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Let’s face it, parenting is one of the biggest challenges that we’ll ever have to face in our lives. It’s right up there alongside fighting off an alien invasion, surviving a zombie apocalypse, rocket science, and plugging in a USB cable on the first try. So it’s no wonder that most parents are less than perfect. In fact, it’s pretty much the norm.

However, they’re nowhere near the level that some of the parents featured on the ‘Parents Are Effing Dumb’ subreddit are. There, you’ll find some of the biggest fails that will make you gasp, shout “think of the children!”, and think about taking these people’s parenting license away. Remember to buckle up and upvote the pics that made your jaw drop as you scroll down the rollercoaster that is this descent into parenting weirdness.

When it comes to parenting, both extremes—absolute perfectionism/trying to be a ‘perfect’ parent and not trying hard enough—can be harmful to the family. And while it’s very clear what bad parenting is, perfectionism is more insidious and sneaky and can actually end up being just as harmful as actual neglect or ignorance, though in a very different way. We spoke about the pitfalls of this with an expert in the field of psychology.

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I'm Sorry, What??

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My Family Does This To Me All The Time, And Each Time I Tell Them It Discourages Me But They Still Do It

My Family Does This To Me All The Time, And Each Time I Tell Them It Discourages Me But They Still Do It

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Nunya Bus
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Wow that just hit me hard. I still have that happen to me and I'm 43. And it absolutely crushes my soul. Just the other day I thought "wow, I seriously cannot do anything right."

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Emma Morton, a researcher at the University of British Columbia, explained to Bored Panda the pitfalls of perfectionist thinking and how it spreads to many areas of a person’s life, contributing to poor mental health and even depression.

Believing that you should (or even that you can) be a so-called ‘perfect’ parent is actually detrimental to your health. What’s more, the belief that you can control every single outcome can spread to other areas of your life, not just parenting.

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And I Know That From Home

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Me Getting My Vaccinations After My Mother Refused For Me To Have Them

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If I could I would live under water
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love when teenagers actually start to think for themselves, and not just repeating what they parents think

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“When we set excessive and inflexible high standards for ourselves and become self-critical about not meeting those, perfectionism can become a problem for our mental health and potentially contribute to depression or suicidal thoughts,” researcher Morton said.

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Actually What The F**k

Actually What The F**k

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Sam Kunz
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Stop the planet, I want to get off. That's the worst thing I've ever read.

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She Is Insane

She Is Insane

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achilles get down from there
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That’s just the same as smashing down a Lego set, or destroying paintings, or any other project. It’s destroying property! And hours and hours of care and passion.

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Very Not Cool

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Eslamala
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Addiction is a disease, and it's NEVER compatible with kids in the house. Downvote all you want, but people with that kind of problems should never be the caretakers of kids. Ever.

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“Perfectionism is a very insidious problem—even if someone achieves great success in their personal or professional life, negative thinking patterns lead them to be highly self-critical, focus on perceived mistakes, or mentally discount their achievements,” Morton detailed that a perfectionist mindset dims even the biggest victories when we tend to laser-in on the various real and imagined flaws.

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Tweet Says It All

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TmKhr
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's sad when people who really want children can't have them, and then horrible people like these have kids. Not fair.

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The anxiety surrounding perfectionism is just as much about personal pride as it is about the desire to be respected and liked by others. “People who struggle with perfectionism may worry that they will be judged for their perceived failures, feel that they are inadequate for needing help, or assume they will be a burden on their family and friends,” she said, adding that this can make perfectionists especially vulnerable mentally and emotionally.

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Please Show Support To The Op On His Post Since His Parents Surely Won't

Please Show Support To The Op On His Post Since His Parents Surely Won't

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Wow Just Wow

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As such, it’s very important that parents who make mistakes with their kids don’t overcorrect and land in the ‘perfectionist’ zone. Similarly, any parents who realize that they’re being inflexible with their standards and are overly critical of their and their kids’ (real or perceived) faults need to learn to hold back and allow room for (at least some) failure. After all, learning to deal with failure and drawing wisdom from our mistakes is what being human is all about. One thing's for sure, though: nobody wants to be that parent who ends up on 'Parents Are Effing Dumb.'

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Imagine... Uggh

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Little Wonder
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh god, there should be laws against this sort of "family youtube" thing. Using your kids for views and cash is revolting.

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Parents Theory

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Ryan Deschanel
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Those Japanese cartoons are too violent. Here, watch this documentary about the genocide in Vendée on the French-German channel."

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Florida Teen Dies From Covid-19 After Mom Takes Her To Church “Covid Party”

Florida Teen Dies From Covid-19 After Mom Takes Her To Church “Covid Party”

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TmKhr
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's pretty much the same as if she killed her daughter on the spot. Send her to prison, now.

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Atleast One Person In The Comments Had The Sense To Tell Her To Call A Doctor! This Is Too Much

Atleast One Person In The Comments Had The Sense To Tell Her To Call A Doctor! This Is Too Much

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Taking A Picture Instead Of Saving Your Child

Taking A Picture Instead Of Saving Your Child

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Ryan Deschanel
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You can make other babies, but opportunities to feel like you are relevant on a social media are important.

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Mum Is Angry At Her Child For Growing

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Another Great Example Of Dumb Parents

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Ryan Deschanel
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Old people think they are gods, they always think they are always right about everything. Edit : not all of them, obviously, but it is more like a general tendency.

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Lauren Caswell
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can see the composite in my head now from all I've seen that I couldn't stop: "how many times must I tell you *name*?! We *smack* don't *smack* hit *smack* people *wrenches kid away by the arm*

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Family Had Symptoms Of Covid But Sent Child To School Regardless

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Eslamala
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Those people should be fined, and do community service by volunteering at hospitals.

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My Parents Think This Is A Cute Decoration

My Parents Think This Is A Cute Decoration

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Donkey boi
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My MIL collects golli-dolls. I asked her mother (my wife's grandmother) about it a few years back. She told me that after the war, they were left with nothing, rationing was the only thing keeping them fed. She was out begging one day with her infant child (my MIL) and someone gave her a golli doll and she has kept it ever since. The doll, to my MIL, was the first and only gift she would receive as a child and holds huge sentimentality, if her house caught fire, she would try to save them, before her husband. She knows and understands why they are racist, but for her, they represent something else, kindness, charity, safety and childhood.

J Adams
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My grandmother and her friends toiled for weeks to knit me a golli when i was a newborn, none of them could get the hair right so it got passed pretty much every elderly or knitting enthusiast for miles around until a lovely old lady managed to master it. That doll is still sitting proudly in my display case not only as a symbol of love from grand parent to grand child but also a community rallying around to do a nice thing (for context I’m very dark skinned mixed race)

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Arctic Fox Lover
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Ok, so I read, like, every single comment here in search of a reason as to why this is racist, and I haven't found any actual reasons here - I can Lily Mae Kitty hating on everybody who doesn't know and calling them idiots, saying that black children with watermelons is racist, but WHY is it racist??? I went to the Wikipedia link that Ienka sent, but it didn't really explain much other than the stereotype that African American people love watermelons. Is that it? Is that the only reason?? Can someone please RESPECTFULLY (hint hint, don't react like Lily Mae Kitty did) explain to me how this is racist?

Leo Domitrix
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It was steretypically believed that watermelon and fried chicken were "black people" food, particularly after slavery and during the 20th-century re-hash of slavery known as sharecropping. For African-Americans, that image reminds them of slavery, KKK, lynchings, etc. So.... kinda like if you showed all Jews like Hitler did would be offensive to Jews. it's a stereotype created not by them, but by the oppressor. Did that help?

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Keks
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It’s amazing how Americans assume the whole world knows everything about their problems with racism. It’s kind of cultural colonialism - you don’t know why we think watermelon eaten by a black kid is racist? You’re an uneducated idiot! Oh, you are from Czech, Modlavia, Ukraine, Korea or any other country with no black slaves history? It doesn’t justify you! The whole world should be aware of our cultural problems!

Marijana Miletic
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Oh just wrote a similar thing, it is frustrating, we don't need to feel guilty for other nations racisms. literally first time a see this stereotype. Most of our countries existed centuries before US was even discovered :)

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Katy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

OMG, whyyy, why are you so triggered, that there are people who don"t know, that every second thing in USA is considered racist? Isn't this the sign that some people are just not rasist exactly because they don't see anything wrong with that??!! In my deepest mind I wouldn't guess, that black doll with meloon is som stereotype. I didn't even know what to google! It was like: "mayby the problem is the tabasco? Or the shape of those dolls." Please note, that not only USA people are here. Some (I would guess actually many) states/cultures have aboslutely different situation and we just don't get those things. So please STOP INSULTING agressively those people!

Katy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am sorry to be this disrespectfull to your problems. I know, it was rude. I was upset from agressive comments I see here. But please be more open minded.

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Eslamala
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Aren't those dolls some sort of craftsmanship, though? Not everything is based on racism. Some people just buy stuff when traveling.

Valley Girl
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's right! Like Confederate flags flying at your trailer home or off your truck in MICHIGAN is just celebrating your heritage....your Michigan heritage!

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Demi Zwaan
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They are? Are we not allowed to have black dolls anymore? Should we segregate and have white people only play with white people dolls, have white people art and white people statues? That doesn't sound like a good idea.

Mart Se
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you think that this is somehow racist, then you're the problem.

panda123
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not sure the average person would be familiar with the mocking stereotype of African Americans having a great appetite for watermelons; I hadn't heard of this until clicking the link to the wikipedia article in lenka's comment. Maybe these parents didn't mean anything racist by it, they just thought the decorations were generic kids eating fruit.

RandomBeing
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Since we're on a bad parenting thread this comment section reminds me of one of the mistakes parents (and others) can make. That's punishing them for not knowing things. It's not bad to educate others but the results will always be better if you approach it respectfully with children and with our peers. That's just what I always have found to be most effective.

WoodenLion
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

see nothing wrong with it - wouldn't bother me if i had a statue of me eating a cracker.

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This is racist because back in days of slavery, people thought that black people were so simple-minded that they would stop screaming and crying and view white people as the oppressive if they just gave slaves chicken and watermelon.

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NeonDisco
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I honestly don't see this as anything other than ornaments of kids eating fruit, people who see racism in everything need to calm down. I bet this person would scream racist if the makers only depicted white children.

Petra Christovová
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah, so what? I do not see anything wrong with the black dolls. Or is this another idiotic assumption that everything is racism?

Eslamala
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

AND that the whole world should know U.S history, as well. These people just keep getting dumber!

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Black Karen
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3 years ago

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How priviledged to be so delightfully clueless. What an embarrasing way to say you have no black friends lol.

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janel jones
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm black I know the history of these and other dolls like it. These are racist and belittling. No matter how sentimental your family has found them, they are still are insulting to black people. Has anyone black actually chimed in on this?

Calypso poet
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm white and I know too. My mom purposely buys these and has them displayed. I was fine when it was just watermelon themed because her family grew up on a farm and we always had fresh watermelon growing up. I still serve it like a basket any Pot luck. But when she started adding the these dolls and "mammys" I stopped buying her anything watermelon related.

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Lisa-Marie Dhondt
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is a cute decoration. They are normal looking kids eating watermelon. Your mind may see all sorts of red flags but honey, these ain’t that hill.

NeonDisco
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm with '' Minha Khan'....... If I so much as see a black person in the next KFC ad, shits gonna hit the fan. Sarcasm in reply to her saying black people represented in art as eating watermelon /fried chicken is racial.

tomruns12
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

What is racist about them? Children like watermelon. I ate watermelon the exact same way as a kid.

Manuela Martins
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I didn't know about the watermelon stereotype but after having clicked on the Wikipedia link another member provided, I have to say: Take them off the shelf!

Donna Baker
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't understand. Why everything that is black ha to be racist. Aunt Jemima pancake flour was Discovered by a beautiful black women and yet now whites are racist for using it? Why is everyone so F****d up? Red and yellow black or white they are precious in his sight. Jesus loves us all.

Baali Venomax
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be fair, there is nothing offensive in that particular design of the Gollidoll. I understand why the original was deemed bad but that looks relatively normal. What's wrong with two black skinned kid dolls sitting up guarding your hot sauce and other spices? Some people I think look for reasons to be upset these days.

Black Karen
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This comment section is cancer. I forgive the non-Americans but the rest of you guys have no excuse.

Blackheart
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Some African American people collect items like these to remember, to respect their heritage, and to claim a negative thing in a positive manner.

Raffaele Pulejo
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is a cute vintage decorations, if a little kitsch. It's just as racist as you want it to be.

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Janet Gordon
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We have black dolls on the shelves, my granddaughter has a doll depicting down syndrome. Are we now racist or bigoted in some way by owning these dolls? Every one wants to be included as they should be, but I wonder if white people buying a black doll is seen as racist or inclusive, the same for the down syndrome doll. Seem to be damned either way

Deja Katz
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

These aren’t the worst. At least there’s an attempt to resemble a human being. And yes it is a racist caricature, from the stereotypical ‘watermelon eating picaninny’ trope to be exact. Many Americans who claim to not know what this is or means don’t know their own history or are being deliberately obtuse.

Olivia
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm so sorry, but I don't understand... can someone explain to me? Thx!!!

Jared West
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This is just Boris Johnson's "picaninnies with watermelon smiles" quote.

Jan Smith
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

so if they were white they would be acceptable? aren't we supposed to embracing all skin colours? they are dolls!

Deja Katz
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2 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Looky here Jan and see why this is not acceptable. There is a context that you and many commenters here are choosing to ignore: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Watermelon_stereotype

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Petar Chakarov
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Paint the watermelon to look like half a pizza and problem is solved. Eating pizza is not racist unless if you have pineapple on it. Then it is offensive towards Italians.

Susan Williams
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I work in a thrift shop and have found some great artifacts that depict black children or similar paintings. They are highly collectable. Blacks like them because they can relate to some of the paintings. I like them because they are unique.

Lesley Robinson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think the figurines are necessarily racist. I did what someone suggested and googled about it, Turns out they are collectable and belong to a genre called "Black Americana".

Tammy Ralph
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a big golli doll from when I was very young, I got it for Christmas. It's one of only a few things I have from my childhood and I cherish it.

Marisa Caputo
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have one that someone was going to trash. Somehow it just seems wrong to do that.

Catherine Spencer-Mills
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My grandma had an ashtray (she smoked like a chimney) that had a black woman dressed like GWTW and with one tit caught in a wringer washer. WTF grandma?

Gregg Bender
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Perhaps display them somewhere less prominent? Just because the younger folks don't understand the meaning of these dolls doesn't make them any less harmful to those who do.

Toast Of Saint Louis
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My dad who is black collects these and we are not offended by it. They are priceless, especially the original. We love them and they come with great history. I don't think to put them away is to hide the history behind it and the last thing we need as a people is to shun our history because this is part of our history, no matter how painful and humiliating. Forgetting makes us week, remembering makes us stronger.

Le Box of Shame
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Literally just kids eating watermelon. I don't understand the fuss.

Nikki Owens
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Uh.. it looks like a cute decoration to me. A couple of adorable little kids enjoying some watermelon. Not sure what could possibly be wrong with that.

Brian Bennett
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It depends on what kind of people they are and who they are. When my wife was small she had a black doll, took it every where, even to school in England, bigger kid said she shouldn't have it her being white so he stomped the s**t out of it and she ,4 years old got so mad she stomped the s**t out of the kid!

Baby Panda
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

sorry i don't really understand, what's wrong with these dolls?

Thomas Es Thomas
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It is a cute decoration. Two adorable children eating watermelon.The models look like art you will find in Jamaica or Haiti. Most of the people from that region are descendants of persons from Senegal or Cote d'Ivoire, having a beautiful chocolate colored skin due to thousands of years of Sun exposure. I wonder when they visited the Caribbean and picked these models up. My second question is are they salt and pepper shakers? Lots of people like salt on watermelon.

Karen Clawson
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, if they were white that would be ok? If I were black, I can't have these? Huh?

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3 years ago

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Suzanne Haigh
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why are golli's racist. Why? I had one when I was about 4/5 my parents certainly were not racist, nothing was racist in Lancashire, England at that time, so why was I a racist?

RandomBeing
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The contrast red lips kinda remind me of blackface. Not stating any opinion on these btw just saying thats what they remind me of.

Bbb
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is no mention of the ethnicity of the owner. History will always be a part of everyone's lives. It's how we choose to display items such as these that would make negative. Personally, I would keep these above my restaurant doors. Service industry and tips in the US kinda go hand in hand.

Brownathon Bear
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you posted this question, you are on the internet. If you are on the internet, try using Google for your questions.

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Bei Stenhaug
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think they are cute. Stereotypes aren't racist, necessarily. All I see is two kids eating melon, and I think they are adorable.

Amanda Reicha
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've read the history through the comments. I don't see anything wrong with them other than they are cute. Possibly, anything racist related to them, is only known to those who experienced this and that would be an older generation of people. Holding onto that for so long, after its being forgotten is a little too much. Let it go.

Leo Domitrix
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

We can't. The racism is still killing people today. See: long list of names but most known recently George Floyd.

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Minha Khan
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This is racist because back in days of slavery, people thought that black people were so simple-minded that they would stop screaming and crying and view white people as the oppressive if they just gave slaves chicken and watermelon.

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Woke Up And Saw My Door Removed By My Parents. I Asked Them "Why?" And They Replied With "Privacy Isn't Necessary"

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Little Wonder
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My parents didn't take my door, but they had the same attitude to privacy. They still do.

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John Smith
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have good news for you. You can stop worrying about your son getting a girl pregnant.

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#34

Let Me Just Punish My Kid For Being Depressed Instead Of Trying To Deal With It

Let Me Just Punish My Kid For Being Depressed Instead Of Trying To Deal With It

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#36

Everyone Is Fine Today And No Bad Habits Were Formed

Everyone Is Fine Today And No Bad Habits Were Formed

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#38

My Dad Needs To Stay Off The Internet

My Dad Needs To Stay Off The Internet

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#39

We Know Everything About You

We Know Everything About You

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#40

That Kid Is Like 1

That Kid Is Like 1

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Andrew Gibb
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cement burns and irritates skin- the kid needs to be washed off immediately. Whoever took the photo and/or stood watching this is a nunt

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#41

I Did It

I Did It

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Sasy
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Times were different. Usually the owner of store knew parents smoked etc.

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#43

7yo Gets Bullied At School For Sitting In A Car Seat, So Mom Waits Until He's Asleep, Takes A Photo Of Him, And Posts It On The Official Parents Magazine Instagram Page (855k Followers)

7yo Gets Bullied At School For Sitting In A Car Seat, So Mom Waits Until He's Asleep, Takes A Photo Of Him, And Posts It On The Official Parents Magazine Instagram Page (855k Followers)

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Ryan Deschanel
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this person is actually evil. Maybe she will learn her lesson when she is not invited to his wedding, never meets her grandchildren, and is cremated in the cheapest casket and thrown away in the nearest lake with just a small prayer and two flowers.

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#44

We’re In A Crowded Terminal And This Toddler Wouldn’t Stop Crying And Screaming, So Her Mom Gave Her A Whistle To Play With

We’re In A Crowded Terminal And This Toddler Wouldn’t Stop Crying And Screaming, So Her Mom Gave Her A Whistle To Play With

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TmKhr
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I bet the others enjoy it as much as she does *facepalm*

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#45

Yes, The Problem Is Definitely Not That You Gave A Phone To A 2 Year Old!

Yes, The Problem Is Definitely Not That You Gave A Phone To A 2 Year Old!

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Bumble
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You took away your 2 year old's IPhone? That is beyond cruel! How will he text his friends?

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#46

Ou Mama!

Ou Mama!

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Naima Ivansdóttir
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

omg i was about to comment "what do you know, maybe she's having a bbq with guests and she's in charge for the booze" THEN I SAW IT

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#47

Sad We Have To Create Something So We Don’t Forget Children

Sad We Have To Create Something So We Don’t Forget Children

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Katherine Boag
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you 'never understand' why people make mistakes, you're another reason why people think they could never make a mistake, don't use any kind of failsafe, make a mistake, and have dire consequences.

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#48

My Son Likes To Do Something He Likes And He Deserves It, But Doesn't Need It. What Should I Do?

My Son Likes To Do Something He Likes And He Deserves It, But Doesn't Need It. What Should I Do?

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Blakkur Sverrir
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3 years ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You could teach him the valuable lesson that, no matter how hard he works and how good he follows rules, people with power (you in that case) will never let him see a reward for it, let alone have some time to relax and recharge. That will teach him a lot about life. Or push him to burnout/suicide and stuff.

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#49

Nice Name

Nice Name

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F. H.
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3 years ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't think I would be able to hold myself back and not call my child Cash if my last name was money. I would have to rely on my wife as the voice of reason.

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#50

This Mom Be Like "I Wonder Why My Kids Don't Confide In Me For Anything?"

This Mom Be Like "I Wonder Why My Kids Don't Confide In Me For Anything?"

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