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Does Kindness Make A Difference? Yes, It Does
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Not that long ago, everyone was talking about random acts of kindness, which became a sort of trend, unfortunately – blaring into the spotlight and then just fading away. Like most of our fads, when we don’t hear (endlessly) about them anymore, we think that they’re over, and in the case of kindness, it’s no longer worth worrying about (except on National Random Act of Kindness Day, which is apparently on February 17, or World Kindness Day on November 13).
But kindness is timeless, not limited to a day or a movement, and the beautiful thing about it is that it is so easily done, often at no or little monetary cost to the person being kind. Kindness is something anyone can do – you don’t have to be rich or famous or powerful, and indeed, the more ordinary we are, the more we appreciate kindness as the inestimable treasure that it is.
I painted Afternoon Tea Party as a celebration of goodness, simplicity, and kindness – if you have a child in your life, you know they come up to you at inopportune moments, with requests that take up the time we all find so limited. “A tea party? With water and crackers? And we’re being joined by a pink bear?”
Why not? It is an act of kindness to not only take the time, but to do so graciously, humbling ourselves as we enter the world of the child to discover what they see, respecting their personhood in the process. As we slow down our hectic pace, and truly listen to the requests made to us throughout the day, we’ll find that being kind has the potential to become a natural way of acting. It is a personality element well worth nurturing.
More info: 2-steve-henderson.pixels.com
Afternoon Tea Party by Steve Henderson
Not that long ago, everyone was talking about random acts of kindness, which became a sort of trend, unfortunately – blaring into the spotlight and then just fading away. Like most of our fads, when we don’t hear (endlessly) about them anymore, we think that they’re over, and in the case of kindness, it’s no longer worth worrying about (except on National Random Act of Kindness Day, which is apparently on February 17, or World Kindness Day on November 13).
But kindness is timeless, not limited to a day or a movement, and the beautiful thing about it is that it is so easily done, often at no or little monetary cost to the person being kind. Kindness is something anyone can do – you don’t have to be rich or famous or powerful, and indeed, the more ordinary we are, the more we appreciate kindness as the inestimable treasure that it is.
I painted Afternoon Tea Party as a celebration of goodness, simplicity, and kindness – if you have a child in your life, you know they come up to you at inopportune moments, with requests that take up the time we all find so limited. “A tea party? With water and crackers? And we’re being joined by a pink bear?”
Why not? It is an act of kindness to not only take the time, but to do so graciously, humbling ourselves as we enter the world of the child to discover what they see, respecting their personhood in the process. As we slow down our hectic pace, and truly listen to the requests made to us throughout the day, we’ll find that being kind has the potential to become a natural way of acting. It is a personality element well worth nurturing.
More info: 2-steve-henderson.pixels.com
Afternoon Tea Party by Steve Henderson
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Dorothy Berry-Lound 5 years ago
It's a lovely image Stevie and I agree, the world would be a better place if kindness was commonplace rather than a random, sometimes prompted act. The most precious thing we have that we can give people is our time.
Steve Henderson (Post author) 5 years ago
Thank you for your kind words on Afternoon Tea Party, Dorothy. I agree with you -- time is precious indeed. We all know it is, because we're acutely aware we never have enough -- and yet when it comes to giving our time to someone, we see it of little value. Always, always, we look at money as the item of value.
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Savonnah Henderson 5 years ago
One of my favorite paintings! I love the joy and happiness that you bring out in your pieces.
Steve Henderson (Post author) 5 years ago
Thank you, Savonnah, for your kind comments. I very much enjoy painting work that gives a feeling of joy, happiness, peace, thoughtfulness, and wonder.
Load More Replies... Dorothy Berry-Lound 5 years ago
It's a lovely image Stevie and I agree, the world would be a better place if kindness was commonplace rather than a random, sometimes prompted act. The most precious thing we have that we can give people is our time.
Steve Henderson (Post author) 5 years ago
Thank you for your kind words on Afternoon Tea Party, Dorothy. I agree with you -- time is precious indeed. We all know it is, because we're acutely aware we never have enough -- and yet when it comes to giving our time to someone, we see it of little value. Always, always, we look at money as the item of value.
Load More Replies... Savonnah Henderson 5 years ago
One of my favorite paintings! I love the joy and happiness that you bring out in your pieces.
Steve Henderson (Post author) 5 years ago
Thank you, Savonnah, for your kind comments. I very much enjoy painting work that gives a feeling of joy, happiness, peace, thoughtfulness, and wonder.
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