The sustainability movement is urging a lot of us to change our everyday habits. Many are starting to adjust their diets to eat less meat, swapping disposable cups and bottles with reusable ones, and choosing to bike to work.
A lot of people are also choosing not to give money to fast fashion brands. Instead, they are flocking to second-hand stores and apps to get their pre-loved fits.
The problem is that apps can be tricky. You never know what kind of people are selling the items and how honest they are about the clothes they are selling. They also sometimes might surprise you with their hygiene habits. At least that is the impression you get when you read through the DM Drama Instagram page, which shares screenshots of DMs from buying and selling apps. Scroll down to read the funniest conversations that have occurred there.
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If you also wish to jump on apps to get your sustainable deals or give new life to your discarded items, there are a few things you have to know. Most importantly, not all apps and buying and selling services are created equally.
Take eBay, for example. It is a trusted and well-rated platform to browse for any pre-loved items, including clothes. However, it is also saturated with a ton of other things. On there, you’ll find a bunch of people uploading stuff constantly. This means that if you’re a seller, it might be difficult for your things to get noticed there.
If you’re a buyer, however, the selection offered by eBay can be beneficial. It means that there’s more of a chance to find the exact piece you are looking for. At the same time, browsing there might be too overwhelming and you might need to spend a lot of time hunting down the desired garments.
That is why apps such as Vinted or Depop are a much better choice for the beginner second-hand shopper and seller. Both apps are designed specifically for selling clothes, so the layouts are easy to navigate on both ends. You can filter things by size, color, brand, and price, which makes it very easy to find something that fits you. They also allow you to list various other items on the platform such as furniture and books, but they’re not the main focus.
Apps like Depop also do not discriminate against any type of clothing. There, you can upload and find fast fashion gems as well as more unique items. They also do not have strict standards regarding pictures. You can use whatever snaps you took with your phone as long as they correctly represent the quality of what you’re selling.
I saw a girl wearing a sweater that said Guess, so I said "not natural?".
Three times on holiday locals have assumed I’m pregnant and insisted of giving me a seat or carried my tray for me. Always in places where few people speak English and I’m limited to yes, no, please and thank you so I can’t really explain. On the whole it’s quite flattering to be in my 50s/60s and have people think I’m young enough to be pregnant. Edit; I know they’ve thought I was pregnant because they’ve done rocking baby mimes.
Load More Replies...As a comedian once said - never assume a woman is pregnant unless you can see a baby emerging from her.
I made that mistake. Once. Asked a woman when she was due. She wasn't due for anything. My co-workers laughed and laughed in the back.
This is not the case with every app, though. ASOS Marketplace, for example, sells only original and truly vintage items. That is, you either have to have made what you’re selling or list, as they put it, “Y2K and older” pieces. This is great if you’re a buyer who’s looking into this specific niche. However, if you’re a seller, it might be one too many hoops to jump through, if you wish to do this casually.
Hey, at least they’re both on the same page about negative energy and incense!
Then there are also second-hand online stores like StockX that focus on the hottest items on the market only. There, you will find the most coveted pieces that many fashionistas around the globe are longing to get their hands on. They only list authenticated items, so the buyers can feel secure spending quite large sums on apparel. The exclusivity, though, makes it really hard for a seller to get listed there.
No matter which platform you opt for, though, make sure to treat people there with respect. Upload accurate pictures of items without skipping over the possible damage or wear and tear marks. Also, make sure the items you ship are clean and securely packaged.
If you’re a seller who’s in this for the long run, you might also consider elevating the experience by wrapping the items extra nice and using tissue paper. You can even add a note, a business card, or a piece of (safely sealed) candy. Nice gestures like that go a long way.
And for the love of everything that’s holy, be understanding and kind when chatting. Do not berate people simply because they did not agree to the price you’re offering them. Just walk away with your head held high. And if someone does that to you… name and shame them online.
My sister has an Etsy shop-all her feedback is 5 stars, except one. Someone wrote "absolutely perfect, lovely card, beautifully made, great seller" and gave her 4 stars. She asked the buyer what she could have done differently to get 5 stars, and the woman said everything was perfect and couldn't be improved, but she never gave 5 stars for anything because that meant the seller would have nothing to aim for. Some people are just idiots.
My dear bored 🐼 🇬🇧 🐼...would you be so kind to explain the high usage of the word »babe« in these posts? Is it just as common as mate and bro, or do I need more facts to know? 🖖🏽
Yeah, it's just like 'sweety' or 'hun' that women use, even for strangers
Load More Replies...Man these depop folk are crazy, some of these replies are straight up unhinged XD
TIL what “depop” is. I’d thought it was a genre of music until this article forced me to look it up. Are most items there questionable?
Load More Replies...I once offered to sell some stuff for someone which included a pair of (awful) animal print leggings with a bleach stain on the butt, a brand new dressing gown with tags which somehow had used panty liner in the pocket (ugh), wool jackets with so many hairy balls on them they could only be described as "has given its all" and an imitation designer bag which it's illegal to sell on the reputable sites, even if you say it's imitation. There was some good stuff, but too out of date. Then she got cross when I managed to sell 2 things and nothing else shifted.
The German version of Vinted (2nd hand platform) is an absolute cesspool but it's tame compared to this! Or I've been very lucky.
The fact that most of these have the same unusual font and a very similar tone/speaking style indicates that they are faked by the person behind the account.
My dear bored 🐼 🇬🇧 🐼...would you be so kind to explain the high usage of the word »babe« in these posts? Is it just as common as mate and bro, or do I need more facts to know? 🖖🏽
Yeah, it's just like 'sweety' or 'hun' that women use, even for strangers
Load More Replies...Man these depop folk are crazy, some of these replies are straight up unhinged XD
TIL what “depop” is. I’d thought it was a genre of music until this article forced me to look it up. Are most items there questionable?
Load More Replies...I once offered to sell some stuff for someone which included a pair of (awful) animal print leggings with a bleach stain on the butt, a brand new dressing gown with tags which somehow had used panty liner in the pocket (ugh), wool jackets with so many hairy balls on them they could only be described as "has given its all" and an imitation designer bag which it's illegal to sell on the reputable sites, even if you say it's imitation. There was some good stuff, but too out of date. Then she got cross when I managed to sell 2 things and nothing else shifted.
The German version of Vinted (2nd hand platform) is an absolute cesspool but it's tame compared to this! Or I've been very lucky.
The fact that most of these have the same unusual font and a very similar tone/speaking style indicates that they are faked by the person behind the account.