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Rude Kid On Flight Won’t Stop Kicking Teen’s Seat, Dad Teaches His Parents A Lesson
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Rude Kid On Flight Won’t Stop Kicking Teen’s Seat, Dad Teaches His Parents A Lesson

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Once a glamorous affair, air travel for everyone but the elite is now just a few steps away from hell. You’re treated like cattle, have to submit to TSA officers’ wishes, and then there’s the cramped seating to look forward to. It’s not surprising, then, that air rage is on the rise in the U.S.

For one teen, her flight looked like it was headed for trouble after the kid behind her wouldn’t stop kicking her seat. The kid’s parents weren’t doing anything about it, so the teen’s dad took matters into his own hands.

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    Modern air travel isn’t great, but this unruly kid was determined to make it even worse

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    He wouldn’t stop kicking the seat of the teen in front of him, and his parents were doing nothing to stop him

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    The teen let her dad know, and he politely asked the kid to quit his kicking and behave

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    The kid didn’t stop, so the teen’s dad decided to take revenge by reclining his seat all the way back into the mom’s legroom

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    The kid’s parents tried to kick up a fuss, but the flight attendant sided with the dad, forcing the parents to finally discipline their kid

    OP begins her story by telling the community that, a few years ago, she and her dad were on a night flight from India on a budget airline with very little legroom. Seated behind them was a mom, dad, and their 10-year-old son. About 10 minutes into their flight, the kid started kicking her seat and wouldn’t stop.

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    She let her dad know, and he politely asked the obnoxious kid to stop. The kid stopped for a few seconds but then started again, forcing the teen’s dad to ask the kid to quit it more firmly, but the kicking continued. That’s when the dad had the smart idea of reclining his seat as far back as it would go, straight into the kid’s mother’s lap.

    The parents immediately asked the dad to put his seat back up, even calling the flight attendant over to complain. The flight attendant asked the dad whether he’d like to remain reclined, to which he replied in the affirmative. 

    After the kid’s parents figured out what the issue was, they finally got the kid to stop, but the teen’s dad kept his seat reclined for another hour, just to teach them all a lesson. According to OP, they had to endure glares from the family for the rest of the flight, but that didn’t bother them—revenge had been served.

    In her article for Vox, Aditi Shrikant writes that, according to the International Air Transport Association, from 2007 to 2016, there were 58,000 unruly passenger incidents reported. 

    And while some sources say air rage incidents have increased, according to the Federal Aviation Administration, the prevalence has decreased steadily since 2012 (as of October 1, there have only been 77; in 2012, there were 183).

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    So, what is it about flying that leads to unruly behavior? Well, air travel is stressful even under the most ideal circumstances, and a large part of that comes from having to give up control, which happens long before you even reach the plane seat. 

    Sally Augustin of Design With Science, a company that offers consultations on how to build spaces with positive psychological outcomes, says the whole concept of airplanes is awful from a psychological perspective. 

    “We’re in a tube where we can’t leave and where all sorts of stressful things happen to us, so it’s not surprising with all the mental energy that is diverted to dealing with that stress, we snap at each other,” says Augustin.

    In her article for Psychology Today, Wendy L. Patrick writes that research suggests air rage may be related to physical and situational inequality. 

    Specifically, aboard a plane, antisocial behavior can be triggered by physical design that highlights inequality. Katherine A. DeCelles and Michael I. Norton describe a modern airplane as a “social microcosm of class-based society,” resulting in perceived inequality.

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    Their research discovered that having a first-class cabin increased the incidents of air rage in economy class, and front boarding, which requires walking through the first-class cabin (as opposed to boarding from the middle of the plane), increases the risks of air rage in both economy and first class.

    From what OP tells us in her story, her dad wasn’t exactly on the verge of air rage, but things could probably have gotten worse if the parents involved hadn’t told their kid to settle down and if the flight attendant hadn’t been so accommodating.

    Bored Panda reached out to pilot and blogger Patrick Smith of Ask The Pilot to get his take on air rage.

    Smith had this to say, “Let’s face it, flying has a way of bringing out the worst in people. The lines, the noisy terminals, the delays… it can all be pretty unpleasant and stressful. Given the sheer number of people who fly — two million daily just in the U.S. —  I’m surprised air rage incidents aren’t MORE common.”

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    Smith adds that, as the crowds and lines have grown, there’s also been a demographics shift.
    “A generation or two ago, flying was very expensive, and fewer people could afford it. The experience had a more exclusive and dignified feel.  Today, gangs of college kids and vacationing families swarm onto planes for dirt-cheap fares. Then we have alcohol. This is maybe the most significant factor.  Historically, inebriation is a factor in more than 80 percent of air rage incidents,” says Smith.

    What would you have done if you’d been in OP’s seat? Do you think her dad was justified in taking revenge on the bratty kid and his oblivious parents? Let us know your opinion in the comments!

    In the comments, readers agreed that the dad gets an A+ for revenge and claimed that some people just can’t be reached unless the situation impacts them

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    Hi! Nice to meet you~ I'm very passionate about animals, especially cats, photography, small DIY projects, music and so much more! Could say I am the TV show The Office connoisseur since I have seen it at least a dozen times~

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    Lace Neil
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    2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once had a kid kicking the back of my seat on an easyjet flight. I turned round and told him, "If you don't stop kicking my seat, I'll call over the stewardess and she'll put a parachute on you and throw you off the plane." He believed me. Not a peep from him for the rest of the flight.

    Ace
    Community Member
    2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't quite make sense as revenge, given that a) They had every right to put and keep the seat in the reclined position and b) It would not have any great impact on a 9-y-o's legroom.

    Vinnie
    Community Member
    2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It makes sense if the parents realized that the passenger in front was getting back at them for not telling their boy to stop kicking the seat.

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    Lace Neil
    Community Member
    2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I once had a kid kicking the back of my seat on an easyjet flight. I turned round and told him, "If you don't stop kicking my seat, I'll call over the stewardess and she'll put a parachute on you and throw you off the plane." He believed me. Not a peep from him for the rest of the flight.

    Ace
    Community Member
    2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Doesn't quite make sense as revenge, given that a) They had every right to put and keep the seat in the reclined position and b) It would not have any great impact on a 9-y-o's legroom.

    Vinnie
    Community Member
    2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It makes sense if the parents realized that the passenger in front was getting back at them for not telling their boy to stop kicking the seat.

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