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She’s the girl who believes she’s the best choice and who is never in the wrong. She sees herself as a delicate flower whose heart often gets broken by vicious, toxic men. She’s also convinced that all the male population cares about is how to take advantage of women’s bodies and throws passive-aggressive fits on social media when she gets rejected.  

Sounds familiar? If so, chances are you have encountered at least one ‘nice girl’ in your lifetime. She’s the male equivalent of a ‘nice guy’ and can be equally as toxic and frustrating a persona as these knights in digital armor. 

Luckily, the ‘Nice Girls’ subreddit is set on calling out such behavior in hopes that it helps men and women distinguish fake nice behavior from the real thing. Scroll down to find their most cringeworthy posts, and be sure to share your own ‘nice girl’ encounters below.

While you’re at it, don’t forget to check out a conversation with a women's transformologist, Carolina Stukenberg, who kindly agreed to tell us more about how seeking validation from men can contribute to women becoming ‘nice girls.’

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What I Love About This Tiktok Generation Is Them Publishing Their Worst Deeds With Full Hd Selfie, So The Rest Of The World Can Stay Away Lol

What I Love About This Tiktok Generation Is Them Publishing Their Worst Deeds With Full Hd Selfie, So The Rest Of The World Can Stay Away Lol

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Manipulation To "Humble" Him

Manipulation To "Humble" Him

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Manipulation 101 : Guy Becomes A Backup Plan

Manipulation 101 : Guy Becomes A Backup Plan

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Alexia
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's just... disgusting. But hey, karma happens, someday you may be someone's back-up plan too. See if you like it.

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In a previous interview for Bored Panda, the moderators of the ‘Nice Girls’ subreddit explained that women who embody this term tend to be jealous and lack maturity and experience. 

In their ‘About’ section, they additionally write that 'nice girls' are the women who complain guys are only interested in ‘females of easy virtue.’ They also are the “women who complain that men are shallow for not dating overweight women, while also demanding that their man have washboard abs. The women who hold others to the highest possible standard but have no standards for themselves.” 

However, they note that ‘nice girls’ shouldn’t be confused with ‘female incels,’ ‘crazy girls,’ ‘nice guys,’ or women who believe 'men are trash.’

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Guy Politely Acknowledges Break Up Message And She Gets Mad At Him For It

Guy Politely Acknowledges Break Up Message And She Gets Mad At Him For It

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Virgil Blue
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"I had hoped for better from you" Looks like she was baiting for some heartbroken "please, we can work it out" style texts. Sorry girl, your private role-playing session got cancelled.

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Nice Girl Setting Standards

Nice Girl Setting Standards

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Doctor Strange
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You are not an amusement park ride, you don't need a "you must be this tall sign". God, I hate how short men get dismissed. I have so many guy friends who are absolutely fantastic, but get rejected out of hand because they don't meet some arbitrary height standard.

Tiny Dancer
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I had a 6-footer for 24 years (I'm around 5'7"). After five years together, he got hit by a car and was a bit stooped for a while until endless physiotherapy fixed that. Then he got hit by cancer. Chemo and radiation took him down a few more notches until we were almost nose-to-nose when he passed last year. He was still a bigger man than most at the end. Height means nothing. It's the character of a man that makes him "big" and my guy was a freakin' giant (saved two people on his way out by donating his kidneys).

Helena
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

BoyGanesh is right, otherwise there wouldn't be as many couples simply because 6' and over is a statistically small percentage. So guys below must be getting laid. I imagine it is more difficult for those like 5'3 and under, but that is also a statically small percentage.

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Connie Hirsch
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are plenty of 5' girls who will be happy to look up to a 5' 7" man.

Glen Ellyn
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My sister was only 4'10" and twice dated guys over six feet tall. She eventually married a guy who was about 5'8" I think.

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Libstak
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Shorter men, relax, I'm 5ft nothing and tall men always freaked me out, all my partners have been well under 6ft, I like to hug and kiss without straining my arms and neck thank you very much. I'm past it all now but I am absolutely positive there are millions of lovely women out there for you who feel the same.

Angrykitten
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'll never understand the rejecting of short men. It is nice to have someone who can reach the top shelf but step stools are a thing.

KatSaidWhat
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's ok, men don't like bitches and you're going to wonder why you keep getting dumped.

Jrog
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Nah, they just settle for very old women, like 24 and over, or women above 120 pounds, i.e. fat ones. /s

Shawn Barry
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2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So, women 200 lb and over...so you just end up dating women? Cause you know men don't like fat chicks

Doc “Dr Rotwang” Rotwang
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've been walking around this planet for really close to half a century, and this mentality is one of the dumbest things I've ever encountered. ...and I've met $cientologists.

Tim Richards
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Imagine this starting with "So, women 200 pounds or more..." Quit being so superficial and you might make a relationship work.

Pansexual-Kat
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I actually have a short BF, and it kinda makes him cuter. So not sure why this girl thought that...

lakitha tolbert
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm pretty sure I'm a woman and that this loud and shallow hussy does NOT speak for me!

Lea S.
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If I saw this I would've reminded her she doesn't speak for all women. Short men are just as dateable as tall men.

Lene
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have never had a problem being with men that were shorter than me. I do understand that the whole "man must be tallest!"-thing is somehow deeply rooted in the human brain as a thing from caveman-times. But I do not understand why people are so obsessed with looks. Perhaps I'm just too old (40) and/or too ugly to understand? But it's never been a problem to me whatever height a guy had.

Lester the Space Duck
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I can't remember the amount of times I've been told I'm "not tall enough", mostly by women shorter than myself. I'm 5'6”.

Stephanie Cunningham
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Actually, some of us love short men--with one exception, every man I've dated was under 5'9". My current boyfriend is 5'5" and WONDERFUL. Limiting your dating pool that way is just shallow and silly.

Curtis Harvey
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They date women who don't believe all Beauty is physical and end up happily married and appreciated. Girls like you end up reeking of loneliness and despair.

XanthippeⓐWulf🇨🇦️️🇬🇧
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Short guys don't worry there are plenty of women out there for you. I'm 5'9" and one of the hottest guys I dated (aside from my SO) was like 5'6". And I'm a tall girl who used to love me some high heels! Super sweet, confident, funny guy, not a serial killer, and honestly that's all that matters 🤷‍♀️

Janis McClure
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

With your attitude im amazed any man, short or tall, would date you at all! Geesh...oooooh Karma, got one for you

Limey Cheesehead
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Anyone who turns down getting to know a man simply because he is short...you could be throwing away the love of your life because of silly reasons.

Leticia Ramirez
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Gosh......people people......it doesnt matter what height you are.....you just gotta find the girl who is right for you and love you just the way you are. And guys who are looking at this....dont take this to far ignore her she is just talking sh!t and besides yall men who are short will find a girl right for you......just wait till the moment comes by.

Red Skye
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1 month ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

While the very small number of men I dated were tall, I didn't pick them JUST because they were tall, but because they were nice guys, for the most part who I had something in common to talk about for starters, also I'm not short myself

GeoMcC
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm 5'7, and my fiancée is 4'9, so to her I am almost a giant!

Marie BellaDonna
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Once again, some women absolutely DO like short men. In fact, some of us love them. Sincerely, the wife of an adorable human teddy bear sized ex jockey. ❤️

Kelley Baltierra
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If they do, they're probably better off than being judged by women like you

Little Bad Wolf
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James Anthony
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a short king, I have dated a ton of taller women. And I mean tall taller, not just "taller than me" which is everyone over 5'8" lol

Richienotsorich
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You see these awful dating profiles of women with 3 baby daddies who insist on having a man over 6ft tall. It seems the tall guys are the problems as that's the common denominator. I mean, it can't be vain women who pick men just for their height can it?!

Lee Banks
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My guy happens to be tall, but some of my best were of the shorter variety. Do not disregard.

Helena
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am 5'4, any more than a few inches taller than me, feels like making out with my dad. No one wants that.

Natalie Kelsey
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm taller than my 5'7" husband. He's so fun, smart and kind I didn't even notice that he was shorter until we'd been dating for months. We've been married for 24 years. He's faithful, funny, and supports our family. You don't have to be a certain height to be attractive and a good person. So weird to dismiss people because of height.

Carol Lock
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My most AMAZING boyfriend ever ... was 5'4" tall. He was also an Army Ranger, a WestPoint grad, a fully thoughtful evolved human being, and the ABSOLUTE S**T ON WHEELS! We broke up for good reasons ... but his height was NO PART OF IT!!!

Susie
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love when people think their taste/preferences are universal. I couldn't possibly care less about the height of a potential partner.

Toasted Applesauce
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm a 5'8 girl and I'll happily take a shorter man. It makes for easy forehead kisses!

tracy black
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

she dont know what shes missing my wonderfully fantastic amazing loving boyfriend is only 5'5" which is fine cause im only 5'1" i love this man with everything in me

SAF saf
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I know plenty of shorter guys that are married or have GF's. The trick is to avoid unpleasant, toxic women. Here's the thing, not every short women want's to date a super tall guy.

Michael Largey
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Of course women date short men. How else does the OP think short men get born in the first place?

Captain Grump
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As a 6'4" guy (191cm), I also find it objectifying when a woman identifies my height as an aspect of attraction to me, or hearing women talk about height as a "plus" in general. I didn't do anything to be tall, and it makes me feel reduced to my body. (As I'm fully aware gals with large breasts, as one example, must feel.)

Max Fox
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The great advantage of single men 5' 7" and under is that garbage like this takes itself out. Imagine discovering that this is what you're dating after actually wasting time and emotional effort.

Pablo Ramos
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't know. I've seen short guys that say: "Wait until she sees the size of my... Bank account

Aranora
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I am 5'1" I like short men... I don't want to have to stand on a step ladder

Steve Robert
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm 5'7", and I've had more pretty girls than I could have ever imagined. But if I had to date you, I'd rather date other guys, and I'm straight!

David
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I mean I met a couple once, the husband had dwarfism and about 4'3, the wife was 6'2. Love is love, and not all women care about height

Ge Po
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I love my short man and have done so for 25 years plus. I tell you, it's mostly attitude and attention that counts, not size, especially in the bed-room.

devotedtodreams
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm not sayin I would never date short men - my ex was my height (168 cm). But after the experience with him, I'd have to make sure they don't have a Napoleon complex next time.

Igor914624
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Height discrimination is the last acceptable prejudice. Society is just fine with short jokes, lower pay for shorter people, and physical abuse. Heightism also affects income. Research shows that on a professional level, stature affects both men and women in tangible, albeit slightly different, ways. Studies show height correlates with higher income: recruiters favor taller candidates and height influences promotion opportunities. Research demonstrates we perceive taller men and women as more 'leader-like', deeming them more dominant, intelligent and healthier; tall men are more likely to attain managerial positions. It really sucks. I can't call someone fat. That is offensive. So why is it not offensive to call someone short, midget, or smurf?? It hurts just the same. And the fat person can diet. All I can do is have very expensive surgery to lengthen my leg bones. And I would be in a wheelchair for 6 to 8 weeks while this was going on. Fight heightism!

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martin734
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In my case this is half true. I am 5'6" and I do date men as well as women.

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This Is A Perfect Example Of Someone Being Overly Dramatic. It's Amusing How Some People Think So Highly Of Themselves

This Is A Perfect Example Of Someone Being Overly Dramatic. It's Amusing How Some People Think So Highly Of Themselves

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In another interview for Bored Panda, the moderators distinguished ‘nice girls’ from ‘nice guys,’ saying that the latter tend to be more intense than the former.

"As a woman, I've never heard of a self-proclaimed nice girl turning violent," one team member said. "However, most women I've known have met at least one self-proclaimed nice guy that made them genuinely fear for their safety. Which is not to say that women don't have the potential to be dangerous, or aren't dangerous-but I personally have not heard of a woman stalking a man and committing acts of violence because he spurned her advances."

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Am I In The Wrong Here Because She Withheld That She Had Children?

Am I In The Wrong Here Because She Withheld That She Had Children?

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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't put in my profile that I have a kid. I don't want to attract any weirdos that are looking for single moms with kids, either to take advantage of me or him. I always make sure to mention it pretty quickly, usually by asking them if they have any..

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The moderators also emphasize that the purpose of the subreddit is not to hate on women. Therefore, they kindly ask their members to refrain from making sexist comments. Their actual aim is to educate women on their internalized sexism and prevent them from becoming the ‘nice girls.’ "We like to believe that female visitors to our subreddit have been pointed in the right direction," they shared.

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This Just Happened On My Alt Account Lol (Now With Less Username)

This Just Happened On My Alt Account Lol (Now With Less Username)

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Donkey boi
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The source post has been removed, so I cannot tell if there was more to this post.

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Nice Girl Has Trouble With Her Spelling (Xpost From R/Boneappletea)

Nice Girl Has Trouble With Her Spelling (Xpost From R/Boneappletea)

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Couldn’t Be Bothered To Wait When Told He Was On His Way

Couldn’t Be Bothered To Wait When Told He Was On His Way

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Skogsrået
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Why can't i find a decent guy?" Maybe when you start acting like a decent person yourself, you get what you give.

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The issue of ‘nice girls’ seems to arise from women’s hard-wired need for validation from men. This means that females often seek the approval of males, whether it’s received in the form of compliments, praise, affirmations, or sexual attention. The tendency to seek such validation stems from our patriarchal society, where men’s opinions and perspectives are valued more than those of women. 

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“Many women find themselves seeking validation from others, particularly men, as a way to feel good about themselves,” further explains women's transformologist, Carolina Stukenberg. She notes that such behavior can also derive from deeper issues, such as dysfunctional family dynamics or childhood adversity, which can result in low self-worth and self-esteem in women. 

“In such environments, love and affection may have been conditional, leading to the belief that these must be earned through pleasing others,” says Stukenberg. 

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I Get What I Want, Always!

I Get What I Want, Always!

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Jihana
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Being an entitled brat is definitely not a fantastic personality.

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She adds, “Another aspect that creates the need for seeking validation is that from a young age, women may learn to prioritize the needs and expectations of those around them, often at the expense of their own authentic selves. This "good girl syndrome," rooted in the desire to be loved and accepted, can lead to a pattern of self-abandonment. Women may mold themselves to fit the projections of others, masking their true essence in the process.”

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She's Mad The Man She Rejected Moved On

She's Mad The Man She Rejected Moved On

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BROmanicus85
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So Thomas and Emily have to ask for permission to date?! (great job censoring) :))

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Easly Satisfied With The Best

Easly Satisfied With The Best

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BoredHouseKitty
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2 months ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The missing space after every punctuation just rubs me the wrong way.

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Constantly being conscious of how a man sees you over focusing on how you feel about yourself can greatly damage a person’s self-esteem and result in emotional dependency and unhealthy relationships in which deeper emotional needs are unmet.

Research from the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology also suggests that individuals who thrive on external validation tend to experience higher levels of stress and have a lower overall well-being.

Stukenberg additionally notes, “Women who constantly seek validation from others may experience self-doubt, negative self-talk, burnout from prioritizing others, and a tendency to people-please. These behaviors not only diminish a woman's sense of self but also create a cycle of dependency on others for approval and worth."

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Happened A While Back, But Being Threatened Still Cracks Me Up

Happened A While Back, But Being Threatened Still Cracks Me Up

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However, an individual's need for approval can be so deeply rooted in them that they don’t realize that they’re seeking it. “The first step is to break free from the need for "external" validation, women must first become aware of the patterns that hold them back,” says Stukenberg. “Recognizing these behaviors is a crucial step toward healing and liberation. Women need to understand that self-worth and self-esteem are not fixed; they can be transformed.”

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Me Too Sis, Me Too

Me Too Sis, Me Too

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Panda McPandaface
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I think this is a really badly stated example of a real situation though - too much time being a doormat is not good but a complete 180 degree turn is not the solution.

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Ex Girlfriend Showed Up To My Apartment Uninvited

Ex Girlfriend Showed Up To My Apartment Uninvited

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Dillon Sizemore
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

100% the breaks more then 5 min where her calling someone else to complain about her ex not answering the phone or door.

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When the pattern of external validation is recognized, then the person can start working on addressing it. To combat seeking approval from men, women should find ways to seek out self-validation by focusing on their strengths and accomplishments and spending time with people who build them up and make them feel better about themselves. 

#25

Apparently This Man Isn't A "True Gentleman" Because He Wants Her To Feel Safe

Apparently This Man Isn't A "True Gentleman" Because He Wants Her To Feel Safe

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She Seems Nice

She Seems Nice

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#27

Don’t Date Witches. She Cheated On Me 2 Years Ago. I Have Blocked Her On Everything And She Still Sends Me Spells

Don’t Date Witches. She Cheated On Me 2 Years Ago. I Have Blocked Her On Everything And She Still Sends Me Spells

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“Women need to prioritize their own needs, set healthy boundaries, and raise their emotional intelligence. This involves learning to say "no" without guilt and communicating their needs and opinions in a healthy and assertive way.

Women should also take time to establish their own values and affirm their self-worth. If breaking these patterns feels challenging, seeking support from a professional or a proven method can be transformative. Healing these wounds and building confidence doesn’t have to take years; it can be achieved through focused work that brings about lasting change,” concludes Stukenberg.

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#28

My Cousin Posts This Nonsense, But Then Goes And Hits Her Ex-Boyfriend With A Car

My Cousin Posts This Nonsense, But Then Goes And Hits Her Ex-Boyfriend With A Car

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InoueAmani
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

One thing social media has taught me is that ppl who post this c**p and lots of quotes about being strong and a fighter and everything of that nature are varying degrees on the hot mess -to- dumpster fire spectrum.

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#29

I Don't Think This Is The Flex You Thought It Was

I Don't Think This Is The Flex You Thought It Was

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Panda Kicki
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I need a translation on this post. I can read the words but no idea what they say.

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Alpha Man Raised By Queen, Please Apply!

Alpha Man Raised By Queen, Please Apply!

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Skogsrået
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Alpha male contradicts romantic, generous, loving and caring so wtaf do you really want lady? Do you even know?

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#33

Nice Girl Gets Mad After A Bald And A "Manlet" Reject Her (She Was Making Them A Favor By Trying To Date Them) [translated From Spanish]

Nice Girl Gets Mad After A Bald And A "Manlet" Reject Her (She Was Making Them A Favor By Trying To Date Them) [translated From Spanish]

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#34

My Friend’s (M) Ex GF Did Anything For Her And She Shares This

My Friend’s (M) Ex GF Did Anything For Her And She Shares This

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Ripley
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Why would anyone, regardless of their gender, think that anyone other than them is responsible for "building their dream life?"

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Spoiler Alert I’m Not Gay

Spoiler Alert I’m Not Gay

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Found In The Wild Lol

Found In The Wild Lol

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Crash1985
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Love it. I'm a guy and this hits in the feels. Ladies stand up for your beliefs and never drop your standards. You ARE worth it!

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I've Been Invited To Apply!

I've Been Invited To Apply!

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Peet
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Pfff...amateur. A booking tool would be easier 🙄😅 No sorry, I'm ashamed for women when I see such things...and I'm a woman myself

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#39

Found This Interaction On Twitter

Found This Interaction On Twitter

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#40

Girl I Met Gets Upset After Finding Out My Ex Did Of Too, Tells Me I Gaslit Her After Accusing Me Of “Collecting Trophies”

Girl I Met Gets Upset After Finding Out My Ex Did Of Too, Tells Me I Gaslit Her After Accusing Me Of “Collecting Trophies”

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Vay
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not much of a trophy if anyone with $2 can get a participation award.

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#41

All I Said Im Not Interested

All I Said Im Not Interested

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Aroace tiger (she/they/he)
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Babes you need to have your standards HIGHER if ur bragging thst he doesn't try to rape you

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#44

Interesting Introductory Statement On A Dating App!

Interesting Introductory Statement On A Dating App!

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#45

In Blast Right Off The Bat

In Blast Right Off The Bat

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Dillon Sizemore
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

25 and "figuring it out" is normal nowadays, unless you had a highschool sweetheart you married and are having a dream life with. If you have kids at 25 you are almost certainly still "figuring it out". I don't think most people "figure it out till thier late 30s early 40s, if they ever manage to "figure it out"

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#46

Apparently I’m A Loser Because Our Interests Aren’t Mutual??

Apparently I’m A Loser Because Our Interests Aren’t Mutual??

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StarCrossedFriday
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

BP, what is the point of these entries if the screenshot doesn’t cover the actual relevant part of the story?

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#47

Must’ve Been Why You Got Mad About It

Must’ve Been Why You Got Mad About It

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#48

Posted By My Extremely Verbally/Emotionally Abusive Ex (Who Also Apparently Became A Femaledatingstrategy User Post-Breakup). The Lack Of Self-Awareness Is Nauseating, Yet Perfectly On-Brand

Posted By My Extremely Verbally/Emotionally Abusive Ex (Who Also Apparently Became A Femaledatingstrategy User Post-Breakup). The Lack Of Self-Awareness Is Nauseating, Yet Perfectly On-Brand

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rmandevi831
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Not sure that this is a "nice girl" story. She's not talking about all the men, just all the men _around her_. Maybe she looks like an easy mark to all the jerks?

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#49

Recieved Some Lovely Racism Today

Recieved Some Lovely Racism Today

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#50

Wow First Messages Also Does This Count?

Wow First Messages Also Does This Count?

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#51

I Just Wanna Know What She Was Trying To Set On Fire

I Just Wanna Know What She Was Trying To Set On Fire

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#52

That's Some Serious Dedication!

That's Some Serious Dedication!

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#54

A Day After Cheating On Me, My (Now Ex) GF Posted This On Her Social Media

A Day After Cheating On Me, My (Now Ex) GF Posted This On Her Social Media

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#56

Homophobic Woman Loses Her Mind Realizing Not Every Man Is The Same As She Wants

Homophobic Woman Loses Her Mind Realizing Not Every Man Is The Same As She Wants

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#57

'separates The Boys From The Men' Lol

'separates The Boys From The Men' Lol

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TennesseeHomesteadUSA
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

So many women think they can meet a man and overcome his aversion to other men's children. For me, it mostly meant the Ex is probably still involved somewhere and he'd have to be accommodated in whatever types of ways also. It's a visceral, automatic, almost unconscious Nope for many guys.

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#58

I Talked To This Girl For One Day The Week Before

I Talked To This Girl For One Day The Week Before

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meeeeeeeeeeee
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

BP, f**k off with your censorship. I really can't believe someone gets paid to steal pics off reddit and pretend it is original content and not even bother their holes to check if they make sense with only half the images or if they're full of words that will be censored. Give me a job, I will actually check my work.

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#59

Total Mystery Why Her Dates Nope The Hell Out

Total Mystery Why Her Dates Nope The Hell Out

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Donkey boi
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2 months ago

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#60

Most Men Are Weak And Can’t Handle Her Kind Of Love

Most Men Are Weak And Can’t Handle Her Kind Of Love

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Donkey boi
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2 months ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

3 pics to this one. Click the link below the pic. But you still won't find out who "she" is.

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