Respect.

At least there were good intentions

Thank you for putting a smile into this list. 😊🎄🎁

I would have been mortified.

Not so merry Christmas after all.

Dreadful old bat!

Wow, how cruel and insensitive.

My grandma gave my brother coal one year, and the rest of us got nice gifts from her. We all returned our gifts to her and let her know what she did was not nice. She never really liked him for some reason.

Can't believe some of the comments on here, if you can not see that what grandma did was wrong, then you are deluded! We don't know if this person was excessively over weight or just carrying an extra pound or two, not that it should matter anyway, what a nasty, cruel thing to do!!

My grandfather used to introduce me to people as his "Fat little grandson." Did it from my age 4 until the day he died.

How awful :( my grandmother used to try and "fat shame" me when I was young because I wasn't a delicate ballerina like my older cousin...for the record I've never been fat I played sports and have muscles!

When I was 14, my mom intentionally bought a pair of designer jeans I was dying to have in 2 sizes too small. She said I could use them as "encouragement." She refused to exchange them for a bigger size. I never did wear them.

Could have snagged a pair of scissors from the kitchen and cut a big slit into the waist line. Then you could have been like "no worries, I fixed them/Now they'll fit."

toxic crap

Judgmental Grandma Cruella.

Good riddance, mean lady!

My grandmother put me on my first diet when I was 11. I was 5 ft 2 and weighed 99 lbs. Not in the least obese. Hindsight, it was about her own feelings about her body, nothing to do with me. Still, very hurtful.

What a b%$#h!

Don’t lose the wait just to prove her wrong

That's messed up yo.

I am so sorry you had to go through this. Especially with your grandma who you think would love and care for you and think good things of you.

Wtf?

Oh, that's charming. My mother once gave me a picture of two extremely obese ladies in bikinis doing something. I asked her what the deal was. She said I could put the picture on the fridge so that I could think about what I looked like before eating something. Yeah, well, all I can say is, she's a better mother now!

what a witch

Your grandmother just wanted the best for you, maybe you should really loose weight!

I've got to remember that one I'm thinking I'll send my bitch sister a pair of pants as a late gift

Wow......

I read this the other day and the level of disrespect the OP displayed and the support the commenters have shown has bothered me since. People of a certain age grew up in a time before "political correctness" and most likely did not possess the words to express their feelings in a sensitive way. For example, war vets of were the miserable drunks of their neighborhoods before we learned about PTSD. So maybe "grandma" didn't have the words to express her feelings but her intentions were good. Also, maybe this was the result of a longer conversation between grandma and the OP's parents. Maybe grandma's concern for the OP fell on deaf ears or was told to "butt out" because she's not the OP's parent. Has anyone considered grandma's reason behind her concern? It's only speculation, but perhaps grandma saw the long term health effects of being overweight and did not wish that on the OP. Idk grandma... maybe she was dreadful but from this story it sounds to me like she cared. IMO

That was a horrible thing but.. not even a tear? That’s bad. Maybe not as bad, but bad.

Awesome. Shed some pounds, fatty!

Sad for you , but you need to lighten up.

That's very rude and ignorant. I hope you never fit them jeans you're beautiful just as you are!!!

Easier to get mad at her until her death to actually lose some weight huh?

My grandma got real bitchy like that right before Alzheimer's set in. I wonder if it's related

Wow she was HORRIBLE

I suppose one of the benefits of going through depression and feeling lonely/isolated from your own family is that you don't have to deal with shitty situations like the ones on this 30 list. Like yeah, maybe I don't feel a connection with them, but at least I don't wish them dead

Annna oop-

I can't even imagine...

I got this stuff when I was 8…

I had something similar happen. I bought a shirt i liked and showed it to mom. She then gifted me the exact same shirt just 1 size smaller. I was like "ummm i already have one of these, i showed you" to which she said something along the lines of " well this can encourage you to lose weight and you can wear the smaller one". Shes not bad like it sounds, shes just really bad with encouragement and really obsessed over her own weight, even though whenever my friends meet her they dont believe for a sec shes my mom cause shes so amazingly pretty and young looking. Shes gotten better at being supportive, we laugh about it now.

That could be about Mrs. Ruffensor and her Gran; what an old battle-axe she was.

Good for her, giving that negativity right back,

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Thats no reason to end your relationship. Thats just pathetic you didn't even try to make up.

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You can't just do that she didn't do anything to deserve *that*

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Is this the place where fatsos go to whine about how they got fat-shamed by their relatives whilst gorging on another piece of pie? Well boohoo.