seeing this, I'm gladder than ever that I think before I type.

DonnerDinnerParty
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wha, huh? How does the picture portray him as a rapist and her as a sex slave..?

Blue Pearl
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And the fact that her face is hidden while his isn’t… I’m very concerned for that woman and her child

Kelli
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don’t know who I have more disgust with, him or his wife.

MediumPimpin
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Fb shaming pages are way more toxic than any of the things they shame.

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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's possible that the couple is into that type of cosplay. However, looking for someone online doesn't fit the legal definition of stalking or harassment. Otherwise, I could press charges every time someone from my past makes a Friend request on Facebook.

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    What In The Hillbilly Yeehaw John Deere Tractor Confederate Flag Is Goin On

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    #9

    Makes Me Feel Like They Don't Really Want Children

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    LagoonaBlueColleen
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This is giving me vibes of that sad, old photo where the mom is putting her kids up for sale cos she couldn't afford rent.

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    Peak Capitalism Was The Theme Of This Gender Reveal

    Peak Capitalism Was The Theme Of This Gender Reveal

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    Tmi

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    Tweaked
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I like that the ultrasound image is hidden. Got to protect the identity of the fuzzy black and white blob.

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    I’m Guessing It’s A Boy

    I’m Guessing It’s A Boy

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    I'm Pretty Sure If Disney Employees See That They Will Be Asked To Change/Leave Since It Is Not Family Friendly

    I'm Pretty Sure If Disney Employees See That They Will Be Asked To Change/Leave Since It Is Not Family Friendly

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    That Poor Woman

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    KM
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    i'm guessing she's a surrogate? If she's ok with this sign, then it's none of our business

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    The Handmaids Tale Wasn’t An Instruction Manual

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    xxx
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    2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Shoutout to the person downvoting everyone because they're getting personally offended that people aren't okay with rape/sex slaves pregnancy announcements . You seem like a real peach. (with a B)

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    #20

    Hehe, Let's Make Light Of The Fact That There's A Wave Of Evictions Across The Country Right Now!

    Hehe, Let's Make Light Of The Fact That There's A Wave Of Evictions Across The Country Right Now!

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    #23

    Nothing Like Splashing Your First Born With Water To Let Them Know They're No Longer Mommy's Favorite

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    #24

    You’re Not Born A Cop. You Choose To Be A Cop

    You’re Not Born A Cop. You Choose To Be A Cop

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    Dawn Marie
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you folks would gets your minds out of the gutter, Daddy is a police officer and baby is meant to be his back up SMH!!

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    Simultaneously Letting Everyone Know That You'll Be Terrible Parents!

    Simultaneously Letting Everyone Know That You'll Be Terrible Parents!

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    #27

    Imagine Telling Everyone Your Kid Wasn’t Planned

    Imagine Telling Everyone Your Kid Wasn’t Planned

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    PCW10101
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah - let your kid know you actually did everything in your power NOT to have him/her. Classy.

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    If Hockey Equals Birth Control, Then I Guess They Pulled The Goalie!

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    Why. Just Why. Do Less, People. Do Less

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    Liam F.
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    ik she's not actually 6'8'' but i can't help feeling short rn

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    #33

    Someone’s Parents Didn’t Social Distance!

    Someone’s Parents Didn’t Social Distance!

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    Liam F.
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    for a brief and horrifying second, i thought the shirt said cockdown

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    #34

    Found In The Wild. I Guess Mom & Dad Are Both Landscapers?

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    #39

    Lord Have Mercy

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    KM
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    this is a bit too sweet for me, but Aurora is a good name and the picture has meaning

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    #42

    "We Had Protection!" The Classic Covid Baby Announcement. It's Getting Old!

    "We Had Protection!" The Classic Covid Baby Announcement. It's Getting Old!

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    Looks Like It Turned Into Some Hulu And Woohoo

    Looks Like It Turned Into Some Hulu And Woohoo

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    He's Your Son, Not Your Boyfriend

    He's Your Son, Not Your Boyfriend

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    Queen fhk
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Some of these are kinda cute and hilarious Way to announce pregnancy

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    #50

    That Name Is A F**king Tragediegh

    That Name Is A F**king Tragediegh

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    #51

    Nothing Says, “We Made This Ourselves!” Like A Dozen Store-Bought Pies!

    Nothing Says, “We Made This Ourselves!” Like A Dozen Store-Bought Pies!

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    #53

    It Always Kills Me When Women Who Are Pregnant For 6 Minutes Cradle Their Abdomen

    It Always Kills Me When Women Who Are Pregnant For 6 Minutes Cradle Their Abdomen

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    Kristal
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get the title, why? Their body, they can cradle it if they want to.

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    #54

    I Feel Like He Probably Cringed As Hard As I Did

    I Feel Like He Probably Cringed As Hard As I Did

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    LagoonaBlueColleen
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This isn't that bad. I feel at this point some people are reaching to find something to hate.

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    #55

    Lot Going On Here, But Try To Count The Pee Sticks!

    Lot Going On Here, But Try To Count The Pee Sticks!

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    Helena
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As someone pregnant after a miscarriage - I totally understand the obscene amount of pee-sticks. I have peed on a stick everyday out of anxiety. So her sentiment - her feeling, I get it. It's just a ton of money because ClearBlue is a very expensive brand!

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    #56

    Harry Potter And The Adults Who Should Have Read Another Book By Now

    Harry Potter And The Adults Who Should Have Read Another Book By Now

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    Random Panda
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't get why this is bad, it seems like a fun way to announce? And Harry Potter is not just for kids, just let people enjoy things.

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    #57

    Pregnat On A Shelf

    Pregnat On A Shelf

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    Kevin Garren
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    So I guess the reason they can't spell "pregnant" correctly is because the elves are the ones having the baby?

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    Preggnant

    Preggnant

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    LagoonaBlueColleen
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wow. This goes to show what some are willing to undergo in order to try to have a baby. Congrats to them for finding a solution.

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    #60

    Wonder If Mom & Dad Met On Farmersonly?

    Wonder If Mom & Dad Met On Farmersonly?

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    Kevin Garren
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This isn't gross, it's logical. Isn't that why all farmers have kids, for the eventual help? :P

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    #61

    Ahh Yes, "Ice Ice Fetus"

    Ahh Yes, "Ice Ice Fetus"

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    #63

    Yikes. Think They Bought A Crib Or Are They Just Gonna Keep It Locked Up In A Glass Case?

    Yikes. Think They Bought A Crib Or Are They Just Gonna Keep It Locked Up In A Glass Case?

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    #64

    Gotta Make Sure That The Wizz Stick Is In The Mug, Too

    Gotta Make Sure That The Wizz Stick Is In The Mug, Too

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    #67

    Why Does Getting Pregnant Make Some Parents Turn Into Movie Directors All Of A Sudden?

    Why Does Getting Pregnant Make Some Parents Turn Into Movie Directors All Of A Sudden?

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    Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
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    2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually think this one is quite cute and clever especially if the husband or wife happens to be an actor or is into photography.

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    #68

    New Here, Joined To Post This

    New Here, Joined To Post This

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