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People React To Elon Musk’s Daughter Disowning Him And Changing Her Name
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People React To Elon Musk’s Daughter Disowning Him And Changing Her Name

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“Gender identity and the fact that I no longer live with or wish to be related to my biological father in any way, shape or form,” stated one of billionaire Elon Musk’s children as the official reason in a petition for a name change, recognition of change of gender, and issuance of a new birth certificate.

Back in April, the 18-year-old teenager made the filing with a Santa Monica court shortly after her birthday. The daughter of Musk and Canadian author Justine Wilson, who were married from 2000 to 2008, decided to legally change her name to Vivian Jenna Wilson, taking her mother’s former surname and coming out as a trans woman. Although a couple of months have passed since she made the initial request to sever all ties with her father, the news was first reported by TMZ over the weekend.

The internet has been overflowing with reactions and discussions about this whole situation. Twitter users wasted no time in typing out spot-on insights about Musk’s recent transphobic comments and offering an outpouring of support to Vivian, whose hearing on the name change is set for Friday. Continue scrolling to find out how the whole ordeal unfolded and be sure to share your thoughts with us in the comments below.

In April, Elon Musk’s daughter filed to change her name to reflect her gender identity, revealing she identifies as a trans woman

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She is changing her name to Vivian Jenna Wilson, taking the maiden name of her mother Justine Musk

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The official document was shared online, stating the reason for the petition

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Vivian’s mom was very supportive of her daughter’s decision

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The young woman requested the court to change her gender recognition from male to female and register her new name a day after turning 18, the age of consent in California. She is one of five children the business tycoon shares with his first wife Justine, and in addition to that, he also has two kids with musician Grimes.

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While neither Musk nor Vivian has publicly discussed their apparent dispute, her mother said in a tweet on Monday she is proud of her daughter. Although Wilson didn’t specify which twin she had the conversation with, the post followed right after the news about Vivian’s petition started circulating online. She seems very supportive of her daughter and this new step she was brave enough to take, revealing a sweet conversation they had about her turning out so “normal-seeming.”

In 2010, his first wife Justine wrote a scathing essay for Marie Claire about their marriage. “He had grown up in the male-dominated culture of South Africa, and the will to compete and dominate that made him so successful in business did not magically shut off when he came home.”

“This, and the vast economic imbalance between us, meant that in the months following our wedding, a certain dynamic began to take hold,” she continued. “Elon’s judgment overruled mine, and he was constantly remarking on the ways he found me lacking. ‘I am your wife,’ I told him repeatedly, ‘not your employee.’ ‘If you were my employee,’ he said just as often, ‘I would fire you.'”

While Musk is yet to comment, he has tweeted some transphobic comments in the recent past

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Over the years, the 50-year-old Tesla and SpaceX founder has accumulated quite a reputation for his edgy takes on Twitter. This led to some people pointing out that such behavior might have influenced his daughter to disown him as a parent.

Musk, a self-described “free speech absolutist,” has been criticized for some of his statements on Twitter regarding gender identity issues. He came under fire in 2020 for tweeting that “pronouns suck.” The now-deleted tweet prompted his partner at that time, Grimes, to reply to him minutes later: “I love you but please turn off ur phone or give me a [c]all,” Grimes wrote. “I cannot support hate. Please stop this. I know this isn’t your heart.”

In December 2020, Musk posted a tweet with an image that said, “when you put he/him in your bio”. It appeared to be a dramatic drawing of an 18th-century soldier smearing blood on his face and wearing a hat that read “I love to oppress.” People started calling him out for showing a lack of respect and having issues with people declaring pronouns. In response to criticism of that tweet, Musk insisted on Twitter later on: “I absolutely support trans, but all these pronouns are an [a]esthetic nightmare.”

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Then, he pointed out that Tesla scored a 100% rating on the Corporate Equality Index, an annual list put together by the Human Rights Campaign to find out the best places for LGBTQ people to work.

“Musk’s insensitive comments stand completely contrary to what HRC’s Workplace Equality Program works with companies each day to create — providing employees a safe, inclusive, and fair work environment,” the group told CNBC.

The organization’s President Alphonso David added, “Elon Musk’s tweet mocking pronouns is exactly the opposite of what inclusive leadership looks like today. It’s also decidedly out of step with the best practices we advise companies.” He also said, “Musk should apologize.”

People started calling out Musk for his transphobia, here’s what they had to say

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Reuters reported that about a month after Vivian filed the name and gender change documents, Musk declared his support for the Republican Party, which has endorsed legislation that attempts to limit the rights of the transgender community in some US states. “I have voted overwhelmingly for Democrats, historically,” Musk said. “Like I’m not sure, I might never have voted for a Republican, just to be clear. Now this election I will.”

Many media outlets have noticed how the SpaceX and Tesla CEO and his recent public embrace of the Republican Party (and let’s not forget the scoffing at pronouns and transgender people online) give an idea that Musk is not too concerned with transgender rights. Twitter users are also pointing that out in reaction to Vivian’s official reason written in the petition.

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Elon has not yet commented on Vivian’s request to change her name, but on Sunday he created a post in honor of Father’s Day that said, “I love all my kids so much.”

Some Twitter users started replying to people shaming Vivian for her actions

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Others offered support to the 18-year-old daughter

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Joe Reaves
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To all the people complaining about her being all 'proud' and public about it - Firstly, choosing to live your authentic life is something to be proud of and, secondly, she's not making a public fuss she is literally just going through the legal process required in California to change her name and gender on her records. The media are making a fuss because of who her father is, but if she wants to align her birth certificate and other records with her gender then this is the process she has to go through. And Elon Musk doesn't get to complain about the aesthetics of anything until he stops naming his children by randomly drawing letters and numbers from a bag.

Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ray, I send you much courage and strength. It takes so much strength to come out and I truly hope that one day soon you are able to live your truth.

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AspieGirl88
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s awful. I feel so sad for her & can even relate in some ways, as I also had to cut ties with my so-called biological “father”. He allowed his current partner to treat me like garbage, did not support me when I became seriously disabled & then, when I became so ill that my family were told to say their goodbyes; HE chose not to bother visiting me in hospital, even when the doctor told him my chances of survival were zero. He had the nerve to get p*ssed at me when I miraculously survived & (basically) told him to f*ck off out of my life … haven’t heard from him since & I’m far happier now. I hope Vivian finds the strength she needs to get away from her toxic ex-father & build herself a happier life. Live your life the way YOU want, hon. As a supporter of the LGBT community myself, I wish you all the best. 🥺💖🏳️‍🌈

Emmydearest
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The very fact that, despite the potential of getting the inheritance, she decided to cut ties with him, explains it all: how horrible must your situation be that you are willing to decline all that money? She chose sanity and self-integrity instead. A brave young woman.

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Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This morning, I see downvotes for kind comments. I expect to get some myself. It just means that some not-so-kind folks are reading this.

Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are some flat-out transphobic comments in this thread and BoredPanda still does absolutely nothing to remove them or let us easily report them. This site really has seen an uptick in the number of trolls spewing anti LGBTQIA+ rhetoric. I wish BoredPanda would provide a report or flag button to people using the site on a browser. They just censor silly words like a*s and d**k yet they tolerate hate speech. It’s really sad what it happening to this site.

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Istax
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

an adult human female. and, in case you are wondering, "female" means denoting of the sex with XX chromosomes

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Peter Kelly
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have no idea of the nature of the relationship, or lack of one, between Musk and his family members, although clearly greatly fractured. That said, I take exception to this labelling of those two tweets as 'hate' or 'transphobic'. Literally they are an expression of confusion and, given that there are so many areas of life that are unclear I think it is equally wrong to discriminate against people for their nature and to superciliously, deliberately misrepresent.

JinjoBread
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He could have had a conversation with his child instead of taking to Twitter like the buffoon he is. Seriously, f**k that guy and his fans.

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Marco Conti
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'll be referring to Elon Musk as "It" from now on, until I have definitive proof he is human. So far it's not going well for it.

Kelli
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I disabled my Twitter as soon as I heard he was purchasing it. I loathe him, for more reasons than this.

Carol Emory
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so surprised how many people relate money to happiness. It depends on how you obtained said money and what you do with it once you have it. There are a lot of rich kids out there that are depressed, suicidal and abused. Their own family heaps expectations of appearance and tradition on them to where they have no identity of their own. The worst thing you can do to your kids is treat them like they have no life of their own. Give them the base of good manners and kindness and let them find their own path. If you can't let go of your image or status long enough to realize you are responsible for the mental and physical health of a small child, then you have no business being a parent.

Debrina Blackmoon
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2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A tragic accident unnatural disaster to the multiverse toxic lowlife vile fucktard shitpile dickfungus cuntpie bitchvirus assholecurse psycho rotten garbage heap twatbundle as well.

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JayWantsACat
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sure the people demanding to be called "doctor" or "sir" are equally an aesthetic nightmare to Musk, right? You literally get corrected once and everyone moves on. In what way are pronouns different?

Bec
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

While he is a genius in tech, he has shown over and over that he has no empathy for other human beings, sorry to see that this applies to his own child as well.

Juanjo
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think that the main issue is that ppl don't even take a second to honestly analyze other people critics. I mean, despite this situation of sounding transphobic, Elon's critic is, at least, arguable. Gender Ist a state of mind and a personal perception. Therefore, a trans must put their body into a profound physical and fisiologycal change. Sounds at least hard to understand. But... It offends the community, so let's burn Elon and his entire house!... Inquisition anyone?

El Dee
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel sorry for this kid. They've had the difficulties of coming out as trans and living that life but even UNsupportive parents aren't as bad as Musk. He's made a point of belittling her in the Twittersphere. I'd heard one of his kids was disowning him but had no idea why. This is worse than I could have imagined. Your dad should have your back, always..

Mustavo Gaia
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

so brave, I can only imagine they renounce daddy's whealth also.

Nate Jones
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He didn't say one transphobic thing. He merely questioned the pronoun thing. The internet hates it when someone uses their brain instead of agreeing with everything they're told to agree with.

edgar
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2 years ago

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Elon Musk ask the good questions here. Nothing tansphobe in trying to understand.

Novel Idesa
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He could have asked his daughter instead of asking Twitter. He knew what he was doing and so do you. Don't be obtuse.

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commie pinkofag
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2 years ago (edited)

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A bigoted parent responds badly to their child's honesty regarding their gender or sexual orientation. A billionaire is a sociopath that treats others badly. A narcissist posts hateful idiocy on social media. Isn’t it nice that all these and more opportunities for us to indulge in performative virtue happen pretty much hourly? Next, Ms. Wilson will be murdered for walking down the street while trans, and we'll all pretend to be shocked by something else that happens daily all over the world. Isn’t it awful? Isn’t it awful? Isn’t it awful?

Glasia van Duivels
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2 years ago

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Tina Oz
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2 years ago

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I am so done with what the world is becoming... suddenly everybody thinks becoming trans changing identity is something to be proud of and get the attention of the world. Garbage world filled with garbage people.

It's Izzy 🇺🇦 (They/Them)
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it is something to celebrate. Some people have gender reveals for their unborn children, so I think that you should celebrate coming out as your real gender. Usually, they don't get this much attention but this is the daughter of the richest man on earth, so yeah, there will be a bit more attention.

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Joe Reaves
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To all the people complaining about her being all 'proud' and public about it - Firstly, choosing to live your authentic life is something to be proud of and, secondly, she's not making a public fuss she is literally just going through the legal process required in California to change her name and gender on her records. The media are making a fuss because of who her father is, but if she wants to align her birth certificate and other records with her gender then this is the process she has to go through. And Elon Musk doesn't get to complain about the aesthetics of anything until he stops naming his children by randomly drawing letters and numbers from a bag.

Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ray, I send you much courage and strength. It takes so much strength to come out and I truly hope that one day soon you are able to live your truth.

Load More Replies...
AspieGirl88
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s awful. I feel so sad for her & can even relate in some ways, as I also had to cut ties with my so-called biological “father”. He allowed his current partner to treat me like garbage, did not support me when I became seriously disabled & then, when I became so ill that my family were told to say their goodbyes; HE chose not to bother visiting me in hospital, even when the doctor told him my chances of survival were zero. He had the nerve to get p*ssed at me when I miraculously survived & (basically) told him to f*ck off out of my life … haven’t heard from him since & I’m far happier now. I hope Vivian finds the strength she needs to get away from her toxic ex-father & build herself a happier life. Live your life the way YOU want, hon. As a supporter of the LGBT community myself, I wish you all the best. 🥺💖🏳️‍🌈

Emmydearest
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The very fact that, despite the potential of getting the inheritance, she decided to cut ties with him, explains it all: how horrible must your situation be that you are willing to decline all that money? She chose sanity and self-integrity instead. A brave young woman.

Load More Replies...
-
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This morning, I see downvotes for kind comments. I expect to get some myself. It just means that some not-so-kind folks are reading this.

Loki’s Lil Butter Knife
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are some flat-out transphobic comments in this thread and BoredPanda still does absolutely nothing to remove them or let us easily report them. This site really has seen an uptick in the number of trolls spewing anti LGBTQIA+ rhetoric. I wish BoredPanda would provide a report or flag button to people using the site on a browser. They just censor silly words like a*s and d**k yet they tolerate hate speech. It’s really sad what it happening to this site.

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Istax
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

an adult human female. and, in case you are wondering, "female" means denoting of the sex with XX chromosomes

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Peter Kelly
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have no idea of the nature of the relationship, or lack of one, between Musk and his family members, although clearly greatly fractured. That said, I take exception to this labelling of those two tweets as 'hate' or 'transphobic'. Literally they are an expression of confusion and, given that there are so many areas of life that are unclear I think it is equally wrong to discriminate against people for their nature and to superciliously, deliberately misrepresent.

JinjoBread
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He could have had a conversation with his child instead of taking to Twitter like the buffoon he is. Seriously, f**k that guy and his fans.

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Marco Conti
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'll be referring to Elon Musk as "It" from now on, until I have definitive proof he is human. So far it's not going well for it.

Kelli
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I disabled my Twitter as soon as I heard he was purchasing it. I loathe him, for more reasons than this.

Carol Emory
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am so surprised how many people relate money to happiness. It depends on how you obtained said money and what you do with it once you have it. There are a lot of rich kids out there that are depressed, suicidal and abused. Their own family heaps expectations of appearance and tradition on them to where they have no identity of their own. The worst thing you can do to your kids is treat them like they have no life of their own. Give them the base of good manners and kindness and let them find their own path. If you can't let go of your image or status long enough to realize you are responsible for the mental and physical health of a small child, then you have no business being a parent.

Debrina Blackmoon
Community Member
2 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A tragic accident unnatural disaster to the multiverse toxic lowlife vile fucktard shitpile dickfungus cuntpie bitchvirus assholecurse psycho rotten garbage heap twatbundle as well.

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JayWantsACat
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sure the people demanding to be called "doctor" or "sir" are equally an aesthetic nightmare to Musk, right? You literally get corrected once and everyone moves on. In what way are pronouns different?

Bec
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

While he is a genius in tech, he has shown over and over that he has no empathy for other human beings, sorry to see that this applies to his own child as well.

Juanjo
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think that the main issue is that ppl don't even take a second to honestly analyze other people critics. I mean, despite this situation of sounding transphobic, Elon's critic is, at least, arguable. Gender Ist a state of mind and a personal perception. Therefore, a trans must put their body into a profound physical and fisiologycal change. Sounds at least hard to understand. But... It offends the community, so let's burn Elon and his entire house!... Inquisition anyone?

El Dee
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I feel sorry for this kid. They've had the difficulties of coming out as trans and living that life but even UNsupportive parents aren't as bad as Musk. He's made a point of belittling her in the Twittersphere. I'd heard one of his kids was disowning him but had no idea why. This is worse than I could have imagined. Your dad should have your back, always..

Mustavo Gaia
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

so brave, I can only imagine they renounce daddy's whealth also.

Nate Jones
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He didn't say one transphobic thing. He merely questioned the pronoun thing. The internet hates it when someone uses their brain instead of agreeing with everything they're told to agree with.

edgar
Community Member
2 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

Elon Musk ask the good questions here. Nothing tansphobe in trying to understand.

Novel Idesa
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

He could have asked his daughter instead of asking Twitter. He knew what he was doing and so do you. Don't be obtuse.

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commie pinkofag
Community Member
2 years ago (edited)

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A bigoted parent responds badly to their child's honesty regarding their gender or sexual orientation. A billionaire is a sociopath that treats others badly. A narcissist posts hateful idiocy on social media. Isn’t it nice that all these and more opportunities for us to indulge in performative virtue happen pretty much hourly? Next, Ms. Wilson will be murdered for walking down the street while trans, and we'll all pretend to be shocked by something else that happens daily all over the world. Isn’t it awful? Isn’t it awful? Isn’t it awful?

Glasia van Duivels
Community Member
2 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

This comment has been deleted.

Tina Oz
Community Member
2 years ago

This comment is hidden. Click here to view.

I am so done with what the world is becoming... suddenly everybody thinks becoming trans changing identity is something to be proud of and get the attention of the world. Garbage world filled with garbage people.

It's Izzy 🇺🇦 (They/Them)
Community Member
2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think it is something to celebrate. Some people have gender reveals for their unborn children, so I think that you should celebrate coming out as your real gender. Usually, they don't get this much attention but this is the daughter of the richest man on earth, so yeah, there will be a bit more attention.

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