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50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy When they insult you once you reject them.

AlertRelief3922 , Keira Burton Report

Final score:

292points

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darqemm 1 year ago

THIS.

70points

restingbitchface8 , Daniel Xavier Report

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Telling you to smile

Final score:

260points

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Multa Nocte 1 year ago

I smile when I'm amused or when I'm happy, not on command because "it looks nice when women smile."

84points

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Lingering/being flirtatious when a woman is at her job. Shes smiling because she has to, she's talking to you because she has to. Yea, maybe she's into you, but the fact there's no way to really know since she's basically forced to interact with you, it comes off creepy.

Gecko-911 , cottonbro studio Report

Final score:

231points

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Alicat Wombat 1 year ago

That guy’s expression though

66points

GratuitousSadism , MART PRODUCTION Report

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Sit next to you when you're the only two people in a place with many, many seats.

Final score:

208points

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Pittsburgh rare 1 year ago

It annoys the f**k out of me regardless of gender.

65points

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy When I was 19 I was a phone girl at a local pizza place. I would answer the phone and take people’s orders for carry out or delivery. One time this guy called and said he was placing an order for delivery. By the end of the order he changed his mind and said he wanted to order carry out.

The dude shows up and my coworker helps him and he says “you’re not the girl I talked to on the phone. I want to talk to that girl.” I realize he’s talking about me and I ask what’s wrong. He then tells me he thinks I have a really soothing voice and should do ASMR. I was like ok that’s weird but relatively harmless?

The guy gets his food then leaves. We can see him sitting in his car for like 15 minutes. Then he came back in the store with a map and started asking me a bunch of weird questions for directions to somewhere. I said “why can’t you just use google maps? I see you have an iPhone” and point to his phone. Then as I point I see him try to hide the screen. He had the audio recorder pulled up! This weirdo came back in the store with a thinly veiled excuse of asking for directions because he was trying to record my voice!!! It was so creepy. I told him “wait one second” and went to the back and told some coworkers what was going on. A friend of mine who worked in the kitchen, a 6’2 muscle head walked out and was like “IM GREAT WITH DIRECTIONS. MY GIRLFRIEND IS TERRIBLE AT THEM (while gesturing to me). LET ME HELP YOU!” Suddenly the guy didn’t need directions anymore.

So yeah. I’m going to say whatever that was, that was creepy.

Kusakaru , Tima Miroshnichenko Report

Final score:

201points

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Lantana Howell 1 year ago

That is beyond terrifying!

69points

Magazine 1 year ago

The fact that your coworker immediatley got the situation and understood he had to refer to you as his gf is great!

31points

Ansi 1 year ago

Also really sad. How he immediately knew that her being taken by another man was the solution.

5points

Me 1 year ago

Kudos to the friend

28points

Mrs. Ginger McSarcasm 1 year ago (edited)

All women need a coworker like that and an understanding partner that won't get mad at Saud coworker. (If they have a partner, I'm not saying all women need a partner.)

11points

Jay the not okay 1 year ago

is there now a thing like voice fetish?!

8points

Headless Horseman 1 year ago

Ever heard of a phone sex line? Dont google it.

3points

Sally Signup 1 year ago

It's bad that my first thought is sampling your voice to clone in some AI program, but it's more likely he had a fetish or something.

6points

Michelle C 1 year ago

Good for her coworker for helping her, especially when he could have been rude and said “we have work to do” or something…

6points

Jesse 1 year ago

Good thing OP's coworkers didn't laugh it off and believed her

5points

Metalhead Turtle 🇺🇦 1 year ago

That's creepy. I would've made an attempt to get him banned from the store.

2points

featherytoad 1 year ago

I hope someone walked you to your car after your shift.

2points

Panda Bear 1 year ago

You have a good friend

2points

Vera Rios 1 year ago

Definite creepy

2points

Mr.Li 1 year ago

Thats creepy as fu(k. Good you have this muscle head to help you out

1point

SuperChicken 1 year ago

Talk about Major Creeper on the lose! I'm always so happy when male friends/colleagues play the part of being SO to help out.

1point

BetterBitterButter 1 year ago

Suddenly he knew only One Direction ( the way out!)

1point

Rylosalex 8 months ago

I like the "I'M GREAT WITH DIRECTIONS, LET ME HELP YOU." Good thing OP's coworker had her ba k

0points

Crazy Stay 10 months ago

Great coworker

0points

Khall Khall 1 year ago

Trying to use her voice for his phone directions. Waze does that and I'm sure other apps do too. My wife thinks it's fun to let our kids do the voices. It's really annoying. But not nearly as creepy as this.

0points

Apachebathmat 1 year ago

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50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy I’m a guy but a semi-frequent bar patron. Whenever guys ask bartenders what time they get off that they’ve had little to no interaction with is incredibly creepy. Gives off “I’ll be waiting for you in the parking lot” vibes.

Ron_Textall , bus seats Report

Final score:

188points

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Lauren Bridger 1 year ago

As a former bartender this is absolutely correct. Anyone in the service industry that feels uncomfortable walking alone to your car, ask acoworker to walk to your car with you. Trust your instinct.

88points

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Not backing off when a woman indicates in any way whatsoever verbally or physically she isn’t interested, yet they continue or think they can continue to harass you or change your mind

MasterMassClass , Satumbo 9 Report

Final score:

170points

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Leon Mendoza 1 year ago

Under risk of being downvoted to oblivion. This is still a reaction that until very recently the way for a woman to behave was to play hard to get (google it and some sites still has this as a relationship "tactic"). Men both have to learn to respect a "no" and that girls that play hard are not worth the effort of us braking our heads to figure out if is a real disinterest or a messed up behavior.

77points

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Hey where do you work? Oh which one? Yeah there's like six of them.....which one do you work at? No I won't show up at your work lol hahaha hey..... hey.... hey.... did you block me? What did I do wrong?

randomcanadian81 , Mike Jones Report

Final score:

158points

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Caro Caro 1 year ago (edited)

Linnaeusstraat 111, Amsterdam. Why? (Police station)

73points

Callmebynotmyname , cottonbro studio Report

#10

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Flirting with/hitting on women who are at work, commenting on our breasts/a*s, making any type of comment referring to a sexual act to a woman you are not imitate with, and not taking no for an answer

Final score:

151points

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Ample Aardvark 1 year ago

If you want to compliment anyone, of any gender, compliment them on their clothes/shoes/accessories or a fully visible tattoo. Make it as general as poss ("cool shirt, I like this colour!"). DO NOT pull a full inquisition if they're wearing band, movie or gaming merch!

41points

#11

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Touch my waist to move by me. I'll drop kick you. There is no reason for it, and it makes me irate every single time.

GoddessLunaRae , Davi Pimentel Report

Final score:

149points

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Barbara Kayton 1 year ago

Oh I’m sorry did my elbow contact your stomach? I thought you were a creep trying to touch me.

73points

MythicalForestBeing , Sushil Nash Report

#12

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Stand an inch away from you when you're in a line

Final score:

147points

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Tessa Dawn 1 year ago

I hate it when anyone does this, not only creepy when men do it

102points

wikigreenwood82 , Andrea Piacquadio Report

#13

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy I don't like it when men refer to "the wife" like she's "the lawn mower" or "the tv" or something

Final score:

142points

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Donnie Mc00 1 year ago

This grinds my gears too. does she not have a name for gods sake?

41points

#14

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Me: "I'm married." *Shows ring*

Random guy: "I don't believe you. They all say that."

Then it just gets creepy because no matter what you say they just don't believe anything and keep pressing you to leave with them. That hyper aggressiveness is creepy.

Adorable_Cuckquean , Gary Barnes Report

Final score:

139points

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Scar Scar 1 year ago

“I don’t believe you”?? Even if they are lying that means they don’t want anything, leave them alone

74points

#15

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Men looking at women and licking their lips. JFC.. creepy,sleazy creeps.
Edit to add. There's a difference between just licking your lips and the sleazy creepy way some men do it.

Motor-Ad5284 , cottonbro studio Report

Final score:

131points

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User# 6 1 year ago

If you really want to impress her, lick your eyebrows.

169points

#16

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Talk to me (a male) about how much they disrespect women like i'm "in on it"

especially if i've never met the guy

Maddkipz , Jed Villejo Report

Final score:

126points

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Luke Branwen 1 year ago

This is why I find it so hard to interact with men (even though I'm a man myself). All that machistic bravado, sex obsession and treating women like sentient f#ck dolls is genuinely making me nauseous.

69points

#17

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Personally I find it creepy when men insist that only unattractive men can be creepy. Not only do they assume that women only pay attention to hot guys and immediately write off the rest, but also that there's nothing wrong with their own behaviour that being better looking wouldn't fix.

mronion82 , William Fortunato Report

Final score:

121points

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censorshipsucks 1 year ago (edited)

Yep sadly this is true, at least in my experience. I regret to say it. I was a turd. But I got away with stuff and was really successful unlike my unattractive friends. Nowadays however I treat women with more respect than I do fellow men. Because I regret being a turd.

42points

Lenaturnsgreen , David Lago Rodríguez Report

#18

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy I (31, F) was walking up the stairs at a train station carrying a large suitcase the other day. A guy wanted to help and just took my suitcase from me without asking. I had to tell him 3 times I was ok and didn’t need his help. The suitcase wasn’t particularly heavy, just big. Don’t just grab other people’s stuff without asking! I know he just wanted to help but still!

Final score:

120points

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Not-a-Clue (she/her) 1 year ago

It really doesn't take much to just ask "would you like a hand with that?" and accept the person's response if they say "no thanks." That's basic respect.

19points

#19

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Asking if I live alone. Just find this question so creepy intrusive like can’t imagine they asked another male this question.

Josie287 , Nataliya Vaitkevich Report

Final score:

119points

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Jared Robinson 1 year ago

I have never ever ever once in my life been possessed to ask this question. Cause if you aren't a f*****g creeper the answer doesn't matter.

39points

#20

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Flirting with girls in school uniforms

cowboybaebe , 周康 Report

Final score:

115points

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censorshipsucks 1 year ago

44points

#21

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy When men ask, "Where's my hug?"

Roaring_Poodle , Ralph Rabago Report

Final score:

109points

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Michael Largey 1 year ago

"I don't know. Where did you leave it?"

9points

#22

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Ask you out while you are at work or a situation in which you cannot leave.

RestaTheMouse , Brett Sayles Report

Final score:

108points

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Deborah B 1 year ago

If you really think she's into you, write down your number and a quick note "I'd like to get to know you away from your work. Text me or give me a call if that's mutual." Give it to her as you leave, so she doesn't have to deal with you if it's a no.

31points

#23

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Ignoring personal boundaries and invading personal space without consent.

Marena-Cris-18 , LexScope Report

Final score:

106points

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On a whim 1 year ago

I’m not up for anyone disrespecting my boundaries or personal space… I’d probably except friendly invasions from a four legged floof, but certainly no two legged ones!

24points

OutrageousOnions , RDNE Stock project Report

#24

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy So casually steamroll your objections to their attentions. They'll drive you home, it's right around the corner. Nah, don't waste money on the app, he's going that way anyway! Don't worry, he's not *that* kind of guy, he's married!

Etc etc etc, until you hide in the restroom and call a friend or relative to pick you up instead.

Final score:

102points

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Alicat Wombat 1 year ago

Men have literally no freaking idea how vulnerable women feel.

65points

#25

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Tell random women they don’t know to smile.

Scifi_taoist , Guilherme Almeida Report

Final score:

99points

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Carla Campbell 1 year ago

My daughter and her SO were in a checkout line when he told the cashier she should smile more. My daughter was mortified & punched him in the shoulder & told him to shut up.

37points

#26

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy I am a guy and I deliver food but I have a girls name.

Guys are always waiting outside even though it's a contactless delivery and says to leave at door and sometimes they call me before I get there and try to hit on me but you're very disappointed and confused when it's a guy

One guy harassed me one time and I Kept $70 of his food And ate it myself

HoodRat4Life69 , Norma Mortenson Report

Final score:

97points

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StrangeOne 1 year ago

I'm sometimes waiting outside my suite door or walking to the main lobby area to make sure the delivery guy isn't lost or in case he doesn't want to come up to my suite, despite using contactless. To me, contactless delivery is deemed just paying online. I don't want my food placed on the gross hallway floor.

15points

#27

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Let’s see, recently a dude asked me for directions. It was already late? I told him, I don’t know then walked away. He almost followed me home, I had to stop at a store. He was quiet too, I went to grab water. The minute I turned around he was behind me.

purplekween__ , Robert Nagy Report

Final score:

94points

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Jared Robinson 1 year ago

Ladies do not be afraid to call the police or hang out in brightly lit public areas. On behalf of my stupid dumb f**k gender/sex I'd like to apologize that we are not better. We should be better, but we are not. So please protect yourself ladies because the evil men aren't decent enough to take themselves off the f*****g board.

83points

Dutch Swimmer Goes Viral For Super Revealing Trunks During 2024 Olympics: “Is This Legal?”

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Thrill-Seeking Diver Jumps Down Extreme Waterslide, Ignoring The Strict Ban For Women

#28

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Continue trying to get your attention when you are not engaging with them.

soniabegonia , Trinity Kubassek Report

Final score:

89points

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censorshipsucks 1 year ago

This is what this makes me think of. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TXwCvIaVNFc

6points

AlternativeStrain410 , Sami Abdullah Report

#29

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Heres a list of creepy s**t men have done in the last year to me:

Following me around the neighborhood. This has happened several times. Sometimes they will stop and talk to me which leads to the next two points.

Cornering me at my car to “talk” and not letting me leave

Demanding sex from me

Inappropriate comments in general

Staring for too long

Touching in any capacity l unless we are close is bonafide creep behavior.

Showing up at my work to “talk”

Men just be out here creeping on women. Its not “all men” but men tend to excuse it when their friend, brother, cousin, etc out there creeping on women

Final score:

88points

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Jared Robinson 1 year ago

Men need to be stopped. Women are people and this is not an okay way to treat people.

30points

ThaiLassInTheSouth , Airam Dato-on Report

#30

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy As my wife doesn't WFH, she has to be out in the world a lot more. I'll paraphrase what she said recently:

"What the hell's with male Uber drivers and the 'You goin' to your boyfriend's house???' It's such an obvious way to open up whether I might be DTF."

Same goes with when she opens the door for DoorDash. She says there's always fishy types of small talk that weird her out, usually around her schedule and whether they've seen her at [insert shop here]. She doesn't like when some strange dude wants to time/place her. Questions like, "Hey, how's your day?" are all well and good. Friendly. But the personal stuff's gotta go.

As such, I've stopped shushing the dog when she barks at Dashers. I want them to know there's a dog that only needs the word go right behind this pretty little lady who tipped you well, sir.

Final score:

85points

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censorshipsucks 1 year ago (edited)

Interestingly, this doesn't happen across social/demographic boundaries. In my country (SA) a food delivery guy or an uber guy would never dare hit on an upperclass (rich) woman. Because he'd get arrested and charged in seconds. However, unfortunately, if the woman is lower-income (meaning usually black) he will get away with it. In fact we've had MANY cases of black women being kidnapped and raped by uber drivers. Disgusting, but a result of apartheid and our unacceptable levels of patriarchy and GBV.

39points

Woman Put A Water Fountain With A Camera In Her Yard, Here Are 24 Photos Of Regular Visitors (New Pics)

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“Ma’am I Live Here”: Woman Refuses To Back Out Of Driveway, Learns A Lesson The Hard Way

#31

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy As a guy, here's a few I noticed about other guys:

- Men hitting on much younger women
- men who bother women at the gym
- guys who try to give women unwanted massages (mostly shoulder rubs while they are sitting)

JimmyFlipside , Ketut Subiyanto Report

Final score:

83points

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censorshipsucks 1 year ago

unwanted massages are the grossest. I only did this when I was asked to, and when she announced sexual interest I walked away.

30points

#32

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Speaking as a 5'2" (1.57) woman, guys you barely know or even total strangers lifting you up off the ground to hug you

sojuplums , Ketut Subiyanto Report

Final score:

78points

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Jared Robinson 1 year ago

I see it quite often and it's f*****g gross.

22points

#33

"I don't see why you're being so careful. I already would have killed you if I had intended to.

a buddy of a friend who I was meeting said to me because it was his first time visiting a foreign nation.

UnluckyCamebb Report

Final score:

74points

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Alicat Wombat 1 year ago

Men are afraid women will humiliate them. Women are afraid men will murder them.

120points

#34

Telling you unsolicited stories about their sex life.

staying-afloat12 Report

Final score:

72points

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StrangeOne 1 year ago

Who does that?

8points

50 Of The Most Incredible Shots That Were Submitted To The Comedy Wildlife Photography Awards

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French Diver’s “Jewels” In Tight Swimming Trunks Become Talk Of The Town At Olympics

#35

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Mumble something quietly under their breath while you walk by, like, "Wow you're so beautiful." Jesus, if you're going to compliment a stranger could you at least not try to come across as a serial killer?

xain_the_idiot , Airam Dato-on Report

Final score:

69points

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Lawrencium 1 year ago

This here is a comment to hide another comment.

23points

#36

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Stand in the doorway while they hold the door open.

No I will not brush my a*s against you just because you're holding the door open. Gtfo my way

Idkwtfluff , Ron Lach Report

Final score:

69points

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Jared Robinson 1 year ago

Gross, didn't even think about this but yeah I'm sure it happens.

16points

#37

I have a coworker. I had never met him (officially) before we started working at the same place 2 years ago. He gave me a weird Vibe from the get-go, but I just avoided him as much as I could, which was easy cause we dont have the same job at our facility.

After a while he starts talking about 2 brothers that I do know, and how he was friends with 1 of them - pkay fine, a little creepy you *know* I knew them too. Then he asks when I moved from X adress where I lived with my ex?
- I shut that Down, and Straight out said that was a creepy comment that made me uncormftable.

I now avoid him even more at work, but a few months pass and he starts asking how Long I lived at Y adress, and that it was then I was hanging out with ‘specific group of people’. I told him how tf he knew about 2 past adresses and whom my friends were, Since I NEVER met him before?!

Oh, he and that 1 brother sometimes talk about me. I have not spoken to either of those 2 brothers for 5 years.

That s**t is creepy as hell

Bambi_MD Report

Final score:

66points

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Mimi M 1 year ago

31points

Woman Moves Out Of Parents' Home After They Asked Her To Give Her Space To Brother, They Freak Out

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Mom Leaves $250k Inheritance To Son, Throws A Fit When Daughter Stops Looking After Her

#38

Tell you their life story. I had one guy in a liquor store recently that decided to tell me what each of his tattoos meant. When he got to his kids he told me their life stories. I finally saw my excuse to get away and he grabbed my hand and kissed it.

I saw him recently and I said hello but just walked in. I heard him calling me a b***h. I try so hard to be nice, but kissing my hand I can’t take.

kittengoesrawr Report

Final score:

66points

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censorshipsucks 1 year ago

wtaf

24points

#39

Being hit on in the gym, this has happened to me so multiple times and even though I understand some people are just trying to 'shoot their shot', the gym should be a safe space. I come there to workout, sweat it out and go home, not to find the love of my life. I don't want to be hit on and then have the awkwardness of turning someone down to then feel like they're constantly watching me in between my sets and I can't avoid them especially as my gym is not the biggest. So it's a big no to this from me.

Dayanyx Report

Final score:

66points

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censorshipsucks 1 year ago

Just make a women-only gym. We have one in my city. (At least, one that I have seen).

12points

Woman Refuses To Chip In For Babysitting Because She Doesn’t Even Have Kids, Asks If She’s A Jerk

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“This Breaks My Heart”: People Stunned—And Angry—After Woman Buys Lost Luggage From Airport

#40

Being aggressive physically or getting aroused or staring too long at family members or underaged youth. All things have witnessed and don’t know how to respond to these creeps.

ZealousidealDriver63 Report

Final score:

65points

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censorshipsucks 1 year ago

photograph them and tell them you're putting them on reddit under the AITA section.

21points

#41

Park beside you in an empty parking lot

AnyMuscle2045 Report

Final score:

64points

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Lord Mysticlaw 1 year ago

I'm a woman and I park near other cars in an empty parking lot because there's safety in numbers

20points

#42

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Call women they don’t know by terms of endearment

razzledazzle626 , Quark Studio Report

Final score:

63points

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StrangeOne 1 year ago

Don't not call us "lady", "sweetie", "honey", "muffin", "sweetheart", "girlie", "princess", "sexy".

18points

#43

Spending casual time with them and then them immediately thinking you're flirting with them. Not accepting "no" for an answer and then proceeding to stalk afterwards not knowing what they did wrong.

Happened several times, stays creepy and makes me very uncomfortable

M3gaGardevoir Report

Final score:

60points

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and_a_touch_of_the_’tism 1 year ago (edited)

Advice I heard a while ago and think is both hilarious and effective: if someone won’t leave you alone, look them in the eyes, and, as deadpan and serious as you can, say something extremely horrible and specific, ex. “I will flay every inch of skin off of your body and leave you to run around in circles until you die of massive blood loss and shock,” “I will turn your skin inside out, rub you with strychnine and powdered glass, and hang you from a mancheneel tree,” “I will break every single one of your bones and then rearrange them in alphabetical order,” “I will slowly castrate you over the course of several weeks with rusty razor wire.”

30points

#44

Dude here, I've always hated how men who you're unfamiliar with/have 0 connection to outside of being an acquaintance like a coworker just feel comfortable *touching* you. It takes alot to get under my skin, but when my coworker comes and does that weird, shoulder grip massage thing. Another saw me sitting, absent mindedly swinging my free arm and snuck up behind me and ran his finger down my palm, thought he was being funny. Like, who the f**k does that...

Smufin_Awesome Report

Final score:

60points

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censorshipsucks 1 year ago

ewwww

13points

"I Didn't Start The Dryer": Karen Gets Taught A Lesson After Throwing Out Neighbor's Wet Clothes

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#45

50 Things That Men Do That They Think Are Fine When In Reality They're Super Creepy Staring too long. Glance is fine but staring too long just comes off as sus.

Cf79 , Ba Tik Report

Final score:

52points

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Ranger Kanootsen 1 year ago

What's with this picture??

7points

#46

Telling young women to smile more.

sunrises_sunsets Report

Final score:

51points

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Neb Skram 1 year ago

telling ANY women to smile more is a big red flag ur dealing with a creep

22points

Zestyclose_Party_696 Report

#47

Stalk girls that they like

Final score:

49points

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StrangeOne 1 year ago

There's a certain type of men who do this and they are capable and guilty of everything else on this list. I dated a guy who admitted to me he followed me home a few times before he asked me out. This was when I was 13 and it was my first bf. I dumped him within a month of dating.

25points

#48

Try to give a stranger any type of beverage at the club. (Happened to me this weekend.)

Nah guy, just cause we chatted in the bathroom line doesn’t mean I’m gonna accept the weird cup of “water” you got me unsolicited.

ETA: a beverage that they don’t see you get, and that you could have don’t anything to.

more_pepper_plz Report

Final score:

47points

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censorshipsucks 1 year ago

Advice: never drink a drink in a bar unless you saw the bartender open it and he handed it to you directly.

33points

#49

Start a conversation with “are you married ?”

whiteoff44 Report

Final score:

44points

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Mrs. Ginger McSarcasm 1 year ago

Depends on how they react to the answer. In my opinion at least

11points

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PlatinumThe8-BitCat 1 year ago

Is this a joke? Because he is a comedian, then again I also know nothing about his personality and if he’s an actual creep or not

20points

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Sandy Price 1 year ago

When guys say I'm not homophobic I just don't want random guys hitting on me. HELLO? How the fuq u think women feel all the time?

17points

Mermeow Overlord (they/them) 1 year ago

Stephen, what rights are you being denied for being heterosexual?

3points

Binky Melnik 1 year ago

Those guys make me laugh. I always hafta bite my tongue so I don’t say “Sweetie, you’re not hot.” (And sometimes, “You don’t EVER hafta worry about anyone hitting in you!”)

2points

Stephen Harvey 1 year ago

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Harley 1 year ago (edited)

I may get downvoted for this but I couldn’t get past the first few entries. It may be just me but this post makes it seem like every guy is out to get you.

14points

Alex 1 year ago

I think it was just pointing out bad stuff in particular, it doesn't mean that every man is a bad person

21points

Vul Va 1 year ago

Harley, we know it's not *every* guy, it's *any* guy. Wish people would learn the difference...

16points

Nikki Sevven 1 year ago

The percentage is high enough to worry about, and there's no way to tell the difference between a normal man and a creep. I'm 58, and every single woman I know has experienced sexual harassment and/or assault. (This is not to say that all women are angels either. Some women are truly toxic psychos too, but men generally don't have to worry about being murdered by them. Meanwhile, the single largest cause of death for pregnant women in the US is murder, so...)

14points

Chucky Cheezburger 1 year ago

I think women know that not all guys are out to do harm, its that there's no stamp on our foreheads that say good or bad.

11points

On a whim 1 year ago

To be fair a lot of these I found as unacceptable behaviours from males and females. Some of the entries were slightly more prevalent as ’male’ bad behaviours- but some I have witnessed females doing in toxic ‘friendships’. For the stories shared, no one should have to put up with such poor levels of disrespect, bullying and creepiness. Sorry you have dealt with that.

9points

Princess Mar-li Cathryn 1 year ago

Unfortunately we don't know who's who. The bad ones don't wear signs.

6points

Binky Melnik 1 year ago

This is a POST about those guys who are OUT TO GET US. It’s not a post about men in general. If you don’t like the subject matter, feel free to skip it.

5points

Leo Domitrix 1 year ago

Nah, not every guy. Just creepy ones. We're able to tell who they are. In some nations, the idea that the worst you put up with is "unwanted touch on the waist" would be heaven, unfortunately.

0points

Randy Sanders 1 year ago

Every one of the above! What ever happened to being a gentleman? I'm an older guy, 60+.

11points

Magical Carp God 1 year ago

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MoMcB 1 year ago

An ex manager moving my clothing to read my tattoo. Was only the tops of letters visible.

7points

R Dennis 1 year ago

I think a few of these are creepy guy things, but a LOT are creepy people things... I have had several of these things happen to me and I was average looking at best in my heyday.

5points

Huddo's sister 1 year ago

That's the point really, it doesn't matter who you are or what you look like, some people will just step over boundaries, some quicker than others.

2points

Rocket Surgeon 1 year ago

I used to think I was shy. After reading these, I realize I'm just considerate.

4points

Shane S 1 year ago

I’m surprised I didn’t see this but just because a man is gay, that doesn’t mean you get to touch women without their consent. Hands to yourself. You may be gay, but you’re still a man and everyone has authority over their own body, regardless of your intentions.

4points

Stephen Harvey 1 year ago

Or touch men without their consent.

-1point

Vul Va 1 year ago (edited)

I said you were triggered not because you replied but because you deployed the high school riposte of "I've slept with more people than you" and called another poster the c-word. Replying alone doesn't signify triggering, I don't think? So, no, don't think I am triggered! Entertained, definitely 😂 Also now curious what the starred out word is....? F a n n y??? Edit: the thread's disappeared? I guess Lenny Bruce got banned and it removed his posts?

3points

Rain Anderson 1 year ago

What did he say?

0points

censorshipsucks 1 year ago (edited)

I read the entire thing and it makes me sad for women. At some stage we need to just do a thing where people only use dating apps and outside dating apps it is just 100% unacceptable to speak to someone, or touch them, unless you have to engage them on a work matter (obviously touch remains unacceptable). I can't see any other way.

3points

Temporary Dork 1 year ago

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DarkViolet 1 year ago

They left one off the list: guys who try to smooth-talk you when you're clearly: 1) not interested and 2) underage. It's what I call the "Say, Mama!" routine. Some guy dressed like a superfly (Google it), mouth almost totally sparked out (gold caps), reeking of malt liquor and Old Spice, and wearing enough gold to open his own jewelry shop. "Say, mama, I just saw your fine self there and I just had to come over and say hello I ain't never seen you in this neighborhood before so what's your name sweet thang can I get your digits maybe we can go out sometime what's your address when can I pick you up......" and on it goes. If you have never had to endure this, be ever so thankful.

2points

Stephen Harvey 1 year ago

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Celtic Pirate Queen 1 year ago

I get an average of 3 friend requests a week on Facebook. Always from men I have never met. Just because we follow the same pages does not make me want to be your friend. I almost always respond with, "Um, no - random internet stranger I do NOT want to be your friend, but maybe my HUSBAND would like to chat". And then I block them. Literally 3+ times a week.

2points

MontanaMariner 1 year ago

I'm sure that's annoying as hell, but I can't relate. 90% of my friend requests are obvious bs/spam. Don't engage at all, just block them!

1point

Averysleepypanda 1 year ago

Stfu Stephen Harvey.

1point

no (she/them/gremlin) 1 year ago

I found a solution to physical touch! Threat with frying pan. Then if second time occurs, hit with said pan. If somebody is stalking you, unconscious them! Arson is a good choice too if u know their location. Or murder 😊

1point

Stephen Harvey 1 year ago

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MontanaMariner 1 year ago

Huh. It appears it's my appearance and who I am as a person that I'll likely be single forever. I'm glad I didn't see anything relevant to me on the list, probably because I assume no gal is interested. If they are, I'm oblivious to their interest. Uhg.

1point

Ivana Bašić 1 year ago

Funny, since I shaved my head and started taking my dogs everywhere they're allowed (not even "scary" breeds, supermutts), I get a lot less of this. :D

1point

Vul Va 1 year ago

Really showing you that you don't "give a f**k" by replying to every one here, good job Lenny! 👍😂

1point

Rostit. . 1 year ago

Looks like Lenny is no more.

1point

Amy Burke 1 year ago

I've not read this because there is so many sexist comments ...

1point

MontanaMariner 1 year ago

How do you know there are "so many sexist comments" without reading it? Isn't the assumption of sexism sexist?

1point

Momica98 1 year ago

How much of a man-child do you have to be to find this offensive? Do you not have women you care about in your lives? This s**t happens to them, too.

0points

Dawnieangel76 1 year ago

Christ, every time I read one of these I thank God that I'm ugly & built like a brick s**t house, as my grampa used to say. I've never had to deal with any of this.

0points

Rostit. . 1 year ago

@wittle wenny, none of this is virtue signaling. You are just proving you dont understand the terms you use. This is not bullying. this is you f*****g around and finding out. I know the concept is hard for a mental midget such as yourself.

0points

MontanaMariner 1 year ago

Awww.... is little guy acting tough from behind his keyboard because he can't handle his emotions? Is your diaper full? How the f**k is anyone "finding out" a damn thing from you? 🤷😘

0points

Tähtikarhu (he/him) 🇫🇮 1 year ago

Legitimate question, asking for myself: How to attract without being creepy?

0points

Mimi M 1 year ago (edited)

Don't worry about 'attracting'. Get to know people of all ages and backgrounds as people. Including those you might be potentially attracted to. Don't treat them any differently than you would anyone else that you might be getting to know. See where it naturally goes.

4points

Amy Burke 1 year ago

Just be yourself

1point

Manatee 1 year ago (edited)

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Alex 1 year ago

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0points

Birb 1 year ago

Nobody does that to me, because i'm ugly as hell and fat.

-1point

Leigh Rapson 1 year ago

The single most misandristic app around. Where's the posts about toxic women to provide balance. I've met plenty of women who overstep boundaries as well, but it can't be creepy if a women does it, behave. Stick to funny posts BP.

-2points

Rostit. . 1 year ago

yeah but lets be real. There are way more dudes who are creeps than women. There are plenty of creepy women, 100% but society and social media have definitely made it easier for creepy dudes.

13points

Princess Mar-li Cathryn 1 year ago

Feel free to write one.

2points

Momica98 1 year ago

Yet here you are.

0points

Imreallyjustaghost 1 year ago

I always thought of it as men get generalized into being creepy, and women are generalized to being crazy (think women being self made FBI agents and keying cars...all the stuff people poke fun at). Doesn't make it right tho

0points

Rain Anderson 1 year ago

There's was never any 'balance' . The creeps mainly includes guys, and no , it won't change because of your feelings.

0points

Stephen Harvey 1 year ago

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Mermeow Overlord (they/them) 1 year ago

Do you seriously think feminists and the kkk are remotely similar? Women's rights to their own body are being taken away right now in the US and you somehow still act like men are more oppressed.

2points

Rostit. . 1 year ago

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Manatee 1 year ago

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Powerful Katrinka 1 year ago

How is the man hating? It's about specific behaviors that can lead to a woman feeling unsafe. Before I even finished the list, I knew that someone would make your comment, or one like it, even though there is no indication that any of the women who responded "hate men".

21points

John Harrison 1 year ago

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Vul Va 1 year ago (edited)

Creepy men unfortunately don't take a break, so neither does BP/reddit I guess 😂

13points

John Harrison 1 year ago

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Sandy Price 1 year ago

When guys say I'm not homophobic I just don't want random guys hitting on me. HELLO? How the fuq u think women feel all the time?

17points

Mermeow Overlord (they/them) 1 year ago

Stephen, what rights are you being denied for being heterosexual?

3points

Binky Melnik 1 year ago

Those guys make me laugh. I always hafta bite my tongue so I don’t say “Sweetie, you’re not hot.” (And sometimes, “You don’t EVER hafta worry about anyone hitting in you!”)

2points

Stephen Harvey 1 year ago

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Harley 1 year ago (edited)

I may get downvoted for this but I couldn’t get past the first few entries. It may be just me but this post makes it seem like every guy is out to get you.

14points

Alex 1 year ago

I think it was just pointing out bad stuff in particular, it doesn't mean that every man is a bad person

21points

Vul Va 1 year ago

Harley, we know it's not *every* guy, it's *any* guy. Wish people would learn the difference...

16points

Nikki Sevven 1 year ago

14points

Chucky Cheezburger 1 year ago

I think women know that not all guys are out to do harm, its that there's no stamp on our foreheads that say good or bad.

11points

On a whim 1 year ago

9points

Princess Mar-li Cathryn 1 year ago

Unfortunately we don't know who's who. The bad ones don't wear signs.

6points

Binky Melnik 1 year ago

This is a POST about those guys who are OUT TO GET US. It’s not a post about men in general. If you don’t like the subject matter, feel free to skip it.

5points

Leo Domitrix 1 year ago

Nah, not every guy. Just creepy ones. We're able to tell who they are. In some nations, the idea that the worst you put up with is "unwanted touch on the waist" would be heaven, unfortunately.

0points

Randy Sanders 1 year ago

Every one of the above! What ever happened to being a gentleman? I'm an older guy, 60+.

11points

Magical Carp God 1 year ago

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MoMcB 1 year ago

An ex manager moving my clothing to read my tattoo. Was only the tops of letters visible.

7points

R Dennis 1 year ago

I think a few of these are creepy guy things, but a LOT are creepy people things... I have had several of these things happen to me and I was average looking at best in my heyday.

5points

Huddo's sister 1 year ago

That's the point really, it doesn't matter who you are or what you look like, some people will just step over boundaries, some quicker than others.

2points

Rocket Surgeon 1 year ago

I used to think I was shy. After reading these, I realize I'm just considerate.

4points

Shane S 1 year ago

4points

Stephen Harvey 1 year ago

Or touch men without their consent.

-1point

Vul Va 1 year ago (edited)

3points

Rain Anderson 1 year ago

What did he say?

0points

censorshipsucks 1 year ago (edited)

3points

Temporary Dork 1 year ago

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DarkViolet 1 year ago

2points

Stephen Harvey 1 year ago

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Celtic Pirate Queen 1 year ago

2points

MontanaMariner 1 year ago

I'm sure that's annoying as hell, but I can't relate. 90% of my friend requests are obvious bs/spam. Don't engage at all, just block them!

1point

Averysleepypanda 1 year ago

Stfu Stephen Harvey.

1point

no (she/them/gremlin) 1 year ago

1point

Stephen Harvey 1 year ago

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MontanaMariner 1 year ago

1point

Ivana Bašić 1 year ago

Funny, since I shaved my head and started taking my dogs everywhere they're allowed (not even "scary" breeds, supermutts), I get a lot less of this. :D

1point

Vul Va 1 year ago

Really showing you that you don't "give a f**k" by replying to every one here, good job Lenny! 👍😂

1point

Rostit. . 1 year ago

Looks like Lenny is no more.

1point

Amy Burke 1 year ago

I've not read this because there is so many sexist comments ...

1point

MontanaMariner 1 year ago

How do you know there are "so many sexist comments" without reading it? Isn't the assumption of sexism sexist?

1point

Momica98 1 year ago

How much of a man-child do you have to be to find this offensive? Do you not have women you care about in your lives? This s**t happens to them, too.

0points

Dawnieangel76 1 year ago

Christ, every time I read one of these I thank God that I'm ugly & built like a brick s**t house, as my grampa used to say. I've never had to deal with any of this.

0points

Rostit. . 1 year ago

0points

MontanaMariner 1 year ago

Awww.... is little guy acting tough from behind his keyboard because he can't handle his emotions? Is your diaper full? How the f**k is anyone "finding out" a damn thing from you? 🤷😘

0points

Tähtikarhu (he/him) 🇫🇮 1 year ago

Legitimate question, asking for myself: How to attract without being creepy?

0points

Mimi M 1 year ago (edited)

4points

Amy Burke 1 year ago

Just be yourself

1point

Manatee 1 year ago (edited)

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Alex 1 year ago

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0points

Birb 1 year ago

Nobody does that to me, because i'm ugly as hell and fat.

-1point

Leigh Rapson 1 year ago

-2points

Rostit. . 1 year ago

yeah but lets be real. There are way more dudes who are creeps than women. There are plenty of creepy women, 100% but society and social media have definitely made it easier for creepy dudes.

13points

Princess Mar-li Cathryn 1 year ago

Feel free to write one.

2points

Momica98 1 year ago

Yet here you are.

0points

Imreallyjustaghost 1 year ago

0points

Rain Anderson 1 year ago

There's was never any 'balance' . The creeps mainly includes guys, and no , it won't change because of your feelings.

0points

Stephen Harvey 1 year ago

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Mermeow Overlord (they/them) 1 year ago

Do you seriously think feminists and the kkk are remotely similar? Women's rights to their own body are being taken away right now in the US and you somehow still act like men are more oppressed.

2points

Rostit. . 1 year ago

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Manatee 1 year ago

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Powerful Katrinka 1 year ago

21points

John Harrison 1 year ago

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Vul Va 1 year ago (edited)

Creepy men unfortunately don't take a break, so neither does BP/reddit I guess 😂

13points