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“Learned The Hard Way To Never Give Her Cash”: Woman Gives Sister An Ultimatum For $40
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“Learned The Hard Way To Never Give Her Cash”: Woman Gives Sister An Ultimatum For $40

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More money, more problems. But a lack of it isn’t exactly peaceful, either. Reddit user Bockbockchickenhead was reminded of this when her older sister found herself struggling.

Recently, the woman was contacted by her sibling, asking for help. However, the Redditor was reluctant to offer the contents of her wallet, knowing her sister’s spending habits. So, she said she’d get her groceries from the Dollar Tree instead. The sister rejected the gesture, insisting she would rather go hungry than accept the “nasty” food it sells.

Unsure of the way she handled the situation, the Redditor asked others on the platform if she was being a jerk to her family.

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    However, this woman’s sister rejected the groceries she offered to buy because they would have come from a store she didn’t like

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    Grocery prices have been on the rise in many places across the United States

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    Grocery price inflation in the United States has come a long way since hitting 13.5% in the summer of 2022, but more and more families find themselves compromising on their diet, as January saw a notable jump of 1.9% compared to the same month last year.

    Prices were up 0.5% from December, the largest month-over-month increase since October 2022.

    Some of the largest price increases are on staples of the traditional American breakfast: bacon prices are up 4.1% from the prior month, instant coffee is up 4.4%, and fresh biscuits, rolls, and muffins are up 1.8%.

    According to David Ortega, a food economics professor at Michigan State University, it’s “worrying” that the rate of increases has started to tick up, but it’s too early to predict what food prices will look like for the remainder of 2025.

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    Few adult siblings fight over money

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    This particular case is a bit of an outlier since research from Ameriprise Financial suggests that only about 15% of adult siblings have financial arguments, and when they do, the reason usually (68 percent of the time) has something to do with their parents, like providing them care or splitting the inheritance.

    Considering that 63 percent of respondents described their asset levels as very different from their siblings, and 57 percent think they approach financial decisions differently as well, that’s pretty impressive.

    Although they have a lot of contrasting viewpoints, brothers and sisters do not let their differences get between them. Hopefully, our Redditor will also find a way to patch things up with hers.

    As her story went viral, the woman provided more context on the situation

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    Most of those who read what happened said the woman did nothing wrong

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    But some thought she could have handled the situation better

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    Not long after, the woman posted an update on the argument she had with her sister

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    KatSaidWhat
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    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone who smokes or drinks asks for food money but won't accept food - don't give it to them. They want the money, not the food. This was a hard lesson for myself and many friends and eventually we just cut that person off. "I need money for food" "I'll order you a pizza" "No, I need the money". Sorry bud, not funding your habit.

    Schnitzel
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't this almost always the case? That they just want the money.

    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Family is family" is BS. Family is sometimes the most toxic people you know.

    Karl
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely. Once I stopped being the ATM for one particular sibling, it’s amazing how their opinion of me changed. F**k those sponging c***s.

    Breadcrumb.
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a sad life. To over weight to leave the house but to poor to buy her own food. Buying her ground beef won't fix her problems.

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    KatSaidWhat
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If someone who smokes or drinks asks for food money but won't accept food - don't give it to them. They want the money, not the food. This was a hard lesson for myself and many friends and eventually we just cut that person off. "I need money for food" "I'll order you a pizza" "No, I need the money". Sorry bud, not funding your habit.

    Schnitzel
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Isn't this almost always the case? That they just want the money.

    Lady Eowyn
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Family is family" is BS. Family is sometimes the most toxic people you know.

    Karl
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Absolutely. Once I stopped being the ATM for one particular sibling, it’s amazing how their opinion of me changed. F**k those sponging c***s.

    Breadcrumb.
    Community Member
    1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    What a sad life. To over weight to leave the house but to poor to buy her own food. Buying her ground beef won't fix her problems.

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