Why do people talk like this online?

So you're a child trying to be tough and make people think your tough when you really fell off your skateboard and scraped your knuckles! Come on kid.

That's something you never recover from💀

You just gotta quit your job at this point, right?

I just threw up a little in my mouth 🤢

What kind of insensitive nosy pig would post this about a complete stranger??

That's just cruel and super sad. :(

Again EWWWWWWW.

Grow up, both of you.

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Oh no im so scared

Oh my ! I was wondering why this was a "bad" one, I didn't realize the bottom was before and the top is now, I thought it was the opposite way around

It's not just $3k or $2k though, it's holiday time at work, it's child care, it's that amount per person, it's all the extra costs on top like insurance, spending money, vaccinations for Thailand etc (including an expensive registry by the sounds of it!) Most people can only have one holiday a year and don't want to spend it at your wedding, especially as you sound insufferable

All those poor people, not being able to keep uo with this person's life. Whatever will they do? Live their own?

Wow, seems like it's a pleasure not to know them.

My best friend of 33yrs had a destination wedding. My wife and I didn't own passports, we had to pay a fortune in the end. The couple to be were very demanding and rude about the whole thing. In the end it cost me more than 6k AUD to attend.

Good grief alive!!! Get married in a church in your hometown with all your family and friends and then got to Thailand or Hawaii for your honeymoon!! Problem solved!!

"Sir or madam, The response may have nothing to do with the locations, the travel expense, or the cost of the gifts. It's because people can't stand you. You would't get 20 RSVP if you held the wedding at a site within a block of every invitee's house. Thank you for marrying each other and creating two miserable people, instead of marrying others and creating four."

"Entitled" would be a very generous term, honey. Where I come from the usual gift is about 50 to 100 €. I realize this varies a lot depending on local customs, how formal/grand the party is, budget, whatever, but to expect dozens (I guess) of people to sacrifice several thousand dollars on the altar of your ego for the dubious benefit of...what? Being allowed to worship you?

Just get married in town and travel for your honeymoon like normal people. And then eat s**t and have a nice life.

3k is a lot, 2k is still too much IMO

Apart from the horrible entitlement: she says she’d do the same for all her guests. If there are 150 people, assuming most of them in a couple (probably not though), could OR would anyone but the richest and most generous people pay 75x $3k for destination celebrations, not even counting gifts, outfits, vacation days? Yeah no. So don’t expect to be the exception.

My best friend is getting married at a cabin in the Alps, the invitation said you can dress however you want (they specifically stated that even a clown's costume or naked is fine 😄), we're spending a weekend there, no cost whatsoever, you just bring your sleeping bag. And they don't want any presents or money just help with decoration etc. I offered to babysit their son so they can have some couple time over the weekend. The itinerary includes swimming, hiking and campfires. Best and most relaxed bride ever ❤️

I sometimes feel like "wedding" is a social virus that infects certain people - kinda like that fungus that zombifies bugs - and turns otherwise sensible people into stark raving lunatics.

I feel sad for people who *need* any kind of wedding (in order to be together) regardless of cost etc.

ELOPE!!!

You want me to pay 2-3k per person minimum and you won't spring for real stationary and a stamp (evite)?

Speaking as someone who only brings home about $2100 a month, I can promise you that I would not choose to attend a wedding that would keep me from getting groceries,meds, or paying any of my other bills. For many of us, $2000 is a LOT of money!

He took the risk, so yes- he is entitled! And it should be, "fewer of you...," not "less of you...,"

It is so idiotic that it seems fake.

My boyfriend's brother is getting married in Turks in Caicos. They didn't even give a year's notice to any one they invited. Most expensive resort on the island. More than half of his side can't afford to go and just stay somewhere cheaper. It's just a big disgusting show of wealth. And the people are the jerks for not going? Yeah, bite me.

its going to be so sad to not know what a major a*****e you are anymore : )

hey, they thought they had better friends too

Please elope. I already unfriended & blocked you & your ridiculous life; you are welcome.

How did this a*s get any friends to invited in the first place?

Whoever the s.o. is… run. Run far away.

Please elope and save us all bunches of money. Did you ask your proposed guests to give you money so you to pay for your honeymoon?

Wonder what happens when they have a kid.

She sounds like as arrogant, snobby, whiny, immature, selfish, demanding witch anyway. I can't imagine anyone who would want a friend like her. Hope she enjoys being alone. Because the longer she acts like this, the more alone she will end up. Oh well. She'll only have herself to blame. Although SHE will always blame everybody else. 🙄

Geez. Begging chooser here.

Ok. Bye then

F**k Destination Weddings.

“Good luck keeping up with our lives then” i dont want to keep up with your life

OP would pay $3k per wedding to go to the weddings of 150 people? if we assume everyone of those people is in a relationship with someone else of the 150 people that's at least 75 weddings, or $225,000 this person claims they are willing to spend to go to other people's weddings.