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No, you can’t order a cappuccino after lunch. You might wander around the city searching for a trash can for hours. If you need to use the restroom, be prepared to pay. And if someone tries to kiss you on the cheek, don’t freak out. They’re just being friendly!

When traveling internationally, it’s a given that you should mentally prepare yourself for some cultural differences. But no matter how many times they visit a place, some Redditors can’t seem to get behind all of the local customs. Below, you’ll find some of the quirks of various countries that travelers sometimes struggle with, as well as a conversation with travel expert Alex Miles from offMetro!

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30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To This is an extremely controversial opinion, but religion-based "modesty" clothing that is designed to protect women's "sexual purity" will always rub me the wrong way. I don't care if the religion is Christian, Muslim, Pastafarian, or whatever else: I just think it is abhorrent and archaic when women are singled out as the ones responsible for keeping men from being sexual predators and deviants and are made to cover any portion of their body because of some religious mandate. I also do not agree with the logic that this can ever be a woman's choice or a "feminist act" as long as a religious community is the source of the pressure to dress a certain way.

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    #2

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To The unhinged tipping culture in the US. I just wanna go to a restaurant without feeling like I'm either either an ungrateful scrooge or ripping myself off. I understand that staffing is an expense, just factor it into the price!
    Less egregious but in a similar vein is not including tax in stores.

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    T MB83
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I come from a non-tipping country and yeah, it kind of puts a downer on the whole experince and awkwardness when you're eating with other people and they don't really understand/want to tip. Plus you also forget when you're not used to it, I'd got out and eat a meal that was already probably too expensive for my travelling bugdet and then you have this horrible realisation halfway through eating that you have to also then pay another 20% on top.

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    To learn more about some of the cultural differences that might prove challenging to travelers, we reached out to travel expert and editor at offMetro, Alex Miles. Alex shared with Bored Panda that even he has had difficulties adjusting to the local customs in some places.

    "I once found myself in Japan, a land of incredible sushi, impeccable manners, and a penchant for bowing that would make your head spin. Now, don't get me wrong, I adore sushi. But let me tell you, there's an art to bowing, and I've got two left feet when it comes to it," he explained. "On my first day, I nodded like a bobblehead on steroids, while the locals performed graceful, synchronized ballets of respect. It was like trying to dance the waltz at a rave party—slightly out of place."

    #3

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To QR codes for menus in the US, and probably other places, not sure.

    "Hey welcome to Zany Bob's House of Kebabs! Scan the QR right there on that nasty sticker on the table and you'll be brought to our site. Click on the menu, scroll through a too-large PDF of the menu on your phone because the owner couldn't get a proper developer for this, then order online! Isn't that easy?!"

    "Oh, what's that, Grandma doesn't have a phone? Well, I'd love to bring you a paper menu, but it's gonna be about 10 mins because we only have a few in the place."

    "Hey here's your food! I'll be back in 20 minutes to rush you out and expect a 20% tip for doing absolutely f**k all. Y'all come back, now!"

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    #4

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Dubai not allowing people to hold hands in public. And also that they have the death penalty if you're gay.

    Natural resources don't always lead to progress, sometimes they prevent it as a resource curse.

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    Edda Kamphues
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There is a huge difference between how Emerati are being treated and how foreigners are being treated. Yet, the country could not function without foreigners. Treat them accordingly!

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    #5

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To In general, the notion that turning down food is rude.

    I appreciate that someone cooked a meal for me, but forcing me to choke down something I don’t like is ruder than me simply saying “No, thank you.”

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    Katrin Krueger
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Plus all the rules surrounding this. If you want it, still refuse it and make the cook persist. Refuse x times. Eat y times. Thank z times. What...?

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    We were also curious if there are any customs in Alex's home country that he can't get behind. "In the good old U.S. of A, we're known for our generous portion sizes," he noted. "Sometimes it feels like our motto should be 'Supersize Everything!' But there's a caveat to this American indulgence. The portion sizes may be large, but our waste bins are equally enormous."

    "The amount of food that goes to waste is a monstrous problem," Alex explained. "So, being an eco-friendly activist, I found myself yearning for the Japanese custom of ordering just enough to savor every bite, reducing both my waistline and my ecological footprint."

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    #6

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To How American public restroom stalls have that gap between the door and frame wide enough for you to make eye contact with anyone walking outside the stall.

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    Phoenix
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    American here. As a general rule, we do not look through the gap from outside of the stall. If needing to check if the stall is occupied we look for feet under the door. Edit: it is acceptable to look out through the gap from inside the stall.

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    #7

    China - people spitting all over the place right in front of you, on the streets, on the sidewalks. It’s disgusting.

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    Rose the Cook
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Unfortunately this is a real problem. Discussing this in a class and asking for ideas to stop it one small boy suggested,, that since it was usually older people doing this, young people should all carry a stick and give offenders a smack. You had to love him.

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    #8

    The tipping screen at a coffee shop in the US requesting 20%/22%/25%/other.

    Every other country in the world has figured out how to pay service employees without tipping. How has America not figured out how to run a business without handouts?

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    Gustav Gallifrey
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    The weird thing is that American business owners will tell you that paying their staff low wages and forcing them to rely on tips help them to keep prices down, to the customer's advantage. While it keeps the advertised price down, it's no advantage to the customer, who's obliged to pay AT LEAST an additional 20%. It benefits the business owner, no-one else.

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    "As for some tips for fellow travelers who may find themselves dancing on the tightrope of cultural adaptation, first and foremost, research, my friends!" Alex told Bored Panda. "Google is your best pal. Learn about local customs and etiquettes before you step off that plane. It can save you from a world of awkward encounters."

    "Next, don't be afraid to embrace the unknown," the travel expert continued. "You're in a foreign land, after all. Experiment with local customs, even if you look like a lost puppy trying to fit in. Most locals appreciate the effort, and they might just teach you a thing or two."

    #9

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Bartering. Just give me a price, already!

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    #10

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Working in Japan temporarily:

    Yeah, we'll be here ready to go at 8AM

    Ok, it's 8PM, time to call it a day.

    But first, the boss and the big boss want to take us out to dinner

    Now we have to go with them to the bar for drinks and karaoke.

    Ok, it's 1AM, Boss and Big Boss have left. See you in the morning at 7:30.

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    David A Paterson
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yep. That's Japan. And during those 12 work hours there is no time to walk, you have to run.

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    #11

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Tipping and taxes not included on the price tag.

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    Alex also urges travelers to keep an open mind. "Remember, you're not just observing customs; you're experiencing a way of life. Be patient with yourself and others, and be ready for some slip-ups. It's all part of the adventure," he explained.

    "And here's a secret sauce tip: learn a few essential phrases in the local language. Nothing earns you more goodwill than a heartfelt 'hello' or 'thank you' in the native tongue," Alex added. "It's like sprinkling a bit of magic on your interactions."

    If you'd like to gain more travel tips from Alex and the rest of the offMetro team, be sure to visit their site right here!

    #12

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Squatting toilets. I know it is just local culture/tradition, but I hate going into a public toilet and be welcomed by others' effluence...

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    October
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Once broke my leg in a county where squatting toilets are the norm. Ever tried to squat while wearing a cast? Fun times.

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    #13

    In Serbia where people mistreat their dogs. Leave them in cages in the front yard, or just outside unwashed on a chain, even in the snow.

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    #14

    The lack of spatial awareness in China, like people rushing to get into the elevator before you can exit it. Men casually coughing up phlegm and spitting everywhere. Shirts rolled up above belly to cool down. All the stench that can catch you off-guard anytime anywhere.

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    #15

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To I refuse to restrict my cappuccinos to before 11am

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    The Scout
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    All fine - as long as they are capuccinos, and not "vanilla caramel latte with extra oat milk and three shots of matcha" -because that is not coffee, it's a dessert..

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    #16

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Lack of air conditioning in Europe and no screens on the windows. I was staying in Italy at a Marriott property and the hotel room was sweltering in December. I opened the window and the room was immediately flooded with mosquitoes.

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    #17

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Portuguese waiters disappearing after serving you the desserts!
    A guidebook told me that dessert is seen as the best part of the meal therefore they give you plenty of time to enjoy it. But I wanna pay and move on!

    On the other hand: in the US they bring you the check when you haven’t even swallowed the last bite. I don’t like that either 😆

    Find some middle ground!

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    Donkeywheel
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They are not disappearing, they are leaving you alone to enjoy your meal without pestering or useless small talk. If you need anything (reorder, check) just raise your hand or call them, is that so hard?

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    #18

    Squat toilets. I'm a woman and I live in jeans. Every time I encounter one where there aren't other options (which has been infrequent, thankfully), I feel like I'm about to try solving a quadratic equation where if I get the answer wrong, my foot gets soaked in pee.

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    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To I've been to Spain twice and can't get my head around everything happening 3-5 hours later than I'm used to... Breakfast at midday... Dinner at 11pm... Out for drinks until 4am...

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    #20

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To I can't get used to how nothing in the US is the advertised price, and why starters and mains have the wrong name on menus

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    Gustav Gallifrey
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    As i said elsewhere: It sort of violates a rule of contracts. The contract is, e.g. , the restaurant advertises a meal at a certain price, and the customer accepts to pay that price. But the restaurant then repudiates that contract by expecting the customer to pay another 20% on top of the advertised price. Same goes for state and local taxes not mentioned in the advertised price.

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    #21

    The amount of food on a plate in most US restaurants, and how much leftovers of it go to the garbage, along with the exaggerated use of single use disposable cutlery.

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    censorshipsucks
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't forget that giving them to homeless or letting homeless dive for them in the dumpster is illegal too.

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    #22

    Wearing shoes inside the house 🤢🤢

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    A C
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I also have a vacuum cleaner .... however it's still pretty gross to track in the dog pee bird poop spit random drugs that are on the sidewalk/ parking garages....

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    TeenieMeanie
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It’s movies and TV, folks. If all is to be believed, I’d assume the rest of the world prefers to speak English amongst themsleves. The US is not a monoculture, the shoe thing varies from household to household.

    Jessica SpeLangm
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    @TeenieMeanie....Thank you for explaining that. It boggles my mind, as a USA person, how so many people think what they see on media is the truth for the whole country. LMAO

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    Snorky The Pig
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    People seem to think that taking off your shoes is an Asian thing, but my mom is Norwegian and she was raised the same way with no shoes in the house, her whole life, way before she met my dad (who is asian.) Americans should take notes. I know some do, but too many don't. Know what's worse than shoes in the house? shoes on the bed. 🤢🤢

    DE Ray
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Know what's worse than shoes in the house? Scorpion stings on bare feet in the house. And yes, that is an issue in the Southwest US. Or spiders in the Southeast. Or the fact the floors might be near freezing in the North. And sure, we could blanket our homes in pesticides and burn more fossil fuels - but wearing shoes is easier.

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    Joeshar
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Never understand American movies/series. They hang around the whole city, streets, restaurants, restrooms, mud, rain, snow, everywhere. They enter their home without taking shoes off and even laying on their bed relaxing. Oh my...

    Malfar
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Wait it's really a thing? I thought it only happened in movies and TV shows. Always felt weird. I lived in Ukraine, and in many cities in Ukraine and Russia (and even more so in little towns) there are only three types of weather: "Mud", "The mud dried up", "The mud froze"

    Rostit. .
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I want to move to a village in NE Ukraine. The smaller and less modern the better. The invasion pushed my plans back a few years but I might do it anyway next year.

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    Upstaged75
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This one always ends up as an argument. So stupid. How about everyone do whatever they want in their own home and ask what the host prefers before you enter someone else's home? I can't walk without shoes on due to physical reasons, so I wear them in the house. I have specific house shoes that I save for indoors, but if I'm coming from outside I just wipe my feet on the mat and walk to my room where I change them. Obviously I don't track mud or water around if my outdoor shoes get dirty. I also clean my floors frequently. Some of the grossest houses I've been in are ones where shoes aren't worn - and I end up coming home with gross dirty socks covered in pet hair or dust.

    Shane Hussel
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We generally don't sit around the house wearing shoes, but we don't necessarily take them off right at the door. I walk to the bedroom and leave them there. Only if they are caked in mud or something would I leave them at the door.

    Darius S. (he/him) cis/grey
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    how do you bring in the groceries? do you have to take off and put on shoes between each load?

    Magazine
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I put the grocery bags inside the door if I have to go back and forth. When I'm done, I get inside and take off my shoes and put groceries away

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    PeePeePooPoo
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    When I see people in tv shows jumping on the bed in their shoes... Like, yuck!

    Shane Hussel
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Nobody really does that. Most people take their shoes off when relaxing at home too. Don't believe movies.

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    Alecto76
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have always taken public transportation. And it is super gross. I have stood in pee unwillingly. But it's just in the last 4 years since I've moved in with my husband who insists on no shoes in the house, that I've thought about it. I'm gross.

    Dekker451
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wonder what the science on this (if any) says. Does the average shoe outsole have more germs or the average foot? Harmful germs that is. I won't be swayed by those b******t sensationalist headlines that are like "a door handle has more germs on it than a toilet seat, oh noez!!!1" If it's not more of the harmful ones, who gives a f**k?

    John Murphy
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I would actually be insulted if someone took their shoes off to come inside my house, we have wooden floors, three dogs two adults and a 14 yr old. If you have time to fuss over floors, I got some chores like splitting wood, processing meat, shoveling snow thatll wake you right up from that throne.

    Lea S.
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This differs everywhere depending on the person, their job, their age, their personal preference, what sort of flooring they have, what sort of orthopedic needs they have, what sort of allergies they have, etc. It depends on the homeowner/renter/guest in every province, county, state, country, continent, etc. I don't ever allow others to wear shoes in my home, and I never go on the carpet with shoes. But if I'm in the yard, and I need to rush to the kitchen sink with my shoes on? It takes me less than a minute to wipe up the floor. My parents are in their eighties, and both have bad backs and I have steep stairs in my home. Unless someone wants to volunteer to pay their medical bills, or come and carry them around my home, or rip out and install a new staircase, they can wear their 'town shoes,' in. What would you do? I honestly don't understand how people can't think up these scenarios on their own.

    Carrie Laughs
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't disagree with anything you say here - your home, your situation, your rules. The only thing I'd add is that I have a pair of shoes that I use for indoor only (like slippers but more supportive as I have painful feet and dodgy joints!), as does my spouse. My regular family and friends wear slippers that they bring with them. However, I have hard floors downstairs that are very washable so I'm also not that worried. Being paranoid about germs and dirt doesn't strike me as being very healthy either! You can't hermetically seal your home after all 🤷

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    Celtic Pirate Queen
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    We have hard floors throughout. So we don't wear shoes (or only "inside" shoes) in the house, but I don't ask guests to remove their shoes. Most do though when they see ours by the front door.

    Leo Domitrix
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    This goes back tot he era before pavements and when 99% were farmers. You left your outdoor shoes by the door and had indoor shoes. Get past it, already.

    Huddo's sister
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Australia everyone has differing ideas. Some people don't wear shoes at all if they can avoid it, others remove them at the door and others will wear them at all times except in bed.

    Jods
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A cultural thing I believe. When I asked my cousins hubby who’s a Sky engineer if he minds putting those little plastic booties over his work boots he gave the response that if I’d have seen the state of some people’s homes, you’d WANT to wear those booties.

    Pam Page
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I was raised in Southern California and was taught not to wear shoes in the house (year-round warm temperatures). My husband was raised in Maryland and they wore shoes to keep their feet warm in the cold winters.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I almost always don’t wear shoes inside, unless I’m going in and out a lot. It’s gross, cleaning is easier when there’s less dirt. I think it’s becoming more common in the US, most people I know take off their shoes inside.

    Marie Frost
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If people only realized (or cared) how full of germs etc those shoes carry into your home!

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I wear my shoes indoors,it's quite common here in UK....wipe feet (footwear) before entering property, unless it's muddy wellington boots or really filthy footwear ....we even have an expression for when one is instantly is being put upon by a family member when getting through the door,not even had a chance to take one's coat off at this point " yeah hold on.....let me get s**t off me shoes will ya "

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not in my family or friends group. Shoes off at the door! I’d say you’re all savages south of the border but I’ve family in the midlands and, inability to enunciate properly aside, they’re relatively civilised too and take off their shoes indoors.

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    Mama Penguin
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's so gross. You don't know what kind of c**p you're bringing inside.

    Ben
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I am strickly a no shoes in the house person. It tracks in so much dirt and leaves dirty foot prints wherever you walk, but my mom always wears some type of shoes in the house because she says her feet hurt when not wearing something with support.

    musicaldashtrash
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don’t wear shoes inside the house— doing that seems gross and would be a pain to clean

    Gimme that Cash
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I cannot. I always see people wear it into carpeted bedrooms and it baffles my how the carpets are not brown already.

    Darius S. (he/him) cis/grey
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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    explain. (really, i don't get it ) i don't know what kind of shoes you're wearing that are bad for you... oh,, i just got it.. heels. Edit: adding that heels are one example I thought of. Not meant in any gender bigoted way. It's just the shoes I have give me arch support.. I was just thinking of shoes that may be bad for feet.. As a former goth /punk clubber I mean no shame.. I was just wondering for clarity.

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    censorshipsucks
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    it depends. If you have dogs like I do then it's moot because those guys just filthy a place anyway. But I agree if you don't have dogs then shoes must come off.

    Rostit. .
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    A lot of weird dirt phobic people in their s thread. You clean your houses I assume?

    Edward Loopyderm
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Not keen on having someone else's stinky foot fungus or worse on my floors... keep your shoes on. What I always wonder about is if Americans wear their shoes in bed like on TV. Also, dogs in bed. You do realize dogs don't even use toilet paper, right?

    Stardrop
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yes. This is nasty af. Get yo nasty, muddy ah shoes off my floor!

    iseefractals
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If you're one of those people that live with the terrible, disgusting reality of wall to wall carpeting, yeah shoes in the house make a gross thing disgusting. Any other flooring option? Wipe your feet before you come in the house. That's it, you don't even have to mop your floors anymore just turn on the robot vacuum/mop. When you're doing something that requires you to walk in and out of the house over a significant period of time, it gets really annoying when you're shamed into taking off your outside shoes, so you can put on your inside shoes. What's that? You need to go back outside after 90 seconds, well you can just take off your inside shows and put your outside shoes back on. You don't have to pretend your feet are caked in mud and $hit at all times.

    Princeofdarkness
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Don't like it also. Imagine stepping in dog s**t than you walk all over the house with that shoe. Not clean

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    #23

    For me, it's in Mexico where the septic system can't handle toilet paper, so there are small trash cans next to every toilet for the.. um.. used paper.

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    People clapping after a plane lands. This is done in several places but I’m most familiar with it in Russia. Men squatting in public, as often witnessed in Central Asia. People in Bulgaria shaking their heads to mean yes and nodding to say no. 

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    theswallowii
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I have a mnemotechnic thing for that! They're NOdding...they mean NO! Hope that helps

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    #25

    Women being hissed at as they walk down the street. A method of catcalling in many countries. I experienced it most in Latin America.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Cat calling for real. Hissing and meowing at people sounds like a mental disorder.

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    #26

    Idk how to phrase this but the absolute disregard for noise pollution in Manila. It's almost impossible to escape the noise. There's loud cars and beeping everywhere. Also, nobody uses headphones. People will play videos at full volume and nobody seems to mind and so many of those videos have these really annoying sound effects. I feel like I developed some disorder there lol.

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    Phoenix
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    It's like this at one of my friend's houses. Radio on, TV on, computer sound on. Ahhhhhhh!

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    #27

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To I’m Filipino. Brought my Canadian husband home, he had a hard time adjusting his appetite because we eat 5 times a day. 😅

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    #28

    For me it's the chronic car dependency (US, Canada and the Gulf are particularly egregious). Also I love Iraq but always find it somewhat unsettling how disproportionally few women you see in public (federal Iraq anyway, Kurdistan has is much better in this regard)

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    MontanaMariner
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    US and Canada are massive countries with 500 million people. And poor public transport systems.

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    #29

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To I learned in Italy if you see a shop you want to visit and it’s open, go in right then and there because they’re bound to close with no notice at any time during the day without explanation. I don’t think I could ever get used to unpredictable business hours.

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    They’re not unpredictable, they’re different than what you’re used to (lunch break / nap break / afternoon break / early closing etc) It’s usually written somewhere, or so customary that it’s not necessary.

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    #30

    The lack of public trashcans in Japan. I realize it's Japanese custom to take your trash with you / dispose of it at your own home, but having trashcans at least in heavy tourist areas would be appreciated!

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    arthbach
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But there ARE rubbish bins/trash cans. Go into any of the convenience stores, and there's places to dispose of your rubbish right by the door.

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    #31

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Jaywalking rules. F*****g hell, walk across the empty road. How can criminalising that possibly be legal

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    Phoenix
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    "Jaywalking" was a term started by the automobile manufacturers in order to make the roads more accessible and open to automobiles.

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    #32

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To The lack of bidets in the USA.... and yes I'm American. We need to embrace the bidet here. Its cleaner, more hygenic and your a*s takes 90% less abuse than TP. We Americans get accused of being *too* clean, that we are obsessed with cleanliness, why haven't we taken the logical next step on a very key area of hygiene ?

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    #33

    People driving without a seatbelt in Turkey. Whyyyyyy

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    Robert T
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    That's only a problem when the traffic is moving. I still have nightmares about hurtling down the hard shoulder of the motorway at 100kph in a taxi with stationary traffic less than metre away, and then some tit decides they want to try it too, right in front of us!

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    #34

    South America - Argentina: Everyone kissing you on the cheek!!!!!

    I got kissed by 100 ppl that I don’t know just for dating their nephew/cousin/son/grandson.

    The kissing is something I’ve tried to get used to, but I have no clue how to kiss back so I just smile while they give me cheek to cheek kisses.

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    Dragonbeard
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Having grown up in Spain, where everyone does this, whenever I'm approached by anyone with the intent of the kiss (you can tell), I simply perform an elaborate bow, with much twirling of arms/hands. They get the idea.

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    #35

    This is my 4th time in South Asia (once in India, 3rd in Nepal) and the way they nod yes still gives me pause. For those who don’t know they bob their heads from side to side. The same gesture that westerners make for a ”maybe” answer. It’s produced some hilarious and interesting scenarios lol.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    If this is a Nepal thing, I wonder how that works on Everest. I hope it's not too misleading between the guides and the mountaineers.

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    #36

    I mean it doesn't even have to be visiting another country. I'm from California, and anytime I'm in Oregon I always instinctively get out of my car at a gas station because I can't get used to the fact that you're required to have the attendant fill your gas there.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In Poland you fill your tank yourself (except for AdBlue/DEF which on some stations are filled only by attendant), but on most stations there is sign that reads "If you need help filling up honk twice" and then attendant comes and fill your tank. You can also always ask for help if you do not know how to open a tank cap (like for example in rented or leased car).

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    #37

    Closing all windows on sweltering hot buses and trains in Ukraine (and I hear, many Slavic countries)

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    cerinamroth
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Germans and central Europeans are mortally afraid of draughts, too. I find it bizarre as a Brit. It's just a bit of air moving around; it won't make you ill! But even educated Germans still think it will. Bonkers.

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    #38

    Speaking of toilet activity lol: the water levels in toilets. I come from mex and the toilets are like in the US, the water level is so high, after living in Europe for quite a while, I find it disgusting when back home or in the US. The splash? God why?? I even kinda like German toilets with the shelf thingy. I don’t love being presented with whatever I did there lol (and the stench) but it feels safer ha!

    Also US: what’s up with the gaps in public toilets? I absolutely do not fancy making eye contact with whomever is outside!

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    To prevent the kiss of poseidon, just fold a few sheets of paper over and drop them gently in, to make a paper surface.

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    #39

    It's a good custom, but one that always throws me off. In the Philippines kids (my step relatives on my step moms side) that come up and touch their forehead to the back of your hand.

    Mano (Tagalog: pagmamano) is an "honouring-gesture" used in Filipino culture performed as a sign of respect to elders and as a way of requesting a blessing from the elder. Similar to hand-kissing, the person giving the greeting bows towards the hand of the elder and presses their forehead on the elder's hand. Usually performed with the right hand, the person showing respect may ask "Mano po" or "[Pa-]bless po" to the elder in order to ask permission to initiate the gesture. Typically someone may mano to their older relatives upon entry into their home or upon seeing them.[1]

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    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Paying to use public restrooms in Europe

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    Anna Losonczy
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I don't see the problem here, they're clean and not opened for anybody. Who pays for it maybe keeps it clean and doesn't make a mess. :D

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    #41

    American living in Germany for a decade and still can’t get used to Sunday store closures 😖

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    TheBelgianSteve
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I understand that it's probably difficult to get used to it if you are used to 24/7 convenience, but tbh I quite like the impact that closing on Sundays/holidays has on family life and society.

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    #42

    I understand mine is extremely American.

    But I really like ice in my drinks. Having room temperature water/barely cold drinks is sad. :-(



    Most of my other ones have already been said several times: not having free water with your meal, the tipping culture in the US, squat toilets in Asia.

    The last one is the fact that almost every toilet in Italy didn't have a toilet seat on it. Almost as bad as the squat toilets.

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    Dilly Millandry
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    My personal experience has been that the drinks that need to be cold (like cola or lemonade or a cold white wine!) are usually straight out the fridge - they're not room temperature or barely cold.

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    #43

    Restaurants and cafes that you seat yourself. This tripped me up so much when I was in Vienna because I would stand by the entrance as a dumb American waiting to be seated and it dawned on me by the second or third day that the custom was to seat yourself 😂

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    censorshipsucks
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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    South Africa we try to do the formal let-us-seat-you thing but in practice the waiter/maitre'd always takes you to a random table that sucks, so you end up choosing your own anyway. So now I just ignore them and go choose a table.

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    #44

    Lack of free ‘public’ restrooms in the UK. I almost p***ed myself in Soho. As an American, pulling over and s******g in a walmart is a birthright

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    There are lots of toilets in london that you don't have to pay for if you know where to look. I'm disabled and so stuck to only disabled toilets and never struggle in london. I struggle in America as they seem to have a lot less disabled toilets and the ones they do have are not as well set up as the ones here. They have fewer grab bars and aren't stand alone like in the Uk. So always have to wait for someone who is seemingly able bodied (I know hidden disabilities exist but not all of them are) as they're in the same room as the standard female toilets. Then add on the massive gap down the door and suddenly I have an audience watching me transfer and use the toilet. Give me the privacy of a fully enclosed separate room like in the UK any day!

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    #45

    This is extremely common all over the world. Most of Southeast Asia, parts of Europe, everywhere in Africa, parts of South America. Generally the only places you’ll find toilets where you can flush paper are in North America and Western Europe
    (Edit: and Australia/New Zealand)

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    yeah rubbish, South Africa has 18 million houses and 5544 restaurants and they pretty much ALL have flushing sitting normal western toilets with TP. You only get longdrops in informal settlements (squatter camps) and in very rural outhouses in game reserves.

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    #46

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To The lack of free/refillable water in European restaurants.

    I went to Italy and Switzerland and it was so frustrating how regular water wasn't free and refillable! I pretty much only drink water, and with being outside all day I can drink a lot of it. But I hated how in restaurants we had to pay for the water and it wasn't even that much! Only .5-.75 liters for 2 people. I don't get why regular water can't be included in the service charge that Italian restaurants charge.

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    In France, tap water in restaurants is free and refillable as needed during the meal. Europe is not a whole country with uniform uses and habits. EDIT ;: I should have written "included in the price of your meal" instead of "free", my very bad. Tap water comes at a cost for the restaurant of course. And it's common courtesy to also order at least a soft drink if not a glass of wine (you know us Frenchies about wine! ;-) )

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    #47

    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To The blatant misogyny.

    I am a type A travel planner, and having people ignore me and speak to my partner at hotel desks and restaurants make my blood boil.

    I took the OH to London for a high-wnd mini-break. 3* restaurant, handed him the cheque. I said there's no need to do that because he's not paying.

    I do despair.

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    30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Scotland was absolutely beautiful but we soon found we had to plan our itinerary around when shops and restaurants would be open. It's lovely to see that businesses are family-oriented and close at 1700h on weekdays in the summer but this limited our evening meal options. As a result we ended up dining at an upscale Italian restaurant in Glasgow and a pub at closing time in a small village until we learned to eat and grocery shop much much earlier.

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    #49

    In Germany, being expected to wait for traffic lights before walking across the street. Even if there's zero traffic around (have been scolded for this at least twice)

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Often when the road is empty but the light is red we cross in a little distance to the light to soothe our guilt lol

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    #50

    The absolute carnage and chaos that constitutes queuing basically anywhere in Europe outside of UK & ROI

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    After 20-odd years living in Europe outside the UK I have to say this is not my experience at all. Another of those urban myth stereotypes we love to use to disparage our neighbours.

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    #51

    In Italy they don’t have ice for your drinks! Was there in the middle of July, 35 degrees out getting a lukewarm glass of water!

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    I actually find it absolutely ridiculous how ice is put in every single drink you get at any restaurant, fast food place, or pretty much any place that serves drinks of any kind in the US

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    #52

    In England: "correcting" people's English to British-English when they speak a non-British dialect. It's not cute, it's not funny, it just immediately makes me not respect the person doing it.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Hmm, I'm British and I don't think this is common? You may have just come across a person that was a bit of a t**t.

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    #53

    Water costing so much at restaurants in Germany. It really annoys me. Like 5 euros for tap water? Insane.

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    1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Invention. Even if you choose to drink bottled water it costs nowhere near that much.

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    #54

    It's siestas for me. Can't stand stores and restaurants closing for several hours in the middle of the day. Don't get me wrong, I love napping, but lunchtime is for lunching, and I won't stay up till 10pm waiting for dinner time.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    But that's YOUR culture. Part of the fun of traveling to a different culture is to experience something different :)

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    #55

    Switzerland can f**k right off with literally closing everything in the country on a Sunday.

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    1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

    Yeah it’s criminal that retail and service workers should be allowed to spend Sunday with their families,

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