Nonononono... I can't get into what I would do to the sick lowlife abusers.

WRONG for decades! Inexcusable in ALL regards!

Oh geez, "hands on me" is a euphemism. At first I thought it was a little intense if a hug or pat on the back would be a game-changer. But, yeah, that makes sense.

On religion too.

On the other hand beware of those with no beliefs at all. A woman who was interested in a romance with me cared about no issues and said her outlook was "All the news I need is in the weather report". (From the Paul Simon song.) There was no romance.

Being anti-science would be a deal breaker for me

My mom's a staunch liberal progressive agnostic who married my somewhat conservative, very Christian father. They both agree that the other one was the one who got away. I do think that in a lot of cases, love knows no boundaries. I can never say never, but it's highly unlikely for me, personally.

Amen!

If they vote Republican, it's a no-go for me. Some of my favorite people are Republicans, including my father and my son. We just avoid politics unless it's a family reunion, don't ask me why it's okay then, because I don't know.

Trump supporting is fine with me to be honest.

All idiots.

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Then then are those who think socialism is a good idea too.

Or a Harry, Dennis, Mike...

being a headless roach, a flat earther is actually my kind of people

That ! It drive me insane

The cat tho'... as if the reason of cat owner's existence was any other than to make cats feel superior.

100%. This needs to be a mutual agreement. If you're with someone who wants children, but you don't, then, sorry, but the relationship will not work out. You can have everything else in common and be madly attracted to each other, but the decision to have children is HUGE. I cannot emphasize this enough. This is not something that can be negotiated. In the end, one of you will end up resenting the other person over this issue no matter what. There cannot be a debate over this.

Of all the things I've lost, I miss my mind the most.

This is not a deal breaker for me. Maybe a deal breaker for someone about me.

Why do people actually do that. They act terribly then try to excuse therir behaviour bysaying, oh sorry I'm abit loud and fiesty because my starsign is Leo. OK Well I am a bull, should I come charging at you and put you flat on ya a*s with my head... idiots

As a Brit, I'm keeping my mouth closed on this one.

Yeah no, this is terrifying

You may be a dramaticalistiser.

You should always offer to go at the minimum 50/50. I consider you rude if you don't offer.

Smoking cigarettes is a major turn-off for me. My parents smoked too much and I cannot stand the smell.

Hey! This is coat-ism against calicos here! ::points at photo:: We ALL know it's torties that have a bad tortitude, not calicos!

Yes! At the end of the day, the most important things to me are my name and my word. My actions are my word and keeping my word is my name. The most important thing I have, really.

Yep stay away from someone who is always the victim with big stories of how every single ex hurt them. Especially when they claim they cant trust you going out with friends or even just dressing up and wearing make up to work because they have been hurt and cheated on before.

Big fat NOPE.

Irony: I started seeing a guy in early March 2020, just as a “physical” relationship. We had each ended our relationship with our exes some months prior, each of us had been burned by them so-to-say. So we continuously talked shït about them…. normally this would be a turn-off for me had I been “hoping” for something more than physical with this guy. But over time, the physical relationship became something much more, especially after Covid lockdown took effect. It took a few months before we gradually stopped talking about our exes altogether and were falling in love with each other. It was unexpected and dare I say, organic? Because we got together with ZERO expectations except for sex. Fast forward: we’re now engaged and getting married in March 2023.

Didn't know this was a thing. I don't like the fix you people. If you don't like me now, you won't like me in two years. The opposite may be true though.

I learned how to ride a motorcycle because of my second petty reason. First reason was to save a lot of valuable time, second reason was because I couldn't handle anymore conversation with this gal. She would reserve seat and sit next to me everyday, which was unavoidable because we relied on one bus at the same time everyday. But for the life of me, I couldn't find anything that 'click', she had no passion and interest in anything. The journey sucked my spirit out of me because regardless of that, she kept trying to connect and I had tried everything to find something mutual that remotely interesting and that didn't work because she didn't have her own opinion and agreed with everything I said. My bad, she's a great person, but I dreaded it daily.

I totally get this person.

Same holds true for divorced / separated or recently widowed. Give them plenty of space...

In addition, consistently failing to put my needs first. Not saying mine should ALWAYS be first, that would be selfish. But if I am always last on your list of priorities, then why are you even with me?

All of those sound like the same thing.

Mentally ill person here. My mental disorder does not excuse any assholish behavior that I exhibit. If you see me being mean, call me out, please! If I'm not trying to be mean, I'll apologize and clarify.