He is most definitely the AH!!! To menstrual-shame and pink-tax his own daughter is forking insane!!! E is right to move out, even his son is telling him.

I can't believe what I just read. He is a huge f*****g asshole.

Wow. Sounds like my ex-husband. It was my fault for being a woman. As well as being pregnant, that was my fault apparently. AND with TWINS! That was my fault too, and my fault for being sick for months, so he couldn't help me apparently. Now he has four teenage daughters and he pays... absolutely f*** all for anything for them. Thankfully they're all with me, 14,000 km from him, and they all think he's a f***assheadhole.

Actually, they can call CPS on you because what you are doing is called psychological and emotional abuse. You are basically punishing your daughter for being a girl. I say that seriously can mess a person up. You are definitely the AH. Sad part about it for you is I think your son realizes it too. I can't see him supporting you on this.

It has to be a fake posting . If not, then I think the girl needs to call childlike or something to that effect . She maybe able to stay with her aunt , which I think would be better for everyone

YTA - a big one too. The world already punishes your daughter enough for being a woman - she will earn less (at least 18%!) than her male counterparts, the world is simply more dangerous for her, she will more than likely be sexually harassed (81% of women) if not assaulted (1 in 5 women), she will have to pay more for her personal hygiene products for no reason whatsoever except pink packaging and cursive writing, not to mention women also spend more in health insurance and healthcare, she is underrepresented in government, and I could go on... all of these are FACT CHECKED btw. So, how about you teach your daughter she deserves equality by splitting chores between her and her brother? But you're probably too far gone so I can just hope your daughter stays with your sister for good.

So what happens if his son doesn't get into college? Would he have to pay back the total extra-curricular fees with slavery?

You are more than an asshole. You are a sexist piece of s**t. You are literally punishing your daughter for being born a women and you are teaching your son to be a sexist and to mistreat women. Disgusting. I hope your daughter never comes back to you. What a monster.

So.. he expects that his son is actually going to be chosen for a professional team? He needs to get real... it's literally 1% out of probably a fair few million college athletes that are chosen and drafted onto professional football teams, otherwise, it's just a F*****G. HOBBY.

Asshole indeed! He sounds like the kind of douchebag who is demeaning and possibly creepy to female workers at stores, supports toxic masculinity, and understands nothing about women whatsoever. Shame on him. 😠

YTA, she can't control her need for pads.You're a sexist p***k.

So... she's essentially an unpaid maid who takes care of picking up after her father and brother, and then is threatened with retaliation when she expresses an opinion? His brother and sister aren't "coddling" her: they're treating her like a human being.

I'm disgusted, he's revolting. Can he please get hit by a bus already!

I'm going to assume his wife who passed away was basically the house slave and sees women as the help only so he is using his daughter as the help now. Pretty awful. What a misogynistic s**t bag.

...CPS should rethink this guy being allowed to be a parent.

The daughter has to do chores to pay her father back for purchasing pads and tampons? Hmm... I bet the dad pays for his sons condoms without blinking an eye.

The dad thinks that dancing won't get her anywhere in life? Quick, nobody tell him about Billy Elliot, the movie about a boy who subverted gender roles and succeeded in life by becoming a ballet dancer. His head might explode.

I would slap this dude to the 17th dimension

This guy is a sexist idiot and I am so glad that my father didn't treat my sister and I differently because of our sex. This guy's daughter is going to end up not wanting anything to do with him and it also seems like his son doesn't like it either.

He basically treats her like his housemaid

Great, now I'm angry. BUYING PADS IS A HOBBY "IN HIS OPINION".

I don't believe this is real. This is just karma farming and starting a flame war. Of course he knows this is sexist and ridiculous, if it were true.

WHY THE HELL WOULD ANYONE ACT LIKE THIS!!! good on her finding a new place to stay, her father is horrible!

I admit freely my first reaction to this dad was colored (and not pink) by my own late father: "Kill that stupid sumbitch!" b/c, yeah, he is .... like a rabid animal has to be put down for the safety of others.

She should just free bleed around the house and dad can pay for that.

You are a poor excuse for a father maybe you should do more chores to cover your own expenses

If you're going to make your children do chores for their basic necessities, don't expect them to take you out for dinner or brunch when they're older.

Your own son told you that you were an asshole, which I'm glad because that means that he isn't picking up on the horrible traits you are instilling on these young adults. I am sad for your wife watching this from beyond. How you survived this long without CPS intervening is beyond me. No I don't expect you to be perfect and I imagine it's been hard being a single dad... but damn. Did you refuse to help your wife when she had her period? I just can't even with you. I'm not angry but I am sad.

His wife died because it was the only way to get away from this weird control-feak.

I am so done with Earth.

Um even if the daughter's extracurricular activities were "just a hobby" (they're not) his son's going to college is not as important as her getting monthly supplies she needs. YTA all the way.

He is definitely a douchebag for doing this.

This is an old story. I'm surprised it's circulating again. He's never gonna see her again when she turns 18

Obvious rage bait is obvious

Good for your son for apparently not taking after you

Thank God the girl has an uncle and aunt to live with. Also: Cleaning and cooking four times a week? Just how much does her dad think a few stupid packs of pads cost???

If you go on AITA and end your post with "I'm not doing anything wrong," then you really just want validation, and you are in the wrong place. (Is it wrong in the context of needing a call to CPS? Probably not given just the facts above, but that doesn't mean he's a good dad, just that there are far too many out there who are SO MUCH worse.) Does his son use deodorant? Also a personal care product, and he might use more of it than his sister because of sports. Why is only she asked to work for some of her basic needs? Also, just... The man needs a brain adjustment. Starting by giving him one, I think his skull is currently filled with rotten cabbage.

Wow... This guy is 100% the a-hole. This is abuse and control.

This should not be real. If it is, this p.o.s. should be jailed. This isn't just bad parenting, it's illegal. In addition to the illegality, it is gruesome and abusive.