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No, you can’t order a cappuccino after lunch. You might wander around the city searching for a trash can for hours. If you need to use the restroom, be prepared to pay. And if someone tries to kiss you on the cheek, don’t freak out. They’re just being friendly!

When traveling internationally, it’s a given that you should mentally prepare yourself for some cultural differences. But no matter how many times they visit a place, some Redditors can’t seem to get behind all of the local customs. Below, you’ll find some of the quirks of various countries that travelers sometimes struggle with, as well as a conversation with travel expert Alex Miles from offMetro!

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30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To This is an extremely controversial opinion, but religion-based "modesty" clothing that is designed to protect women's "sexual purity" will always rub me the wrong way. I don't care if the religion is Christian, Muslim, Pastafarian, or whatever else: I just think it is abhorrent and archaic when women are singled out as the ones responsible for keeping men from being sexual predators and deviants and are made to cover any portion of their body because of some religious mandate. I also do not agree with the logic that this can ever be a woman's choice or a "feminist act" as long as a religious community is the source of the pressure to dress a certain way.

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#2

30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To The unhinged tipping culture in the US. I just wanna go to a restaurant without feeling like I'm either either an ungrateful scrooge or ripping myself off. I understand that staffing is an expense, just factor it into the price!
Less egregious but in a similar vein is not including tax in stores.

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T MB83
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I come from a non-tipping country and yeah, it kind of puts a downer on the whole experince and awkwardness when you're eating with other people and they don't really understand/want to tip. Plus you also forget when you're not used to it, I'd got out and eat a meal that was already probably too expensive for my travelling bugdet and then you have this horrible realisation halfway through eating that you have to also then pay another 20% on top.

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To learn more about some of the cultural differences that might prove challenging to travelers, we reached out to travel expert and editor at offMetro, Alex Miles. Alex shared with Bored Panda that even he has had difficulties adjusting to the local customs in some places.

"I once found myself in Japan, a land of incredible sushi, impeccable manners, and a penchant for bowing that would make your head spin. Now, don't get me wrong, I adore sushi. But let me tell you, there's an art to bowing, and I've got two left feet when it comes to it," he explained. "On my first day, I nodded like a bobblehead on steroids, while the locals performed graceful, synchronized ballets of respect. It was like trying to dance the waltz at a rave party—slightly out of place."

#3

30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To QR codes for menus in the US, and probably other places, not sure.

"Hey welcome to Zany Bob's House of Kebabs! Scan the QR right there on that nasty sticker on the table and you'll be brought to our site. Click on the menu, scroll through a too-large PDF of the menu on your phone because the owner couldn't get a proper developer for this, then order online! Isn't that easy?!"

"Oh, what's that, Grandma doesn't have a phone? Well, I'd love to bring you a paper menu, but it's gonna be about 10 mins because we only have a few in the place."

"Hey here's your food! I'll be back in 20 minutes to rush you out and expect a 20% tip for doing absolutely f**k all. Y'all come back, now!"

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#4

30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Dubai not allowing people to hold hands in public. And also that they have the death penalty if you're gay.

Natural resources don't always lead to progress, sometimes they prevent it as a resource curse.

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Edda Kamphues
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There is a huge difference between how Emerati are being treated and how foreigners are being treated. Yet, the country could not function without foreigners. Treat them accordingly!

Verena
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

This applies to many home countries of those foreigners as well - for the foreigners there.

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TotallyNOTaFox
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To be honest, I wouldn't want to travel to any muslim country given how it already looks in my own. Besides, what else than "Look how much money we have" is there to see in Dubai?

Kris
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

A friend of mine was arrested for getting raped. Its illegal to get raped. Thankfully she got home okay.

María Hermida
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I lived in Hong Kong and I met a lot of Philipino women who were working there. A lot of them had been to the Emirates before, and the stories were just horrific. Rape and sexual abuse are "normal" there, because women are rubbish and foreigners (poor) are rubbish too. So imagine if you are a poor migrant woman! For them, you are worth less than a cockroach. I hate that kind of hypocrisy. They are so strict to judge others, but then you go to Macao and it's full of really rich "Arabs" (I really can't tell the different nationalities apart, but they all dress and behave in a similar way) drinking, gambling and surrounded by working women... who are not their wives. Isn't that strictly forbidden? By the way, I also hate Europeans who go to Thailand to have sex with underage girls. I hate those people who think they are too special to respect others.

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LokisLilButterknife
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I'm sorry but I can't travel anywhere where people's basic human rights are violated. As a queer woman I just don't feel safe traveling to UAE where locals can get arrested or worse for being LGBTQIA+. I have a feeling that expats are left alone (that horrible live and left live mentality), but I have a feeling that it is still not a welcoming place for queer travelers...

PotatoNinja5000
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Absolutely. There's a ton of places that I'd love to visit, but the possibility of getting targeted like that is too great.

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Celeste Grant
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I won't travel to countries such as UAE for this and related issues and reasons.

Rostit. .
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

And people wonder why BP covers words? Because of countries like this.

juni
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

At my work we censor because mostly because of the american market. They can't see a nipple or hear a curse word ever. I thought it was because of muslims. But no.

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El Dee
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Suella Braverman is now going to refuse asylum to gay people from countries where they are jailed and killed. The world is becoming ever more extreme and the UK is part of it and enabling those countries where it is worse..

PotatoNinja5000
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If you read beyond the headlines, the actual story is that they've seen people gaming the system and are trying to crack down on it. Being gay or a woman doesn't automatically entitle you to asylum, unless there is a threat to your life because of this. I'm not the biggest Braverman fan by any means, but a lot of people going nuts over this headline are the ones that haven't read her full statement. She isn't enabling death penalty countries, but rather trying to stop people jumping on the bandwagon of those who are actually persecuted.

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The Original Bruno
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Dubai not allowing people to hold hands in public. And also that they have the death penalty if you're gay." Well that escalated quickly.

SingingCatMom
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Put this under 'repressive religions. Bottom line is that ALL religions are repressive to somebody. Religions were invented to repressive people and to put certain people in charge.

BetterBitterButter
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I studied in an institution run by catholics in a country where holding hands with anyone is common. There were only girls in the institution and we were not allowed to hold hands. They gave us a lecture on how being lesbian is a sin. Most students were not catholics.

Mary Lou
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I once read a study that stated that huge natural ressources are more likely to hinder democracy and real progress than help it (like: either it keeps the currupt people in power for having the money for arms and fighters or it even has foreign countries hinder democratic tendencies and even invading the country to keep their exploitation secure...

SuperChicken
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I've never been there, and as a woman - the more reason why I would not want to go.

Gimme that Cash
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"NO PDA" reminds me of highschool but now the punishments isn't just detention.

Sara Wilson
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How about understanding cultural differences and if they have an issue with it, they can work to change things?

Shiva Ho
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Indian was like that when I got sent there to work for a month in 1995. Of course that was between opposite sex.. same sex people holding hands seem to be the norm... & Not considered gay! Weird!

Red Reilly
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's all a load of bull, the AMOUNT of gay guys I know who go on holiday to Dubai, it is total bull that they say they hate the gays but are more then happy to take the money and be like, oh we will just let this one slide...

Timbob
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

How about El Al airlines not allowing two dairy products at the same onboard meal? Regardless or your personal religious persuasion ?

Laughing Orc
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

You know, I'm not sure not being able to have two dairy products on a flight is quite comparable to being executed for being gay...

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Guys just google facts instead of citing anecdotal evidence. IF you are white, European, etc., you probably won't get hassled because the international fallout is not worth it. However if you are a local no. https://www.equaldex.com/region/united-arab-emirates/dubai

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Sorry what now? I have been living in Dubai since 12 yrs and have been holding Hubby's hand in public. Like no one will even give you a second look for holding hand. And while you can't have Pride parades, it's pretty tolerated. You are definitely not going to be hanged for being gay.

censorshipsucks
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

well be careful then. https://www.equaldex.com/region/united-arab-emirates/dubai a trivial google will show that TECHNICALLY you are wrong.

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You need to respect other countries and the laws. If you don't like the rules you don't have to visit.

Tamra
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I will never respect a culture that demonizes and punishes people for simply being gay, nor a culture that views women as chattel.

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#5

30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To In general, the notion that turning down food is rude.

I appreciate that someone cooked a meal for me, but forcing me to choke down something I don’t like is ruder than me simply saying “No, thank you.”

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Plus all the rules surrounding this. If you want it, still refuse it and make the cook persist. Refuse x times. Eat y times. Thank z times. What...?

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We were also curious if there are any customs in Alex's home country that he can't get behind. "In the good old U.S. of A, we're known for our generous portion sizes," he noted. "Sometimes it feels like our motto should be 'Supersize Everything!' But there's a caveat to this American indulgence. The portion sizes may be large, but our waste bins are equally enormous."

"The amount of food that goes to waste is a monstrous problem," Alex explained. "So, being an eco-friendly activist, I found myself yearning for the Japanese custom of ordering just enough to savor every bite, reducing both my waistline and my ecological footprint."

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30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To How American public restroom stalls have that gap between the door and frame wide enough for you to make eye contact with anyone walking outside the stall.

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Phoenix
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

American here. As a general rule, we do not look through the gap from outside of the stall. If needing to check if the stall is occupied we look for feet under the door. Edit: it is acceptable to look out through the gap from inside the stall.

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China - people spitting all over the place right in front of you, on the streets, on the sidewalks. It’s disgusting.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Unfortunately this is a real problem. Discussing this in a class and asking for ideas to stop it one small boy suggested,, that since it was usually older people doing this, young people should all carry a stick and give offenders a smack. You had to love him.

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#8

The tipping screen at a coffee shop in the US requesting 20%/22%/25%/other.

Every other country in the world has figured out how to pay service employees without tipping. How has America not figured out how to run a business without handouts?

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

The weird thing is that American business owners will tell you that paying their staff low wages and forcing them to rely on tips help them to keep prices down, to the customer's advantage. While it keeps the advertised price down, it's no advantage to the customer, who's obliged to pay AT LEAST an additional 20%. It benefits the business owner, no-one else.

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"As for some tips for fellow travelers who may find themselves dancing on the tightrope of cultural adaptation, first and foremost, research, my friends!" Alex told Bored Panda. "Google is your best pal. Learn about local customs and etiquettes before you step off that plane. It can save you from a world of awkward encounters."

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"Next, don't be afraid to embrace the unknown," the travel expert continued. "You're in a foreign land, after all. Experiment with local customs, even if you look like a lost puppy trying to fit in. Most locals appreciate the effort, and they might just teach you a thing or two."

#9

30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Bartering. Just give me a price, already!

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#10

30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Working in Japan temporarily:

Yeah, we'll be here ready to go at 8AM

Ok, it's 8PM, time to call it a day.

But first, the boss and the big boss want to take us out to dinner

Now we have to go with them to the bar for drinks and karaoke.

Ok, it's 1AM, Boss and Big Boss have left. See you in the morning at 7:30.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yep. That's Japan. And during those 12 work hours there is no time to walk, you have to run.

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30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Tipping and taxes not included on the price tag.

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Alex also urges travelers to keep an open mind. "Remember, you're not just observing customs; you're experiencing a way of life. Be patient with yourself and others, and be ready for some slip-ups. It's all part of the adventure," he explained.

"And here's a secret sauce tip: learn a few essential phrases in the local language. Nothing earns you more goodwill than a heartfelt 'hello' or 'thank you' in the native tongue," Alex added. "It's like sprinkling a bit of magic on your interactions."

If you'd like to gain more travel tips from Alex and the rest of the offMetro team, be sure to visit their site right here!

#12

30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Squatting toilets. I know it is just local culture/tradition, but I hate going into a public toilet and be welcomed by others' effluence...

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Once broke my leg in a county where squatting toilets are the norm. Ever tried to squat while wearing a cast? Fun times.

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#13

In Serbia where people mistreat their dogs. Leave them in cages in the front yard, or just outside unwashed on a chain, even in the snow.

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#14

The lack of spatial awareness in China, like people rushing to get into the elevator before you can exit it. Men casually coughing up phlegm and spitting everywhere. Shirts rolled up above belly to cool down. All the stench that can catch you off-guard anytime anywhere.

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30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To I refuse to restrict my cappuccinos to before 11am

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The Scout
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

All fine - as long as they are capuccinos, and not "vanilla caramel latte with extra oat milk and three shots of matcha" -because that is not coffee, it's a dessert..

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30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Lack of air conditioning in Europe and no screens on the windows. I was staying in Italy at a Marriott property and the hotel room was sweltering in December. I opened the window and the room was immediately flooded with mosquitoes.

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30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Portuguese waiters disappearing after serving you the desserts!
A guidebook told me that dessert is seen as the best part of the meal therefore they give you plenty of time to enjoy it. But I wanna pay and move on!

On the other hand: in the US they bring you the check when you haven’t even swallowed the last bite. I don’t like that either 😆

Find some middle ground!

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Donkeywheel
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They are not disappearing, they are leaving you alone to enjoy your meal without pestering or useless small talk. If you need anything (reorder, check) just raise your hand or call them, is that so hard?

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#18

Squat toilets. I'm a woman and I live in jeans. Every time I encounter one where there aren't other options (which has been infrequent, thankfully), I feel like I'm about to try solving a quadratic equation where if I get the answer wrong, my foot gets soaked in pee.

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30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To I've been to Spain twice and can't get my head around everything happening 3-5 hours later than I'm used to... Breakfast at midday... Dinner at 11pm... Out for drinks until 4am...

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30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To I can't get used to how nothing in the US is the advertised price, and why starters and mains have the wrong name on menus

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Gustav Gallifrey
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

As i said elsewhere: It sort of violates a rule of contracts. The contract is, e.g. , the restaurant advertises a meal at a certain price, and the customer accepts to pay that price. But the restaurant then repudiates that contract by expecting the customer to pay another 20% on top of the advertised price. Same goes for state and local taxes not mentioned in the advertised price.

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The amount of food on a plate in most US restaurants, and how much leftovers of it go to the garbage, along with the exaggerated use of single use disposable cutlery.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Don't forget that giving them to homeless or letting homeless dive for them in the dumpster is illegal too.

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#22

Wearing shoes inside the house 🤢🤢

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#23

For me, it's in Mexico where the septic system can't handle toilet paper, so there are small trash cans next to every toilet for the.. um.. used paper.

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#24

People clapping after a plane lands. This is done in several places but I’m most familiar with it in Russia. Men squatting in public, as often witnessed in Central Asia. People in Bulgaria shaking their heads to mean yes and nodding to say no. 

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I have a mnemotechnic thing for that! They're NOdding...they mean NO! Hope that helps

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#25

Women being hissed at as they walk down the street. A method of catcalling in many countries. I experienced it most in Latin America.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Cat calling for real. Hissing and meowing at people sounds like a mental disorder.

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Idk how to phrase this but the absolute disregard for noise pollution in Manila. It's almost impossible to escape the noise. There's loud cars and beeping everywhere. Also, nobody uses headphones. People will play videos at full volume and nobody seems to mind and so many of those videos have these really annoying sound effects. I feel like I developed some disorder there lol.

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Phoenix
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

It's like this at one of my friend's houses. Radio on, TV on, computer sound on. Ahhhhhhh!

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30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To I’m Filipino. Brought my Canadian husband home, he had a hard time adjusting his appetite because we eat 5 times a day. 😅

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For me it's the chronic car dependency (US, Canada and the Gulf are particularly egregious). Also I love Iraq but always find it somewhat unsettling how disproportionally few women you see in public (federal Iraq anyway, Kurdistan has is much better in this regard)

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

US and Canada are massive countries with 500 million people. And poor public transport systems.

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30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To I learned in Italy if you see a shop you want to visit and it’s open, go in right then and there because they’re bound to close with no notice at any time during the day without explanation. I don’t think I could ever get used to unpredictable business hours.

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Donkeywheel
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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

They’re not unpredictable, they’re different than what you’re used to (lunch break / nap break / afternoon break / early closing etc) It’s usually written somewhere, or so customary that it’s not necessary.

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#30

The lack of public trashcans in Japan. I realize it's Japanese custom to take your trash with you / dispose of it at your own home, but having trashcans at least in heavy tourist areas would be appreciated!

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arthbach
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But there ARE rubbish bins/trash cans. Go into any of the convenience stores, and there's places to dispose of your rubbish right by the door.

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#31

30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Jaywalking rules. F*****g hell, walk across the empty road. How can criminalising that possibly be legal

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Phoenix
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

"Jaywalking" was a term started by the automobile manufacturers in order to make the roads more accessible and open to automobiles.

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30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To The lack of bidets in the USA.... and yes I'm American. We need to embrace the bidet here. Its cleaner, more hygenic and your a*s takes 90% less abuse than TP. We Americans get accused of being *too* clean, that we are obsessed with cleanliness, why haven't we taken the logical next step on a very key area of hygiene ?

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#33

People driving without a seatbelt in Turkey. Whyyyyyy

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Robert T
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

That's only a problem when the traffic is moving. I still have nightmares about hurtling down the hard shoulder of the motorway at 100kph in a taxi with stationary traffic less than metre away, and then some tit decides they want to try it too, right in front of us!

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#34

South America - Argentina: Everyone kissing you on the cheek!!!!!

I got kissed by 100 ppl that I don’t know just for dating their nephew/cousin/son/grandson.

The kissing is something I’ve tried to get used to, but I have no clue how to kiss back so I just smile while they give me cheek to cheek kisses.

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Dragonbeard
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Having grown up in Spain, where everyone does this, whenever I'm approached by anyone with the intent of the kiss (you can tell), I simply perform an elaborate bow, with much twirling of arms/hands. They get the idea.

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#35

This is my 4th time in South Asia (once in India, 3rd in Nepal) and the way they nod yes still gives me pause. For those who don’t know they bob their heads from side to side. The same gesture that westerners make for a ”maybe” answer. It’s produced some hilarious and interesting scenarios lol.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

If this is a Nepal thing, I wonder how that works on Everest. I hope it's not too misleading between the guides and the mountaineers.

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#36

I mean it doesn't even have to be visiting another country. I'm from California, and anytime I'm in Oregon I always instinctively get out of my car at a gas station because I can't get used to the fact that you're required to have the attendant fill your gas there.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In Poland you fill your tank yourself (except for AdBlue/DEF which on some stations are filled only by attendant), but on most stations there is sign that reads "If you need help filling up honk twice" and then attendant comes and fill your tank. You can also always ask for help if you do not know how to open a tank cap (like for example in rented or leased car).

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#37

Closing all windows on sweltering hot buses and trains in Ukraine (and I hear, many Slavic countries)

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Germans and central Europeans are mortally afraid of draughts, too. I find it bizarre as a Brit. It's just a bit of air moving around; it won't make you ill! But even educated Germans still think it will. Bonkers.

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#38

Speaking of toilet activity lol: the water levels in toilets. I come from mex and the toilets are like in the US, the water level is so high, after living in Europe for quite a while, I find it disgusting when back home or in the US. The splash? God why?? I even kinda like German toilets with the shelf thingy. I don’t love being presented with whatever I did there lol (and the stench) but it feels safer ha!

Also US: what’s up with the gaps in public toilets? I absolutely do not fancy making eye contact with whomever is outside!

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

To prevent the kiss of poseidon, just fold a few sheets of paper over and drop them gently in, to make a paper surface.

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#39

It's a good custom, but one that always throws me off. In the Philippines kids (my step relatives on my step moms side) that come up and touch their forehead to the back of your hand.

Mano (Tagalog: pagmamano) is an "honouring-gesture" used in Filipino culture performed as a sign of respect to elders and as a way of requesting a blessing from the elder. Similar to hand-kissing, the person giving the greeting bows towards the hand of the elder and presses their forehead on the elder's hand. Usually performed with the right hand, the person showing respect may ask "Mano po" or "[Pa-]bless po" to the elder in order to ask permission to initiate the gesture. Typically someone may mano to their older relatives upon entry into their home or upon seeing them.[1]

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30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Paying to use public restrooms in Europe

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Anna Losonczy
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I don't see the problem here, they're clean and not opened for anybody. Who pays for it maybe keeps it clean and doesn't make a mess. :D

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#41

American living in Germany for a decade and still can’t get used to Sunday store closures 😖

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I understand that it's probably difficult to get used to it if you are used to 24/7 convenience, but tbh I quite like the impact that closing on Sundays/holidays has on family life and society.

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#42

I understand mine is extremely American.

But I really like ice in my drinks. Having room temperature water/barely cold drinks is sad. :-(



Most of my other ones have already been said several times: not having free water with your meal, the tipping culture in the US, squat toilets in Asia.

The last one is the fact that almost every toilet in Italy didn't have a toilet seat on it. Almost as bad as the squat toilets.

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Dilly Millandry
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

My personal experience has been that the drinks that need to be cold (like cola or lemonade or a cold white wine!) are usually straight out the fridge - they're not room temperature or barely cold.

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#43

Restaurants and cafes that you seat yourself. This tripped me up so much when I was in Vienna because I would stand by the entrance as a dumb American waiting to be seated and it dawned on me by the second or third day that the custom was to seat yourself 😂

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

South Africa we try to do the formal let-us-seat-you thing but in practice the waiter/maitre'd always takes you to a random table that sucks, so you end up choosing your own anyway. So now I just ignore them and go choose a table.

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#44

Lack of free ‘public’ restrooms in the UK. I almost p***ed myself in Soho. As an American, pulling over and s******g in a walmart is a birthright

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

There are lots of toilets in london that you don't have to pay for if you know where to look. I'm disabled and so stuck to only disabled toilets and never struggle in london. I struggle in America as they seem to have a lot less disabled toilets and the ones they do have are not as well set up as the ones here. They have fewer grab bars and aren't stand alone like in the Uk. So always have to wait for someone who is seemingly able bodied (I know hidden disabilities exist but not all of them are) as they're in the same room as the standard female toilets. Then add on the massive gap down the door and suddenly I have an audience watching me transfer and use the toilet. Give me the privacy of a fully enclosed separate room like in the UK any day!

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#45

This is extremely common all over the world. Most of Southeast Asia, parts of Europe, everywhere in Africa, parts of South America. Generally the only places you’ll find toilets where you can flush paper are in North America and Western Europe
(Edit: and Australia/New Zealand)

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

yeah rubbish, South Africa has 18 million houses and 5544 restaurants and they pretty much ALL have flushing sitting normal western toilets with TP. You only get longdrops in informal settlements (squatter camps) and in very rural outhouses in game reserves.

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30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To The lack of free/refillable water in European restaurants.

I went to Italy and Switzerland and it was so frustrating how regular water wasn't free and refillable! I pretty much only drink water, and with being outside all day I can drink a lot of it. But I hated how in restaurants we had to pay for the water and it wasn't even that much! Only .5-.75 liters for 2 people. I don't get why regular water can't be included in the service charge that Italian restaurants charge.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

In France, tap water in restaurants is free and refillable as needed during the meal. Europe is not a whole country with uniform uses and habits. EDIT ;: I should have written "included in the price of your meal" instead of "free", my very bad. Tap water comes at a cost for the restaurant of course. And it's common courtesy to also order at least a soft drink if not a glass of wine (you know us Frenchies about wine! ;-) )

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30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To The blatant misogyny.

I am a type A travel planner, and having people ignore me and speak to my partner at hotel desks and restaurants make my blood boil.

I took the OH to London for a high-wnd mini-break. 3* restaurant, handed him the cheque. I said there's no need to do that because he's not paying.

I do despair.

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#48

30 Biggest Cultural Shocks From Around The World Visitors Just Can’t Get Used To Scotland was absolutely beautiful but we soon found we had to plan our itinerary around when shops and restaurants would be open. It's lovely to see that businesses are family-oriented and close at 1700h on weekdays in the summer but this limited our evening meal options. As a result we ended up dining at an upscale Italian restaurant in Glasgow and a pub at closing time in a small village until we learned to eat and grocery shop much much earlier.

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#49

In Germany, being expected to wait for traffic lights before walking across the street. Even if there's zero traffic around (have been scolded for this at least twice)

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Often when the road is empty but the light is red we cross in a little distance to the light to soothe our guilt lol

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#50

The absolute carnage and chaos that constitutes queuing basically anywhere in Europe outside of UK & ROI

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

After 20-odd years living in Europe outside the UK I have to say this is not my experience at all. Another of those urban myth stereotypes we love to use to disparage our neighbours.

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#51

In Italy they don’t have ice for your drinks! Was there in the middle of July, 35 degrees out getting a lukewarm glass of water!

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Nicholas Florko
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

I actually find it absolutely ridiculous how ice is put in every single drink you get at any restaurant, fast food place, or pretty much any place that serves drinks of any kind in the US

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#52

In England: "correcting" people's English to British-English when they speak a non-British dialect. It's not cute, it's not funny, it just immediately makes me not respect the person doing it.

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NapQueen
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Hmm, I'm British and I don't think this is common? You may have just come across a person that was a bit of a t**t.

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#53

Water costing so much at restaurants in Germany. It really annoys me. Like 5 euros for tap water? Insane.

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1 year ago (edited) DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Invention. Even if you choose to drink bottled water it costs nowhere near that much.

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#54

It's siestas for me. Can't stand stores and restaurants closing for several hours in the middle of the day. Don't get me wrong, I love napping, but lunchtime is for lunching, and I won't stay up till 10pm waiting for dinner time.

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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

But that's YOUR culture. Part of the fun of traveling to a different culture is to experience something different :)

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#55

Switzerland can f**k right off with literally closing everything in the country on a Sunday.

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Mitchell
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1 year ago DotsCreated by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017

Yeah it’s criminal that retail and service workers should be allowed to spend Sunday with their families,

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