i agree

Yes. There are double standards in all directions. The world will be a much better place when we all just accept that we are are just slightly different humans but all humans of worth and due respect and kindness.

My husband is 5'6" and was the first short guy I dated. He is more of a man than most men. He does everything to take care of our family. He's a pilot , and was a flight instructor for the Navy, and then as a reservist. He worked two jobs. Also , he's not short in all areas lol

This cannot be upvoted enough

1, i agree. 2, i cant make fun of a guy if hes under 6ft. im 4'9 no matter their height they could stomp on me

Agree. Teenage girls are the worst about it. They treat guys like garbage because they have been spoon fed this "you're a princess you deserve to have the whole world given to you by a 6'3 alpha male on bended knee" crap. It's absolutely toxic and it's absolutely bad parenting.

THANK YOU

I that the point about body image is especially relevant...I blame the media and the companies who profit off all of our insecurities. (I include myself but since I've crossed the 5-0 threshold, I am starting to care A LOT LESS).

agreed... let humans be humans

Amen

Start being more genuine and kind.

Very true. If you don’t like it, deal with it. Everyone has feelings, emotions, and problems with their image. That needs to be respected

It's almost like we are alike. Respect each other, it's so easy to do and a whole less stressful.

Back in my university days I was pretty skinny... Like 5'11" and 145 pounds. People used to always be like "hey man you're really skinny eh?" Like, you don't just go up to people and say "hey you're fat eh?" Some people don't want to be skinny, but they can't help it, so please don't make comments about it

I was going to say, this person isn’t a ‘nice girl’.. 😊

The fact this only got a total of 644 points really proves what kind of people are on the Internet.

I totally agree, although I never said anything negative to my boys, I feel I failed by not telling them this. I don't get why women want tall men, my husband is 5ft 3, I am taller and I love him so much.

Yes sir.

Boys are people. The point of this article is that all people have it in them to be assholes regardless of their sex. I'm glad this article is being written. Prior to this women faced the kind of sexism that said that 'you're so ineffectual that you can't be toxic'

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Absolutely agree. I grew up in a country where toxic masculinity is the norm, but I live by the rules above. It's not hard to change and call out inequality. It goes both ways. When men are treated fairly, women will also be treated fairly. It's simple. It will take years and maybe a generation or two. But it will happen.

I dont think this is a message for just 'girls' though. Cis men are far more guilty of perpetuating these ideas.

There's nothing wrong with this.

true

What even is this garbled mess?

But, this is not the definition of "nice girl", this is actually definition of "mean girl".

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I 100 percent agree!

Those last two lines are the truth!

The fact that a guy can write that is the cherry on top.

so is this an example of someone "good" or someone "toxic" ? I don t get it. because I would agree on that somehow. I mean, sometimes I think ok...maybe guys should taffen up a bit....tehy are in the end the onces with the muscels and able to defend in case of emergency. in a lot of cindigenous peoples the boys must go trough some pain and be able to deal with it to become a man and so on...and there is for sure has its purpose and reason. it s roles, yes, but mabye natural ones. (please don t kill me for this thouht here - I am just thinking, nothing more) but to come back to my quesion (which I ask myself for real, I find it irritating) - so should this be an example for something toxic? because for sure, also boys need emotional support and can have trauma. they are humans as well. so I agree on that.

Woah, wait, so you're telling me that boys are human beings as well??? Excuse me, I have to lie down for a moment

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Not sure this post will go over too well on BP.

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I don't this a girl who acts like this would ever be considered "nice"

I agree with the reply. She deserves so much worse and he deserves so much better.

OOF! 😂😂😂

This kind of messaging is why men think they should try harder, and how you create an unsafe feeling for a lot of woman. Because a man will take away from this that no means yes. And that you have to keep trying, even though the woman made clear that she is not into you. It's a dangerous game to play!

He gotcha there.

The cat has been there before her and judging by her being jealous of a cat, the cat will be there after she's gone

You sure did, dude.. wow.

In her case, cousins are very dangerous.

Or maybe... confront him and talk about it ? Then make a decision ? I understand this is meant as a kind of joke with a twist, but it's not good advice, either way.

WTF does his ethnicity have to do with anything?

Laughter is not good for my tummy pain right now, but that reply was funny as heck.

5396 messages? In one night?!