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“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Bunch of moms staring at highschool boys swimming and comment on how hot they are. Non stop leering. I can't imagine how they would have acted if there were dads looking at girls that way.

flyingduck33 , ShotPot / pexels Report

Final score:

277points

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Rachknits 6 months ago

Revolting

178points

jezr74 , Karolina Grabowska / pexels Report

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men When they say “I have no filter.” - this always translates to me, I’m a cow and arrogant. Everyone has a filter, you’re just an a*sehole.

Final score:

229points

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Emma S 6 months ago

It's up there with 'I'm only being honest' as an excuse to say mean things to people. You're not being honest, you're just being a d**k. Also, I hate when people claim to be 'only joking' when they get called out for their bad behaviour like that makes it OK and the person who is offended is the problem because they didn't find it funny.

133points

PlatasaurusOG , Oleksandr P / pexels Report

Even though we've been describing people as creepy for some time, there was no science to help us understand it—that is, until 2016, when Francis McAndrew and Sara Koehnke of Knox College in Illinois published the first empirical study on the subject, wanting to better understand this difficult concept.

"Creepiness is all about not being able to figure out whether there is a threat,” explained McAndrew, professor of psychology and author of the study.

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men When I was an Uber driver, I’d sometimes get a car full of girls say something like “You’re not gonna k*ll us, are you?”. I started replying with “Nah. When you’re as good at it as I am - you don’t do it for free.”

Final score:

220points

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Lubica Acker 6 months ago

72points

gkirby23 , Aaron Hairston / pexels Report

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men I got approached by a woman at my friend’s birthday party. This woman was mid 50’s and I was 40 at the time. She is married with an adult daughter who was there. She approached me and said I was attractive and I thanked her. She proceeded to continue to hit on me and then commented on my pecs and grabbed them. I took a step back and she saw the disgust in my face. She was offended I didn’t want her touching me. She then got loud and made a scene making me look like the a*****e, all I wanted was to hang out with my friends and not be harassed. Women think they can get away with it because all guys want sex, but when they get denied it’s our fault.

Final score:

218points

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Min 6 months ago

This double standard that some women have, where they feel entitled to treat men in a way they would never accept, is absolutely infuriating.

181points

iamthemosin , Matej Simko / pexels Report

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men I’ve actually heard a couple women say, “If you can’t take me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best.”

Thanks for making the red flag so obvious, much appreciated.

Final score:

213points

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Michael Largey 6 months ago

Seeing you at your worst will often tell people that your best couldn't possibly be worth it.

16points

GreyAndJaded , Tima Miroshnichenko / pexels Report

The research concluded that people 'detect' creepiness when they encounter something unpredictable or outside the norm, like a person acting strangely, having an unusual physical appearance, or over- or under-expressing their emotions.

The most common characteristics of a creepy person as rated by the participants in the study were:

The person stood too close to your friend.
The person was dressed oddly.
The person licked his or her lips frequently.
The person laughed at unpredictable times.
The person steered the conversation towards one topic.

They also indicated certain professions they deemed more offsetting than others. A clown, taxidermist, sex shop owner, and funeral director were rated highest on the creepiness scale. Meanwhile, the meteorologist's occupation evoked the most positive associations.

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men A woman I dated not only said but also had a fridge magnet with the phrase:

"If I'm not happy, no one else will be."

I first thought it was a darkly humorous little trinket.

Dear reader, it really, really wasn't.

Final score:

209points

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Matt Du 6 months ago

My sister-in-law once said "I would rather be poor and everyone have much less than me, than be as rich as everyone else".

61points

malsomnus , Castorly Stock / pexels Report

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men A girl once tried to seduce me with the immortal words "I'm as smooth down there as a 4-year-old". This was almost 20 years ago and to this day I just can't even.

Final score:

206points

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WindySwede 6 months ago

NOT A GOOD COMPARISON, IN FACT A REALLY BAD ONE! 🙅

173points

MontrealInTexas , Towfiqu barbhuiya / pexels Report

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Some lady I worked with once touched my stomach and asked me when I’m due. If the situation would have been reversed, I would have been fired.

Final score:

197points

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sbj 6 months ago

Once again, one rule for some another rule for others

98points

MarsNirgal , Anete Lusina / pexels Report

#10

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men "I want a gay best friend"

No, I'm not a f*****g accessory.

Final score:

195points

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Nimitz 6 months ago

That being said ladies, I am in the market for a bestie

114points

zeekoes , cottonbro studio / pexels Report

#11

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men "Can I touch your beard" and proceeding to do so without waiting for an answer. Unless you're my wife or one of my kid nieces the answer is no by the way.

Final score:

168points

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80 Van 6 months ago

“May I put my hand on your face and pet you like a domesticated animal?”

128points

Voltusfive2 , RDNE Stock project / pexels Report

#12

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men “You’re well trained” whenever they see me do dishes, vacuum or laundy. Like I‘ve been trained as some manservant or they just expect husbands to be another child.

Final score:

160points

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Auntriarch 6 months ago

Mr Auntriarch says "well I wasn't useless before I met Auntriarch, and I'm not useless now"

63points

GentlemanPirate13 , Wender Junior Souza Vieira / pexels Report

#13

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Here's a tip: Asking a man what he has under his kilt is just as bad as asking a woman if she's wearing anything under her skirt. Even worse are the women who feel entitled to *check*. Hasn't happened to me, thankfully, but fellow kilt wearers have had pretty bad encounters before.

pizzacatstattoost:

Women asking me "ohh what's under your kilt?" to which I reply "my wifey's best friend" or "a perch for 8 golden eagles". it usually ends there.

honestly tho its mostly dudes who ask to which i say: "why is it always men who wanna know" and it usually ends there.

Final score:

154points

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Kirsten Kerkhof 6 months ago

There is a good reason why many Highland Games have a 'no selfie-sticks' rule these days. I have been connected with the pipeband world since 1990, and it's disturbing just how many people think it's hilarious (har har ...) to find out what is worn under the kilt. And if it's a gaggle of women in their 40s with too many cavas in them, the 17-20-year-old guys are basically fair game. It's absolutely disgusting.

89points

JackDaBoneMan , Katerina Holmes / pexels Report

#14

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men This is kinda specific to me and those in my situation, but I share the last name of a famous serial killer (VERY distantly related). some women get waaaaay to excited when they find out. The amount of true crime fans who ask me on a date/said yes when I asked because of that has meant I literally have taken it off facebook and don't tell people at first. Even a few months in Ive gotten 'haha lol I only dated you cause it would be wild to be Mrs serial killer'. Its creepy, it makes me feel worthless and yes, I know EVERY DETAIL of what he did, because of course I do everyone sends me the link anytime there is a new doco out. Please don't add my last name to your FB just cause we are dating. No I wont f**k you while we watch a doco on him. Special shout out to women in psych 101.

Final score:

151points

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WindySwede 6 months ago

😶

61points

ThingCalledLight , v RDNE Stock project / pexels Report

#15

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men I don’t know about “women” but I had a female manager interviewing me for a job telling me they were PRO sexual harassment at the workplace, wink wink, nudge nudge. I was…22? She was 50, easily.

That f*****g sucked.

Final score:

144points

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Milady Blue 6 months ago

"Thanks for the warning, grandma. Give me back my resume, and please lose my contact information - NOW!"

89points

CorgiDaddy42 , Monstera Production / pexels Report

#16

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men I’m bald, and was the only man who worked a front facing position at a local clinic in a town with an aging population. The older/elderly women constantly wanted to rub my head, or be very inappropriate in general when speaking to me. The women in the office laughed about it until I pointed out how I would always step in and cover for them or drive off the creepy guys for them, and this was no different. Don’t get me wrong, the creepy men said and did far worse things to those women than the old women ever did/said to me, but they still made me uncomfortable. Last year or so I was there they started helping me hide from the worst of the harassment. That was nice.

Final score:

140points

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LB 6 months ago

This is a cool example where people were educated :)

112points

Herr_Katze_Vato , Brett Sayles / pexels Report

#17

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Me and a date making out in a dark parking lot at night. Girl - starts laughing Me - what's funny? Girl - It's just that, if I were to call the police and tell them you sexually assaulted me right now, there's not much you can do to prove you're innocent. I'm a cute, white, tiny German girl, and you are a big, mean looking, medium dark skinned American man. You'd be screwed. Me - huh, yeah... Guess you're right.

Final score:

140points

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Giraffy Window 6 months ago

Oh s**t. That's horrific. I hope you don't know her anymore.

158points

4th_chakra , RDNE Stock project / pexels Report

#18

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Using the word "Daddy", or "Baby".

I get that some people like it, but man.. not everyone does.

Final score:

132points

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Libstak 6 months ago

I can't comprehend someone using the term daddy romantically, it's just GROSS

174points

#19

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Bragging about how proficient they are at stalking people on social media. It’s creepy af.

anon , Pixabay / pexels Report

Final score:

131points

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Diolla 6 months ago

WHAT

33points

FallenRadish , Polina Zimmerman / pexels Report

#20

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Anything done in baby talk.

Final score:

131points

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Jesse 6 months ago

Except talking to cats.

114points

mrtzjam , Andrea Piacquadio / pexels Report

#21

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men When they proudly say they are crazy and want a guy who can handle that.

Yeah, there is nothing okay about being proud of that and they should seriously consider getting help if they legitimately think they are unstable. There is too much liability being affiliated with a woman like this.

Final score:

128points

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Penny Fan 6 months ago

I am officially crazy (diagnosed, documented, medicated) and I go out of my way to try and ensure it doesn't spill over into other peoples lives. I'm not always successful, but it's not a f*****g happy little personality quirk.

118points

FuckYoCouch2023 , Tima Miroshnichenko / pexels Report

#22

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men "Can you still get it up" like f**k you! This is the equivalent of a man asking a woman if she is tight or still gets wet.

Final score:

118points

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Blue Bunny of Happiness 6 months ago

What the heck?!

42points

#23

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Talking about how a young or infant boy is gonna be sexy or a ladies man. Like you seriously sound like a creep and I’m being polite by using creep. Once while waiting tables, another server wrapped her arms around my neck, stared into my eyes, and said, “is it bad that I want to f**k someone besides my boyfriend?” Like what in every hell.

Ksammy33 , Anna Shvets / pexels Report

Final score:

117points

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Milady Blue 6 months ago

Best comeback I heard from a four year old boy when asked if he was going to be a ladykiller when he grew up - "Nope, I'm gonna be a MAN!"

107points

Dutch Swimmer Goes Viral For Super Revealing Trunks During 2024 Olympics: “Is This Legal?”

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Thrill-Seeking Diver Jumps Down Extreme Waterslide, Ignoring The Strict Ban For Women

#24

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men “You should smile more” followed by a touch, wink or giggle. Yes females do that s**t too and yes it’s just as creepy.

soiledsanchez , Mwabonje Ringa / pexels Report

Final score:

114points

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Amalie Jaye 6 months ago

“ maybe you should try saying something worth smiling about”

72points

Cyanide_Revolver , Ertuğrul Akcaba / pexels Report

#25

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men I was bartending and there was a hen party who's challenge in their game was to kiss the bartender. I said ok as long as it was on the cheek and turn my head, but she woman grabbed my face and tried to kiss me on the lips.

Had to walk away and tell them I wouldn't be serving them and all they could say was "aww come on don't be frigid, you know you want to"

Final score:

113points

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LB 6 months ago

A lot of these are really disgusting, I don't know why I'm reading all of this.

108points

Agreeable_Station451 , Jeremy Wong / pexels Report

#26

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Happy wife, happy life. No b***h it’s not only about you.

Final score:

110points

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Anonymouse 6 months ago

happy spouse, happy house! It does go both ways!

141points

PermaBanTogether , Ralph Rabago / pexels Report

#27

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men My arms are heavily tattooed. Women will often say, “can I see your tattoos?” and then immediately start touching them. I have some pretty obvious self-harm scars on my forearms, so it’s super embarrassing and always makes me really uncomfortable. I know I have my own blame in the situation, but yeah— not a fan.

Final score:

104points

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Rachknits 6 months ago

I'm a little uncomfortable about the word 'blame' although I respect his right to self describe. Self harm isn't really a choice, it's an action when other choices don't exist.

85points

Woman Put A Water Fountain With A Camera In Her Yard, Here Are 24 Photos Of Regular Visitors (New Pics)

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“Ma’am I Live Here”: Woman Refuses To Back Out Of Driveway, Learns A Lesson The Hard Way

#28

My aunt kissed me on the lips when I was a teenager. I said no. She didn't care I hated it then. I still hate it now.

SGdude90 Report

Final score:

97points

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Auntriarch 6 months ago

No!

57points

#29

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men To "man up" when all you're trying to do is chill.

Ivor_the_1st , Pixabay / pexels Report

Final score:

89points

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troufaki13 6 months ago

Or you show any kind of emotion

55points

Gymteacher88 , Anastasia Shuraeva / pexels Report

#30

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men I worked in an elementary school for many years and the amount of female teachers who openly talk about how "cute" the boys are or how they will be "total heartbreakers" was foul.

Final score:

89points

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LB 6 months ago

Sexualizing children is creepy AF.

85points

OnionDart , cottonbro studio / pexels Report

#31

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men “Don’t throw the condom in the toilet. Don't worry I won’t go fish it out of the trash hahaha.” I get from a plumbing standpoint why you want it in the trash, but once you add the second part…

Final score:

88points

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Corvus 6 months ago

I think many condoms have some sort of spermicide inside, so fishing it out won't do her much good...

43points

50 Of The Most Incredible Shots That Were Submitted To The Comedy Wildlife Photography Awards

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#32

As a boy who looked 19 at the age of 14, the number of women who have casually laughed off hitting on me and turned it into “come see me when you turn 18” (again while I’m 14) is a bit much.

ArgoverseComics Report

Final score:

87points

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Giraffy Window 6 months ago

Remember in blank check when they had that whole grown woman kiss that 10 year old child seductively. Blurgh.

25points

#33

Is it true what they say about Mexican d**k?

Thay we don't give it to ugly bitches? Sure is. Sorry.

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Final score:

85points

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Fabian Bernard 6 months ago

That's a type of duck I've never heard about. Does anyone has info or a duckpic to show me?

58points

Jay Scales 6 months ago

You made me laugh :D

10points

The Original Bruno 6 months ago

Oh, here... I was just posting this: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mexican_duck

5points

Jane Doe 6 months ago

As if duck face pictures weren't bad enough, without THAT image in my head!

3points

Stinky McHairface 3 months ago

People who send duckpics are the worst.

0points

yuri Snyder 6 months ago

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Donna Peluda 6 months ago

Mexican duck after a few tequilas "manitoo quack quak"

5points

Pittsburgh rare 6 months ago

Is that an American myth or something? I've never heard that before

4points

Doofnuts 6 months ago

This made no sense at all.

4points

StrangeOne 6 months ago

I think the top was the girl asking the guy, and the bottom is the guy's response. Both are gross.

0points

Michael Fernandez 6 months ago

Mexicans DO have nice decks; it stems from their artistic sensibilities and appreciation of the importance of sealing the decks.

4points

The Original Bruno 6 months ago

Cancun has lovely docks.

3points

ElfVibratorGlitter 6 months ago

I mean, you've given it to me so I think you do give it to ugly bitches.

4points

JP Purves 6 months ago

Insert several other ethnicities.

1point

The Original Bruno 6 months ago

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mexican_duck

1point

Terasa Hendry 3 months ago

I love my Mexicans d**k

0points

Sandra Lent 6 months ago

LOL, excellent response.

0points

#34

Not something said, but when I worked at a cafe for a bit, the accountant for the cafe pat me on the a*s and called me cutie. None of the owners saw, but customers and co workers saw.

When I talked to the owners, the accountant was told to apologize and instead she said it was meant to be endearing and tbh how quickly it was let slide was 100% disturbing

biggestbad666 Report

Final score:

84points

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ElfVibratorGlitter 6 months ago

Woah, really messed up.

35points

Woman Moves Out Of Parents' Home After They Asked Her To Give Her Space To Brother, They Freak Out

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#35

I've had women in the workplace (I was 21, they were 23-33) very openly speculate about my sex life in front of me or comment about my (visible and clothed, or hypothesized) anatomy. I'm comfortable with my body because it does look good and I'm very nicely endowed, what I'm really not comfortable with is people I'm not f*****g trying to discuss it with me or other people especially while I'm in the room.

That was the first time I was sexually harassed in the workplace. The second time was when I was working at a summer camp. I usually took my hour long break in my on-site dorm room because it was a 3 minute walk, I could sit on my bed and listen to a podcast, get some nicotine in my system, and walk back refreshed. Woman who was my supervisor was randomly showering around noonish (very, very weird for her, I hadn't bumped into her or anyone else there ever before during the day, and she was on the wrong floor for the women's showers). Saw her walking around the corner in a towel and to be polite and let there not be any room for misunderstanding, I covered my eyes completely and averted my head toward the ceiling. As I walked past her she kept telling me to "take a look" and taunting with "I know you want to", and as much as I said "No thanks, I'm good!", she kept pushing the issue and I finally let out a "I'm REALLY, REALLY not interested in looking at you" and made a bee-line back to my room to attempt to enjoy the remaining part of my break. I reported it to her supervisor and his supervisor, and essentially nothing happened but she repeatedly spent that summer and the following summer trying to retaliate against me. I loved that job but never worked there again and never will because they let her stay on payroll.

I've had similar things happen outside the workplace. I'm happily married, I don't watch porn, never have watched porn, I've got a healthy sex drive that I laser focus onto the love of my life. The insistence (often communicated in an angry and accusatory way) that I'm simultaneously, just because I'm a man, some kind of endlessly horny animal (and if I'm not I'm somehow lesser of a man or sexual being) f*****g sucks. I love looking at, loving, and f*****g my sexy wife, it's not that weird.

HeroToTheSquatch Report

Final score:

73points

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Ace 6 months ago

I was open to believe this one right up until "I don't watch porn, never have watched porn".

17points

Woman Refuses To Chip In For Babysitting Because She Doesn’t Even Have Kids, Asks If She’s A Jerk

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#36

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Not that all women are like this, but I’m concerned for the women that talk about the healing powers of crystals bought from Esty.

Nonnative284 , Los Muertos Crew Los Muertos Crew / pexels Report

Final score:

72points

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Surenu 6 months ago

Personally, I believe in the healing power of the humble brick, thrown at any sources of stress you can imagine.

114points

PoeJam , Karolina Grabowska / pexels Report

#37

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men If only I were 20 years younger...

2_alarm_chili:

I got this all the time when I worked food service at a hospital. It was really creepy when it was said in an elevator that was notorious for getting stuck for long periods of time.

Final score:

71points

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Debbie 6 months ago

I only I were 20 years younger, then i'd climb trees, go party all night without being tired for days after and feeling sore when waking up. If only my body was 20 years younger, I'd keep it in better shape and sport more. I actually don't want to BE younger, though won't mind a more fit less aching body!

53points

#38

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men I have large hands ring finger size is 16 and I had a lady tell me once that I had sausage fingers and that she wanted to sit on them.

GSXR-1ooo , Erik Mclean / pexels Report

Final score:

70points

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sbj 6 months ago

She was no lady

98points

Abysskitten , Tima Miroshnichenko / pexels Report

#39

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men Was in a bar. A girl comes up to me and asks if she could feel the size of my penis; I'm pretty tall so I get it a lot.

What confuses me to this day is that it was in front of her boyfriend.

Final score:

68points

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JoyfulZebra 6 months ago

You often get asked about the size of your penis???

65points

"I Didn't Start The Dryer": Karen Gets Taught A Lesson After Throwing Out Neighbor's Wet Clothes

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#40

“Would Never Be Okay If The Roles Were Reversed”: 40 Creepy Things Women Say To Men "I'm on birth control, we don't need to use condoms."

AdLife8436 , cottonbro studio / pexels Report

Final score:

64points

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Corvus 6 months ago

Condoms also protect from STD's (including AIDS), so yeah - they are important, even when on birth control.

98points

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What do you think ?

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K. LNU 6 months ago

What I find ironic is if you were to tell these stories to the women who committed them (i.e., the hens trying to kiss the bartender or the HR lady) but reverse the genders, they would probably be "call the cops!" or "I hope she pressed charges!" The double standards are horrible and need to vanish.

32points

Auntriarch 6 months ago

We're working on it...

11points

Hayhaypaula 6 months ago

I really feel that the world is seeing a rapid increase in all sorts of inappropriate behavior, from people in general, these days. So sorry to anyone, male, female or other, who has been on the receiving end of any abuse! Abuse of privacy, abuse of peace, abuse of personal space, abuse of property (theft, damage, etc.) or any other kind! People are losing their minds!

17points

Emma Makenzie 6 months ago

I was abused by my manager

0points

lvnchrst 6 months ago

I honestly did not know a lot of women are like this. I'm ashamed of them, it is bs & they should be treated like a male would if they were to act like that. It's called respect

9points

Gabriel Sbárbaro 3 weeks ago

I see it happening more and more...

0points

Julie Rennie 3 months ago

Who said 'a lot' of women?

0points

Emma Makenzie 6 months ago

Yh that's true

0points

Kyle S. 6 months ago

There was a video going around a couple of years ago, of a woman casually walking down the sidewalk and grabbing every guys d!ck as she passed. The guys were all too shocked to respond. The comments on the video were all people thinking it was funny or commenting on how pretty the girl was. I was in shock! This was clearly SA and if the genders were reversed, that guy would be in prison for the rest of his life!

6points

Noname 6 months ago

Yes, there is a double-standard for behavior in men and women. It's considered normal if a man has many sex partners, but a woman would be called a whore or s**t and shamed. Actually, "s**t shaming" is something both men and women do to women to humiliate them.

2points

Donald 6 months ago

I have really nice Ginger hair, women over 40 have always loved it even when I was little. The amount of times I've had women play with my hair without asking, let alone the "can I touch it?" as they're already touching it is staggering. Its not the end of the world on my end, but I barely like people I know and love touching me. Its a sure fire way for me to avoid you like the plague forever.

6points

Emma Makenzie 6 months ago

Wow really

0points

Not-a-Clue (she/her) 6 months ago

I couldn't get through the whole list, but scrolled to the comments just to reiterate the point that any gender can be sexually harassed or assaulted, and by any gender. It's no different and should be prosecuted as seriously regardless.

5points

TotallyNOTAFox 6 months ago (edited)

One of the benefits of not being attractive: No unwanted attention! I can do things in peace because nobody pays attention to me 😁

5points

Squiffle Noses 6 months ago

I'm so happy for you!? ... (No one is 'not 'attractive'' because 'attractive' is not a property of matter [*]. Some people are attracted sexually to roller coasters!) *[Except in magnets.]

2points

Adam Hotchin 6 months ago

Maybe you're just not your type.

2points

Noname 6 months ago

Hey--beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so don't discount that you're not actually quite beautiful to someone not looking at you in your mirror.

2points

Doctor Strange 6 months ago

I'm ugly, and I have Still been harrassed.

1point

Doctor Strange 6 months ago

Had a girl develop an obssession on myself and a friend. He lived closer, so she started stalking him. Threatened to accuse him of rape if he didn't sleep with her. I also had another girl decide to grab my @ss, despite my attempts to fend her off (without hurting her), in front of my (at the time) girlfriend, because she liked the character I was dressed as.

3points

Emma Makenzie 6 months ago

Wow that's so generous of you

0points

Bec 6 months ago

Well that was disgusting. I call on all my Panda friends to advocate loudly for themselves and others when they see this kind of behavior.

2points

Alexandra Nara 6 months ago

this was interesting to read, And I took a while to reflect my behaviour,cause I am very openminded about sexuality. But I don't sexualize the bodies of strangers like some kind of meat or posession, and never touch without consent But I stay aware, like everyone should

2points

FreeTheUnicorn 2 months ago

Don't waste time on anyone, of any gender, who would say things like most of the above. The I'm on birth control comment would be weird if a cis guy said it, but it's not offensive. But I do think most of these are made up conversations, told to teens from a friend about a girl you don't know.

1point

Trent 6 months ago

Society in general is getting very self-centered. In my opinion, our capitalist system (America especially) is making us only care about our needs and wants. On top of that, there seems to be a push to counter the misogyny and abuse done by men by "getting even" (in my opinion, I could be wrong). That combined allows people to do whatever they want and just think that it's fine to hurt others.

1point

Asswipe 6 months ago

The amount of touching and ambiguous jokes and quips starting from being very underage many times by women twice your age. It said that no one is as confident as a middle aged man. The same goes for some women too.

1point

Jesha 6 months ago

If I get like this when I hit menopause, please take me out back and shoot me.

1point

Steve Hall 6 months ago

If the double standard ever really ends and we are all equal, we can then punch people in the mouth to shut them up.

1point

John Harrison 6 months ago

You'll probably be in jail by then.

0points

Gabriel Sbárbaro 3 weeks ago

A couple of things thing I don't see mentioned here... One is the generalized hate towards men these days, specially white men... you can see it everywhere in social media and dating apps... And the other is how "glamorized" among women is to be "toxic"... like, they're proud of it and encourage other women to be jealous, to go through their boyfriend's cellphones, to "have them eating out of their hands", to control their finances, to create drama for every little thing, etc... Oh, and the delusions and golddigging is through the roof too... eeevery girl believe "she's a ten" and they want a men who "pays for everything" and, if it doesn't, "he's not a real man"...

0points

Leslie Ramage 3 months ago

It seems inappropriate behavior and comments, including those in this post, are made toward people in a bar setting. Although I do not condone the behavior, alcohol consumption was most likely the main problem. No one should talk to anyone like that, ever!

0points

Leslie Ramage 3 months ago

Many of these inappropriate remarks were in a bar, and although the behavior is not okay, alcohol consumption may have been part of the problem. That being said, no one should talk like that to anyone!

0points

Tracy Vaughan 3 months ago

I had just given birth to my son, 23 yrs ago, and the 2 midwives both said " he will make some woman happy when he grows up!" to say I was disgusted is an understatement

0points

Mariele Scherzinger 4 months ago

This just proves that there are a lot of people out there who are thoughtlessly sexist, both male and female. Obviously, it takes a lot of raising awareness to inacceptable behaviour towards others. Some people learn social skills from their parents, their friends, in school, or whereever. Sexism is obviously something that people need to learn about to avoid it.

0points

Asher Wolfstein 5 months ago

I've ALWAYS been fed up with the double standards women place on men about things like this almost every time. I started noticing it/having it displayed when I was a teenager and the teenage girls had crazy double standards about men and women everything. I didn't buy it then, I don't buy it now, and I'm sick of it. It needs to stop!

0points

Charles Barrows 5 months ago

I knew a guy, who being annoyed at a female, suddenly said in a very loud voice, "I don't care if you are pregnant, I'm not going to marry you!" and walked away.

0points

Lucy Wikeley 6 months ago

My hubby got my hours at a bar when I got pregnant with our second child. Everyone in the pub knew this. But one night he was closing the windows (which even at his 6'2" height he needed to standon a table. While he was there a woman grabbed a handful....she was out with her DAUGHTER and her daughter was shocked. The next day I walked with him to school and passed the same woman who completely blanked us yet she spoke to him every morning. Think the sober up must have had an effect!

0points

Jaguarundi 6 months ago

I'm officially horrified! I'm so sorry for all of these men and young men who were just trying to live their lives and go about their day in peace.I wholly understand how they feel because I feel it everytime that I go out into the population too. I'm a woman.

0points

The Original Bruno 6 months ago

I have encouraged women friends to be outrageously unsubtle when they needed to make sure a guy didn't presume he had been friend-zoned. These are not OK.

0points

Corvus 6 months ago

My high school gf would close the door and whipser "No one will hear your screams for help." She was really shy and sweet... but so creepy too! I think I miss her ;)

0points

Noname 6 months ago

Lol I used to put a rag in my boyfriends mouth when we were at my house and tell him "stfu or my mom will hear us!"

2points

giancarlo chicco 5 months ago

to all the above...wah,wah,wah....find a safe space

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Daggie_style 6 months ago

I agree that these are problematic when they happen often, but not gonna lie, some people would very much enjoy being l attractive to warrant some of this attention. To me it feels a bit like rich people complaining about rich problems.

-2points

Emma Makenzie 6 months ago

What's your opinion

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K. LNU 6 months ago

32points

Auntriarch 6 months ago

We're working on it...

11points

Hayhaypaula 6 months ago

17points

Emma Makenzie 6 months ago

I was abused by my manager

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lvnchrst 6 months ago

I honestly did not know a lot of women are like this. I'm ashamed of them, it is bs & they should be treated like a male would if they were to act like that. It's called respect

9points

Gabriel Sbárbaro 3 weeks ago

I see it happening more and more...

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Julie Rennie 3 months ago

Who said 'a lot' of women?

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Emma Makenzie 6 months ago

Yh that's true

0points

Kyle S. 6 months ago

6points

Noname 6 months ago

2points

Donald 6 months ago

6points

Emma Makenzie 6 months ago

Wow really

0points

Not-a-Clue (she/her) 6 months ago

5points

TotallyNOTAFox 6 months ago (edited)

One of the benefits of not being attractive: No unwanted attention! I can do things in peace because nobody pays attention to me 😁

5points

Squiffle Noses 6 months ago

I'm so happy for you!? ... (No one is 'not 'attractive'' because 'attractive' is not a property of matter [*]. Some people are attracted sexually to roller coasters!) *[Except in magnets.]

2points

Adam Hotchin 6 months ago

Maybe you're just not your type.

2points

Noname 6 months ago

Hey--beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so don't discount that you're not actually quite beautiful to someone not looking at you in your mirror.

2points

Doctor Strange 6 months ago

I'm ugly, and I have Still been harrassed.

1point

Doctor Strange 6 months ago

3points

Emma Makenzie 6 months ago

Wow that's so generous of you

0points

Bec 6 months ago

Well that was disgusting. I call on all my Panda friends to advocate loudly for themselves and others when they see this kind of behavior.

2points

Alexandra Nara 6 months ago

2points

FreeTheUnicorn 2 months ago

1point

Trent 6 months ago

1point

Asswipe 6 months ago

1point

Jesha 6 months ago

If I get like this when I hit menopause, please take me out back and shoot me.

1point

Steve Hall 6 months ago

If the double standard ever really ends and we are all equal, we can then punch people in the mouth to shut them up.

1point

John Harrison 6 months ago

You'll probably be in jail by then.

0points

Gabriel Sbárbaro 3 weeks ago

0points

Leslie Ramage 3 months ago

0points

Leslie Ramage 3 months ago

0points

Tracy Vaughan 3 months ago

I had just given birth to my son, 23 yrs ago, and the 2 midwives both said " he will make some woman happy when he grows up!" to say I was disgusted is an understatement

0points

Mariele Scherzinger 4 months ago

0points

Asher Wolfstein 5 months ago

0points

Charles Barrows 5 months ago

I knew a guy, who being annoyed at a female, suddenly said in a very loud voice, "I don't care if you are pregnant, I'm not going to marry you!" and walked away.

0points

Lucy Wikeley 6 months ago

0points

Jaguarundi 6 months ago

0points

The Original Bruno 6 months ago

I have encouraged women friends to be outrageously unsubtle when they needed to make sure a guy didn't presume he had been friend-zoned. These are not OK.

0points

Corvus 6 months ago

My high school gf would close the door and whipser "No one will hear your screams for help." She was really shy and sweet... but so creepy too! I think I miss her ;)

0points

Noname 6 months ago

Lol I used to put a rag in my boyfriends mouth when we were at my house and tell him "stfu or my mom will hear us!"

2points

giancarlo chicco 5 months ago

to all the above...wah,wah,wah....find a safe space

-1point

Daggie_style 6 months ago

-2points

Emma Makenzie 6 months ago

What's your opinion

-1point