Yeah no... The fact that he says that his sons curriculum can get him into college and hers is just a hobby already tells me that he's the type of guy who calls an engineer Hotline and if he hears a woman says "Can I speak to a man please?"

No ones pointing out the awful way that he's teaching his son to treat women as well. Great role model Dad.

1. If you have children, it is your responsibility to give them all the supplies they need (including pads for girls). 3. Your kids don't owe you for raising them. 2. Teenagers of both sexes need to learn how to run a household, so both should do chores equally. 4. Sports are not more important than music.

Four meals a week and all the household chores? For, what, a box of tampons and another of pads once every two frickin' months?

Some parents might sit down and ponder a second about the concept of unconditional love.

This just left me speechless and so very angry....

I'd like to punch him in the mouth real hard then make him do chores for a Tylenol. Does he think she gets her period for fun? Just waste dads money? What 1940s time warp did he fall out of?

He doesn’t deserve his daughter. I hope her aunt takes over custody.

You gna present your kids with an itemized bill of all the expenses when they hit 18? What a douche...

I think this kind of people is looking for approval. He is saying people is calling an asshole and sexist, but he insist he is not. And to prove he is not, he is trying to find someone who thinks like him.

are you gonna make ur son pay for toilet paper?

He's not a dad. And didn't deserve that gift.

Jesus, what an A-hole!

Jeez. What's next? "You wanna sleep?, well you're going to have to pay for that bed!" It's a basic necessity. Don't buy them? Have fun having your couch cleaned every month. Side note: this actually happened to me - one of my daughter's friend started her period while sitting on our couch. She was upset/embarrassed, we were supportive/kind, but we definitely had to do some deep cleaning.

what a piece of work the Dad is! Firstly he chose to have kids with his wife therefore he has to provide for them til they are grown. Having a period is something any sane person knows can’t be helped & using it as a punishment on his daughter is borderline abuse. So she’s to bleed for about a week because she didn’t sweep the floor. Both Dad & son are just as able bodied & live there too so yeah pitch in. Reminds me of my office, they made the junior who was always a young girl make the teas & coffees but the other junior was a male & never asked because “he was a guy.”

It saddens and sickens me that people like this exist. Because now he is breeding and teaching his kid's to be this way. Which will only carry on to the next generation and so forth and so on. It's just sad that people teach their kid's to be this way and they instinctively behave the same way. It's a vicious cycle that never stops.

He essentially said, "I treat my son like a god and my daughter like a little bitch, but that doesn't make me sexist and I did nothing wrong!" Dude's delusional and he's not doing either one of those kids any favors. Son is missing learning opportunities and daughter is being oppressed. What a mess.

Unless that son is extraordinarily exceptional in his sports, they aren't going to help him get into college. Unrealistic dream for many athelete wanna-bes. Out of all the high school atheletes I knew, only one guy even made it to a college team. Dad's an AH anyway.

What a POS

His wife must be spinning in her grave.

Since when do parents expect their children to pay them back for stuff like this? What an asshole.

*me using my big brain* both children cost money, you making your daughter do chores but your son isn't doing chores why does it seem the father thinks that girls should all the work but boys are meant to relax also you paying for the pads doesn't count as payment to me...

Your sister is right, dude. You're an abusive a$$hole.

"Not doing anything wrong"?!??!

I'd say fine, don't pay for them, then bleed on his f'in couch. And bed. And anything else I could sit on. One day I'd pick his laundry. Hell, I'd use his socks as pads.

YTA in every possible way! How can a grown man be so God awful 🤮

Disclaimer. I just saw the thumbnail and heading on the main page, and went striaght for the comments section. Don;t think i even need to see or read anything further. What a F*bag full of a festering bullshit this SOB is.

50! Has this guy time travelled from the 18th century? I'm 51! What a twat!

He doesn’t know what an asshole is. He’s something much worse.

yes, definitely the a-hole. but, i have some questions: she cleans shared living spaces; why doesn't everyone clean after themselves? re monthly supplies, does the son not use deodorant, toilet paper, soap as those are 'monthly supplies' as well? since it seems dad provides for all of son's needs, are condoms included? if so, that is also a 'personal' supply. and, it is good to know that the son also thinks his dad is being an a-hole, not that it would change his behavior. as for being abusive-not really. but, most definitely sexist. if i were the kids i would conspire w/each other to take care of their own things and let dad deal with his own stuff. sounds like dad just wants to be taken care of as he was before his wife passed and the daughter is just convenient.

Considering it's female children who take care of aging parents -- she will remember this and not be around. Son will marry — he will not help you. Karma has pay back for good and bad behavior. When you are alone staring out a window in a hospital or old folks home, they will not hate you — they won’t even think about you. You don't deserve children, especially females.

YTA, congratulations. I not sure why everyone is mad and yelling at you! Good for you for teaching your daughter hard work ethics, sense of her worth, and responsibilities. You also are teaching her a valuable lesson about trust and accountability. She will grow up knowing that because of you she will be strong, independent. I appreciate the message you instilled on her that she will NEVER DATE A man like like you. She will have compassion, and be blessed because she probably been dealing with your emotional abuse for years. Thank you for allowing her to have the strength to leave and will probably never come back. I am elated that you given her a voice to testify in the CPS case that is/was/will be filed on you. I call that extreme parenting. You have shown her what not to want and she will better without you! Thanks daddy!

I would have left a long time ago, yeah life isnt fair thats life u on the other hand are a true asshole, so if u marry again are u going to have ur new wife do nasty sex acts on u to pay for her pads or makeup? Uwho died and said u were GOD geesh u are a f@#$%ing moron.

thats horrible, bad parenting .............

Uh she needs monthly supplies for the monthly cycle...

No no no no and no this is unacceptable

d1ck head

UN. BELIEVE. ABLE. TA is stuck in the 50's, and he wasn't even alive then.

Is it completely lost on this guy that HIS SPERM is responsible for the child being a female, thus needing pads in the first place? So basically it's his fault she needs them.