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“She Threatened To Divorce Me”: Husband Demands DNA Test For Newborn, Gets A ‘No’
Being a parent is an exciting and life-changing experience. But let’s be honest—there’s a lot that can stress you out. From sleepless nights to endless diaper changes, parenting comes with its challenges. But what if the stress goes deeper than that?
Take, for instance, the story of a father who refused to sign his newborn’s birth certificate until a DNA test proved his paternity. Years after his wife’s infidelity, doubts resurfaced—this time involving her best friend and a trail of secrets. The result? A whirlwind of emotions, family drama, and broken trust. Keep reading to see how this intense situation unfolded and the lasting impact it had.
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A man revealed that he moved out of his home after suspecting his wife of infidelity and her refusal to take a DNA test
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Being a new parent can be physically and emotionally draining
Becoming a new parent is a rollercoaster of emotions. While it’s one of the most joyous times of your life, it’s also filled with countless challenges that can leave even the most prepared individual feeling overwhelmed. From sleepless nights to new responsibilities, the transition can be tough.
One of the biggest hurdles is the sleep deprivation that comes with a newborn. Babies don’t understand the concept of day and night, and their needs come first. Parents often find themselves running on fumes, trying to juggle late-night feedings, diaper changes, and a baby that just won’t settle down.
Finances can also be a significant source of stress for new parents. Between hospital bills, baby supplies, and taking time off work, the costs of having a child add up quickly. Many parents feel the pressure to provide the best for their baby while also managing household expenses.
Another common struggle is the adjustment to new roles. Whether it’s balancing work and parenting or shifting household responsibilities, couples often face misunderstandings and conflicts. Communication is key, but let’s face it—when you’re both tired, patience wears thin.
Postpartum recovery is another major factor, especially for mothers. Healing from childbirth, dealing with fluctuating hormones, and adjusting to breastfeeding can be physically and emotionally draining. Fathers, too, often struggle to find ways to provide support while navigating their own feelings of inadequacy.
Mental health challenges are also common among new parents. Postpartum depression and anxiety can affect both mothers and fathers, often leaving them feeling isolated and unsure of how to cope. Seeking help early on can make all the difference.
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Trust issues can add an extra layer of stress for new parents
Social dynamics change as well. Friends who don’t have kids may not understand your new priorities, and family members can sometimes overstep boundaries. Striking a balance between keeping your social connections alive and focusing on your growing family isn’t always easy.
While these challenges are expected, trust issues within the relationship can add an entirely different layer of stress. In some rare but deeply impactful cases, doubts about fidelity or paternity can emerge, especially if there’s a history of infidelity. These suspicions can shatter the foundation of a partnership, making it nearly impossible to focus on the joys of parenting.
Building trust and resolving conflicts are critical during this life stage. After all, a strong partnership is the cornerstone of a happy and healthy family. Have you faced any of these challenges as a new parent? What helped you get through them?
Many people believed the author’s wife was being highly unreasonable in this situation and felt he should consider leaving her
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MegDragon 2 days ago
Refusing a DNA test On Principle is for people who have never cheated before. It sucks that he wasn’t there at the hospital, but I think withholding contact from the baby is the only bargaining chip he feels he has. And if a relationship is reduced to strategies…. I’m sorry for him that he intertwined his life with this person.
KatSaidWhat 2 days ago
I'd say that most people who haven't cheated would be willing to take a test and then tell that flying monkey requesting it to pack their s**t up and leave because that shows the ultimate lack of trust.
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Just stopping by 2 days ago (edited)
Wow. I’m going to pass commenting on the obvious, but it’s clear he never really forgave her. Tried to but no. As for her, she should be far more accomodating given her history. What does she think will happen by saying no to the test? That he'll just forget about it?😂🙄
CBolt 2 days ago (edited)
What a train wreck - the full story of Danna, Cynthia, & Gary will probably never be known & this poor child is stuck in the middle. OP needs to get to a divorce attorney ASAP & find one who has a very good reputation when it comes to representing husbands - preferably a woman. Cynthia has already said she's going to divorce him because he's "ruining the marriage." But whether or not the child turns out to be his, it's already over. Because she's said she intends to divorce him, there's no time to waste in getting an attorney because OP's portion of their assets need to be protected from this viper of a woman before she clears out their bank accounts & runs up astronomical credit card bills. He's not getting leverage of any kind over Cynthia by his refusal to see the baby until he's proven to be the father. Why would Cynthia care? It's sort of a moot point anyway since, if she is his, he'll be paying child support for her, & if she's not, as some other posts have said, he could very likely end up paying child support if they live in a state in which a man married to a woman at the time she conceived is considered to be the legal father. (Also, if unmarried couples have been in a relationship for whatever length of time state law requires, & the woman became pregnant during that time, the man may be considered the legal father of the child. So, OP, get to that lawyer now, & find a therapist who can help you work thru this emotion-charged situation which is actually causing you to be physically ill.
Load More Replies... MegDragon 2 days ago
Refusing a DNA test On Principle is for people who have never cheated before. It sucks that he wasn’t there at the hospital, but I think withholding contact from the baby is the only bargaining chip he feels he has. And if a relationship is reduced to strategies…. I’m sorry for him that he intertwined his life with this person.
KatSaidWhat 2 days ago
I'd say that most people who haven't cheated would be willing to take a test and then tell that flying monkey requesting it to pack their s**t up and leave because that shows the ultimate lack of trust.
Load More Replies... Just stopping by 2 days ago (edited)
Wow. I’m going to pass commenting on the obvious, but it’s clear he never really forgave her. Tried to but no. As for her, she should be far more accomodating given her history. What does she think will happen by saying no to the test? That he'll just forget about it?😂🙄
CBolt 2 days ago (edited)
What a train wreck - the full story of Danna, Cynthia, & Gary will probably never be known & this poor child is stuck in the middle. OP needs to get to a divorce attorney ASAP & find one who has a very good reputation when it comes to representing husbands - preferably a woman. Cynthia has already said she's going to divorce him because he's "ruining the marriage." But whether or not the child turns out to be his, it's already over. Because she's said she intends to divorce him, there's no time to waste in getting an attorney because OP's portion of their assets need to be protected from this viper of a woman before she clears out their bank accounts & runs up astronomical credit card bills. He's not getting leverage of any kind over Cynthia by his refusal to see the baby until he's proven to be the father. Why would Cynthia care? It's sort of a moot point anyway since, if she is his, he'll be paying child support for her, & if she's not, as some other posts have said, he could very likely end up paying child support if they live in a state in which a man married to a woman at the time she conceived is considered to be the legal father. (Also, if unmarried couples have been in a relationship for whatever length of time state law requires, & the woman became pregnant during that time, the man may be considered the legal father of the child. So, OP, get to that lawyer now, & find a therapist who can help you work thru this emotion-charged situation which is actually causing you to be physically ill.
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